Cold Foe and Warm Friends

Winter Storm Alfred reared its ugly head on October 29th, hitting Connecticut with one of the earliest snow storms anyone‘s ever seen. Nobody believed the forecast, and were we sorry! No one was prepared for what happened next. Have you ever been caught off guard by extreme weather?

Winter Storm Alfred dropped a blanket of snow within minutes of starting…

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  1. Debbie says:

    Oh Nicole,
    Talk about getting hit from all sides at once. Well, you persevered like the true Farmgirl you are and lucky you to have surrounded yourself with equally good friends to help you in a pinch. We have not been surprised by bad weather to the extent that you just shared,but so many in MA lost power during Hurricane Irene and again with the storm that came before Halloween… That was mostly high winds and rain. Wait a minute, what am I thinking? There was the time that my husbands 21 foot sea craft sank after the hull filled up with water due to a failed bilge pump. Weather wasn’t the cause of it, but the combined efforts of our beach community saved his boat and the motor ( which is usually dust after being exposed to salt water ). We named our boat Bottoms Up and it continues to be a great source of entertainment and a reminder of the meaning of friendship and community. Thanks again for another great post!
    Lets hope this winter goes a little easier on us East Coat farmgirls!!!

    Happy Thanksgiving!
    Deb ( Your MJF Beach Blogging Sister )

    Hi Deb!  I hear ya!  I hope this is not a sign of what’s to come this Winter.  Love the name of your boat!  You make me smile!  Farmgirl hugs, Nicole

  2. Susabelle says:

    When I still lived in Missouri, we had a massive ice storm. People were out of power for days, even weeks. We were fortunate to live in a neighborhood that had power underground, and we offered our home (and heat, food, washer/dryer) to anyone who needed it. I think in days past, neighbors took care of each other, and we don’t realize how much we need each other until something happens!

    I’m glad the fish is okay. Your kids will be talking about this for the rest of their lives!

    Susabelle, Thank you for reading and commenting.  We have often wondered living here why our lines aren’t underground, especially with all the trees we have!  I’m sure your neighbors in Missouri always remembered your kindness.  -Nicole

  3. Christine says:

    How wonderful – thank you for sharing. Similar things happened down here in TX after Hurricane Ike at my old house (not our farm). All of the neighbors suddenly came out to meet each other since they had no TV to watch!! My sweetie’s employer sent labor crew (since he was out of state on a job at the time)to rip out my water logged stinky carpet so it wouldn’t continue to progress to dangerous unsanitary conditions. You have given me something to think about at our new farm – it is on well water, and we have 3 freezers. I know we can run some things using his extra welding machine, and do a lot of grilling out. But since the whole house is electric, I bet we need to think about how the well will be if we lose power!!! Always good to prep & your story has gifted me awareness of that water well!!! Hugs!
    Christine from BaileyVille Farm, SantaFe,TX

    Hey Christine,  My roots and family are in Texas.  Sure do miss it at times!  I’ve heard from them how hard Ike was down there, and when I went home was sad to see some of the landmarks that were gone.  I’m going to make sure I take better precautions this winter when they warn of storms, and hopefully we don’t go through it again.  Hugs from CT, Nicole

  4. Karin Weaver says:

    I am so happy everything worked out well for you. The kindness of such friends will never be forgotten. I had my husband read this as we live on a farm in a very isolated area and without electricity we would not have water or heat. We have a wood burning stove but without electricity no blower but it is better than nothing. Your story has finally gotten my husband to buy that generator (ok maybe that is a "we need to get one" statement). I still would be hauling water out to our 9 horses and 2 miniature donkeys (Scooby and Shaggy) and that would be quite a feat. I pray we never have to use that generator but living in Missouri one never knows… Thank you and stay warm…

    Thank you Karin!  It was a bitter pill to swallow, but we had to get another generator to be prepared for next time (I shudder at THAT thought).  The first one served us over ten years, and it can’t be repaired.  I learned the hard way – better to be safe than sorry.  Give those horses and mini donkeys a pat for me.  I love miniature donkeys!  Stay warm and Happy Thanksgiving. – Nicole

  5. Sandy says:

    Nicole, what a story! Sounds like everything that could go wrong did.

    We have had many bad weather surprises here in Minnesota. Too many to tell! Many times with no power, once for a week, snow coming too early like mid-October and staying all winter with kids toys in the back yard under feet of snow until spring!

    Why electric lines are not underground…..$$$$$

    Glad you’re back to normal!

    Thanks Sandy!  Happy Thanksgiving! – Nicole

  6. Karin says:

    I’ve lived through more weather related stuff in my life than I want to think about. Grew up near Lake Michigan (snow and tornadoes), Have live in the south for 40 years (hurricanes, floods, etc). Your blog brought to mind what happened to us in February of this year. We were pulling a 16 foot trailer to the house we bought in Indiana. This house has a vertical driveway with two switchbacks in it (What were we thinking?) There had been an ice storm and than thaw. Half way up the drive the trailer slid sideways and got stuck. We tried everything we could think of, to no avail. So we started unloading and carrying things up the hill, thinking we might get out if the trailer wasn’t full. Suddenly a man and two teenagers walked up the drive from a cabin farther down the road. To make a long story short, he actually managed to pull the trailer out of the ditch with the comealong on his 4-wheeler, then he and the kids helped us unload the rest of the stuff. Somehow he next managed to drive his 4-wheel drive Suburban in front of the trailer and pull it up the hill. The kids helped me get things in the house because it was staring to rain. They were absolutely wonderful and I was so thankful that God put them there that weekend, because they only visit occasionally. We’ve seen them a few more times and they are great neighbors.
    Karin
    Farmgirl #2708

    Wow, Karin. You are lucky to have those neighbors, and that they were there for you that day.  Thanks for commenting.  Have a wonderful Holiday! -Nicole

  7. Libbie says:

    I am SO glad that you and yours are okay. It sounds like Alfred was a beast. When you mentioned the pumpkin bread gift, it made me think of when I had my babies and women from the LDS Relief Society brought meals to my home for the fist little while. Women that I didn’t even know, but who had been made aware that I was a new mom, and possibly (okay, PROBABLY) overwhelmed. So kind, and so helpful. It’s true, no farmgirl is an island, and that’s a WONDERFUL thing… xoxo, Libbie

    I love that, "No farmgirl is an island."  Thank you, Libbie!  Big hugs. – Nicole

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Paper Books – A Thing of the Past?

I’m off to our library today. My daughter’s key chain collection was featured in the glass showcases for October. Our library’s a treasured place, and for a small town, it’s a great meeting place full of books, activities, and museum-worthy treasures in cases illustrating the town’s history. Our townspeople are very proud of it. Stepping inside, I’m reminded of how reading has shaped who I am and where I’ve been.

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  1. CC says:

    Oh my dilemma! we have a Kindle & use it as our library now allows for check out of digital books … but like you, I love having the books to physically touch and lovingly turn the pages! It’s much easier to carry multiples of books on the Kindle (waiting at the dentist or doctors office – don’t have to resort to 2 year old germy magazines, or traveling – this weighs so much less! I have a small library with me this way) — but put me outside in my porch swing and I want to hold a book .. and I want to give my favorites to new moms to start their child’s library and I never have to worry about electricity or battery life when I have a real book.

    CC, isn’t that true?  Valid points, for sure.  Thanks for reading! -Nicole

  2. Donna says:

    I will never give up paper books! They are like friends.
    Books are cherished by me and I want to share that love with friends and family.
    I may request a copy of Jane Eyre be placed inside my casket when I die!

    Donna, love it!  Thanks for commenting!  -Nicole

  3. Lisa Holderman says:

    Hi Nicole,
    My mother and I have pondered this together many times and we both agree that while the other is convenient there are MANY more reasons to go with paper books. For one, the technology won’t change, like we have seen with music and movies. That keeps things simpler. Another reason is that paper books can be handed down from generation to generation and friend to friend. (My mom always writes in her books the date she reads it and a little note on how she felt after she read it. We both find ourselves re-reading books and strangely enough when we go to record the date it is very close to the time we read it last.) It is true that e-books are probably more green than paper, BUT many of our books are being published on recycled paper and when technology changes where do all those handy devices end up? The enviornmentalist in me appreciates and loves knowing that my books will be recycled…one way or another. Plus paper books help us to be social…we go to the library and bookstores and meet up with others we know. In a world where technology seems to make us more and more anti-social and non-communicative, paper books can actually bring people together. So, I for one, hope and pray that the paper book never goes away. I love to feel it in my hand, I love how they look in my bookcase and love sharing them with family and friends. Long live paper!

    Lisa, Nicely put.  Isn’t that the truth?  Also, if you drop a book…nothing happens! -Nicole

  4. Rebecca says:

    As always, I really enjoyed your column today.

    I have gone back and forth with the idea of virtual books versus "real book". It might be nice as a convenience or saving space on a vacation but I don’t think I could ever give up "real book". I do love the feel of a good book.

    I still have the Little House Series collection from when my kids were young. In 2012 I will be a grandmother for the first time, actually twice since both of my son’s wives are pregnant and due about six weeks apart (this should be fun). I can’t wait to read the Little House books to my grandchildren when they are old enough. I can’t imagine reading it to them from an electronic reader.

    Thanks again for a wonderful column as usual.

    Rebecca, CONGRATULATIONS!  So exciting that you have grandbabies on the way.  Thank you  for reading.  I share your feeling – it’s not the same to read to a little one with an electronic book, handy or not.  – Nicole

  5. Denise Krawiec says:

    The new paperless books make me sad, I enjoy holding a book,turning the pages and curling up with a glass of lemonaide in the summer or a cup of tea in the winter.I too have childhood favs:The Littlehouse Books,Seasore Summer,The Five Little Peppers That Grew,The Street Sparrows. Also, nowadays,anything by Maeve Binchy.I feel bad for todays kids,I feel like some of them won’t know the joy of holding a book for fun. As for me, I’m gonna’go read!

    Denise, I will look into your suggestions.  Thanks!  -Nicole

  6. April says:

    Perish the thought! (I’m always so comforted that in the Star Trek future, Captain Picard was often seen relaxing with an old, leatherbound book.) I still love to give and get books as gifts, a much more delectable process with something that can be wrapped. I was very slow climbing onto the e-reader bandwagon, and while I love my Nook, I will never part with the old friends lining my bookshelves. Electronic formats come and go, but print is eternal. I hope. (Austen, Alcott and Montgomery are very close to my heart, as are the "Little House" books which seem to not be digitized yet.)

    April, thank you for reading.  I’m smiling at the Captain Picard mention!  -Nicole

  7. Patricia says:

    The "Little House Books" of course, I read them to all 7 of my children. Gone with the wind is a treasured book, as a child I enjoyed "Blueberry Summer" also most mysteries (as a child and now as an adult). To me you can’t cuddle up with a good nook, a hot cup of tea and a good nook??? I’ll stick with "real" books as long as I’m able to obtain them. I’ve written you several times before, I enjoy your posts. Thank you.

    Patricia, Gone With the Wind…how could I forget that one?  I’ve read that pne several times, starting with grade school.  I always wondered what Margaret Mitchell herself would have done with those characters had she lived to write a sequel.  Thank you again for reading, and commenting.  It means so very much to me!  Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole

  8. Debbe says:

    Oh Nicole, I think I could make the same stack of books in your bottom photo in our house too! I must admit, I have not used the paperless option for reading books. We don’t travel much and we ( hubs and I ) love the real thing. We just installed new reading lamps over our bed so we can cozy up this winter and read! I have too many favorite books to mention, but I will admit to MJF Life book being at the top of my top ten.. It’s my "everything good" bible and always just a reach away on my night stand. And it’s autographed too! Extra special. Sharon Lovejoy comes next in my favorite’s list. She is a wonderful writer and illustrator who’s mission in life is to cultivate wonder for all ages! I have some signed copies from her too! My mother in laws house has some real treasures…from the late 1800’s with some of the most amazing illustrations.! Oh gosh, I could go on… sure you don’t just want to come over for a cup of tea and we could chat books all day?
    Thanks for this great entry today!
    Your MJF blogging sister from the Beach!
    Deb

    PS. Your daughters collection of key chains in the show case window reminds me of our local libraries as well. Our son featured his Star Wars Lego collection once!

    Hey Deb, darlin’…maybe we CAN meet one day…I am sure we would have lots to talk about!  Fun!  I would love to see some of those books your mother-in-law has…tangible history.  My mother has a Bible that she and her husband found in an antique store.  It was carried around by a Civil War soldier.  The things he wrote it in are just amazing, and to hold it in your hand is an amazing feeling, knowing that this was his prized, dear possession.  Hope you are staying warm in MA…CT was devastated this week by a storm.  Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole

  9. Louise Marie says:

    Thank you for this topic. I also have loved books since I can remember. Oh, the places I have been and the people I have known intimately between the covers of books. The little lifeless machines that come alive with the books brought to us now are wonderful. However, i will always love the paper kinds in a more personal way. I can’t wait to read The Delaney Sisters’……….

    Louise Marie, drop me a line and let me know if you read it and what you think!  Always interesting to get others’ opinions on books we love.  I just read Water for Elephants.  One close friend loved it, too, another couldn’t get past the first few chapters.  Me, I was sad when it ended.  -Nicole

  10. Pam Bradley says:

    Loved your article, makes me feel guilty about loving my Kindle … there is definitely something to be said for those cherished dog-eared books of our past … My two year old granddaughter loves her books, and we turn the same pages over and over … so thanks for sharing your "love" … I will still enjoy my Kindle (albeit without the warm fuzzy feelings!)

    No guilt intended, my dear!  Enjoy! Thank you for commenting! -Nicole

  11. Adrienne Kristine says:

    I too had a set of the Childcraft encyclopedia and could read by the time I was 3. I remember all the wonderful poems and stories from volume 1. Whatever their monetary value, the books were priceless for engaging young readers.

    I wonder how many hours I spent reading and re-reading my mom’s set?  Thank you for reading, Adrienne.  -Nicole

  12. Laurie Dimino says:

    Hi Nicole,
    As usual I can totally relate to your blog. There are many times that I toy with the idea of getting an "E-Reader", such as a Nook Color etc. But I just feel like, even for soemthing as simple as a magazine I would miss turning the pages, and feeling the paper. Somehow it just doesnt seem the same, using an electronic device to "read". I happen to be one that is not real fond of all things technology. I accept it and agree that it is useful in some aspects, but I also look at technology as a negative thing in our society. I for one will not be too quick to "move on" to electronic reading. I think I will always favor a real book.

    Laurie, thank you again for reading.  When my brother (who doesn’t even have an email) got an e-reader, I ran outside to look in the sky for flying pigs!  He loves his.  I am happy I have books, for sure this week.  We lost power in a storm, and my books don’t have to be charged!  -Nicole

  13. Joy Howard says:

    My grandmother had a set of Childcraft books too. I read every one cover to cover. When I was about 7, I was allowed to walk to the library by myself. I didn’t know what books to read so I started with the A’s. Thank goodness the librarian noticed and asked me what I was doing. When I explained, she picked out books for me to read. When I read those, she picked some more. I ended up reading all of Jack London’s books and I was hooked. I have a Kindle but I love my books. My favorite author is Diana Gabaldon. Love her writing.

    Joy, Cute story, thank you for sharing!  -Nicole

  14. Marilyn says:

    I love books. There is such a thrill to having a book to cherish and reread over and over. My favorite authors are R.Delderfield, Eugenie Price, B.J. Hoff, Louisa May Alcott, Laura Lee Hope and too many more to mention.
    I love browsing through book sales. There is nothing like the excitement of finding a book you have been searching for. I have a collection of Bobbsey Twins and Honey Bunch books my twin sister and I loved to read as children. My older sister has a great collection of Nancy Drew, Beverly Gray and Judy Bolton series. I love to reread some of these books from my childhood!
    Nicole, thanks for this subject of paperbacks.I enjoyed reading all the comments too.
    Marilyn

    Oh, Marilyn, thank you! When you mentioned The Bobbsey Twins, you brought me back to second grade. My school library had a complete collection from years before, and I spent many happy days pouring through them. I also remember a Christmas Eve where my dad and I had a day together alone while my mom was shopping. We went in to a used book store, and he bought me my first Nancy Drew book. It was a happy memory. Thanks for reading! -Nicole 

  15. Gramma says:

    I can really relate to your old set of books…I finally located my treasured 10 vol. set of "The Junior Classics" by Collier. I had these books in the late 40’s and remembered one story that really stood out. I cried when I re-read it 3 years ago. I have been reading the books cover to cover since then and wish my grandkids weren’t all grown up… well, I do have one 4 yr old… the other 9 are over 18. Maybe I will start with the great-grandkids. Kindles will NEVER take the place of my books. I love turning the pages and feeling the book. Can’t teach this old mutt new tricks!

    "Gramma", loved your comment, you made me smile. Thank you! Isn’t it a great feeling to find a favorite book you haven’t seen in ages?  It’s like catching up with an old friend. Farmgirl hugs to you. -Nicole

  16. KimberlyD says:

    My favorite book when I was little was The Pokey Little Puppy, and then my mom signed me up for the Dr Seuss books through the mail. I loved books since I was tiny. Little House on the Praire, Hardy Boys, Nancy Drew, Bengi, Black Stallion, and I use to love looking through our encycopedia’s. I did buy a nook, for I have arthritist in my shoulders and its gotten heavy to carry books in my purse, and I take my dad to his appointments so I have a book to read, but I kept a few of my favorite authors.

    That is a valid point, Kimberly…the ebooks are so nice for travel. I see a common thread…all of us ‘farmgirls’ grew up reading Little House! Thanks so much for reading, Kimberly! -Nicole

  17. Sheila Belveal says:

    I have loved reading since I was little. My Mother gave me an old book that she read as a young woman "Clara Barton, The WACS". I think that was the title. I really enjoyed it. She also gave me one titled "Tomas’ Takes Charge" That one I must have read two or three times. My dear Grandmother started me on the Emilie Loring set. She gave me 5 of them and then I collected the rest of the set of 50 books over the years from used book stores and yard sales till I had the entire set. Loved reading them. I also love Diana Gabaldon.

    Sheila, how much fun the "hunting" must have been to locate all fifty volumes of that book set! Thanks for reading and commenting!  -Nicole

  18. Carla J says:

    I have always, and always will be, an avid "bookie". Love to hold the book in my hands and travel along through the pages. Yet, I do use a kindle app on my phone to let me carry, what I call, "fluff" – those books to fill the waiting time at appts, even in line at the store.
    I buy books written by my favorite authors to savor and reread; Madeline Engle, Lewis Carroll, Sandra Dallas, Lauraine Snelling, Eugenia Price, Anne River Sidons, Pat Conroy, along with many quilt history books and biographies.
    I also have saved favorite books of my parents and children to pass on.
    Books, in the paper form, will always be a part of my life.

    I agree, Carla.  Both are nice from time to time, but my favorite is a real book.  – Nicole

  19. diane h says:

    Funny you would bring up the Childcraft books…I loved those books, especially the book of poetry…I remember in school using that book as a reference when I need to find a poem to memorize…I have a copy of that book, though not the one my mom had, but I love it just the same…and you know what…my kids used it as a reference when they were growing up…it is funny that when I see that book it has the ability to touch a place deep in my heart and memory…

    Diane, they were magical books, weren’t they?  Thank you for reading.  -Nicole

  20. Debbie Shue says:

    I love books too. I love to read them, hold them, turn the pages and even smell them. Nothing is more fun to me than browsing at the library or a used book store and finding a treasure. Yes I have a kindle and it comes in handy but will never replace a real hold in your hand book.

    Debbie, so true!  -Nicole

  21. Valerie says:

    I love to read books and can’t imagine not purchasing them or being without libraries. I do have a kindle but do not use it too often, mostly due to the fact that the paper books I purchase I want to hand off to family and friends (which none of them have a kindle and some do not have computers). I of course love to share books with others so this is a major downfall for me with electronic books. Besides who doesn’t enjoy curling up with a good book?

    So true!  Thanks for reading! -Nicole

  22. Judy says:

    Why can’t the two exsist side by side? I love both, do we have to be exclusive? I read all the wonderful Farmgirl blogs on my iPad…were it not for that device, I would not hamve discovered all you interesting people. So something is to be said for both camps.

    Judy, I’m not against technology, by far. Because of the Internet, my life is enriched immensely by the Farmgirl Connection, writing this blog, and MaryJane. I can say I have friends all over the U.S. and abroad because of technology.   Thanks for reading and commenting! -Nicole

  23. Diane Stallings says:

    I really enjoyed your article! Making books available both ways is now so important. As much as we can all benefit from the convenience of using electronic devices, the actual pages to touch make certain books and memories real ‘keepers’.

    I agree!  Thanks for reading! -Nicole

  24. Rose says:

    I like having a book and documents stored on my iphone for quick access while traveling. However, I prefer to read novels from the actual printed book. There is something about reading a book with the beautiful illustrations in it. I enjoy reading private notes that previous owners put in them.
    Like you, I enjoy book sales at libraries. I collect old books on animals, cooking and travel. Growing up, I read my sister’s hand-me-down Nancy Drew books over and over. I felt closer to my sister when reading these books even though it was 10 years later and she was about 1,000 miles away.
    Great topic and another great blog!

    Rose, what a sweet sentiment about your sister.  Thank you so much for sharing.  -Nicole

  25. Karin says:

    I have loved books since I was small. Love the feel, the smell, just holding them. When I was old enough (according to my parents; I thought I was ready much sooner), my dad would drop me off at our old hometown library (one of the beautiful Carnegie buildings, sadly now gone to make room for a concrete box)on his way back to work after lunch and pick me up when he got off at 5:00. Four wonderful hours to curl up in one of the big chairs by a tall window and read whatever I wanted! It was magic. Laura Ingalls Wilder, Jan Karon, Agatha Christie, the list goes on forever. I love to have books around and it’s very hard for me to send any of them away. Both of my grown kids are voracious readers and my son’s babies are taking after him. Recently my grandson lost a tooth and the tooth fairy left him a book. He was ecstatic. The worst punishment for either one of them is to take away one of their books at bedtime. I can see where electronic books come in handy waiting at doctor’s offices or traveling, but give my a real book any day.

    Karin, thank you so  much for sharing!  I love that the tooth fairy left your grandson a book.  How great is that?  -Nicole

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  27. Loreta Watkins says:

    Reading these comments brings back great memories; my favorite Emilie Loring book was "The Shadow of Suspicion". I also love the Gabaldon books and have autographed hardcopies in my library. The new house is craftsman style and has 2 glass bookcases flanking the living room fireplace. I read Vintage Notions this morning, while sipping coffee. Aren’t we blessed to know how to read? Thanks for your blog.

    Loreta, Thank you so much for reading and commenting! Your reading spot sounds so cozy!  Enjoy! -Nicole

  28. This is my first visit to your blog, and I’m sitting here smiling with memories of Childcraft. No e-book will ever replace the smell and feel of a book that has become an old friend. Louisa May Alcott, Tasha Tudor, Judith Viorst and many others vie for space on my (nearly wall-to-wall) bookshelves, and in my heart. I now am enjoying watching my 5 year old and 20 month old granddaughters fall in love with books and reading. Life is good!

    Welcome, Fawn!  Thanks for reading.  I agree with you on that!  Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole

  29. Beverly Hatfield says:

    I have never used a Kindle or any such device. Lord willing, never will;) We live in such a high paced, technological world that simple pleasures MUST have a place. There is nothing like sitting down to read a good book or series of books. I call them "reading vacations". They bring rest to my soul and rest to my body and mind.

    As for my favorites, too many to share but probably Little Women and Little Men. My sister and I were given a set in 1972 and then a set of Pride and Prejudice and Sense and Sensability in 1972. We were 11 and 12. I hoarded the Louisa May Alcott set and she the Jane Austin set. When I was younger I read my set at least once a year but sometimes 2 or 3. I read it to my children at least 3 times. I hadn’t read them in about 8 or 10 years and decided to read them again this winter. Doesn’t matter how many times I read them I always cry in the same places, laugh at the same escapades and delight in the charm of these dear books.

    Another set that I have read a number of times as a child and then passed on to many young girls is the Betsy – Tacy serier. What a delightful and charming series of days gone by.

    Fun, fun, fun!

    Beverly, I agree.  I re-read my favorites over and over, too.  It’s like visiting with old friends.  Farmgirl hugs, Nicole

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Little Fish, Big Impact

We lost a member of the household today – the pet fish. Dealing with the loss of a pet is a rite of passage for a parent, unfortunately. It’s when your heart tugs at you, but you realize, “Yikes! I’m the adult here… I have to keep it together.” What do you do when your child’s heart is breaking?

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  1. Debbie says:

    Hi Nicole,
    This is a (bitter)sweet story. We can relate…Our first pet passing was a beta fish too, but the kids were very small then and not too attatched… The hard blow came later on with the passing of their first guinea pig, Pedro (named after Pedro Martinez when he was with the Red Sox).
    he was the alpha of our four guinea pigs and, our sons favorite. There were many tears when he left us and we too had a " funeral " in our back yard for him. Thank you for sharing your story and good luck with " Pumpkin ". Cute!

    Deb, your Beach Blogging sister!

    Deb, It’s so hard not to get attached to your pets, no matter how small, right?  I love the name of your guinea pig.  We have a neighbor around the corner who has an elderly dog named Jeter, after Derek Jeter.  When he was young, he used to always come visit us.  Now that he’s older, he doesn’t come around anymore.  Keep your fingers crossed for us with the new fish!  Thanks for commenting!  -Nicole

  2. Louise Marie says:

    How sweet. I am sure that you remember the quote, "It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all." I am so pleased that you allow your daughter to love a pet, then to be there to soften the blow when that pet dies. You taught her how to love and care for the pets in her life. She even knows how to say goodbye in her own appropriate way. No ceramic sea funeral for this baby fish. So, I am commending you for being a loving and thoughtful mother of a child with pets. God bless you.

    Wow, Louise Marie, thank you so much for such a wonderful compliment!  It means so much.  -Nicole  

  3. Priscilla says:

    This brings back memories! I have four children, ages 22 on down to 15. My 18 year old has always been a particularly sensitive child (as well as so strong-willed, her nick-name was Taz when she was a toddler). She is a gifted artist, and was mystical from the time she could talk. When she was about four she was so distressed over a dying bug in the garage that I ended up making it disappear and then buried it (she said, "a man with wings reached down and took it to heaven!) Right now we have several frozen fish in baggies that were waiting for a spring burial and need to get rounded up and buried before the snow falls again! No flushing here either! The best and worst of times was when I was grandma to two hamsters in succession, Nadia and Cinnamon. They only live about two years and the depth of grief at our house(yes, I cried too) was so much that we decided not to get any more pets that have such short life-spans and are prone to many illnesses(why they have been used as lab animals in the past). Still, our lives have been enriched by pets–furry and finned alike. I am proud that the two youngest, still at home, insist on going to the vets whenever a pet has to be euthanized and give TLC to them as they quietly pass. Death is a part of life and my children have learned to celebrate life even in sorrow.

  4. Joann Carlson says:

    So sorry to hear about the fish. Understand fish funerals, and mice funerals (had many of those) and dogs, and kitties. Our last little dog had to be put to sleep on September 19th. Only 4 1/2. Enlarged heart. So sad! We did doggie day care for the rescue person that we had gotten our other dog from the following week-end. We made a decision to keep this one. Too hard not having one. This one is 6 but our vet says she is healthy. May we have her much longer than 4 years in our care. May your next fish last much longer. Our daughter has had one for years. It even jumped from the bowl at least once but survived. Even in a house with cats.

    Thank you, Joann.  May you have your pup a long, long time! -Nicole

  5. Janice K> says:

    You daughter is a child after my own heart…I have always been one to care deeply about animals in any form. Heck, I even take spiders that I find in the house outside!
    I think that teaching your child to be a warm and caring person is simply wonderful. I can imagine that she (and you!) treat people in the same manner. We need more kind and compassionate people on this earth…
    Greetings to beautiful Pumpkin!

    Janice, thank you.  Yes, my daughter is a really sweet, sensitive little girl, and my best friend. I’m a lucky mom!  She really likes your comment.  Thanks so much for reading.  -Nicole

  6. Diana says:

    What a great memorial set up for a beloved part of your family! That’s the difference with some people, viewing pets as material possessions which can be given away or tossed in the trash as opposed to including them as part of the family.
    We’ve always included them as part of ours (for better or worse!!). Pets have a way of teaching us so much and are always such a blessing!! Here’s to a long beta life for Pumpkin!!

  7. Lynell says:

    Now we know who the sensible one is here. Great post!

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Time for Pie!

Have you ever entered a baking contest? I hadn’t, until recently. Grab some coffee (and maybe a slice of pie…you’ll crave it soon, for sure), and I’ll tell you about my recent pie-baking adventure.

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  1. Rebecca says:

    Congratulations! That looked like such fun.

    By the way, I love reading your blog, it is so interesting.

    Thank you, Rebecca!  -Nicole

  2. Jeanne says:

    Congratulations..I love cherry pie. It has been my favorite since I was a little girl. I loved my mother’s cherry pie. She made it with tart cherries and sometimes mixed in sweet cherries with the tart. When my children were small we visited my mother at her house in Palm Springs. It was 117 degrees. That afternoon she came home from work early and decided to take us to a little town called Beaumont in California. Up in the mountains where the temperature was much cooler and they had a petting zoo for the children. But best of all they were getting ready for their annual cherry festival that weekend. They had cherry orchards in their town. I had cherry pie which was delicious and bought some cherry jam. It was a glorious day. One of the best days ever. Thank you for the reminding me of this memory.

    Jeanne, what a lovely memory to share!  Thank you.  Hmmm….cherry jam..I should try to make some of that.  You just reminded me of going to my grandmother’s and having some cherry jam! I’d forgotten about that.   Thank you for reading and commenting! -Nicole

  3. Joan says:

    CONGRATULATIONS Nicole!!!!! I was always told -‘one never fails – unless one does not try.’ You make this old saying proof. Tart/sour cherry pie is my favorite too. When I was a child I lived with my Grandparents on a FARM/ORCHARD/GARDEN – yes all in caps because it was huge – one year my Grandfather said ‘doesn’t seem anyone really likes the cherries so let’s make room for something else’ – WHAT ‘I love cherries!!!! – I will take care of the trees’ and that I did – my Grandma was not well but she would come out to the orchard with me – I’d carry her a chair to sit on – and she would point out the ripest cherries – as I was up in the tree. Oh my, see the tears of joyful memories you have brought to me – THANKS and do TRY!!!!

    Joan, sounds like the time you had with your grandparents was such a blessing!  I bet that orchard was beautiful.  Thank you so very much for sharing. – Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole

  4. Janice K. says:

    Congratulations! The best cherry pie that I ever had was made by my mom. Back in those days we even had a pie cherry tree…Mom taught me to pinch around the edge of my pie crust. She trimmed the pie crust to the same size (maybe an inch and a half larger than pie plate), rolled the bottom over the top and then it was my job to pinch the edges all the way around with my ‘pinchy’ fingers.
    My claim to fame is my apple pie. I always brush the top crust with a little milk or buttermilk (also a trick of my mom!) when it is toward the end of baking and then sprinkle it with sugar and cinnamon. It comes out so yummy..

    Your pie was beautiful. I am glad that you overcame your fears!

    Janice, thank you!  I love your tip about your apple pie.  It’s apple picking season here in New England, I’ll be making apple pie soon.  Can’t wait to try your buttermilk/cinnamon/sugar trick for the top of the crust!  -Nicole

  5. ella says:

    Good for you, Nicole! Taking that step and winning that prize must give you extra confidence to do some other things you’ve only dreamed of. Blessed journey!

    Thank you, Ella!  It was fun, too, because it was such a "vintage" type of thing to do, right up my alley! -Nicole

  6. Barb says:

    Mmmmm… Nothing better than a GREAT Cherry Pie!! Well done girl!!

    Thank you!  🙂  – Nicole

  7. donna says:

    Hurray for you!!!! This seems to be pie baking time of the year..Cherry Pie is my favorite too…my g-ma worked at a day & night restaurant in her working days..and everything was homemade..maybe that is why making pies is my favorite..to carry on the family tradition. Lancaster, Pa. is probably most famous for their shoo-fly pie..and your best chance of getting homemade..I live close.

    Donna, you lucky girl!  I also had several slices of shoo-fly pie on our last visit there several years ago.  Good stuff!  -Nicole

  8. How exciting!! I too have always wanted to enter a contest but have always shied away. Now I think I will go for it. It will be fun to just participate. And a ribbon would be even more exciting.
    Congratulations! And I am glad your husband took a chance as well and took a bite of pie. HA!
    Ms Scarlette

    Yes, and it only took a roomful of people and twenty years to get DH to taste what he’s been missing, ha ha.  Now I’m being asked to bake more cherry pies!  -Nicole

  9. bonnie ellis says:

    Way to go farmgirl! You showed them. My favorite is cherry pie also. Keep on entering. Your farmgirl friend Bonnie

    Hi Bonnie!  Thank you!  -Nicole

  10. Well, I applaud you for taking the leap of faith and trust in yourself to enter the contest. I did the same last year at our rural farm areas Potato Festival with an apron I made. I won first prize also! I too had never entered anything where everyone would be looking at it.. YIKES. My prize…. a sense of pride and $3.00 ! Deborah Rutledge

    Deborah, congratulations!  I bet it is a beautiful apron.  Did you post a pic of it on the Farmgirl Connection?  -Nicole

  11. Laurie Dimino says:

    Yay Nicole!!! Congrats on winning your first Pie contest! I love the moral of your story-so very true, and this just proves it!
    Keep on blogging….I love to read what’s happening in your neck of the woods!
    Farmgirl Smiles,
    Laurie

    Hi Laurie, thank you so much for reading and commenting.  It means so much to me!  – Nicole

  12. Ali - Farmgirl 12 says:

    Congrats! I’ve been meaning to ask you what kind of pie you entered in the contest! Thanks for posting.

    Ali

    Thank you Ali.  Maybe I’ll make one for our next Sisterhood Chapter Get-Together!  Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole

  13. Terri says:

    Congratulations! You are an inspiration – and I love reading your blogs. I enjoy your outlook on Life, including the simple things that come up everyday. Cherry pie is one of my favorites, too, but my specialty in making pies is probably rhubarb (my husband’s favorite.) I had a similar experience with the "I don’t like those". I’d made a rhubarb pie shortly before our friend Dana stopped by. We offered him a slice. He started on it slowly, then finished it up quickly, set his fork down and said, "That was some of the best pie I’ve ever had … and I don’t even like rhubarb!"

    Thank you, Terri!  Funny story!  Rhubarb is a pie I have always liked but never made myself.  -Nicole

  14. Shery says:

    Look at all those lucious pies!! My favorite sweet treat. Congratulations on your big win. You looks SO cute and so farmgirlish :o)

    Thank you Shery!:)  Pie is my favorite treat, too..I truly believe pie can fix any bad day!  Farmgirl Hugs,  Nicole

  15. Marlene Stearns says:

    Hi Nicole,
    I loved your article about cherry pie. I could almost taste it. In fact, I just might make one tomorrow, it is my husbands favorite.

    God Bless,
    Marlene

    Thanks, Marlene!  Enjoy! -Nicole

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Goodbye, Summer…Hello Fall, Entertaining Fry So Small

As a mom, my year isn’t a calendar year, but one that ends when lazy days of summer bid farewell. A new year starts with the return of fall. Even when my daughter grows up, I bet I’ll still feel that way. I still love the smell of new pencils, a fresh box of crayons, and the scent of new leather shoes! Back-to-school means a fresh start, more hectic schedules, and saying goodbye to long summer days of fun. Having grown up in a climate that is hot most of the time, I really appreciate the four seasons we have in Connecticut, savoring every minute of our short but beautiful summers. My daughter doesn’t attend camp, but has plenty to write about when her teacher asks “What did you do all summer?” Come sit a spell with me while I reminisce about what we did and share some fun ideas for entertaining young’uns.

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  1. Charles LaGroue says:

    Keep it up- each one is better then the last .  So much of what you write brings memories of when you were little running wild at the ranch.

    Love,
    Dad

    Thank you, Daddy! Love you! -Nicole

  2. meredith says:

    Hi Nicole! Thank you SO much for this post- I grew up in Ridgefield, Ct. and have such fond memories of the beautiful summers there. Your photo of the walking trail really reminded me of how beautiful my hometown is. Thanks for the walk down memory lane! Meredith

    Hi Meredith!  Thank you so much for reading.  I was just in Ridgefield recently, another lovely town.  I was happy to see Main Street hasn’t changed too much in the past years.  -Nicole

  3. Hi Nicole,
    Loved your artwork with the sunscreens. Another idea to try is to buy a blank canvas bag or apron and pick colorful flowers or ferns and arrange them on the canvas and cover with a piece of wax paper and then hit with a hammer and it transfers to the canvas. I think then you have to soak in salt water to set the colors so that they will not wash out. (It has been a long time since I made one) Just thought it might be something you and your daughter would enjoy doing.
    love reading your blogs

    Be Blessed
    Ms Scarlette

    Oh that sounds fun!  What a neat idea!  Thank you so much for sharing!  -Nicole

  4. kelly says:

    Thank you for great ideas! I can use them
    next summer when the grand kids come by. We are big bird and butterfly watchers here and the books are a great gift idea for them also when the holidays come by.

    Kelly, thank you for reading.  The books have proven to be something my whole family enjoys and my daughter does not grow out of.  Enjoy! – Nicole

  5. Betsy says:

    Hi Nicole,

    You’re right–even though my kids are grown, to me the new year begins in late August/early September. I don’t think that will ever change! Fall is such a good time for a new fresh start. Thanks for sharing this fun nature craft. Such pretty results!

    Betsy

    Thank you, Betsy!  -Nicole

  6. Denise says:

    Another great post. Thank you Nicole. We are just starting over with grand children and you have opened new ideas for educating them to their surroundings.You are definitely an inspiration.

    Thank you so much Denise!  Congratulations on your grandchildren!  -Nicole

  7. Theresa says:

    Love the Blog. Summer is a wonderful time with your children. Mine are grown now, still I hold those days close to my heart. Too many parents forget to take that time with their children. My son, now 30, can not wait to show me a new plant he is growing. My daughter has grown into 110% tree hugger. I smile and know there is a lot of my teaching and my father’s in me there. I could not of spent my life doing any thing to make me happier.

    Theresa, what a sweet, wonderful comment to the blog.  Thank you.  I feel the same way…my daughter is my greatest gift and nothing I’ve done or could do could make me as happy as being her mom.  Thank you so much for reading and commenting.  – Nicole

  8. Kirsten says:

    Love the blog Nicole! In the past 2 years I have really found my inner farm girl, and have loved sharing my farm girl-ness with my daughter Hannah(age 14). We’ve made jams together and just this summer sewed matching sun dresses, which turned out to be more like night gowns…We had fun learning to sew and laughing at the baggy results. Time with our young-ons is so precious and we should never pass up the chance to give to them the gifts that we have been given.Thanks for the listen and keep up the great work!

    Kirsten, thank you for sharing!  I bet those sundresses are adorable – and something your daughter will never forget.  Keep making those wonderful memories with your girl!  -Nicole

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The Unwanted Guest

I had planned on writing on a different topic today, but life took a turn that inspired me elsewhere.  Are you a plan-ahead type of person?  I would say I’m notorious at planning-ahead.  Maybe it’s just my personality, or the fact  I was a young Girl Scout, and the motto “Be Prepared” stuck. In any case, when we heard unwanted guest Hurricane Irene was heading our way, I got busy. But no matter how much preparation or weather reports you keep updated on, when it comes to Mother Nature, sometimes you don’t know what’s in store for you, and she reminds you of the most important life lesson.

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  1. Brenda says:

    Glad you are okay. Sometimes with out electricity it can be fun. Makes you think about what is really important. And sometimes those well made plans just go up in smoke,or down with the rain or something but the sun did come out,and again thank God you are okay.

    Brenda, thank you for commenting.  We are so thankful – it could have been so much worse!  -Nicole

  2. bonnie ellis says:

    We are glad you and your family are ok. We have been praying for the many affected by any parts of the hurricane. We have tornadoes in Minnesota so I know of the devastation. Thanks to your farmgirl spirit, you were prepared. Good luck and keep on writing. Bonnie

     Thank you, Bonnie!  -Nicole

  3. Barbara says:

    So happy no one was hurt at your house!We certainly learn how to function quickly when disaster strikes, don’t we? Still praying for everyone in Irene’s path.

  4. Sue says:

    We were hit hard here in NJ too. Lots of trees down and no power for 7 days. A generator comes in real handy.

    Sue, hope all is well with you and yours in New Jersey.  These rains aren’t helping the floods, either, I bet.  -Nicole

  5. Janice K. says:

    Gosh, Nicole! I am relieved that you and your family weathered this storm and will continue to weather many others (just maybe not this type!)….You did great planning for your basement retreat.
    I have never lived in an area prone to this type of weather activity. The closest we got here in eastern Washington state is something we locals call ‘ice storm’. I remember I was working that particular day and my mom and dad called me to tell me that everything was covered with ice and to NOT take the freeway. I dashed out to my car and started down the hill to the main street when I realized that I couldn’t see through the ice shell covering my car. When I got out to work on my windshield my hair froze automatically, sticking out on one side of my head. We also were without power and I thanked God that my husband was an electrician and had installed a generator! My folks used their motor home alot that year and when we came over for Thanksgiving, mom had cooked the turkey and side dishes, promptly finishing when the power went out again.
    I think back on this part of my life, being thankful that I had wonderful parents and a husband to help me through. As mom would say, ‘It was a tough row to hoe..’…..

    I’m sending you some positive energy! Hang in there, sweetie!

    Wow Janice, what a story!  Thank you for sharing.  We get blizzards here, but with those, we know in advance, and honestly the roads are cleared the next day.  With ice, there’s a higher chance of losing power.  What made last winter so hard was the ice and snow piled up so high, you couldn’t see the oncoming traffic when you pulled out or could walk anywhere.  Thank you for your wishes.  We are well, power here is back.  Certainly makes you appreciate it, though, when it is out for long periods!  -Nicole

  6. Joeby says:

    I am glad that you are okay. I live in Houston, north of Houston, and we were affected by Ike – 2 weeks without electricity. It was kinda fun the first week, and not so much the 2nd week. We have our 72 hour kits ready at all times – just in case. And now there are fires near by in Magnolia!
    Your chickpea and veggie salad that you made to "prepare" sounds yummy…would you be willing to share!

    Joeby – Texas is certainly being hit hard with the drought and those horrible fires!  Wish we could send our rain down to you! 

    For the chickpea salad, in a large bowl, I mix two cans of Organic Garbanzo beans, drained and rinsed, 2 large chopped tomatoes or a large handful of cherry tomatoes, 2 medium cucumbers, chopped, 1/2 cup feta cheese, 10 – 12 fresh leaves of basil, 6 – 8 leaves of fresh mint, and mix it with 1/3 cup White Wine vinegar and 1/4 cup Organic Olive Oil.  Cover and refrigerate for at least an hour or two before serving.   Enjoy!  -Nicole

  7. Mousam says:

    I am from the quiet corner of CT and there isn’t anything more intimidating then facing such storms and the aftermath of doing without a lot of things we take for granted till we don’t have them. We made it through and I am glad you and your family also. I like the laundry idea.

    Glad to hear you are doing well, too.  It was something, that storm, wasn’t it? Thank you for reading!  -Nicole

     

  8. Patricia Strain says:

    I’ve posted comments to you several times now and almost feel like we’re friends, so as one friend to another, thank goodness you and your family are okay, God Bless.

    Hi Patricia, We are both farmgirls, so that makes us friends!  Thank you so much for reading and commenting on the blog.  It means alot.  -Nicole

  9. jeannie pierce says:

    Been there, done it. Cooked on a camp stove…..windows open all around. Hanging clothes out to dry…..by the way, the washboard idea was a good one! After five days without power, we got in a groove, and then when the lights came on, we were sort of bummed!!! But only for a few minutes! What I missed most when the lights came on was the quiet.

    Jeannie, I know what you mean.  We enjoyed "hunkering down" each night before it got dark in our basement (the generator powers a part of it).  We had more family time without t.v. than we have had in ages.  I also am looking into getting a "real" clothesline.  I was inspired to do it when I read MaryJane’s book, but now really want one.  The clothes smell so fresh! Thanks for reading.  -Nicole

  10. Rachelle says:

    So glad you and your family are ok. I live here in Texas north of Houston. We are currently facing wildfires in our neck of the woods and many of our friends are evacuated and some have lost their homes. Floods, Fires and Tornados are all devestating. We are thankful that we are out of harms way at this time. Take Care we will be praying for all of you. Could you send us some rain?

    Rachelle, my prayers are there with you!  I have family where you are and have heard of some of their friends who have lost everything to those fires.  Stay safe!  Wish we could send some of the rain to you.  Watching Texas on the news is just heartbreaking (my homestate). -Nicole

  11. Cyndi says:

    I am glad you are OK and hope this next storm is nice to you too! How convenient to have that washboard! And I am lovin’ your clothesline. Don’t you wish for one up all the time?
    Blessings to you as you clean up!
    Cyndi

    Totally!  My daughter wanted her swingset back, so I am looking into a "real" clothesline.  I have to say washing with the washboard and hanging it up to dry was actually quite relaxing!  My daughter says we should get a wringer, too!  We’ll see… Thanks for reading and commenting!  -Nicole

  12. Mary Murphy says:

    Your farmgirl spirit is inspiring (and a great example to your daughter). My grown children still remember a tornado that hit here in Akron/Canton, Ohio, when they were young. It sheered the tops off seven pine trees and put the top of a huge silver maple tree in our above ground pool. It only broke a gutter on the house four feet away from the pool. We have pictures of the kids standing on huge tree trunks taken down by the storm. I’ll never forget that steam engine sound. Time to check on my emergency supplies in the basement!

    Mary, we have an above-ground pool, too.  Not too far from our huge downed trees sat the pool, and would you believe that the pool floats were still in it!  I was shocked!  They were the one thing I forgot to take in.  Thanks for the comment!  Stay safe!  -Nicole

  13. Rose says:

    Nicole,
    Another great story and great advice about being prepared for a potential storm. So many people do not heed storm warnings and get caught with no food or water and an empty tank of gas.
    I love the vintage washboard! And it is a practical item to have on hand.

    Thanks, Rose!  Thank you for reading, too.  -Nicole

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Jammin'

Isn’t everything better when homemade? I think so. Some foods, I won’t even eat unless it’s homemade. Especially jam. Are you a regular “Jammer”, or is it something you’ve thought of, but never attempted?  Well, come on in to my kitchen, as I make a batch!

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  1. Rose says:

    Interesting comment about not reusing the jar lids. Is it because they don’t form a tight seal the second time? My parents made jam and would cover the jam with wax instead of a lid. How safe was this to keep jam fresh and good to eat?
    By the way, your homemade jam is wonderful! It is worth all the hard work you put into it!

    Thank you, Rose.  Yes, with the lids they do not form the tight seal if reused, but they are so inexpensive it certainly is not worth the chance.  The rings and jars are reusable, as long as there are no cracks in the glass.  Hugs, Nicole

  2. Megan says:

    How long will the jam last unopened? I am wondering if I can make jam now with the fresh fruit available, but then save to give as Christmas gifts.

    Hi Megan!  Make your jam now, of course!  Unopened, jam can last for eighteen months if stored in a cool, dry place.  Once opened, in the fridge it can last up to two weeks for best taste.  Enjoy!  -Nicole

  3. linda says:

    Hello Nicole, I am amazed at how canning is taking off this year. Or is it that, now that I am canning too I just notice it more? I started canning for our churchs christmas boutique this Nov. I was kind of shanghied into it actually and now love it. I have about 100 jars so far of jams and relishes. My fave to make was "plum rum walnut conserve". It made me think, how about strawberry dacquire jam for the adults? I had so many organic fruits donated to me that I had to freeze them until I had time to can them all. I have, even now, strawberries and grapes (for jelly) still in the freezer, waiting. I loved your post, very encouraging. Keep up the good work. Linda

    Hi Linda!  Wow!  Those recipes sound great!  I love to try different ones!  I’ve got a few I want to give a whirl that I haven’t tried yet.  Thanks so much for reading, Linda!  Happy Jammin’! -Nicole

  4. Terri Sue says:

    You can use wax for jams.  You go through the same steps of sterilizing your jars.  Fill them a good inch of space at the topsmoothing the top as well as you can. make sure that inch of space is completely clean.  Then pour hot parrafin, (you can get this at the grocery store in the canning aisle), to 1/2-3/4 inch thick over it.  Carefully look completely around your jar to make sure the parrafin is touching the jam completely.  If you see any airholes, use a toothpick to pop them and get the wax down on the jam.  This is not my preferred method.  I use rings and lids, but at one time I had a stove that was so wimpy it couldn’t bring my canner to a boil so i had to do it this way.  It works and is safe if all precautions are taken, but you also have to deal with bits of wax in your jam. The only way to get the wax off is to break it.  You usually get big pieces of wax, but that first two or three pieces of toast are likely to have little wax shards in the jam.  There is one advantage to this method.  You can use whatever glass jars you want,  so you can reuse old jars that had something else in them, if you are only putting up a small batch and don’t want to invest in mason jars.

    Thanks for the tip, Terri Sue.  I’ve never done that, although I did see the supplies in our local hardware store.  -Nicole

  5. Debra says:

    I love to make jam. I love to see and how it all tastes. This was fun to read. Thanks

    Thank you for reading, Debra!  -Nicole

  6. Joy Howard says:

    I was determined to learn how to can this year. A co-worker volunteered his wife. She taught us how to make raspberry-fig, and blueberry jams, plus sweet pepper relish. I then made a batch of strawberry-fig jam on my own. My batch didn’t gel as well. I think the figs were too ripe. But it tastes good so I’m happy.

    Joy, it sounds delicious! Thanks for reading! -Nicole

  7. Janice K. says:

    Thanks for reminding me of the fact that I actually went to the local Mary Jane’s store and purchased Chill-Over powder awhile back! I thought that you could use it for jam…The last raspberry freezer jam that I did was sweetened with stevia. It turned out more like a fruit spread (not as sweet as most jams) and good.
    My mother-in-law does a plum jam. She starts by washing and pitting her plums and putting them in the oven in a turkey roaster with some water. She cooks them down and sweetens them with a little sugar. She even places the jars in the oven in a pan of water to start the sealing process. I researched this part and read that it was not safe, though I won’t tell her! She’s been doing it for years….
    Next I will try your version!!
    Good ideas and lots of fun!

    Janice, my sisterhood chapter and I took a canning class last year at our local extension.  I agree with them, safety must be the first precaution, and using the boiling method for jam, I don’t worry, as that is the preferred method.  If canning low-acid foods, (green beans, etc.) then a pressure canner must be used. I haven’t tried Stevia, but sure was happy with MaryJane’s Chillover Powder.  Have fun!  -Nicole

  8. Kathy says:

    Yummy! Strawberry is my favorite!! Have some on an english muffin with a little melted butter. A cup of tea or coffee…the perfect snack when watching the snow fall.
    My daughter and I canned our very first time this summer. Tomatoes. It should make for a good base to a winter stew this year.
    take care

    Hi Kathy!  Isn’t a little jam in the winter like a mouthful of summer sun?  I think so… big hugs to you!  -Nicole

  9. Mary Murphy says:

    I like making jam and make apple butter every fall with crate-priced apples from the local apple orchard. I was glad to see you working on a smooth-top stove. When I got mine (I love it) I was told by someone that "you can’t can on a smooth-top stove." That made me move to freezing my jams and butters (not as nice to give as gifts). Your article here made me pull out my Use and Care Guide and finally read up on "Home Canning Tips." Whadda ya know? I can can as long as I use a flat bottom pan. Off to can some blackberry jam!

    Thanks for writing, Mary.  Blackberry jam – yummy!  That’s one of my favorites.  I used to have a gas stove, and was talked into the smooth top by the salesperson years ago, but I have to admit the only issue I have with it when canning is that it is easier to scorch the bottom of the pan if you aren’t careful, as the heat doesn’t turn down as quickly as with gas.  Just keep stirring and watching, and you will be fine!  Have fun!  -Nicole

  10. Nancy Buchanan says:

    Have made jam, jelly and conserve for 40 years and like you I was hooked from the first batch. It is the best anti-depression "medication" there is. I can really clear my head, forget work and praise the Lord and have a great gift at the end of the day. Keep on cooking Ladies.

    Nancy, Amen to that!  Thanks so much for reading!  -Nicole

  11. patricia says:

    Hi Nicole,
    It’s me Patricia, I’m addicted to reading your posts! This past weekend, I had a "canning party", we canned strawberry jam, spiced onions, pickles, applesauce and apple butter. I LOVE to can, it gives me such a sense of accomplishment, please keep up the wonderful posts, really makes my day!

    Patricia, oh my goodness, you are so sweet!  What a nice thing to say!  Your canning party sounds like a blast…would make a great Sisterhood Chapter activity!  Thank you again, you made MY day!  -Nicole

  12. Jeanne says:

    I can’t wait to start canning. Peaches are a big thing here this month. I live in Colorado and the peaches are incredible this year. I walked into the neighborhood fruit and veggie warehouse and the smell of peaches was overwhelming. Delicious.
    However, I looked on the internet for some clarity to as boiling the jars for the 20 minutes you suggested and the site I read said if you live at high altitude, which I do, you need to increase your boiling time an extra 10 minutes. I am so excited, I can’t wait for the little lady around the corner to open her veggie stand this morning.
    Most of the canning supplies I bought years ago from an antique auction in Kansas just because I thought it was neat old stuff, but now it will be useful.I just need to check it out for safety. Thank you for giving me the push to try something new.

     

    Jeanne, I love to make peach jam! Thanks for adding the tip for those with high altitude.  Good luck!  -Nicole

  13. Tess Sole says:

    Nicole- Love, love, love your posts!! I’ve been making jam for several years and I, too, love it! I’ve used regular and low sugar pectin but never MaryJane’s Chillover Powder. I’m looking forward to ordering some and trying it! We live in Oregon and get fresh strawberries in our garden, pick organic blueberries and sometimes, organic peaches. It really does give you such a rich sense of accomplishment and the flavors are unsurpassed. Giving it as a gift brings sunny smiles from the recipients and a warm feeling for me inside. Thank you for your encouragement.

    Hi Tess!  Thank you for the nice comment!  How fun to do the picking yourself!  We usually go peach and apple picking every year, and there are farms to pick strawberries and blueberries as well. (It always seems to rain the day we want to go)! Your garden sounds wonderful.  Thanks again for reading.  -Nicole

  14. Nella Spencer says:

    Hi Nicole, Loved your blog and the photos. I’ve been thinking about trying my hand at canning. Thought I could find a little class here in Chicago, but no luck. After reading your instructions, I’m inspired to try on my own. Thanks for boosting my confidence!

    Nella, Thanks for reading.  I’m glad you are inspired.  It is such a fun thing to do!  Good luck, I’m sure it will turn out great! -Nicole

  15. suzanne Treloar says:

    Hi Nicole,
    Loved reading your jam blog as I LOVE jamming and am trying some new stuff this year like Jalapeno and Red Bell Pepper Jam for a great Christmas look.
    Question:
    How did you make that Mason Jar soap container. Where did you get the dispenser part and how to make the hole fit just right? It’s SO cute.
    Thank you.
    Suzie Treloar

    Hi Suzie, Thank you for saying such nice things!  For my soap dispenser, I took a regular mason canning jar, lid, and ring.  I tapped a hole in the top with a hammer and nail.  The dispenser part came from an old dispenser, so I just re-purposed it.  I have only had to replace the lid part one time in two years at it got a bit rusty.  I saw in Lehman’s catalog (www.lehmans.com) that they also sell that part now, as well.  You would just need the jar.  -Nicole

  16. Suzanne Steinhiser says:

    Hi Nicole,
    I certainly enjoy all the blogs on MaryJane’s site,but I particularly liked your "jammin" post. It reminds me of when my children were young and I was full of domestic curiosity. It made me want to repurpose my life, not just my Ball jars. Thanks so much for the inspiration. Your daughter by the way is beautiful. How lucky are the both of you! Suzanne

    Oh, Suzanne, thank you so much! It makes me happy to know I’ve inspired you with my post.  Enjoy all that you do!  Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole

  17. Monique says:

    I haven’t tried canning yet, but I am working my way up to it! How long do you boil the jars and lids to sterilize before filling? How do you dry them before filling?

    Thank you for your inspirational post.

    Thanks for reading Monique!  When I do mine, I keep my jars boiling in the hot water for a minimum of 15 to 20 minutes before taking them out.
    -Nicole

  18. Caroline says:

    I made jam for the first time this past summer. We woke up early, headed to the farm, picked raspberries, and were turning them into jam within an hour. The mom of a dear friend of mine, who has been canning and preserving forever, hosted me for a hands-on canning 101 session. I am hooked! Cannot wait until next year!!

    For those who are nervous, it is so much easier than you think! Just do it!

  19. Amie says:

    Hi, I found your site by mistake when i was searching yahoo. I have to say your content is helpful. I also love the theme, its amazing!. I don’t have that much time to read all your post at the moment but I have bookmarked it. I will be back in a day or two. Thanks for a great website.

  20. Kris Ross says:

    I was looking for info on Chill Over Powder…..so it “is” like pectin but better? Less sugar? and does it firm up better? sometimes I have ended up with “syrup” instead of jam…and thats frustrating…costly and disappointing….so you recommend Chill Over powder? I want to buy some so does it last long if I decide to buy the larger amount? Any other tips you have would be great…always nice to make gifts from your kitchen also…Thanks alot! Kris in the Georgia mts.

    • Nicole Christensen says:

      Hi Kris, I have used it and like it, but for specifics, please reach out to MaryJanesFarm directly. That is who you order it from. For other jam making tips, I would say make sure you are following the latest recommendations (check out Ball canning company’s website), always use only fresh fruit, nothing mushy or bruised, and make sure everything is clean at all times while making your jam. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole

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Backyard Blunders to Backyard Bliss

Summer’s midway!  While we’ve been busy doing some favorite summer activities, sometimes things don’t turn out as planned.  Stopped at a light the other day, I noticed a bumper sticker, about the sport of golf.  It read, “I hate golf, I hate golf, nice shot… I love golf!”  Gardening can kinda be that way sometimes, too.

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  1. Janice K. says:

    Here’s an idea that I caught on a cooking show a few days back! Slice summer squash and/or zuc in thin slices and toss in a bag with flour. Brown on each side in oil. Cook some pasta reserving some of the cooking water. Toss together pasta, romano (or similar cheese), grated garlic, fried squash, some cooking water, season to tast. Yummo…Thanks for the veggie packet idea!
    By the way, my garden eater is a small baby rabbit that lives adjacent to my beans. One row gone down to the stems but I retaliated by starting some seeds in a raised bed, complete with plastic screening material..I just love my rabbits…

    Janice, that recipe sounds delish!  Thanks for sharing!  Good luck with your raised bed.  Yesterday I had a small bird in my garden, as well.  She slipped through the fencing.  I was able to free her unharmed.  Thanks for reading! -Nicole

  2. Joan says:

    Thanks for the wonderful visit – love the bumper sticker – will use it as a fun thing at our upcoming Garden Club brunch – it really speaks to most in our area this year – we had late freeze and then hail. Today it is only 55,foggy,cloudy,breezy and unless this all goes away – to ripening today. Still oh how beautiful the flower gardens look swaying in the breeze,with droplets of fog dripping from them – something different – something beautiful.

    Joan, wow, 55 degrees!  Today we are at 80 but have gotten so much rain this week.  Then down in Texas is a drought!  What a strange summer it is!  I was at the Organic Farmers Market here in town yesterday.  They said they are all having late ripening veggies too – made me feel somewhat better!  Enjoy your Garden Club brunch – sounds fun!  -Nicole

  3. Patricia says:

    Nicole,
    I’m really getting the "hang" of this! Let me say that your site inspires me, I get done reading & get off my "duff" and get busy doing SOMETHING. I appreciate you, please keep up the excellent posts…

    Wow!  Patricia, thank you so very much!  It means a lot to me!  -Nicole

  4. Susan says:

    Thanks for all the ideas. I guess it just takes something simple and you can relax, eat and be happy. By the way,, I can’t wait to try that casserole.

    Farmgirl Sister #2555

    Let me know what you think when you make it!  I just picked up some more squash myself….-Nicole

  5. Ali says:

    Great post, Nicole. I can’t wait to have my own backyard someday so I can have a veggie garden and flowers. Thanks for the recipe, too – looking forward to trying it, as well as Janice’s recipe!

  6. Jeannie says:

    Strange gardening season all across the country it seems. We are just now getting ripe tomatos which is a bit late for our Soutwest Colorado climate. My pests in the garden have been squash bugs. Bad as I hate to I grab those buggers and squash em. My gourds are absoultely beautiful?? Go figure.
    Will try your recipe too. Thanks for sharing.

  7. Laurie Dimino says:

    Nicole- As always your blog is a pleasure to read…I look forward to reading it just as much as I look forward to receiving my latest issue of MJF! Thank you for sharing a glimpse into your "suburban" farmgirl life. Living in suburbia across the sound on Long Island I can totally relate to your stories. Enjoy the rest of your summer my friend!
    Smiles,
    Laurie
    Farmgirl Sister#1403

    Thank you, Laurie, enjoy your summer, too!  -Nicole

  8. Sarah says:

    Nicole –

    Love your posts! It’s so great knowing that I’m not the only one with an abundance of green tomatoes :/ But I’m learning so much in this, my first, year of gardening. I have used your recipe for treating powdery mildew on my plants, and it saved our summer squash (yay!) but I think we may have gotten to the pumpkin and spaghetti squash too late (boo!).

    Great to see your little porch-sanctuary 🙂 I have a back porch area that helps wash all my gardening woes away (or at least relax while I plan my attack for next year…like planting my first cut-flower garden:)

    Thanks again – Blessings to you and your garden!

  9. China says:

    Great stuff, you helped me out so much!

  10. Rose Plated says:

    Congratulations on the little corner of heaven that you have there! I really enjoyed your post!

  11. Suryanah says:

    Have you tried tomato leaf tea? Soak tomato leaves in water over night, drain out leaves, use as spray on garden. It is good for most soft bodied bugs like afids. Diatrimatious Earth, made of powdered sea creature skeletons, found in the pool section. Lightly puff on vegetable garden for most exoskeleton bugs, like ants, fire-ants, and crickets. Gets in their joints and dehydrates them to death. Must reapply after rain. Completely harmless for humans and pets to touch, although avoid inhaling the dust. I did notice the application on the plants needs to be a dust, if you apply to heavily, it seemed to dehydrate the plants.Great Blog. Thanks.

    Hi Barry,
    I have only recently heard of the tomato leaf tea, but have not tried it, and have never heard of the other method.  Thanks so much for the recommendation – I will keep it for next year and try.  Always good to get new suggestions.  Thanks for reading and commenting.  -Nicole

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Farmgirl Roadtrip: Come Away with Me to Kent, Connecticut!

Are you passionate about a hobby or activity?  One of my favorite hobbies is knitting, an activity that keeps my hands busy and my mind relaxed. I love teaching knitting classes for my town, and knitted items are one of my favorite gifts to give. I really got the “hang” of knitting when I was expecting my daughter, and had complications that required bedrest…torture for someone like me who has to always be doing something!  Knitting makes me happy and centered…it’s my “yoga”.  Picking out yarn…the textures, the colors, the smell of the fibers, makes me giddy!  I love to head to my favorite yarn store,  located in one of the most beautiful places in Connecticut…the historical and quaint town of Kent.  Come visit this gem of a town with me!

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  1. Susan says:

    Love Kent and meeting you at Black Sheep Yarns. I agree, choosing the yarn, reveling in the color, texture and hand is almost as fun as the knitting!

    Happy Trails,
    Susan

    Susan, it was lovely to meet you, too.  Hope to see you again – I know I’ll be at Open Knitting again sometime!  -Nicole

  2. Rose says:

    I love that scarf! The changing colors and dropped stitches make it more unique. Thanks for a great article on the town. I may have passed through the town on a hiking trip. Connecticut is very scenic, I appreciate it more now that I am living elsewhere. I will have to budget sometime next trip home for you to take me on a road trip to somewhere in Connecticut!

  3. Louise Marie says:

    I loved your article today. Small town America is where I want to be! The people and their shops each have their own special personality. I like to stay long enough in each town to get to know at least one personality. The town of Kent sounds wonderful. Oh, how I would love to visit.

    -Each town has it’s own special traits, too.  Thanks so much for reading.  -Nicole

     

  4. meredith says:

    What a treat! I grew up in Ridgefield, CT and spent time in Kent for a variety of activities! Last time I visited was about 10 years ago and we had a lovely time visiting with old and dear friends. Thanks for the memories!

     

    Meredith, thank you for reading!  -Nicole

  5. April says:

    What a gem of a town! Very lovely. I love taking day trips to special places too. 🙂

    The first time I found it, we drove "through" it on the way to somewhere else.  I had my nose literally pressed to the glass!  Thanks for reading!  -Nicole

  6. Reba says:

    Hi, I live about 2 hrs east of Atlanta. When you visited Madison, GA did you have a chance of visiting Blue Willow Inn in historical Social Circle, GA? It is a lovely place to peruse and have lunch. Here is the website if anyone is interested: http://www.bluewillowinn.com/ I enjoyed the "tour" of Kent, CT. I love road trips. I also understand the excitement about smelling the fabric and planning a project. I don’t knit (wish I could) but I do love smocking garments. And I begin to get giddy also when creating a project. Happy Knitting as well as sight-seeing, Reba

    Reba, thank you for the website link!  My mom and I plan to visit there next time I see her…she’s been there and loved the Blue Willow Inn.  I can’t wait. Your smocking sounds interesting. I would love to learn how to do smocking!  Thank you for sharing!  -Nicole

  7. Patricia says:

    Nicole,
    I only crochet, knitting is on my "list" to learn. I live in Indiana and my town to visit is Nashville IN, very quaint, very scenic. My husband is an over the road trucker and I home schooled our children while traveling in the truck with him, we saw some of this BEAUTIFUL country, there are many, many small towns with charm and character…My best to you and yours.

    Patricia, how cool is that…traveling all over with your family seeing the country.  There are so many states I want to visit someday!  Thank you for reading!  -Nicole

  8. donna says:

    My husband and I do volkswalking with our local club…White Rose Wanderers from York, Pa. We walk many small towns..you can drive through any town, USA and never know what you are missing until you walk..One quaint town we visited this year was Jim Thorpe, Pa. The day we were there wasn’t a good day..most of the shops were closed..but we visited enough places to know the people are friendly and the shops are unique..

    Donna, Fun!  I used to live in Pennsylvania!  I never got to Jim Thorpe, PA, though.  Will have to look it up.   I have wonderful memories of going off the beaten path and visiting the Amish in Lancaster.  Take care, Nicole

  9. Aloka says:

    Nicole,
    I used to knit a lot in the past. The baby gifts that I gave were always knitted by me. I even created my own designs. But because of arthritis in my fingers of both hands, I find I cannot knit much these days. But I do crochet every day still. I live in a small town in Kentucky and am always seaching for interesting yarns. So, thanks for giving the link to the store in Kent.All the best, Aloka

    Thanks so much for reading, Aloka.  Have you ever tried the gloves that are for knitters to help with arthritis?  It’s good you are still able to crochet.  Wishing you the best, Nicole

  10. Jeanne says:

    I live in Colorado and my favorite little mountain town and shops is Georgetown. It is an hour west of Denver. The shops are lovely and the people are so friendly. A couple of my favorite shops are gone…the kitchen store (we use to huddle in the winter around the wood burning stove) and the used bookstore. They celebrate an old fashioned Christmas with hay rides, children caroling and the town square with fresh homemade goodies and a fire pit to stand around to keep warm. Craft booths and even plays and skits in the upstairs town hall.
    In the summer, it is cooler in the mountains so why not have lunch and sit amongst the locals and enjoy the river and the wild flowers. The houses are painted lovely colors and most built in 1800’s. It is one my favorite places.

    -Ooooh, sounds so lovely!  I can just visualize Georgetown! Thank you so much for sharing! -Nicole

  11. Amy says:

    Great post, and what a great day! The yarn shop sounds amazing and if it wasn’t across the country from me, I think I’d be there as often as I could. 🙂 Thanks for taking us along on your day. 🙂

  12. Susan says:

    Nicole,

    Thanks for taking us on a journey to Kent, Connecticut. We live in California, but my father went to Kent Prep School in the 40’s. He took us there for his 30th High School Reunion back in ’79. I remember it being such a memorable place back then. I look forward to showing your pictures to him. It will bring back fond memories!

    Susan, thank you for reading!  How neat that your dad went to school there!  I wonder how much Kent has or has not changed since then?  I hope he enjoys the pictures.  Tell him hello from Connecticut!  -Nicole

  13. Ali says:

    I just got around to reading this blog about Kent – it’s wonderful. I have yet to check out the yarn store (one of these days), but I love Foreign Cargo and have gotten some unique and lovely clothing from there. I think Olga is one of the most lovely women I have ever met! And you already know how much I love Belgique! Next on my to-do list: visit Black Sheep Yarn store!

    Farmgirl Chapter Roadtrip??? -Nicole

  14. Kathy says:

    Nicole,
    Kent sound wonderful. And its really not that far of a drive for me. Just about 2 1/2 hours. Maybe its time for a road trip of my own this Autumn. I bet its even more beautiful in the Fall. I am sure there are a few bed and breadkfast places to stay.
    Thank you for the virtual tour!

    Hey Kathy!  If you do make the roadtrip, make sure you email me!  I’d love to meet up with you and meet you in person!  Hugs!  Nicole

  15. Linda Rozen says:

    Nicole,

    Loved the tour I just took of Kent. Now I know where I can get a delicious box of Belgian chocolate for my husband. He always gets a box at a small shop in Antwerp when he is there but now…

    Thanks for the lovely tour of Kent and taking me back in time when for a year of my life. I lived near Lancaster, PA. I loved everything about it. It was so different from Memphis where I was born, raised and here still after 62 years.

    Thanks again,
    Linda

    Wow, Linda…thank you so much for your wonderful comment.  It makes me so happy to hear that others enjoy what I write.  Enjoy those chocolates!  -Nicole

  16. belgique.com says:

    I really like reading news about Belgique, Kent Ct. Thanks for that informative post! Best wishes, Stefanie.

    Thank you to all at Belgique, too, for taking the time to talk to me for this article.  Love your shop, it’s just wonderful.  -Nicole

  17. Hier says:

    Dear webmaster, thank you for writing that article on Belgique kent ct. I had a good time while reading this. I wish you all the best, Claudia!

    Thank you for reading! -Nicole

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Sowing Seeds…of Friendship

When grocery shopping, I’ve gotten into the habit of bringing in my “green” shopping bags.  I originally started using reusable ones when I first joined the Sisterhood, earning  my first Merit badge by collecting the bags to go green. Easier to carry  groceries in, the bags act as coupons as well, as the store deducts five cents off my total for each one.  I’d amassed a collection of about twenty the past year.  Most of them were “freebies” I received with purchases, or that I had paid a dollar or two for; none were homemade or that pretty.  Imagine my surprise several weeks ago when someone stole them!  What happened afterwards, surprised me even more.

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  1. Joan says:

    Oh my goodness my sister and I can relate to your reusable bags – we had gone shopping – she had the bags in her cart – she too turned to look at something – turned around and GONE were the bags – thankfully years ago we learned to attach our purse either by the child restraint strap or by a quick click clip – so her purse was not taken. We too would have shared if the person had just asked – we don’t always shop where one gets money for using the reusables – so it wasn’t like they were worth anything at that store. Anyway now we attach our bags as we do our purses. Also thanks for the reminder to be a FRIEND – I’m getting into making more cards and I will for sure use the verse you found on a card. Thank you ‘friend’ you joyed my week.

    Joan, Thank you so much for reading!  Wow – you had your bags stolen, too!  Just never know what is going on in someone’s life to make them do what they do.   I love to make homemade cards, too.  Isn’t that just such a lovely verse? -Nicole

  2. shawna says:

    This is such a heartening story! Thank you for sharing it. I am going to make sure all my friends know how much I appreciate them this week!

  3. Diana says:

    I, too had bags stolen out of my grocery cart. Luckily, they only took half. I thought, at least they won’t be using those icky plastic bags!

  4. Joy Howard says:

    Today, my youngest daughter and two young women from work and I went out to lunch. Afterwards, we sat in rocking chairs outside the restaurant and just talked. I was thinking to myself that everyone is always so busy that we don’t just sit and talk with each other enough. I’m in my fifties but these young women are all just starting out. So I told them that I’m going to invite them over just to sit on my porch for lemonade, cookies and rocking.

    Joy, isn’t it so true?  If you lived in Connecticut, I’d come!  I love to sit on my porch with ice tea or lemonade and cookies, rocking!  Such a simple joy!  -Nicole

  5. Tauna says:

    Those plastic bags can be valuable…lol. I have made rugs, or better yet, large bags that are wonderful for carrying wet bathing suits or other things. Durable, strong, washable, but it takes many of them to make one item. Bet that is why you lost yours to someone…..now that is recycling at its best…:)..Tauna

  6. Amy says:

    Great post, Nicole! And I’m glad that the farmgirls all pulled through for you. 🙂 Friends are fabulous and its so nice to see the farmgirl connection helping like minded ladies connect!!

  7. Rose says:

    Sorry about your bags getting taken! I have some favorite bags I used all the time when I go shopping. I will keep a close eye on them in my cart. I will send you some more animal related ones. Thanks for the column. Thanks for keeping in touch even if it is a quick text message.
    Miss you! Rose

    -Miss you, too, Rose!  Hugs!  -Nicole

  8. jennifer says:

    It is truly amazing- both the badness of people in the world in general and yet the goodness of a few can truly turn around the bad feelings and help us to put on our "thinking caps" and learn from it. I was sorting out a bunch of things that were passed on to me and found a couple nice bags-one canvas and another leather-like. I decided that I would use the leather like one to store my shopping bags in and when I go to the store, toss in my small purse and just carry the whole thing as my purse (attaching it to the buggy of course!. Perhaps it won’t be so obvious until after I get to my turn at the check out line. I too often try to think that if I loose something in a public place, the person who found it and kept it must have needed it much worse than I did. It helps the frustration levels to go down considerably!!!

    Jennifer, thanks for reading.  I believe there is still so much more good in the world than bad.  It’s hard times that bring out the worst in people, but also bring out the best.  -Nicole

  9. charles lagroue says:

    Nicole you hit it again always true and interesting.Dad

  10. Elizabeth says:

    Since you’re a knitter, here’s a way to turn lemons into lemonade: Take your plastic (ugh) bags, cut them into strips and make ‘plarn’ by joining the loops together (the way you’d join two rubber bands together), then knit (there are also crocheted bags) the ‘plarn’ into re-usable bags. Here’s a website that has instructions: Vhttp://www.allfreecrafts.com/knitting/bag.shtml

    Elizabeth, what a great way to use up those bags!  Love it!  Thanks for sharing!  Will try it.  -Nicole

  11. Pam says:

    This was such an inspirational story, I quickly sent 5 emails (sorry, at work) to friends that I think of and just don’t get to tell them … thanks!

  12. Rangle says:

    The forum is a brighter place thanks to your posts. Thanks!

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