WOW! What a couple of months it’s been! So much has happened everywhere in the world – many have lost loved ones, lost jobs, or cancelled celebrations. Everyone’s lost something during the pandemic. One group that’s missed out on a lot is the graduating high school class of 2020. My daughter is a senior this year. It’s hard realizing what they’ve missed – the fun and celebration marking the official end of childhood, the last carefree bit before being an “official” adult. I admit, I was feeling pretty sad about it, but then something truly magical happened!
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Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.
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~ Mark TwainDebbie Bosworth
is a certified farmgirl at heart. She’s happily married to her beach bum Yankee husband of 20 years. She went from career gal to being a creative homeschooling mom for two of her biggest blessings and hasn’t looked back since. Debbie left her lifelong home in the high desert of Northern Nevada 10 years ago and washed up on the shore of America’s hometown, Plymouth, MA, where she and her family are now firmly planted. They spend part of each summer in a tiny, off–grid beach cottage named “The Sea Horse.”
“I found a piece of my farmgirl heart when I discovered MaryJanesFarm. Suddenly, everything I loved just made more sense! I enjoy unwinding at the beach, writing, gardening, and turning yard-sale furniture into ‘Painted Ladies’ I’m passionate about living a creative life and encouraging others to ‘make each day their masterpiece.’”
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Being a farmgirl is not
about where you live,
but how you live.Rebekah Teal
is a “MaryJane Farmgirl” who lives in a large metropolitan area. She is a lawyer who has worked in both criminal defense and prosecution. She has been a judge, a business woman and a stay-at-home mom. In addition to her law degree, she has a Masters of Theological Studies.
“Mustering up the courage to do the things you dream about,” she says, “is the essence of being a MaryJane Farmgirl.” Learning to live more organically and closer to nature is Rebekah’s current pursuit. She finds strength and encouragement through MaryJane’s writings, life, and products. And MaryJane’s Farmgirl Connection provides her a wealth of knowledge from true-blue farmgirls.
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Keep close to Nature’s heart … and break clear away once in awhile to climb a mountain or spend a week in the woods, to wash your spirit clean.
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~ John MuirCathi Belcher
an old-fashioned farmgirl with a pioneer spirit, lives in the White Mountains of New Hampshire. As a “lifelong learner” in the “Live-Free-or-Die” state, she fiercely values self-reliance, independence, freedom, and fresh mountain air. Married to her childhood sweetheart of 40+ years (a few of them “uphill climbs”), she’s had plenty of time to reinvent herself. From museum curator, restaurant owner, homeschool mom/conference speaker, to post-and-beam house builder and entrepreneur, she’s also a multi-media artist, with an obsession for off-grid living and alternative housing. Cathi owns and operates a 32-room mountain lodge. Her specialty has evolved to include “hermit hospitality” at her rustic cabin in the mountains, where she offers weekend workshops of special interest to women.
“Mountains speak to my soul, and farming is an important part of my heritage. I want to pass on my love of these things to others through my writing. Living in the mountains has its own particular challenges, but I delight in turning them into opportunities from which we can all learn and grow.”
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Wherever you go, no matter the weather, always bring your own sunshine.
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~ Anthony J. D’AngeloDori Troutman
Dori Troutman is the daughter of second generation cattle ranchers in New Mexico. She grew up working and playing on the ranch that her grandparents homesteaded in 1928. That ranch, with the old adobe home, is still in the family today. Dori and her husband always yearned for a ranch of their own. That dream came true when they retired to the beautiful green rolling hills of Tennessee. Truly a cattleman’s paradise!
Dori loves all things farmgirl and actually has known no other life but that. She loves to cook, craft, garden, and help with any and all things on their cattle farm.
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Shery Jespersen
Previous Ranch Farmgirl,
Oct 2009 – Nov 2013Wyoming cattle rancher and outpost writer (rider), shares the “view from her saddle.” Shery is a leather and lace cowgirl-farmgirl who’s been horse-crazy all of her life. Her other interests include “junktiques,” arts and crafts, glamping, collecting antique china, and cultivating mirth.
Mary Murray
describes herself as a goat charmer, chicken whisperer, bee maven, and farmers’ market baker renovating an 1864 farmhouse on an Ohio farm. With a degree in Design, Mary says small-town auctions and country road barn sales "always make my heart skip a beat thinking about what I could create or design out of what I’ve seen.”
Rooted in the countryside, she likes simple things and old ways … gardening, preserving the harvest, cooking, baking, and all things home. While you might find her selling baked goods from the farm’s milkhouse, teaching herself to play the fiddle, or sprucing up a vintage camper named Maizy, you will always find her in an apron!
Mary says, “I’m happiest with the simple country pleasures … an old farmhouse, too many animals, a crackling fire, books to read, and the sound of laughter … these make life just perfect.”
Column contents © Mary Murray. All rights reserved.
Farmgirl
is a condition
of the heart.Alexandra Wilson
is a budding rural farmgirl living in Palmer, the agricultural seat of Alaska. Alex is a graduate student at Alaska Pacific University pursuing an M.S. in Outdoor and Environmental Education. She lives and works on the university’s 700 acre environmental education center, Spring Creek Farm. When Alex has time outside of school, she loves to rock climb, repurpose found objects, cross-country ski on the hay fields, travel, practice yoga, and cook with new-fangled ingredients.
Alex grew up near the Twin Cities and went to college in Madison, Wisconsin—both places where perfectly painted barns and rolling green farmland are just a short drive away. After college, she taught at a rural middle school in South Korea where she biked past verdant rice paddies and old women selling home-grown produce from sidewalk stoops. She was introduced to MaryJanesFarm after returning, and found in it what she’d been searching for—a group of incredible women living their lives in ways that benefit their families, their communities, and the greater environment. What an amazing group of farmgirls to be a part of!
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Libbie Zenger
Previous Rural Farmgirl,
June 2010 – Jan 2012Libbie’s a small town farmgirl who lives in the high-desert Sevier Valley of Central Utah on a 140-year-old farm with her husband and two darling little farmboys—as well as 30 ewes; 60 new little lambs; a handful of rams; a lovely milk cow, Evelynn; an old horse, Doc; two dogs; a bunch o’ chickens; and two kitties.
René Groom
Previous Rural Farmgirl,
April 2009 – May 2010René lives in Washington state’s wine country. She grew up in the dry-land wheat fields of E. Washington, where learning to drive the family truck and tractors, and “snipe hunting,” were rites of passage. She has dirt under her nails and in her veins. In true farmgirl fashion, there is no place on Earth she would rather be than on the farm.
Farmgirl spirit can take root anywhere—dirt or no dirt.
Nicole Christensen
Suburban Farmgirl Nicole Christensen calls herself a “vintage enthusiast”. Born and raised in Texas, she has lived most of her life in the picturesque New England suburbs of Connecticut, just a stone’s throw from New York State. An Advanced Master Gardener, she has gardened since childhood, in several states and across numerous planting zones. In addition, she teaches knitting classes, loves to preserve, and raises backyard chickens.
Married over thirty years to her Danish-born sweetheart, Nicole has worked in various fields, been a world-traveler, an entrepreneur and a homemaker, but considers being mom to her now-adult daughter her greatest accomplishment. Loving all things creative, Nicole considers her life’s motto to be “Bloom where you are planted”.
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Paula Spencer
Previous Suburban Farmgirl,
October 2009 – October 2010Paula is a mom of four and a journalist who’s partial to writing about common sense and women’s interests. She’s lived in five great farm states (Michigan, Iowa, New York, Tennessee, and now North Carolina), though never on a farm. She’s nevertheless inordinately fond of heirloom tomatoes, fine stitching, early mornings, and making pies. And sock monkeys.
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Congratulations ! I got emotional reading about this! Thank y’all for doing this for your graduates!
Hi Ramona, I am so glad you liked the post. It was a sunny day, for sure, in more ways than one. Thank you for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
I am sobbing and smiling! This is beautiful! It feels like I am in the crowd beside the road calling out to you! This is a true all-American celebration of love and support for your daughter and her fellow grads! There is no way this can ever be erased from her memory. Congratulations, you did it!…..
Very sweet. My own daughter had no college graduation but senior year in high school is a big year. Glad they have this memory!
Hi Lori, A big CONGRATULATIONS to you and your daughter! Well done! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
I am sobbing and smiling! This is beautiful! It feels like I am in the crowd beside the road calling out to you! This is a true all-American celebration of love and support for your daughter and her fellow grads! There is no way this can ever be erased from her memory. Congratulations, you did it!…..
Mary Rauch in sunny Ohio on Memorial Day!
Hi Mary, Thank you! It was so breathtaking, coming around the corner, not knowing that so many were there, waiting for us. My daughter was so cute. Last year, she attended the graduation ceremony because as part of the Tech team at school, they were responsible for the filming. She said it was “Better than a graduation!” It made me so happy that she felt such joy! Be well! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Thanks for sharing such a wonderful time. Congratulations to your daughter and all the graduates of 2020. May we all be well, safe, and find some joy each day!
Hi Teresa, thank you. You are so right – we always need to find some joy in each day, especially in these times. Be well! Thank you for reading and commenting. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
How wonderful all of this came together for those graduating seniors! Congratulations to them all!
Thank you for puttig that all together for them!
Congrats Graduating Class of 2020!!!
Hi Pamela, Thank you! It was nerve-wracking and fun to put together, and I am so happy it happened for them. The weather could’ve been bad, or there could have been a fire or other emergency call that would have prevented law enforcement or the fire department from being in attendance. I hope the kids remember it for a long time. Thanks so much for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
How fabulous!!! Congratulations to your daughter & her friends! I’ll admit I had tears reading this because is was so awesome!
Hi Denise, thank you so much. It was unforgettable, for sure. I am so glad it worked out! I wish I could’ve taken a pic of my daughter’s face. It was priceless! Thank you for reading and commenting. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
How Great….I was crying as I read this…I wish I’d been there.
You’ve made us feel like WE WERE…How wonderful…Thank you for sharing this with us…
Julie Pruett
Hi Julie, thank you. It was something I think none of us will ever forget. I hope it made up to the kids some of what they feel they lost. Audrey was walking on cloud 9 for a long time after! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Amazing I cried reading about your parade for your daughter and other seniors. Talk about community and school spirit. That’s so wonderful. Congratulations to your daughter. I have a grandson in Sebring Florida also a senior. We were supposed to attend graduation on May 25. They may plan something similar in July. I was so sad to see it cancelled. Hopefully July will work out. Kiddos mom for a great way to celebrate.
Hi Marlene, I am so glad to hear from you. Thank you so much for your kind comment, and CONGRATULATIONS to your grandson! I am sad thinking that we are missing out on so much family that were planning on flying in for the graduation, too. Stay safe, stay healthy, and hopefully our lives will have some more normalcy soon. Fingers crossed for your July celebration! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Nicole, it has been a ruff 2020 with so many events being cancelled, but you are truly amazing! Congratulations to Audrey on her graduation all future endeavors! The senior parade turned out so wonderful and such a great support from everyone. Take care and stay safe, Lynette
Hi Lynette, thank you so very much! I had the idea and the planning, but it was the officers, the fire department, and the neighbors who made it extra-special! Thanks so much for reading and commenting. Stay well! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
That was just magnificent! Last week our eldest grandson had the same parade in Waynesvile, OH. Tim took the cab top off the jeep and Alex stood there holding onto the roll bar in his gown and cap. They drove through the route set out and then at the end in their designated parking spots at school, decorated by each senior of course, Tim handed Alex his diploma. Tim is their high school History and American Govt. teacher! We were given excellent pictures by our daughter and will join them for the coming outdoor party in the large back yard. You are right. This becomes a special memory in itself that is precious.
Hi Ellen, Thank you so much…I am so glad you enjoyed the blog. I love what was done for your grandson, too. I can just see him so proud, wind blowing his gown, driving that route. Congrats to Alex! Stay well! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
I had to stop reading twice to wipe the tears and blow my nose!! What a wonderful, unforgettable moment in time, in the midst of so much uncertainty, not only for the graduates but for everyone involved in the parade. Thanks for sharing this heartwarming story!!
Terri, thank you so much! I am so glad you enjoyed the blog. It was wonderful, and I am still so in awe of all my wonderful neighbors, our police and fire departments, who all came together to make it so special! Thanks for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
All you precious souls that planed this will have a special gem in your crown. Thank you.
Thank you so much, June! Be well! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
It’s the uneventful things in our life that get forgotten. It’s when things go awry…good or bad…that we can look back on them as special. Class of 2020 will never forget! Congratulations!
Hi Linda, Aren’t you right? I miss the weirdest things, like just going to the grocery store like before Covid, and running into friends I know. I am so glad we were able to pull this off for the kids. It was extra-special. Thank you, Linda, for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
What a nice event. Your neighbors were great with their support of the seniors. Congratulations to all 2020 graduates. I have seen a few car birthdays,too.
Marilyn
Hi Marilyn, thank you! Weren’t my neighbors awesome? It was such a happy, happy 24 minutes! Thank you for reading and commenting! Be well. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
What a WONDERFUL post, Nicole! I am so happy that it all worked out so well. They all deserved it. This has been such a crappy year and these kids have missed out on SO much. This was just such fabulous thing for them and for all of you proud parents. Such a great thing you organized for everyone.
Audrey, congratulations! You have SO many reasons to be proud of yourself. All your hard work paid off. May your days ahead be full of joy. All best wishes. Joey
Hi Joey, thank you so much! It has been an awful year, and prayers that the end of year will be better than the beginning. Thank you for all your wishes. Much love to you. Be well. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Nicole, what a wonderful event! Thank you for sharing. And thank you for taking the initiative to organize such a wonderful happening. I felt your uncertainty that things might not work out and the thrill of a group of people coming together to honor those high school seniors. As a teacher, I realize how hard it has been this year for the graduating class to miss out on all the events they looked forward to during their final year of high school. Such a wonderful way to let them all know how proud everyone is for them!
Hi Nancy, thank you so much, and A BIG THANK YOU to you as a teacher. It can’t be easy for you as a teacher with distance learning. Hats off to you for all you and the other teachers out there do! Be well! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Wow, that was just wonderful! Congratulations to your daughter and her senior classmates. Not the memories one expects are maybe the best!
Hi Kathy, isn’t that the truth? It was so thrilling. I wish you could’ve seen the little kids cheering – they were so excited! So sweet seeing their little faces. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Oh my… goosebumps and tears at the same time LOL! Yes, we’ve had similar events in our community in small town Michigan – so moving. It does a lot to restore my faith in humanity. <3
Hi April, that is so wonderful your community is doing things like that, too. It is such a great way to realize we are not “alone” even when we are literally alone. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
You did good, Nicole! I cried too. Great blog and wonderful comments made. I wish I could have been there for Audrey! With love, Mother and Nana
Hi Mama, we wish you could’ve been here, too. You would have loved every minute! Love you. ~Nicole
The American spirit lives on..how wonderful…wow
Hi Donna, Yes, it was very alive and well that sunny day! I am so glad that it brought a much-needed boost to our spirits. Thank you for reading and commenting. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
What a great idea. I’m so glad you went through with it and the first responders helped out too. Peace and Blessings to you and the graduating seniors
Hi Sally, thank you so much! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Congratulations to Audry and all the 2020 seniors. They will NEVER forget what a special celebration you and your neighbors gave them. Tears of joy here while reading this post. I can only imagine the emotions everyone was feeling that day.
Onwards and upwards!
Deb
Hi Deb, Thank you so very much! Even I was surprised – I really did not know how many would come outside curbside or decorate, and to have the police and the fire department honor us with such a presence was something I will never forget. It was so amazing. Hope all is well with you. The garden and flowers this year here are looking great. I bet yours is doing great, too. Hope you are having a nice summer! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
How Beautiful. What a wonderful memory for everyone, it does truly take a village.
Many blessings.
Hi Maureen, thank you. It was a great day, and I will never forget the smiling faces. It made us all so happy, and I hope it really made the graduates feel special. Thank you for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
What a wonderful event and support. Congratulations to your graduate! We’ve had similar processions here in central CT. As challenging as this has been – what beautiful silver linings have emerged from it all. This is my first time posting and I just wanted to say how much I enjoy your blog and the whole MaryJane’s Farmgirl sisterhood. Made my first sourdough bread on Tuesday this week and received my Farmgirl Sisterhood Merit Badge Planner. Just wondering if there are any Farmgirl chapters in CT? Thanks for all you do for us all.
Hi Mary Ellen and welcome! Thank you for such a nice comment! It means a lot. I am so glad you enjoy the blog. Isn’t the wonderful world of MaryJane fun? I do not know of other farmgirl chapters (there may be others). I have one that I have wanted to get started back up. We were very active for a long time, then we all got busy and a lot of members moved. However, I will send you an email and we can chat privately. Now that my daughter has graduated, I want to start up my chapter again, as soon as Covid distancing allows. Thank you again for reading and commenting, and congratulations on your first sourdough bread! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
So Awesome! Thank you for taking the time to organize such a wonderful tribute to the
Graduating Kids of 2020. It only takes ONE PERSON to make a difference. Your story and other stories like it give us HOPE and JOY during this Covid Pandemic. Congratulations to your daughter from Kansas.
Hi Pamela, Thank you so very, very much! Your comment means a lot. Stay safe and have a good summer! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole