"Udderly" Surrounded

A Valentine’s Day gift bouquet can “twitterpate” us flower lovin’ farmgirls. A colorful wildflower mix would do it for me, which made me pause and think about the immediate landscape… the Valentine “garden” in my life.

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  1. Cyndarella says:

    I really enjoyed reading your blog today. I hope to live on a ranch someday soon. And reading about you helps me reach for the stars. Thank you. BTW Great pictures. I especially like the one of you.

  2. Victoria says:

    Great pictures, and oh how I love that blue truck!!!!
    Cheers –

  3. Marilyn McDowell says:

    Nice. These are thoughts I will take with me as I move through my day. (I especially LOVE the truck.) What a dad!
    Have a wonderful day Shery.
    Marilyn

  4. Terces says:

    Good Morning Shery,
    Thank you so much for pointing my attention in the direction of all there is to be grateful for and how love is surrounding us all the time, no matter our circumstances. There are days on our farm when I see the dew on the blades of grass, and listen to the singing of all the birds and am brushing down our Dexter cows, or feeding the chickens and I think, "how beautiful it all is." We live in a yurt, with future plans for a house and sometimes I wonder if we’ll build the house and then move in doors, the out of doors is so inspiring!
    What a great start to my day your blog this morning was.
    Thank YOU.
    Love, Terces

  5. Ann says:

    Shery…how blessed you are to still have your folks. I almost envy you and to have them close by.
    Yes riding a horse is "one" of God’s blessings to us. Another is our animals. Whether they are for raising to provide food or just there for our "comfort".
    Thank you for reminding us of our "garden" in our lives especially this time of year when it is cold and windy and not a lot of sun out.
    May you walk in the path God has for you.
    Ann
    John 3:16

  6. Sarah says:

    Thank you for the fabulous photos. I grew up a South Dakota farm girl and can vividly recall from my farm all of the blessings that surrounded me. Spring wildflowers, kittens in the barn, horses to ride and, my favorite, baby calves. Their rough tongues and big brown eyes and gawky first steps. Thank you for my memory walk this morning. ♥

  7. Cindy says:

    Dear Shery,

    You are so right! Love and goodness are all around us. Sometimes we focus on love looking a certain way, sometimes we think it should come in a green bottle, but it’s coming to us in a yellow box! I think you know what I mean, our pre-conceived notions of something can prevent us from recognizing the real deal. My life is full with a loving family….my husband, my two WONDERFUL daughters, my pets, the great outdoors I enjoy here in Kentucky and all the abundance I enjoy on a daily basis….and some chocolate never hurts either! You live a life I admire so much. I lived out West twelve years ago and always felt such joy when I was on the back of a horse! My fondest memories are of the Rocky Mountains. I think ranch people are the salt of the earth…and that means you, my dear! I love your blog! Happy Valentine’s Day to all the ladies out there that hold true to what matters in this life….LOVE!

  8. Paula says:

    Forget my Bonanza fantasies…Sherry you are living the real deal! (:

  9. carol branum says:

    Shery, You’re so lucky to still have your mom,she is a pretty lady,and your daddy a handsome man.Your right, I forget to count my blessings everyday. Happy Valentines, blessed be, Carol Branum themofarmersdaughter@blogspot.com

  10. Emily says:

    Thanks for the lovely blog and the ’53 Ford looks great!

  11. Vicki says:

    Hi Shery,
    Love your blog, love your pictures. Wow, what a truck! You are very lucky to be surrounded by things you love.

  12. bonnie ellis says:

    I’m sure Valentine should be your middle name. You and I love the same things, husbands, family, horses, pets and the beautiful settings God gave us in his autograph. Have a great day and thanks for the wonderful blog. Bonnie

  13. Hilda Collins says:

    The old truck and the vintage tablecloths are my passion.
    I only have the tablecloths but I am happy for your Dad
    and you with the truck. Your ranch looks beautiful!

  14. Catherine says:

    Beautiful flowers and some beautiful blessings as well. Thanks for sharing them with us 🙂 .

  15. Pat says:

    Love your blog. Shery, I also love your stories and pictures. Thank you so much for sharing. From a Virginia Country Girl.

  16. Oh Shery,
    Thank you for sharing your many "Valentines" with us…
    I have many too! my hubby of 37 years, my daughter & son-in-love, my grand foster baby & my 4-legged fur babies.
    blessings
    >^..^<

  17. julie hofmann says:

    Thank You Shery, for reminding me that after the snow and cold will come the flowers and new born calves. I look forward to each and appreciate all that god gives us. I to enjoy the many hours spent working with my valentine and am thankful he is in my life. Happy Valentines Day Shery.

    Julie

  18. I just love everything about this post. Your loving appreciation for your parents & the animals in your life. To me this is what country living is all about.

  19. Linda says:

    Just this month I discovered Mary Jane Magazine and it had such a calming effect I decided to check out the web site. Love your photos Sheri and what a great story about your grandparents. I too love to hunt out special finds at second-hand stores, garage sales, antique shops etc. It’s not about the bargain, but the story I know is hidden behind my treasure!

  20. Sonja says:

    My husband and I love your post. We understand your love for your family, animals and your ranch. We have enjoyed your pictures (we love out west). Have a Happy Valentines Day.

  21. amy says:

    Since I was a child my love of animals and nature has stayed with me and kept me going. After decades of city living and raising daughters I have been able to restart my country life and reclaim my love of horses though I have always had dogs, never a day without them. I now ride, show and breed Rocky Mountain horses and as always when with nature I feel free in the spirit again. We now have chickens, miniature donkeys, one who is due to deliver any day and the new baby will be starting its life journey with us. This picture of life renewing life is one of country life’s biggest gifts. My life has renewed me spiritually and has been the culmination of my life dreams to come back to simpler, greener life filled with animals. You can take the girl out of the country but not the country out of the girl. One of the greatest gifts this life has given me is allowing my beloved grandchildren to have animals be a part of their life also. It is great to live in the country and still have access to the city where my grandchildren live. I am truly blessed by God.

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Winter Schminter

Generally speaking, we don’t get as much snow accumulation as some places in the north country. We jokingly say that we get twelve inches of wind with our snow. I’ve never been able to make a friend of the wind. Winter isn’t so bad if you don’t have wind blowing snow in your face and down your neck.

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  1. Reba says:

    Beautiful pictures!! I love the cold as long as it is not wet. I do like your cat, speed-scooch backwards. And in the South, usually what we have is "wet" cold!! When we have snow, everything closes. If there is a hint of snow, schools begin closing. NO one knows how to travel in the snow here. I visited Austria at Christmas one year with my daughter. It was so-o-o much fun. We did the Sound of Music tour by bus (with several feet of snow on the ground), traveled all around Salzburg, and enjoyed the sights of ice skaters. In Vienna the parents were out with their carriages, plastic over the children, but nevertheless all were out to enjoy Christmas festivities. It was soooo much fun. I don’t like being closed up indoors. This is quiet possibly why we hear "flu season" or "cold season." I’m not buying it. I’m layering and going outdoors!!

  2. Rene' says:

    The pictures are beautiful and I really like the one of the horse! Just beautiful. Wyoming is such a wonderful place I have seen it in the summer but never in the winter thanks for sharing!

  3. Reba says:

    I love the beautiful pictures. Wyoming is one of my favorite places to visit. I would live there if my husband liked cold weather. He would be like your cat. I have music by David Walburn. He sings about Montana and this time of year being the time "to have a little fun" because "meats in the freezer, let’s go skiing." Thanks for the pictures that you post. They make me dream of going back.

  4. Debbie says:

    Shery, I just love how you blend your beautiful photography with your stories…:) I always think of the blue western sky when I look at them… and the back ground of your blog page too for that matter! It brings back memories of girlhood out west… Thanks for posting them… and I’m with ya on the getting outside in winter… I was peaking out my kitchen window checking out " the girls" basking in the sun in their run (during our last heat wave… 17 degree’s) I think it was, and the thought occured to me that I ought to head on out and snap a few pix of their feathers sparkling in the sun… I poured another cup of coffee and went on pondering the idea then went on to something else… Tomorrow! I’ll do it tomorrow…. Pray for sun! Stay warm and pat that beautiful horse on the neck for me will ya?
    Deb~

  5. Paula Spencer says:

    I am loving loving these fotos of yours! Like getting postcards from far away!

  6. Diane Loehr says:

    I love your photos and the birds are just adorable. The photos make me want to come and visit the land and all the wonderful animals you have. I love the beauty of winter from my living room window but when I have to travel to work or get somewhere in a car – I hate it! And I am one of those individuals that should be off the road when snow starts. I am counting down the days until Spring arrives and looking forward the "warm sun hitting my face". Have a wonderful day!

  7. Sevea says:

    Just wanted to say that I enjoyed your blog and the pictures! I myself am not a stranger to long and cold winters. Being from Alaska, where it is winter about seven months out of the year; I commiserate with you.

    I loved seeing the picture the fluffy and frosty horse. It reminded me of my horse "Jewel" that I had growing up. How soft her fur against my face as I rubbed it in to her neck to keep my nose warm, and that warm wild smell that can only be truly appreciated be a girl with a horse.

  8. Joann says:

    Shery, I’m what you call a fair weather outdoors person too. The cold keeps me from getting out too much. Once I do it isn’t so bad, but I don’t like all those layers. We are having a heat wave this week here in Michigan~ Maybe a ride on my ol horse will be the draw to get me out and get some exercise. Beautiful pictures by the way!

  9. Tana says:

    Loved the pictures. Thanks for sharing.

  10. carol branum says:

    Hi Sheri, We have had a lot of snow here too,its beautiful,I don’t mind,but I have had trouble with daddy staying in the house,he is all man,at 83,and thinks he can do it all,and it is really wearing me out emotionally,I am totally terrorized that he will get out there and fall and freeze to death.I don’t have four wheel drive.Last year I wrecked my car because I was so worried about him,went through a barbed wire fence.There is nothing I can do,at least if something happens to him,He will be happy.Our farm is equally breathtakingly beautiful.It is simply heaven.Stay warm,blessed be,carol branum,lamar mo.themofarmersdaughtr@blogspot.com

  11. Terces says:

    My husband grew up near the Canadian border in upstate NY so is OVER winter and doesn’t even talk much about it amazing beauty, although he loves the out of doors! I on the other hand, love winter, and have only spent a few years of my life living where there really is a winter. Here in California, winter doesn’t bring us all those beautiful sights you shared, and there is clearly a changing of the seasons and a turning inward. We live in a yurt and when all the flaps are down on the windows it is clearly an indoor cabin lifestyle, with a wood stove going. I keep telling myself I will sit and read yet still the chores of farm life, being we can grow food year around here, keep me out of doors! Thanks so much for sharing, what a beautiful life you live. How fortunate are we all?
    Love, Terces

  12. carol McElroy says:

    Having moved from Hawaii, then San Diego, then Kansas City, I was not very impressed with Winter. It took a few years and an ice storm to really see the beauty in the cold outdoors, and I try to spend 30 minutes a day out no matter what.
    Pretty pictures Shery, great article, Carol

  13. Thanks so much for the posting, love the pictures as well. Lovely thoughts about appreciating each season.

  14. Grace~katmom says:

    Oh Shery,
    I have to laugh @ your "when mother nature calls & we gals have to shed 40 lbs of clothing" comment…hahahha! soooo true!
    I took a walk this morning around our mini orchard & my small lavender field….yikes,,,got some water/freeze damage…but that’s the way it is up here.
    As for the stir crazy cats…you could not have described ‘my’ kitties any better…they must be related to yours! lol!
    Well the good thing about this time of year…. it will be over soon, but till then…pass the hot cocoa & mint cookies!
    hugz from the Inland NW

  15. KimberlyD says:

    It gets windy here in the *Thumb* area of Michigan they say we are a good area for the big wind mills for the wind we get. I understand finding winter beautiful but hate the wind. My dad likes feeding the birds but since he is unable to get out and do that anymore I feed them, but not as regular as he did. Boy when the feeders are empty you hardly see any birds but once they are filled every bird in the tri-county are at those feeders it seems…lol.

    Keep warm.

  16. meredith says:

    Oh, I know about the wind! The only thing I remind myself is that the frigid winds of winter become our blessed breezes on a hot August day when we are sweltering in the heat putting up hay!
    We had our first 40 degree day yesterday after a month and a half of 10-20’s- let me tell you, all the horses and cows were simply basking on their sides in the sun- true peace. I so appreciate your ranch stories- we tend to get isolated from other folks living the same lifestyle we do!

  17. Jamie says:

    Ditto to the photos. So beautiful. While I am not a fan of cold weather, ironically some of my favorite art work is of winter scenes, go figure. Winter to me is best enjoyed with a warm cup of coffee from a cozy seat by a large roaring fireplace positioned perfectly to view the snowy beauty of nature out a large picture window.

  18. Holly says:

    I love the feel of winter portrayed in your photos. I don’t think there is any season I really dislike. There is something I love about going out to feed the sheep in the coldest part of winter. My husband will say "do you mind helping" if his Father isn’t able to go. I wouldn’t mind going everyday. There is such a wonderful silence (other than the sheep noises) that you can’t find anywhere else when its dark and the snow is falling. And if you get in by the woolies its not so cold.

  19. Ellen says:

    Thank you Shery for sharing your wonderful pictures! I live in Ky~we get a few flakes of snow now and then. Mostly rain~I am a sunshine person & a horse lover. I have always lived on a farm & love it. Have been to WY several times in the summer & Love the scenery. Have a happy blessed day~you have brightened my day! Ellen

  20. Barb says:

    Great pictures! I love the winter, snow etc… I too have not been able to befriend the wind, which is why I’m able to write this midday instead of being out riding. I train horses for a living in PA, but when it’s in the low 20’s with 30 mph winds I’m staying in! Cold wind makes even the sanest horse nuts! Happy Trails!

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Memories And Grogg

Keepers of Christmas generally have a rich store of memories to draw upon when they build a new Christmas each year. We hold on to family traditions that grow more and more precious with the passage of time. Cherished are the memories we fondly recall, bits & pieces of Christmas past … loved ones who are no longer with us, special gifts you gave and received, and very likely one particularly brilliant memory that for some reason wears a crown in your Christmas memories book.


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  1. Cheri says:

    OMG- this is my year all the time. My parents made it UNFORGETTABLE! SO i have huge Christmas Stress that I induce on myself. While I have toned it down a bit, as the kids are now 15 and 19, I was still baking cookies before my daughter went to school this morning. The candy was done, but pep band, finals etc had prevented cookies from being baked. My daughter’s teachers truly deserve a sweet treat in appreciation for all their caring. They used to get delivered on hand-painted plates . Now to finish that quilt before next Thursday afternoon.

  2. Grace~katmom says:

    Oh Shery,
    Thank you for the lovely trip down your "Memory Lane"…I so enjoyed it and especially your 5th paragraph. So glad you are proud of your faith when todays society is soooo trying to be P.C. about Christmas…Bless you.
    Oh and we have a tradition that we carry on (German) and that is we serve Ghulwein this time of year as it is a wonderful yummy warmer-upper…it is warmed up red wine infused with spices(nutmeg, clove, cinnamom) and topped off with a wedge of orange. So yummy on a snowy day.
    Don’t you just love traditions!
    Merry Christmas & God Bless

  3. Nancy says:

    I love the beauty of your prose and your eye for detail in nature. I am doing a little bit of the same idea in a blog, too. But I have to say that yours is an exquisite model to use as a pattern! Love the grogg recipe! I will be making some this holiday season.

  4. Kimberly D says:

    I was 3 years old and Santa came to my house Christmas eve, but while we were still up to see if we were good. I ran to the kitchen to tell my Mom, and she didn’t believe me. I had to bring Santa to the kitchen for her to see him. Years later I fine out it was our neighbor. But I still remember Santa coming to my house, fondly.

  5. The rule in our house was that no one could find what Santa had put in the stocking that was delivered to our bedroom door until it was six o’clock am.

    I was not a good sleeper on Christmas Eve..or even in the wee hours of Christmas morning. I have no idea how Santa managed to get the jingling stocking propped up against my door without getting caught at it.

    What I did on one such sleepless overnight was to go frequently into the bathroom where my father always hung his prized Hamilton watch (awarded on his 25th year in his business) on a hook on the door jamb. I could tip the face of the watch to see if it was six o’clock yet. I did this. Often. All night long. BUT at about four am I managed to unhook that watch when I tipped it to see, and it smashed on the tile floor.

    This was a disaster. Really a disaster. I cried, standing there, cried with grief and shame and true misery. I was not afraid of my father, but I was afraid of the loss of the watch for my father. It was, as far as I knew, his most prized possession. And I had ruined it. Smashed to pieces.

    I couldn’t stand it. I went in at that early hour and awakened my father, burst into tears, confessed my terrible act, buried myself in his arms and sobbed out my sorrows.

    I am sure it took a long while for my sleepy parents to figure out what to do with this inauspicious beginning of our happy day. But they figured it out. I saw the new watch-face and hands going around as they should in the next few days, to my enormous relief.

    I have no idea what I got that Christmas, other than a whole lot of love.

    Susan

  6. I am going to make a batch of your fabulous grogg tomorrow. Heck, maybe every day this week! Thanks for the sweet reminder of orange pomanders. I love making those. Happy Holidays to you at the Ranch!

  7. You reminded me of so many great holdays at home. My mom always made Christmas so special.I have many great memories. Thanks

  8. Laurel says:

    Sherry thank you so much for the remembrance and for reminding all of us that it is more important to take time with the Babe in the Manger.

    And Susan thanks for sharing your story it was heartwarming.

    Merry Christmas All, Laurel

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The End Of A Season


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  1. Your blogs about your ranch life are very interesting. My husband and I are from a PA farm background. (We met on a Farmall M tractor!) We were grain farmers and can relate to much you share…so glad to learn more. Keep it up.

  2. Carol McElroy says:

    Busy time for you, and I can imagine of accomplishment now that your work is done, but I bet there is always "something" to do. Enjoy the down time! Carol

  3. Kris says:

    This is interesting but I for one do not know anything about the west really, I’m a north-easterner, nor do I know much about any kind of cattle besides dairy cows. Could you provide info that describes what the pictures are showing? Which horse is Harley? etc. Your photography is great and I enjoy looking @ your pictures, & reading what you have written, but this latest blog doesn’t grab me because I know so little. The stuff you written about your grandfather is so real & brings back my grandpa.

  4. carol branum says:

    hi,I have done this too,only on a smaller scale,we didn’t have semi loads,we just had a trailer full.But,on a beautiful fall day, it is refreshing, and just ok to listen to the cattle, and smell the manure, being outdoors with nature. blessed be, carol branum, lamar mo. themofarmersdaughter@blogspot.com

  5. Debbie says:

    What beautiful photo’s. My grandpa was a cattle rancher in Decatur, Texas for most of his life. We visited the ranch once while I was growing up, but the cows were out to pasture. We saw nothing of his actual "operation"… but being a Texan, he was full of stories. He always used the nickname heifer for his female grandchildren and my granny too sometimes! It was definitely in his blood. He ranched until his late 70’s then he finally retired. I’m a western girl born in Texas, raised in Nevada, transplanted in New England and I just love your blog… Your pix are like little shots from home that warm me up when I look at them… I enjoy your writing as well! Keep sharing your wonderful way of life…It is a great reminder to us all that our food does not just " appear" wrapped up nice and neat at our local meat counter ready for our choosing. Cattle ranching looks like hard work, but it’s easy to see, there is joy in if for you!

  6. RanchFarmgirl says:

    Hi Kris from the Ranch Farmgirl herself! You asked for some details pertaining to this post.

    My horse, "Harley" is the horse standing by himself in the alley with calves we were moving through the part of the corral system called the alley. The calves were separated by gender and they were also vaccinated for several diseases. You can see the alley work being done in the bottom photo (middle) from my vantage point being horseback and holding the calves as people afoot work the calves by gender into separate pens.

    The photo of the sunrise suggested the time of day when shipping begins (which is also the case with some other workdays too).

    The fella and his dog were among about 15 riders that were spread out as we took the entire herd into the corrals — after we had gathered them from a nearby pasture.

    The cowboy on his gray horse is a friend who had volunteered to help with the day’s work. After the job is done (about noon), everyone loads up their horses and heads to the main house for a GREAT lunch. Afterward, we visit awhile and then all the friends and neighbors head back home. Thank you for asking about the How-To, I hope I explained things clearly. Happy Trails, Shery Jespersen

  7. Kris says:

    Thank you for explaining it all. I wish you Happy Trails also and a great holiday season. The expression Happy Trails sounds so Roy Rogers and Dale Evans. Is that where that expression came from or is it in general use?

  8. Debby says:

    How are you enjoying the cold? I woke up in the middle of the night and turned on the weather channel, and it was minus 24…but that was the Greybull temperature so I am not sure what it was here in Cody. Usually it is a few degrees warmer. Winter is my favorite season in Wyoming (don’t ask me why) but I have to admit that I am looking forward to the weekend when it will be above zero…we’ve got a Christmas tree to cut down! Stay warm! Deb

  9. St. Fairsted Farm/ ang says:

    I was referred to your website via twitter. I’m glad I was referred; it’s been an enjoying read. This post reminds me of a recent quote I read- "No matter how much horsepower your truck has it still can’t cut a calf from the herd."

  10. Claudia says:

    Hi Sherri, I have been so busy with trying to start my business, and family life, that I have neglected my emails and Mary Jane. I guess cause I’m a farmgirl and a horse person I am receiving your blog? Great stories, inspirational, beautiful photos. Thanks for taking the time to write to us.
    I live in the Adirondacks mtns. of NY. It is 8:13 am,9 degrees outside, with at least 20 inches of snow. We live off the grid, which makes it hard without a lot of sun light for the solar panels this time of the year…How DID they survive here in the old days! Happy Holidays, Claudia

  11. Jennifer says:

    Wow what beautiful pics. For a native Tarheel (NC) it’s really nice to get a peek into your life out west.

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Seeing Beauty

Beauty in ordinary objects can be easily overlooked. You can’t see subtleties from a galloping horse; you have to take up the reins and slow your soul down.


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  1. Bambi says:

    Thank you, Shery, for your wise words this morning. It is my day off from work and your words reminded me of a field trip in the country that I have wanted to do for quite some time and had forgotten about. Today is the day!! Thank you so much and God Bless.

  2. TJ says:

    I love nature. I love rocks, their color textures. I love watching turd rollers, lady bugs. You find a lot of enjoyment if you stop and see, really see the fine things around you. Even in the city you can find small things of wonder.

  3. Terces says:

    WOW, I have only recently started receiving all the blogs and find myself so appreciating all the sharing. We live on 21 acres and are currently in a yurt with an outdoor bath house, outdoor kitchen and a composting toilet. We gather around the fire each morning for breakfast, the crew and my husband and I and again at lunch and once more for supper. I always find myself marveling at the simplest of things. Morning dew, fire heat, hummingbirds, flowers…and yet due to our city life, where we are the owners of 6 restaurants (all use the produce we grow on the farm), so many people ask me "do you like living this simply?" … I notice I NEVER ask myself that question, instead I find myself often asking, "what was it that sent us all indoors?" Thanks for putting beautiful words to such dear things in life. I am starting to save the hair from my brush TODAY! Gratefully, Terces

  4. carol branum says:

    Hi Sherry,Don’t you feel sorry for people that haven’t figured this all out yet? I do. I have been extremely blessed to of had parents that taught me all about nature, and a grandmother who put wild lettuce on her ham sandwiches, and made us sassafras tea to drink. Our home was filled with a library of books about nature, books on trees, mushrooms, birds etc. .We also received magazines like Rodale’s Organic Gardening, Mother Earth News and National Geographic. We still refer to our library after 50 years. I have a lot to be thankful for. Thank you for your blog, have a great day blessed be. Carol Branum, Lamar MO. themofarmersdaughter@blogspot.com

  5. SuburbanFarmgirl says:

    You are so right about this and good to remind us! One thing I love about getting out of the ‘burbs is seeing the SKY, which (along with a good beach) is my favorite, endlessly changing thing to look at.

  6. Bonnie Ellis says:

    Shery, I can picture you out on the plains, riding easily along with a knowing smile on your face; saying hello to nature. What a wonderful thought. I don’t have a horse now but I travel the paths by foot and you’re right, I am a child, the child that is inside us all. I love to watch earthworms wriggling in the fresh earth. I see eagles and hawks everyday and thank God for his autograph. Thanks for reminding all of us to really "see".
    Bonnie

  7. Reba says:

    I appreciate the words of wisdom. I love nature, especially in the mountains. My family and I are nature lovers and relationship lovers, the things that last. Have a blessed day.

  8. Debbie says:

    How true your words are! I am a seer…as is my mother, mother in law, my husband and our two home schooled children. Beauty is everywhere! How is it that so many folks have stopped seeing? It is those of us who see and appreciate that must bring this to light for others…I’m a high desert girl (transplanted in America’s home town) and I love seeing the rustic western photo’s on your blog…I can smell the sage if I look long enough! Thanks for shining bright from the Ranch!
    Debbie

  9. This is such a beautiful gift that was given to you be your grandfather, this is one of the reasons we make it a point to include our family in almost everything.
    I really have enjoyed reading your blog! I hope that you have a very Blessed Holiday Season.
    -Amy

  10. Mary Ann says:

    Beautiful photos, such beautiful photos. The red combo (holidayish) and the all white-ish of the winter pony, faded window, barbed wire and lamb. It is always a good time to become small again, to pay attention, but this time of year more than any other.

  11. Shannon says:

    I so enjoy your posts! They make me miss my ‘cowgirl’ days of riding and feeling the wind in my hair. I look forward to more of your posts and wish you many blessings this holiday season.

  12. Laurel says:

    Thanks for sharing the memories of your grandfather. It brought to mind my father. I was a urban girl all my life. But Daddy would come home and tell of the things he found or saw that day. Such as a pond hidden in the middle of the city (small city). I remember I was walking to High School one day and down along the creek were herons, walking along the creek bed. Here it was first thing in the morning and I could hardly wait to tell Dad. When he got home from work I told him of my find. He was excited for me. Seeing and sharing has been a part of my life for ever. Thank you Dad for starting me on this adventure. And thank you for stirring this memory.

    Happy Holidays, Laurel

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My Old Cubby

My Shabby Cubby Project, by Shery JespersenWhen I was a wee lassie, I thought it completely normal that each day would begin with a trip to the local dump. I spent much of my early childhood in my Grampa’s shadow and nearly every day, weather permitting, we went to the dump on a scavenger hunt. He and Gramma grew up in the homestead era and then spent much of their adult life just trying to get by. Gramma waited 5 long years for her true love to come home from WWI. They began their life together scratching out a living as ranchers. Before they were wed, Grampa told her that he could afford either a new Hamley saddle or a wedding ring, but not both. My Gramma, then his young, auburn haired bride was ranch savvy and she chose the saddle! As young adults, they faced very tough times…the Great Depression, The Dirty 30s, and WWII. As a result, they became members of what is now referred to as ‘The Greatest Generation’. They were people who enjoyed life even in the midst of doing without most, if not all, of life’s luxuries.

By the time I was old enough to hang out with my Grandfather (1960s), he was well into retirement. He was very active though and loved building and fixing things. That is where the city dump came in…

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  1. Reba says:

    I love junktiquing and finding ways to create a "new" use for items that have been discarded. It brings a sense of accomplishment and creativity to my life. It also allows me to put my own personality into the way something looks making it unique and one of a kind.

  2. That is really pretty! I am sitting here wondering where you found those great decals. Wonderful story about your grandparents. My dad’s parents were dairy farmers and I remember how frugal they were. Our grandmother made quilts. And most of them were tied patchwork made out of leftovers from clothing she sewed for herself or someone else. Not like I do when I go out to pick out just the right fabric and only for that purpose. I do like to re purpose things also. I have a few just waiting for some loving care.

  3. Debbie says:

    Yay for wonderful make-do projects and thinking too! You were fortunate to be able to soak up " that way of living" with time spent with your grandparents…
    I like to think it is a wonderful way of honoring your creativity while being resourceful. Not to mention very satisfying and easy on planet to boot.
    Love your cubby project! 🙂
    I hope you will show more in future posts!
    Happy Creating~
    Debbie

  4. TJ says:

    We too went treasure hunting in the dump. I got a nice birdhouse and Chatty Cathy Doll. Now a days they have made it against the law to remove anything from the dump. Which is very sad when I see perfectly good furniture being sent to the dump that is better then what is in my house. Why do people trash good things when they can donate and they would even come to pick it up for free.

  5. Ginny says:

    Your grandparents story reminds me of my 25th wedding anniversary present. I wanted and got a roto-tiller(not sure I spelled it right). Its those little things that count!!

  6. Suzy says:

    That turned out great and I’m sure you’re Grandpa would be pleased!!! I’m afraid if we all don’t bet back to more of their "old" ways that this country is doomed!

    The Simple way is always best!!!! 🙂

  7. Kady says:

    What wonderful memories you have of your grandparents. We could all learn lessons from them. Love your "shabby cubby". I love searching for treasures at thrift stores and flea markets too. Thanks for sharing your memories.

  8. Isabel says:

    This brought tears to my eyes and memories from my heart. I was raised by my grandparents who always brought home whatever they found at the dump or someone threw away! I am not country, but born & raised in a very small S. TX town where life was hard.To this day, though I have lived in Houston for 40 years, I still pick up anything worth saving that someone has thrown away. I learned recyling when it was not fashionable! Imagine that…

  9. Heidi says:

    That old wall chest is too cute! You are very talented. It makes me feel better in my quest of old "junk" that others see the beauty in "old stuff". I have a hard time buying new and prefer something with a little "history". My Father also liked to "fix it up".

    Thank you for sharing. Heidi

  10. Beverly says:

    I love the stories and the use of the word "redemption" – So many of our stories are lost because we are too busy to spend the time with our parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles, etc. Our nursing homes are full of stories that need to be captured. One of the websites where you can learn how to start the process hhtp://www.capturingmemories.com/home.html
    Engaging your children in the process is a wonderful way to build character and relationship with your child. http://americanhistory.si.edu/onthemove/learning/
    It is easy to print your own history book – my favorite http://www.mypublisher.com/
    Love your blog – keep inspiring us.

  11. Stacy says:

    Hi Shery,

    Your cubby is adorable and your horse is a beauty. You are a lucky woman!

  12. Nancy J says:

    Dear Shery,

    As I read ALL my e-mails from MaryjanesFarm, there have been so many Farmgirls that have been as if I was speaking from my heart of memories. I was raised down the street from my Grandparents. And I was a Pop-Pop & Mom-Mom girl. I loved going to their home, all the time, where I always felt loved. But after reading this article, I am over whelmed with memories…But also, thankfulness, that I had this life. Now, there isn’t a dump, but I am showing my grand-daughters what I was blessed to learn. Maybe, some day, they will tell their grandchildren. Thank you for sharing your heart of memories…

  13. Maggie says:

    I loved your "dump days with Grandpa" story! When my husband and I married 37 years ago, we would go to the dump periodically and search for treasures. I found a small 2 drawer chest. I use it in my sewing room all the time and I will never get rid of it. It reminds me where I came from, very humble beginnings: growing up on a dairy farm in Pennsylvania, and makes me grateful for all I have now. I live on 1 1/4 acres in a small community in Texas, just southwest of Dallas. My husband and I have moved many, many times in our 37 years together, and this is our last home and it’s as close to country as we can get, considering where we live now.

  14. Kim Denn says:

    Wow! Your grandparents sound just like my father’s parents!! My grampa taught me things similar to what yours taught you; he just taught them in Colorado instead of Wyoming. And indeed those are some of my most cherished memories.

  15. Lis Recusant says:

    Ooh, I love your Shabby Cubby! I remember going dump scrounging with my father once a long time ago when I was very little, in the San Francisco Bay Area (this would have been during the early 70’s). I don’t do that anymore, but I am an avid Freecycler – I hate to throw away perfectly good stuff that someone else might be able to use. By the same token, I have gotten all kinds of useful stuff from fellow Freecyclers. When we lived in Ohio, I was even known to stop and pull things off of people’s trash piles that they’d put out for the garbage truck, take them home, and try to find them new homes through Freecycle. I just hate to see a perfectly good piece of furniture or whatever end up in the landfill when all it needs is a little TLC to be beautiful and useful again. Unfortunately, this drives my husband up a wall. Where I see potential, he only sees junk. He would rather throw something out and go buy a new one than try to find a way to salvage the old one. Now that the economy is so awful, and our financial situation is much more precarious than it had been in the past, I am even more adamant about using the last drop of something, or repairing things or fixing them up instead of just going and buying new. I find it very frustrating, but I guess it’s partly because I’ve been thinking about this issue longer – both the environmental implications of our over-consumerist, throw-away culture, and also the social and economic implications. Our entire economy and society are built on convincing people to buy things they don’t really need, even if they have to go into debt to afford them. What if people stopped buying all this stuff? What if people stopped buying into the idea that they have to buy all this stuff, that new is better, that it’s perfectly acceptable for an appliance you spent good money on to stop working and have to be replaced after a couple of years because it can’t be repaired? What if we took back our financial health and our power, and stopped being slaves to the consumer culture? I’m sure this is the kind of thing that gives CEOs nightmares, but sadly, my experience to date suggests they have nothing to fear – the consumer habit is an extremely difficult one to kick, and most people don’t even realize it’s a problem. When even my own husband looks at me like I’ve got three heads because I brought home a gorgeous antique end table made of solid wood that just needs a little refinishing and TLC, I know we’ve got our work cut out for us. Spread the good word, sister! I’d love to hear about some of your other finds and projects!

  16. Mary Jo Greer says:

    I applaud anyone who aspires to frugality and the preservation of things from the past! I have reclaimed many items from curbside and dumpster myself! (Shhhhh! Hubby does not understand so much.) It is a rewarding work, reviving a useful thing from the past. Once proudly beheld as new by it’s original owner, now an item with a past….it is embraced once more by a joyful owner!

  17. madgardener says:

    WHAT A WONDERFUL STORY !! IT REMINDS ME SOME OF MY CHILDHOOD IN NEBRASKA. ISN’T IT WONDERFUL SOME OF US ARE WANTING TO GO BACK AND RECYCLE, AND RE-USE EVERYTHING WE CAN GET OUR HANDS ON. WASTE NOT, BECAUSE THE OLD CAN BE NEW AGAIN. AHHH, ISN’T LIFE REALLY GRAND.

  18. Coreen Hart says:

    You did a beautiful job, Shery! My husband and I are very good at recycling, too. We once tore down an old proving-up shack and built a chicken cook from it. Our doors are made of scrap wood. Quilts are made of scrap fabric. We wash plastic bags and re-use them. And so on. No, we don’t have to anymore, but it seems to us we are doing our part to reduce waste and damage to the ecology. So let’s all keep it up. Let’s keep our land healthy for the next generation!

  19. Grace~katmom says:

    Oh Shery,
    I LOVE your grandparents…for the wonderful values they gave & shared with you.
    Re-purposing old discarded items is so gratifying.
    I too love to go "junktiquing" especialy at 2nd hand stores….and two things I always keep in mind..
    1. Spray paint is your friend….
    2. Show No Fear!
    It’s amazing what we can do when we roll up our sleeves, dig in and have fun!
    Your cubby turned our beyond cute!
    So, what are you working on now? after all, it’s snowing over here so I am guessing it’s probably snowing where you are too! Perfect time for indoor projects!
    farmgirl hugz
    >^..^<

  20. Little Sister Beth says:

    Shery, I remember when you & I went w/Grampa on many occasions rindin’ in the back of that ol’ green truck out to the dump! The treasures we found were wonderful in our eyes, but I do remember Grama looking at us like we had a screw loose at times! LOL

    The violet-purple glass shards, rare old marbles, bottle caps, odds and ends, bits of this & that…nuthin’ that really made sense — it was just quirky stuff, or had potential to be used…later. Grampa was able to see potential in most things, much to Grama’s chagrin. He truly was a tinker-er.
    How I relish that he shared his gift of innovation & taught us to look for and see that most things hold potential…if only you take a moment to look, you’ll find an idea. I have used that lesson almost daily, which also explains why I have no storage room! ‘Potential’ surrounds me no matter where I turn. Sometimes it does feel like a curse, because I can’t turn off the ‘potential’ button. *sigh* Time to pass on the potential. Any takers?

  21. Julie says:

    Your story brings back wonderful memories for me. My grandma used to take me "dumpster diving". We would go down to the shopping center and find treasures in the dumpsters. It was wonderful fun! She decorated her house with many of these finds. Your grampa reminds me so much of my father-in-law. He was always making things out of stuff laying around in the garage or wherever. He also fixed things rather than buying new. My kids loved the stuff he made better than anything from the store. These are the the kinds of things that make life so beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing.

  22. Elisa says:

    My dad was a child of the depression era. When I was growing up my brother and I would go with my dad to the dump each week to dump our trash and sift through everyone else’s. We, too, grew up learning how to "make do".

    My husband is very handy in this area. He makes many wonderful and useful items from other people’s junk. Our girls have spent their share of time dumpster diving. 🙂

  23. Bonnie says:

    Sherry: Your Cubby is adorable. Good job. Our most precious moments are spent with love.

    Bonnie

  24. Mary Frances says:

    What a great story and a beautiful finished project. I too am wondering where you found the decals. My grandpas "dump" was his garage. He would bring home treasures form auctions and they sat in his garage for years just waiting for me to be old enough to bring them home, refurbish or re-purpose them and cherish them for years to come. Thanks for the memories !! mfb

  25. Candy says:

    Sherry- I like the cubby! It’s so nice to read that others are trying to "make do" and renovate rather than buying something. I always feel like I’m the only one that thinks this way! I, too, wash plastic bags and re-use them and use our old, damaged clothes to make quilts or dog beds. Frankly, I love the sense of self sufficiency!

  26. nameTheone says:

    Shery, Hi, I got excited when I saw your blog on MaryJanes site. My parents and grandparents were from Torrington, Wyoming and My sister’s name is Sherrie. So I felt sort of connected to you right away. I live in California in the city trying to get to the country soon, and will look forward to peeking in now and then. Thank-you Theone

  27. Kathy says:

    Hi Sherry!

    Your blog is great. I am a newcomer to your site. In Alaska we called it "dumpster diving". The ‘open’ dump in our town closed about 25 years ago to be replaced by a baler system – no chance for exploration unless you looked in the dumpsters located at the harbor or someplace with common access. BUT when I was a girl we lived on a ranch in the high desert in eastern Oregon and guess what? We lived ‘out by the dump’. And the dump was a good old-fashioned dump. Just kind of out in the middle of nowhere and you drove around in a circle and threw out whatever you wanted and could also walk around and take your pick of things to bring home. The climate was so dry it wasn’t icky really – things just kind of dried up and blew around. On one spot on our property there was an old dump all covered over from years of erosion and wind. We spent hours looking through rusted cans and pottery shards. Then it was ‘discovered’ by outsiders looking for bottles, etc. and it became a real issue as they would come in and set up large screens to dig and sift – range archeologists! (kind of). Unfortunately they would cut fences to get in and since it was a ways from the house we never knew what was going on until too late and cattle were out. We actually had to patrol that section regularly to keep the fences up and repaired and the cows in. What a deal – but wow – you bring back great memories. Thanks! I’ll stay tuned.

  28. Tanya says:

    I always enjoy your articles in the Weston County Gazette (I’m a former Upton resident), so I look forward to reading your blog!

  29. Sheri says:

    I too remember going to the dump with my Grandpa in Idaho in the 1960’s. The ride in his old pickup was always full of anticipation about what we might find on the way to the dump and glee over what we had found on the way home! I remember these outings much more fondly than just about any other shopping trip I’ve ever taken! Thanks for reminding me about finding the beauty in things that are cast off.

  30. Pam says:

    I loved the story. I am the same way. I love going to the dump…recycle.

  31. Diane says:

    Love your story. When I was a kid my grandpa owned the town dump! I think recycling is way more creative than just buying new and sometimes you end up with projects way better than the new ones. For example, I was in need of a new faucet for my kitchen sink. I found a "new" one at a flea market, it really was unused in the box, but about 30 years old and priced at 10 bucks. I brought it home and my husband installed it, but it didn’t really fit, the base was smaller than the old one and the hole showed on the top of the sink. So my husband got the idea to cut a piece of sheet copper in an oval shape and place it under the new base. It looks great and everybody who sees it thinks it’s a custom sink. It is! I just love making do.

  32. Sally Freeman says:

    Oh Shery, what a wonderful piece on my Uncle Ed and Aunt Bernice, your grandparents. I am blessed with two of his gorgeous lamps. One he made for my father and the other one he made for a wedding present when I got married, some 46 years ago. They were quite a couple. Sometime I would love to read an article about your Grandmother’s cooking abilities. I can still taste her homemade noodles, bread and apple pie! Weren’t we lucky to be kids then?
    Much love and keep having fun!
    Sally

  33. Carolina Sarceno says:

    Dear Shery,
    I love to read your stories. They give me hope. Frugality is spoken about as if it is a modern day sin. I must say that my family falls below the federal poverty level, but I have this little computer (pocketbook), and a roof over my head, land, and love. I have all that one needs to survive. I have been modifying my clothes to make them look ‘modern’. I am frugal. I thank God that he blessed me with the talent to sew. I have began a huge endeavor to start my own sewing business and selling produce. People love my jalapeno chili and salsa, and my sewing. Now, why not make money? Your stories gives me hope. I see your cubby and you inspire me that this frugality is truly art. Who else can see beauty in someone else’s trash? Thank you for inspiration. I AM GOING TO GO FORWARD with my business, and restyle and alter and sew old into new. I will bring out the beauty in someone else’s discards!! Thank you for helping me see the art in my business. I have NEVER thought of myself as artistic, and am far away from the Martha Stewart type crafts, but I know I can sew well, and can bring out a good business. Now I am ready to look forward to writing a business plan. I live on an acre of land, how can I be poor? Sometimes people give wrong titles to poverty and richness. I feel like I am the richest person in the world to have land!!!! My husband and I are planting our seeds for the future, figuratively and literally. I get inspired each time I read your stories. Keep us motivated!!
    Su lectora loyal,
    Your loyal reader,
    Carolina

  34. Howdy, Shery,
    I enjoyed your story so much…partly because your memories of grandparents and childhoold adventures were familiar to mine. I feel blessed that I had that connection with grandparents that taught life lessons just by being. I also enjoyed your story for the pictures that you paint with your words.
    Thank you for your uplifting, comforting picture stories.
    A new fan,
    Waynetta

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Cowgirl Up

Autumn in the western states, specifically on cattle ranches involves what is commonly referred to as ‘Fallwork’ – one word. Ranching, like all agriculture, revolves around the seasons. For ranchers on the northern plains, autumn is less about colorful leaves and more about golden grass. The prairie is busy getting ready to close up shop for the coming winter and the rancher has a long list of chores to do in preparation for the changing out of seasons.

Cowgirls: Cowboys come in all shapes and sizes
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  1. Judi says:

    For someone who lives in a midwesttern area of the nation, this sounds like a whole nuther world. The close’st I ever got to a cowboy, was an uncle who wandered the west moving his family every two years or so. We never knew where he would show up next. But he had wonderful stories! And to be a cowgirl or to live on a ranch sounds like a lot of work! But having five sons, I often wished they could have been raised up out west on the backs of horses, learning how to really grab hold of life! Keep on writing, you have a fan in me,and I am up for an adventure even if it only consists of words on the blue screen! Thanks!

  2. Dalyn says:

    Great post! Love the pictures ")
    I have a "hobby ranch" only 11 acres- so I "get you" but on a smaller, way smaller scale. Love fall!
    Gorgeous.

  3. susan says:

    I just love your writing and the great pics that go with it.Makes me feel like I am there.I am a frustrated cowgirl with no ranch so for now I will live vicariously through your writings.Thank you.

  4. Thanks so much for the ‘birds eye view’ of life on a ranch. I believe I secretly coveted this life but being a city girl most of my life has only gotten me as far as ‘small town country girl’. And at my age that is a far as I am going to get. It sounds like it can be a very hard life but super rewarding. I love reading about it, keep it up.

  5. Reba says:

    Thank you for letting me "see" life as a cowgirl, and "hear" the reality of it instead of idealism. Attitude is the glue that makes any job worth doing. And what an awesome way to do the job. None better than with a ride from such a beautiful animal–your horse.

  6. CC says:

    Oh how nice that sounds! Sitting here at my desk day after day. I’m not complaining, I have a job, with this economy and many wonderful things….but that is just it, they are "things". How lucky to be born into the Cowgirl life. Being outdoors, simplicity on many levels…all of it. I can smell it from here by reading your blog and remembering my summer trips to Cody, WY as a kid and I used to dream about being a cowgirl. It’s not really something one just changes careers and gets into I suppose…you kind of have to be born into it I’m finding, but I sure wish it were an option. I would switch today. I can relate to cooking for people-I bake for everyone and enjoy seeing the delight when I bring a pie to work or cookies… Thank you for sharing your life I look forward to reading more!

  7. Teri says:

    Great article. It really put me out there with you. In fact, I wish I were there, just not when it gets cold, wet or blustery. vbg

  8. Julie W says:

    Outstanding, Shery!!! Thanks for taking me along for the ride! jw

  9. Patty says:

    I love your writing!! I feel as if I’m right there. I am on a farm in OH and I know what fallwork is here. Harvesting, shearing, putting the land to bed, and making sure I have enough hay. You keep up the joyous work cowgirl.
    Patty

  10. Margie Smith says:

    Hi Shery,
    I have enjoyed your blog about working on your ranch. I understand what you are saying about being a cowgirl or boy is not all wildflowers, beautiful sunsets. I work in a public library. People will tell me they would like to work here. But it is not all reading books. Some patrons make my day go all wrong. But I know these things, so I just keep plugging along, as you keep riding into the sunset!!!! Let us know about calving in the spring. I love baby animals, but to sadly they grow up. Keep blogging.

  11. Ann says:

    We always have a rule here on our farm/ranch…
    #1. Animals die
    #2. Can’t change rule #1.
    It’s what life is made of.
    We start the road to our death on the day of our birth.
    But we try to pack as much fun and love in the middle.

  12. Peggy says:

    Shery,
    I really enjoy reading about your ranch life. It brings such a close feeling to what ranch life is all about for a woman ,instead of just reading about it.

    Thanks for sharing the good with the bad.

    Peggy

  13. RanchFarmgirl says:

    I’m new to blogging and being a blogger. I hope it is ok to add my own comment here. I would like to thank ALL of you, new friends and old for your kind words and encouragement. I can’t express how good it makes me feel to know my writing is worthy of your time. Happy Trails to you all and thank you for tuning in.
    Shery, the MJF Ranch Farmgirl (‘shery on the prairie’)

  14. MartiBee says:

    Just wanted to tell you that I love your blog. I’m always tickled pink when I get a notice that you’ve got a new one up.

  15. JudyR says:

    Shery,You know I love your pictures and your writing is exceptional. Thanks for taking me along. ONe day I hope to actually get out to meet you and your great Morgans….Keep up the blogging you’re a natural 🙂

  16. Grace~katmom says:

    Hey Shery,
    Thank you for sharing ‘Ranch Girl’ life from behind the ears of a sweet Morgan….not an easy life but truly a life connected with the land.
    Today we are having 45mph winds out here on the West Plains(W. Spokane)but all in all, I love the mornings, as I walk about out on our little 5 acre parcel of heaven, I follow the tracks of visiting deer & geese….as well as survey the latest damage to out seedlings thanx to those stinkin’ gophers! Can I send ya some? lol!
    Happy Trails!
    gracie

  17. Megan says:

    Great post Sherry! Thank you!

  18. Tammie says:

    Sherry,
    I love your blog and the pictures you post with it!

  19. Jeri says:

    Hi Shery –

    I can totally identify with the cowgirl up mentality! As kids, we were workers, and riders, and chefs in one afternoon! We were wherever we were needed and it was one of the best jobs in the world! You can ride some of the most beautiful country in the world, work cattle, and feed your helpers without missing a step. Wonderful memories! I think it also shows our strength as women, that we can do all these things and feel completely at home. 🙂

  20. Kelly says:

    I enjoy all MaryJane’s blogs, but was especially happy to see a ranch girl one. You are a terrific writer and a realist. I have always thought it important and valuable that my farm/ranch kids got to learn about life cycles and have a connection with nature, no matter where life takes them. I too can relate to all the jobs and love "Some of the best cowboys are cowgirls." Working cattle from a horse is one of the greatest jobs. I look forward to more of your tales. Enjoy!

  21. Carolynmst says:

    Your site is like a blonde with a brain. I love it. Jokes aside, very informative article and equally impressive design.

  22. AshlySanda66 says:

    Stupendous post thanks!

    Mars Venus Coaching 🙂

  23. Meridith says:

    I was curious if you ever considered changing the page layout
    of your website? Its very well written; I love what youve got to say.
    But maybe you could a little more in the way of content so people could connect with
    it better. Youve got an awful lot of text for
    only having one or two images. Maybe you could space it out better?

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The Art of Bartering

Farmgirls have long known that bartering is an effective means to an end. Trading goods for fun or in business fosters pleasant relations, trust and a healthy kind of pride in offering up what you have to trade. Money isn’t necessary in a trading transaction.

Bartering was the norm long before money was invented…

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  1. Jeri says:

    Bartering really is a fine art! It was an absolute way of life for the pioneers who lived in this area of our nation. It’s such a simple way of doing business, but it’s very effective, especially when trading for the necessities.

    I love your pics!

  2. Mickey says:

    I still to this day barter for materials and end lots for my crafts. I have cleaned house for rock collections, traded daycare to have carpet laid, and exchanged 3 dozen homemade cinnamon rolls for sheet rock in my storage food closet.

    It never hurts to mention a trade or fair market barter, all they can say is no…..or offer to purchase those cinnamon rolls out right.
    Mickey

  3. CherylK says:

    I was just thinking about bartering a few days ago and wondering how a person would go about getting involved. It was nice to read about your experience. Those steaks look fabulous!

  4. Holly says:

    What joy it is to provide a need for someone, and getting something back makes you doubly blessed! Thanks for sharing!
    I wish we were of a society that did more of that. It makes you dig deep, look for your gifts and gives you value as a person. Have a great weekend!

  5. Marti Johnson says:

    I’ve been a barter-er for most of my adult life, trading fresh veggies & fruits in exchange for other things I’ve needed, mostly the more heavy-duty yard work that my husband & I are unable to do any longer. Two years ago, however, a hairdresser friend of mine said she really loved my hand-knit socks, so in exchange for a pair of knit socks, I get three free haircuts! Another good trade for us are several bags of fresh-picked Satsuma plums for a haircut. My hair grows over an inch a month, and I wear it short, so these kinds of trades work wonderfully for me.

  6. Tammie says:

    I love the pictures as well!
    I was looking at that meat. Wow, that is some deep color.
    (Can you tell I’m a city/ country at heart kind of girl?)
    I would love to spend time out in Wyoming.
    You should add photographer to your list of creative activities. (If you did and I didn’t see it, sorry.)

    Love your post
    Tammie

  7. Megan says:

    I wish I had more folk to barter with here!! I’d much rather barter than charge someone for goods or services.

  8. Tana Lews says:

    Bartering is lots of fun and it sure saves on the pocket book. Enjoy your blog. Love the pictures of you and your horse. Have a wonderful Boo Day and a great week-end.
    Smiles…..

  9. Julie Weaver (ClaireSky) says:

    It’s wonderful to hear that bartering is still amongst us. I don’t know how it would be perceived here where I live….maybe it’s happening and I am not aware of it. I love your posts! Keep them coming!

  10. Brenda says:

    I really enjoy each of the Farmgirl Blogs. My husband barters his hard work for hard work from from friends. It’s the best way to get help when I am unable to do the helping. Everyone is more likely to offer a hand when they know it will be returned when they need the help. I am listing all the Farmgirl Blogs on my blog site because I so enjoy reading them.

  11. Grace~katmom says:

    I too love to barter, my sewing skills for what ever…
    it is a good feeling to be able to trade my talents for the talents of anothers….
    >^..^<

  12. Katie says:

    Bartering is great! I am amazed at the way my husband and his friends barter their labor and skills! Because of his skills, he is able to trade for just about any skills we need!

  13. Tammy says:

    I live in Southeast Missouri were bartering is still a common occurence even at the grocery store. I moved from a large city and am amazed of the trust and love that goes into each item offered (plus the wonderful stories!).

  14. Reba says:

    My sister and I did this just yesterday on some "big" items. I think we both came out pleased. "Good trade" makes for good relationships in family also.

  15. Lisa LeVasseur says:

    Hey Shery! Love your blog & proud that I’ve bartered with you. It’s been great fun for me & I’m almost done with that scrapbook! Great Work Friend!

  16. Just starting a new venture with a group of women sharing an old farmhouse on an island in Western Washington. I heard someone say "now we need a good cook" and I said "I love to cook and I’m good at it." Then I added, "what we really need is someone to clean up afterward." She immediately chimed in "I’m a terrific cleaner upper after-er." So– deal. I get to fluff bread flour around and chop herbs and marinate and parboil and braise and roast and someone else gets to follow in my tracks. Then we eat! This sounds like a deal.

    I’ve traded being an art teacher for the tuition for three children through a small private school. And ski lessons for those same three children for babysitting. I’ve paid attorney fees with wood carvings. This is a wonderful thing to do, and it is so much more satisfying than playing with the checkbook.

    Cheers from one farm girl to another! Susan

  17. Martha Cook says:

    In the late 1970’s, we paid $200-worth of our dentist bill with a bear skin, professionally tanned. We had shot the bear in season. This nice rug hung on the dentist’s wall for many years, until he redecorated his waiting room. Only in North Idaho…… At about the same time, we traded 2 cords of dry tamarack firewood for a $250 solid wood smallish dining table. I still have the table. In 1975, I walked into an antique store in Idaho City and bartered for a horse bridle – kept at it until the $25 price tag came down to $12 – bought it. Love the art of barter.

  18. Tonya H says:

    I think this day and age bartering is going to be something we are going to have to do allot. I need to start practicing. I have done it a little with cutting hair for someone in exchange for some face cream that she had made.

  19. Debra says:

    A few years back, I needed a crown in my mouth. Well the dentist and I made a deal. I made a quilt for him and he did the crown. It was one of the best deals I have ever made. I grew up as an auctioneer daughter.

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  21. truuli says:

    I love bartering, I make goat cheeses and I have trades all over town. We are trading cheese and milk to our vet for our past bill. I love our vet and the fact that bartering is beneficial to both parties!

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Cowgirl Muse News

Like so many farmgirls, I experienced the feeling of “coming home” when I recently discovered the wonderful world of MaryJanesFarm. So many things I could relate to … then came the adjacent acreage in the area of “common ground.” Inspiration on many fronts quickly followed suit. MaryJane fast became this cowgirl-farmgirl’s muse. As you may know, the Muses were nine spirit sisters of Greek myth, each one presiding over and inspiring the arts and science. Musing is an extension of the word, referring to creative thought that may fuel great ideas or inspire poetic prose. In either case, I felt the word and its many applications fit my mission to a T.

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  1. Carol Branum says:

    hi and welcome,I am sure I will love this.I also am a farm/ranch girl in missouri,This will be fun.blessed be,carol branum,Lamar mo.

  2. Julie Weaver (ClaireSky) says:

    Shery… I look forward to reading your blog. Ranching has always been in my heart even though I have never experienced it except through books. I can’t wait to read future writings that you send our way. Good Luck!… I will be waiting patiently.

  3. Laila says:

    I look forward to your blogs. I live on a farm in PA and we raise beef cattle but I look forward to hearing about ranch life in Wyoming.

  4. victoria says:

    Shery, I love you already! Really looking forward to reading your musings!

    Blessings to you and your sweet and beautiful horse!

    Love and horses,
    Victoria

  5. Annette Mack-Barnett says:

    Sherry, I’m excited about your blog. I already sense some "common threads". I love the word you used "junktiques" that sounds better than what I call "junking". I am an authenic born and raised farmgirl.

  6. What fun! Glad I received notice about your blog. We live on acreage in the CA High Desert. My longtime love is my old mule, Emmy Lou so I can relate.

  7. Christina Baldwin says:

    Hello from the sandhills of NE. I am orginally from Goshen Co. Wy. My husband and I lived and worked on the family ranch until we decided it was time to be ourselves. Hence NE. My favorite season is calving and branding season. My husband Loren is the only one around that casterates. So we are called upon. He has a knack for no bleeders. I run a vaccine gun or work up the dinner. We no longer wrestle calves but use a calf cradle. Better for our old bones. I have a few favorite things. Milk face calves, the creak of a windmill and the breeze on a sea of grass. We run several hundred head and so it keeps us busy. Besides I teach school in my spare time. Its so nice to hear from someone who actually maybe understand what a ranch wife is and does. Again, it will be fun to read and see the paralelles of ourlives. Christina

  8. Robin says:

    I will enjoy your blog. I have a small sheep farm in Western Washington State. I am excited to hear more about your ranch

  9. Bryden Wilson says:

    Welcome Shery,
    I am also a Wyomingite, it is good to see a Farm girl so close to home. I live in Laramie Wy. My family has been in the sheep ranching business outside of Medecine Bow. I look forward to reading your musings.

  10. Beth says:

    Shery,
    I’m soooo PROUD of you!! Little do all these gals know what kind of wonderful tidbits & sweet treats you have in store for them….but I do!
    Love you,
    Your Little Sis’

  11. dixie ryder says:

    Hi Shery, loved your "view from the saddle." I am a ranch girl from California. It is a wonder that my daughter, friends, and I each have the "The Best Darn Horse in the World." Mine is a Palomino Quarter Horse mare named Dapples. My favorite time of day is feeding the horses before the sun comes up. We finally got some rain and the hills have turned green. I look forward to your blog!
    Dixie

  12. Hi Shery,
    I too look forward to reading your muses of ranch life,junktiquing & crafting.
    farmgirl hugz from the West Plains of Spokane.

  13. Pamela says:

    I am also very much looking forward to reading your musing. I am not a farm nor ranch woman but am most definately a "earth woman" and at 59 just getting my creative burst of energy and in the process of leaving all that I am familiar with here in Colorado to start a new life in North Carolina with my 83 yr old mother. It somehow comforts me to know I have these blogs and Mary Jane Farms that I can take with me -something comfortable and familiar in the newness. Thank you for sharing

  14. Rebekah says:

    Warm Farmgirl Greetings, Shery, from the City Farmgirl! It’s fabulous to have you on board. I can’t wait to read all about your life and adventures as a Ranch Farmgirl!
    Welcome! Welcome! Welcome!

  15. Sue says:

    Hi Shery! I sure do look forward to reading your blog! You are such a creative writer, I’m sure you will provide hoots n hollers as well as some hard truths about life. Let the fun begin!
    :)) Sue

  16. Kate Stiefer says:

    Shery,
    I too look forward to reading your blog and keeping up with the treasures your muses help you produce. I KNOW that in a past life I was a strong woman, ranching in Montana. I have had that conviction since I was young……I have always been drawn to Montana. Some of it might be that I don’t mind solitude…..and truth be known, I relish it from time to time.
    Thank you for the wonderful introduction….
    I look forward to reading more about you and life on your Montana ranch….and antics that Miss "Rose" surely pulls.

    Ever, Kate

  17. Welcome, Shery! Love the way you write and that you ride. I don’t live on a ranch, never have but ‘back in the day’ my relatives did and I feel an affinity for that. I can’t wait to read more about your life style and experiences! Looking forward to more muse notes. Thanks, Karen

  18. Julie says:

    Oh, it is splendid to hear from windswept Wyoming! I can hardly wait to read your next posts, and watch for your great photographs. I’ve been a lover of LaReata ranch creations for a long time. Congratulations, best wishes on all your projects. You have much to share.
    julie

  19. Blair says:

    Welcome!
    I’m looking forward to the view from your saddle. I too am a horse person and FarmGirl and just LOVE this idea of FarmGirls getting together (even virtually) to share and explore the condition of our hearts.
    Cant wait to get to know you and Wyoming.
    Blair

  20. Suellen says:

    Oh, Shery,

    This is your "city girl" friend who is so proud of you and so excited about your new adventure. Just reading your muses brings you closer to me. Love the title "The Cowgirl Muse News. Your pictures are wonderful. Who is that cute young chick with the short hair and gray too. You look awesome!

    When you have a spare minute, please recommend a good camera that I can purchase for Heather for Christmas. She is taking photography classes as well as Interior Decorating. She loves the photo class and I want to really encourage her.

    Take care, my friend, and keep up the good work.
    Suelley

  21. Jeanne K says:

    Looking forward to more from Wyoming and those beautiful Morgan horses.

  22. timmi pierce says:

    Shery, this is grand, another dimension to your wonderful personhood that I look forward to visiting regularly. One suggestion — please have the comments section typeface bumped up from what must be .4 to at least .9 or .10. These old eyes can’t read them.

  23. connie says:

    Hi Shery, I am looking forward to hearing from you each week! I was born, and raised a rocky mountain ranh/farmgirl, and miss it tremendously. best wishes and God Bless!

  24. Patty says:

    Welcome Shery!
    I am farmgirl in OH. I raise angora,fainting, lamancha, and nubian goats. I love Wyoming and am anxious to hear all about ranching and your other interests :o)
    Patty

  25. Gail Summerlin says:

    I’m looking forward to seeing life on the range. We live in SC close to the mtns. and we love it. My greatest desire is to visit Wyoming and Montana. You just might inspire us to get there soon.

  26. Reba says:

    A very hearty welcome!! I can’t wait to read (and see pictures) about farmgirling on the ranch. Your state is one of my most favorite places in the USA that I have vacationed! Not just in Yellowstone, but the whole state is awesome! Love, love, love it! I have been afraid of horses (had one to run away with me as a child) but think that they are one of the most magnificent, beautiful animals of God’s creation. I have often thought that I wish I had gone somewhere like a ranch to overcome that fear. Oh well, now I am thankful that I can connect through your blog. I am so looking forward to reading your next posts! Welcome from way down south in Georgia.

  27. Hello, Sherry. I will follow your blog with interest. I am just a week into my new life on a 12 acre farm in the Puget Sound islands, near Gig Harbor. We are a team of women who are going to turn this lovely place into a productive and beautiful source of produce and beauty. I am an avid gardener and an artist. My co-horts are writers, art folks, and above all, master gardeners. This will be a venture on virgin land– lovely pasture and meadow land which has been home to horses, goats, and lots of deer. (electric fence comes first!)
    I will recommend your site to my fellow travelers. And look forward to reading the tid bits and treats your sister promises us! 🙂

    Susan

  28. Mary Jane says:

    Shery,
    I thought *I* had the Best Darn Horse in the Universe!! 😉 I am following your blog with anticipation of what comes next. There are some of us "ranch" farmgirls here in South Georgia. Looking forward to see how things are done in WY!
    Blessings,
    mj

  29. Catherine says:

    Shery, It was so good to read your Blog today. I was needing to read some real farm girl news. I have a real love for gardening and being out of doors. The thing I am enjoying in Indiana now is the change of the season. I love all the color.
    The animals that I have been enjoying lately are the deer. They have been cleaning up the apples that have fallen on the ground. So this year I haven’t had to rake them up. Blessings

  30. Margi says:

    Hi Shery,
    I have enjoyed meeting you through your farmgirl post. I found MaryJane quite by accident, a book club. I am a farm girl at heart. But can’t seem to do anything about it, except to read all of the farmgirl posts. Enjoy hearing how you live and enjoying the pictues of your part of the country. Also what muses you follow. Keep up writing

  31. gtyyup says:

    Congratulations on your new blog here! I’m looking forward to what your Wyoming winds will bring my way in the high desert of SE Oregon~~

  32. My husband and I live in the wilderness, off the grid and power our homestead with the sun.
    We make and sell organic wild meadow hay and take in rescue horses.
    I love your blog : )

  33. meredith says:

    I am an east coast farm girl raising registered Hereford cattle and have the dumbest darn horse in the world- a beautiful buckskin QH named PJ who is afraid of cows, deer and all other manner of hooved things. Good grief. Looking forward to your blogs! I would love to see WY one day….

  34. nameBarb says:

    Looking forward to your writings: we are in "ranch country" in Burns/Crane, OR. Your photos look like our country! we are just beginning our "farm", but love to work with and visit the ranchers.

  35. Sometimes being so creative, can be a curse, so many ideas all of the time. We just have to learn to organize and prioritize all of them! lol! Welcome to blogland!!

    Linda & Dixie
    The Funky Junk Sisters
    http://www.funkyjunksisters.blogspot.com

  36. I have been enjoying your blog on ranch life. In my "pretend world" that is where I venture. However, in reality, I just garden and craft! My livestock consists of Emma, our yellow lab and Magnus, my kitty.

  37. Jacquin says:

    Love the Western ranchgirl theme. I raise babydoll sheep, cashmere goats, and have two donkeys and an alpaca.
    Today I made a rice, Himalayan salt and blackberry leaf mix for a lamb with diarrhea. I also gave her a mix of kelp, baking soda, manuka honey in watere to hydrate her because she has scours.
    It seems to be working as well or better than the medicine from the farm store. Anyone else use natural medicines on their livestock?
    Jacquin
    McMinnville, Oregon

  38. Kathleen says:

    Hello Shery,
    Having grown up on a cattle ranch in the Baker Valley (Baker, Oregon) ~ I was thrilled to see a blog from a real ranch girl. My grandparents raised sheep in Thief Valley (near Baker). So, I have fond memories of all the tough but wonderful ranch life. Sadly, my parents divorced in 1961 and I had to move to Portland, Oregon ~ leaving the ranch life behind ~ but it will always be in me forever. Now you bring it all back to me through your writings. There will never be anything that smells so good as livestock smells and hay stacked in a barn ~ or a summer thunder and lightening storm, while being in that same barn. Awh … the smells of the wet but warm steaming earth. It, of course, is all over with in a short time ~ and then the storm and life moves on. Keep up the wonderful writings so we all can re-live what we fondly remember and love.

  39. Kristeen says:

    Can a 50 year old woman still hope for a farm?
    I’ve dreamed and dreamed of owning a farm … is it to late – wink!
    You said " What is true of other Farmgirls is equally true of me. Being a Farmgirl is a condition of the heart and a place where your spirit feels especially welcome, like a wonderful childhood memory of when you walked through the door at Grandma’s house." Your words are right from my heart — so is it to late?

  40. Hi, I am back on the farm where I spent most of my life. You have helped me make a decision I have been putting off for about 6 months. I want to get back to the simple life. We have 5 hogs, 8 chickens, 8 goats and a horse. I really hope that your musing is a great success. It is both exciting and comforting to us.

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