Charming. Quaint. Historic... These words describe my favorite places. We’ve recently spent a family day finding just that! What do dinosaurs and heirloom seedshave in common? Both are found in New England! Come take a Suburban Farmgirl road trip with me to Hartford County, Connecticut!
The ol’ quote says, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”. I’m feeling that way about spring, and it’s refreshing arrival! After a long winter of cold temps that started here six months ago, I can’t wait to smell warm, dark, earth, and dig in the garden under the sun. It’s a time in New England when the earth “wakes up”. (Although with chilly, below-normal temps for April, I’m thinkin’ Mother Nature’s overslept)! Not to worry…there’s plenty of signs of spring, so if it hasn’t arrived for you yet, it can’t be too far away!
Hooray for Spring! Join me in celebrating the Earth!
Diane says: Hi Nicole –
I too can’t wait for Spring and the warmer temps to arrive and stay for a while. I don’t have a green thumb, but I do have to get my yard in order. I loved your idea about the suet cage and extra yarn. I always toss mine and now I now exactly what to do with them. GREAT IDEA! Thanks for sharing that. Also, can you please tell me what those green plants are. They look like they would be great ground cover by my shrubs. Enjoy today! Temps are warming up a bit!
Diane
Hi Diane! I hear ya! We’ve got way more clean up than usual due to the Superstorm Sandy and the snow that arrived last Halloween. Our yard did not have its proper fall cleanup.
The plant you are asking about is a great perennial, a succulent form of Sedum, "Autumn Joy", or "Stonecrop". It looks just as pictured now, growing tall flowers that bloom in late August to November, when everything else is fading. It’s low maintenance, and easy to divide.
Today was a very beautiful day, with temperatures up to 68 degrees! Happy Spring and thank you for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Joan says: Hi Nicole,
I too am waiting with great hope for Spring to come and stay a month or so, then have a nice Summer. We are in another blizzard 2nd one this week and supposed to come again over the weekend into next week. This time last year we were HOT n DRY so guess this is better than all the fires. I am very hopeful that when this is over that GREEN will pop up everywhere and I can do some planting of Autumn Joy and Stonecrop – did some reading about them this Winter and they seem to be what some of my areas need – your pictures are beautiful. God Bless
Thanks, Joan! Oh my – a blizzard! I just put my snow shovel away. Last year this time, we were in a heatwave, but I do recall having snow in April at times, too. Stay warm and I hope that warmer temps find their way to you soon! Hugs, Nicole
Heidi says: So glad your finally getting a little sunshine on your face. Let’s hear it for green leafy vegetables!
Love the sun! Big hugs to you, farmgirl sister! Nicole
Carol says: Spring is coming, but not sure when. I am still waiting for the fence to go back up around our recently expanded garden, then I will plant my snowpeas. Such a fun and easy crop.
My older children now 30 and 31 attended the same elementary school as your daughter and their baby trees are now towering. Not knowing just how big they would grow they were planted way too close, but at least far from the house. Trees like children grow up.
Hi Carol! How neat to hear that your trees are still going strong and your children are in their thirties! I will keep that in mind for sure, when we go to transplant ours. The ones we have are still in pots. Thanks for reading and commenting! Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
Meredith says: Hi Nicole! Even in Virginia it seems Spring is taking its sweet time! I wanted to tell you how much I love your idea of putting the yarn in the suet cage! Not only is it great for the birds but it is pretty too. Here on our farm we commonly see nests made out of tail hairs from the cows and horses, and from baling twine. This year my husband has purchased hot pink baling twine (I haven’t gotten to the bottom of that yet!) and I look forward to seeing pink nests next year!
Hi Meredith! I never thought about birds taking hair from the tails of cows and horses! Love it. I’ve been doing this a couple of years now, and it’s funny to see glimpses of yarn in nests, and what yarn the birds like best. One year we had a nest just under our deck, so we could peek between the slats and get a "bird’s eye view"!
Happy Spring…hope it arrives soon! -Nicole
Something spectacular is happening daily in my daughter’s school. Since December, therapy dogs have been in the halls and classrooms. Brought in for comfort after December 14th, these furry, four-legged souls have brought so much more.
Judy from Maine says: I am sitting here with tears in my eyes. Your blog was beautiful. It is wonderful to know that something so perfect is filling the children’s lives now, when something so horrible touched you all such a short time ago. My husband and I share our life with two dogs and every day they show us the wonder and goodness of a simple life. We laugh because of them, sometimes our patience is tried because of them, but always they show us their love and are there for us whenever we need a little pick up from daily life.
Judy, thank you! You are so right, there’s so much we can learn from our dogs. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
kristy says: I have no experience with Therapy Dogs, but know that our local library has a program where beginning readers read to dogs. Most of the dogs involved seem to belong with/to older adults. It appears that kids flourish with a non-critical audience, that dogs like being snuggled and adults who don’t live with children like being involved. It’s a win, win, win. How could the people, who first domesticated dogs known it was worth doing? Think of all the people and pets who have benefited over all those years. Thank you for reminding us.
Kristy, Wow! What a great program. Kudos to your library and those involved for setting that up. Thank you for sharing! -Nicole
Becka says: My dad was diagnosed with congestive heart problems and he went into a depression, sitting in his recliner, basically waiting to die. He was convinced he couldn’t do anything. I had recently been surprised with being pregnant and knew my dachshund, Crystal, would not be happy about there being a baby around. Solution? I gave my dog to my mother for her birthday. (Dad didn’t want a dog, he said.) Sure enough, Crystal became my dad’s shadow and I soon received letters about how dad had to walk around to find the dog and then fix the fence. Crystal made him get up and do things and he was soon back to normal. Except, now he had a little friend who adored him! That was one of the best gifts I have ever given anyone.
Becka, how beautiful! It’s me with tears in my eyes now. Thank you so much for sharing your story. -Nicole
Adrienne says: I’ve had several dogs at one time: Beaubeaux, a male poodle; Topaz, a female cockapoo; and their two puppies: Bogart, a male and Toffee, a female. They were a handful to walk but oh the love and comfort they gave! When I felt bad, Beaubeaux would sit next to me and put his head on my lap as if to say "Pet me." Topaz would put a paw on my shoulder and look deeply into my eyes as if she could take the pain away. Bogart was a jester, always smiling and reminding me I would be happy again. And Toffee was named because she was so sweet. She would climb into my lap, put her head on my neck and let me cry into her fur. Dogs are very absorbent. I can’t thank them enough.
I’ll meet them at the Rainbow Bridge and it will be a very happy reunion.
Oh Adrienne, how sweet and insightful they all sound. I agree, Heaven won’t be Heaven without my fur-babies meeting me there someday! We only have one dog right now, but at one time had four. We used to call them our "herd" instead of a pack, because they also included the cats. Our living room used to look like Noah’s Ark after dinner when they would all calmly lay down together. Thank you for your comment! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Denise says: How wonderful!
Renee Chance says: So encouraging. Dogs are really so special and deserve such good treatment from us. Thank you for sharing this story. So wonderful to see how God is using the dogs to help these kids.
Cindy says: What a great idea!! I recently spend some time at the veterans’ hospital and had my dogs with me. Everybody wanted to pet them. The older gentlemen wanted to hold the small one on their laps. Dogs can be very soothing. Maybe having a dog in the schools would be something that should be looked into.
I agree! I saw first-hand what an amazing effect they have at our school. It was really miraculous. I am so glad they will be staying until the end of school, but it would be great to have them all the time. – Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Dorothy Pavlovic says: What a beautiful story!
Thank you for sharing it with us.
I wish you could post it to Facebook or Pinterest where even more people can
see it…..
Dorothy
Hi Dorothy, Thank you! The link to the blog is shared on MaryJanesFarm’s facebook page, and if you would like to share it, please pass the link on. This story meant so much to me to write. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Bonnie says: Nicole, what a wonderful article. I agree that it is an amazing addition to the classroom for children. I also wonder if it would be beneficial with ADD and ADHD children. How great it would be if having dogs could help reduce or eliminate the use of drugs in these kids!
Nicole, Thank you for your kind words. I am sure that Dad & I can speak for all the dog teams by saying we are happy to be there. We are thrilled to hear your insights. Makes our day 🙂 Hope to see you soon.
Spartacus & Brad
Dear Spartacus, I’m so glad you and your dad got to see this. You and your dog team colleagues are absolutely the best!! –Nicole
Laurie Dimino says: Hi sweet Nicole!
What a wonderful post. Without a doubt, our furry friends offer so much to us all on a daily basis, never asking for anything in return.
Our library has the same program one of the other readers mentioned- At our library it is called Book Time with a Dog-where young readers are given 30 minutes to read to a dog. Because the dog does not "judge" the child’s reading skills, the child builds confidence and strength. Its is wonderful, and my own children participated when they were younger.
The power of therapy dogs is nothing short of a miracle, and I am so happy that Newtown is being blessed with their presence! How wonderful for everyone!
Hugs,
Laurie
Hi Laurie, I love hearing about this program! What a great experience for all involved.
The dogs at our school are truly a blessing. I also want to say that I saw how hard the handlers work, and I hope they know how we all really appreciate their efforts.
Thanks for commenting! Farmgirl, Nicole
Steve says: Thank you for your heart felt story. My dog and I are one of the teams you speak of. We immediately jumped to action when the tragic event happened, putting my dog to the ultimate test of stamina working her 10-12 hours a day at the crisis center where we met " Dr. Jay " After ten days the emotional stress began to take its toll on my pup, even though her breed has a higher tolerance than most dogs. She needed a break ( she slept for three days ) and work needed me, but we promised Jay we would be there for the kids when his school opened back up. We are now there two days a week and I swear my dog knows every student and teacher. And the only emotion my dog feels now is happiness. As a resident of Sandy Hook we are committed to continue visiting "our" kids at the school and wherever else we can help. Will the dogs be in the schools next year ?? We do not know at this time. But if allowed back we will surely be there. All the dog/handler teams are ready to be there.
Thanks again and I will remind my dog tonight how special she is to the kids of Newtown.
Steve, thank you. You are a blessing! -Nicole
Nancy says: I am a therapy dog owner/handler and have seen first hand what a dog can do for children ,the elderly, and men in prison but most of all those of us who take the dogs to visit. It is a wonderful way to give back!!. I’m sure the handlers received as much if not more from being with the children. I too have tears thinking of your children.
Thank you for your note, Nancy. -Nicole
Peggy says: Being the human part of a team Nicole visited with in the Newtown school, I can attest to the magic and positive energy a dog brings to the school environment. There is always a smile when we appear, followed by many hugs and pats. But there is a quiet respect, as well, when we silently pass through a classroom whose students are at work, or when we sit in the reading circle with the students to enjoy a book. It is a magic that defies explanation. It just IS! And it is magic not only for the students, but for the adults and handlers, as well! We ALL smile. Thanks to Nicole for spending time with us and sharing the story. We all hope we can return next year to spread even more magic, but that will be a decision made by others and which we will have to respect.
Peggy, thank you so much for allowing me to visit with you, and for all you do each week. You all truly are a blessing. And your dog is one of the sweetest little souls I’ve ever met! Much love, Nicole
Karen says: My neighbor’s dogs, Siena and Drago, are two of the therapy dogs that have traveled to Newtown to be a comfort to those children and adults. These dogs are so loving and adorable and have been a wonderful playmate for my own dog. Siena and Drago have also been "listeners" to beginning readers at my school and brought me joy every time they entered the school. Working in a K-2 school in the area we all grieved for the loss Newtown has suffered and thinking about that horrible day still makes me cry. Knowing two of the therapy dogs, I appreciate the kind words you spoke of these loving creatures. Thank you for acknowledging these furry heroes!
Karen, I know all about Drago and Siena! I have not personally met them, but my daughter comes home and tells me all about them! Please give them both a big hug from my family! Thank you so much for your kind words. -Nicole
Janice says: I am touched to read all of these kind words about the dogs and their handlers. These dogs and their owners can work magic and truly help comfort those who have been through a difficult time. My mother-in-law and her dog, Noel, are a part of this special program. I love to hear the happiness and enthusiasm in her voice as she tells me the stories of her visits. I feel honored and blessed to know that my mother-in-law, and one of her dogs, is making a difference. She is truly an amazing woman! Thank you again!
Janice, thank you for commenting! It is my wish that all the handlers would get to read this blog entry, so they can know how much we all love them! -Nicole
janie edwards says: thank you so much for your story! i understand how you feel and those kids are so special. i have two rescue dogs and when my husband died unexpectantly 3 yrs ago, they ended up rescuing me. they have brought such comfort and joy to me and i don’t think i could have made it without them.
Janie, I am so sorry to hear you suffered such a loss, but it is heartwarming to hear that you and your dogs "rescued" each other. I’ve heard that some of the dogs that were in our town are on their way to comfort Boston.
Thank you for reading and commenting. Hugs, Nicole
Thank you for your wonderful blog. As one of the Therapy Dog volunteers, it makes my heart glad to know that we are making a difference & touching lives. Arwen the Therapy Dog says hello!! to her friends at Reed!
Pat, thank you so much for your comment. You and Arwen have made such a difference to the Reed kids. Thank you all so much! Hugs from my daughter and I to your pup! -Nicole
Sandy says: Thank you Nicole for that wonderful story. My dog Kona and I are one of the teams that visit weekly. It is truly amazing to see the unconditional love between the dogs and children. It is the best hours of the week for us. We will be there as long as the schools want us.
Hi Sandy! I have heard lots about Kona from Audrey! Thank you for all your time and effort. We will never forget what all of you have done for our kids. Hugs to Kona from us! -Nicole
What a lovely blog post. May I share /put in a link to my Facebook page as I know many of my fellow teaching colleagues would love to read it.
Thank you, Ruta. -Nicole
Akanna says: Awesome Website, Continue the good job. Thank you!
I’m a “planner”, always trying to think ahead, stay organized, and not get too stressed. But sometimes life has other plans, and things just get C-R-A-Z-Y. Like so many other suburban moms, life can get hectic, like a roller coaster ride. Sometimes ya just wanna say, “Slow the ride down, we’re going too fast!” So far March has been madness!
“Get busy! Spring’s coming!”
Lori says: So sorry for the loss of you sweet kitty, Muffin. Our furry friends are such a blessing.
Here’s to taming those March "lions"! And a very happy birthday to you!
Thank you, Lori! Happy Spring! – Nicole
Diana Henretty says: Im stoppin by from the Ozarks this morning!
Good Morning!
Loved your post, it brightened this cloudy start to our morning.
We too have old pets, a 17 yr. old dog and cat that are happy and healthy
but we know their days are numbered with us.
We are waiting patiently for spring here, some days are sunny and bright,
and then here comes winter again. This week we will get some ice, sleet
and snow on the first day of spring!
Got a huge tin bowl of seed packets staring at me this morning, shoveled
80 gallons of chicken manure for our raised beds, with hopes of spring’s
arrival at any time now!
Love and hugs from the Ozarks! Diana
Good morning, Diana, and thank you for brightening MY day with your comment! Yes, we too got an icy start to spring. Today is sunny but yesterday was a small snowfall with the consistency of a snow cone. I can’t wait for warmer days so I can get in the yard!
Hugs to you and those wonderful furbabies! -Nicole
Adrienne says: Take five minutes for sitting down with a cup of chamomile tea and put your feet up. Then close your eyes, smile while you sip, and have an "attitude of gratitude." Be thankful for what you’ve accomplished and create a plan for a calm future even if it’s just for 24 hours. A suggestion for the tooth fairy: next time you’re at the bank, pick up some gold dollar coins and put them aside for those pleasant emergencies that pop up. I got 50 cents for my baby teeth, by the way.
Enjoy!
Great idea, Adrienne! My daughter has to be running out of baby teeth soon…
Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Laurie Dimino says: Hi Nicole,
I agree with you, March is very busy indeed! My daughter is stage crew for the school play and has been putting in 11 hour days for the past week. It makes for very long days and nights full of stress and homework done much too late!
I will be fighting a 3 hour time difference tomorrow as I head off to glamp with CJ and Robin. You will be there in "JAM" and Spirit! I will be sure and have a glass of birthday wine for you too! I promise!
Hugs,
Laurie
Hi Laurie!
Yes, I wish it would have worked for us all to meet in person…next time, for sure! Have a great time, and enjoy that jam. Big birthday hugs to you, too, my friend! – Farmgirl hugs! -Nicole
Kelly Ryan says: I’m so sorry about your cat’s passing. What a beautiful kitty she was! My cat Zachary died last year at age 18 and just like you said so well even though we were on borrowed time it still was a devastating shock to me to lose someone I’d spent almost 2 decades of my life with. They are so hard to lose.
I enjoy your column- Happy Spring!
I’m sorry to hear about your Zachary. We now are left with just one pet from out original "herd", our kitty, Badger. He is about twenty now. He is happy to have Mittens as a buddy, who is now about ten months old. He’s outlived all his other "girls". We miss them all. They are our kids who never grow up.
Thank you for reading and commenting. Happy Spring to you, too! Hugs! -Nicole
Meredith says: I am so sorry you lost your kitty. When I lived in Ct. I had a cat that looked JUST like your Muffin, and her name was…………Muffin! No kidding! She moved to Va, with my family in the late eighties. They sure can leave a hole in your heart. I hope things warm up for you and life calms down-we are really looking forward to spring here.
Meredith – what a coincidence! Our kitty was always petite, so we would coo at her and call her our "Wee Muff-Puff". Silly, but she loved the attention.
It’s been a really long winter this year. Our first snowfall was in late October (other times, we are wearing shorts at Halloween), and last March at this time it was so unusually warm, the trees all bloomed and there were no apples left by October. I am ready for Spring now, too. Hugs, Nicole
Joan D Mc Guigan says: I’m 70 yrs…back in the "old" days the tooth fairy slipped a quarter under my pillow! All this sharing about the Tooth Fairy reminded me that when my Mom cleaned out my Dad’s bureau after his passing, she discovered a gallon size plastic bag filled with all of his six kids’ teeth. I always wondered what TF did with all those teeth!!! What a surprise! He was such a dear Dad to all of us. BTW what does the TF at your house do with her findings?
I have heard a rumor that she keeps them hidden away, that tooth fairies use the teeth if they need "more magic in fairyland". Or so I am told.
Thanks for commenting and sharing your cute story with us! – Hugs, Nicole
Michele says: I am sorry to hear of your kitty Muffin dying. We love our pets so much,and their death affects every member of the family because they are part of our family. I love your blog! Happy Spring Nicole!
Thank you, Michele. Our pets are part of our family, and it leaves a hole when one goes. But I wouldn’t trade any of it for all the love and joy they bring us.
Thank you for reading and commenting, it means a lot. -Nicole
There’s a sock fairy somewhere who’s well-supplied with socks. Glad to know she visits your house, too!
Nancy from Live a Savory Life
I think you are right, Nancy! -Nicole
Merrilyn says: Good morning. I laughed and laughed oh shades oh memories past when our girls were young. Thank goodness for spring because we know sunny days and green grass are on the way. That 1 hr change always messes me up too. Keep us posted on the garden.
Sending farm girl hugs
Merrilyn
Will do, Merrilyn! I think that one hour change gets harder to adjust to the older I get! Pretty soon, by the time I am adjusted, it will be time to fall them back again, hee hee. Hugs back at ya, Nicole
Georgette says: So sorry dear about your baby kitty Muffin,I have a Muffin but it is a dog she is sweet too…Like you said they are borrowed love to make us happy .And I am in Florida the sunshine state..reason in letting you know the last part…my Garden is partially in. Tomatoes,onions,Beans,Cucks and Corn.Working on flowers next ,the food was important lol.So good luck everyone reading this with their gardens!Enjoy!
Hi Georgette! And thank you for commenting! Your garden sounds lovely! I’m chomping at the bit to get outside and plant, I tell ya. My seedlings have sprouted but it is still pretty cold. It is supposed to warm up by next week to the sixties…keep your fingers crossed for me! Give your Muffin a hug from me, and enjoy that Florida weather! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Jalia says: Yeah that’s what I’m talking about –nice work!
I recently reorganized my kitchen. Our home’s hub, it’s where meals are shared, crafts and homework’s done, and friends gather. We don’t eat out often; it’s costly, usually non-organic and often disappointing. Anything we order, I can make. I’m tickled when asked cooking advice. Cooking’s part skill, part creativity, and lots of practice! Now, I’m not one to brag, but in the kitchen I feel like a black-belt Ninja! It wasn’t always so . …
pbach1 says: so, this wonderful pizza dough — have you shared/would you please share the recipe? it really sounds too good to be true!
denise says: You should post your pizza dough recipe! Your loaves of bread look good too! Yes, I have gadgets and too many of them too. I may have to do a purging soon too. thanks!
Thanks for reading! Here is that recipe you asked for. I love it. I also make wheat crust by using the first cup in white, unbleached flour and the rest of the flour as wheat. Makes a nice, light wheat crust.
Mix 1 cup flour with remaining ingredients. Do not wait for dough to rise. Add 1/2 cup flour and form a ball (additional flour may be used/needed). Knead dough on a floured surface for four minutes. Roll dough out directly onto greased pan or pizza stone. Add sauce and toppings and bake for 15 minutes or until cheese is bubbly.
I also thought you might like another recipe I made for a quick Friday night. It’s my one-skillet meal I make using MaryJane’s Budget Mix Bakeover method:
Brown one pound of ground beef with one finely chopped, small yellow onion and two cloves of chopped garlic in a cast-iron skillet. Drain excess fat. Add one can of garbanzo beans, rinsed and drained (or one can of black beans, rinsed and drained). Add one can of chopped tomatoes, 1/3 cup of sweet corn kernels (if using frozen, rinse under warm water first). Sprinkle with 1/2 tsp. chili powder, 1/4 tsp.EACH of cayenne pepper, cumin, and salt and pepper. Add two dashes of Worcestershire sauce, stir everything together well and sprinkle with 1/2 cup cheddar cheese. Top with rolled crust made from 1-1/2 cups MaryJane’s Budget Mix, 3 TBSP butter, and 1/2 cup water. Bake at 350 degrees for 1/2 hour.
Enjoy! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Beverly Battaglia says: l love your pictures. Pizza is beautiful. Funny and cute article.
Love you,
Mother
Thanks, Mom! Love you, too. Glad you enjoyed it.
Big hugs, Nicole
Laurie Dimino says: Hi Nicole,
What an entertaining post!
Kudos to you for mastering the art of cooking! The biggest "problem" I have is coming up with "WHAT" to cook. We of course have our few family favorites, but I long for different (yet simple) dishes that EVERYONE in the house will eat. With 2 kids- one of whom is a rather picky eater, it can certainly be a challenge. My next issue is TIME. It seems that once I get home from work and help with homework, the daunting task of "what to cook for dinner" looms overhead like a black cloud sometimes.
I have found that if I plan out the weeks "menu" ahead of time, that is a HUGE help.
I would have to say that the "gadget" in my kitchen which I "HAD" to have, yet have NEVER used, is the "ultimate mandolin" from Pampered Chef.
Quite honestly, I must be gadget challenged, because I have never been able to figure out how to properly use it! Seems like more work than its worth to me- but I could be wrong.
I do have a "manual" food processor of sorts that I bought at a Tupperware party that I use constantly.
I am in the process of looking at food dehydrators on Amazon. Any thoughts or suggestions about that???
LOL.
Thanks as always for your wonderful blog my dear friend.
Keep Cookin’!
Hugs,
Laurie
Hi Laurie! Funny, I too, have that same Mandolin. I have used a few times, but not as often as I thought I would. It scares me!
I have been doing the same thing you are searching for dehydrators. I was inspired by the Mountain Farmgirl’s post last year on food dehydration.
For inspiration on what to cook, have you checked out the "What’s for Dinner" thread on the Farmgirl Forum? I started it over a year ago, and am surprised as it keeps on going. I go through it for inspiration from all our farmgirl sisters.
Happy Cooking, Farmsister! Hugs! -Nicole
Adrienne says: OK, here goes. My first kitchen disaster came as I, a new bride, decided to make sugar cookies for my husband to take to work in his lunch. I thought how tough can this be? I have all the ingredients: flour, sugar, baking powder…um, no, I have baking soda. Shrug. Same thing. The sugar "cookie" covered the entire cookie sheet and was 1/2" thick. It tasted fine so I broke off hunks and put them in a plastic bag. When my husband came home with his empty lunchbox, he told me with a laugh how much the other guys at work liked my "cookie." Yep, he announced at lunch that his wife made sugar cookies. They waited hungrily until he pulled out the broken hunks of the "cookie" to share. While they were giggling and stuffing their faces, he related my cooking disaster. I never baked anything for him again and that’s one of the reasons he was my first husband.
Oh my! Silly boys – didn’t they realize that they were Cookie Bars? Thanks for sharing! 🙂
Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Kelly Ryan says: I loved reading this post Nicole! I could totally relate to your pizza crust story. I have also tried a variety of ways to make pizza crust and my attempts have all been disastrous also! One was so bad even our dog wouldn’t eat it!
Could you share your recipe for pizza crust?
One pizza option that my son and I love is we do "Make your own pizzas" where I use whole wheat tortillas and then just put on sauce and whatever toppings we want and then cheese. I bake the tortillias first for 5 min ( 400 degrees) and then bake them for another 5 after the toppings are on and they turn out delicious every time!
Loved your posting!
Kelly
Kelly, Thanks for commenting! The crust recipe is above. What a great idea for the "tortilla" pizzas! I will use that to make my daughter a nice, warm after-school snack. She’s going through a major growth spurt and that will make a nice, wholesome treat! Thank you for sharing! Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
Shari Doty says: Why not try MaryJane’s pan bread recipe? It makes a fabulous pizza crust, and requires no yeast.
Of course, that is a wonderful recipe, too. Her Irish Soda bread is another great recipe if you are looking for something without yeast – I’ll be making that a lot this month! -Nicole
denise says: THANKS! for posting the recipes! I will certainly give them a try.
You are so welcome! Enjoy! -Nicole
Jennifer says: I thought I would include a bread-related, disappointment-turned-delicious story. I made whole wheat bread dough yesterday. I used dough enhancer, vital wheat gluten and potato flakes. All the tricks for a fluffy loaf. Oh, not so! The dough never rose more than about 10%. The dough tasted fine, and it was getting close to dinnertime, so I cut off small pieces of dough, rolled it super thin and "baked" it in my cast iron skillet like naan or tortillas. It was a hit! And because I didn’t use the whole thing, I put the dough in the fridge for later. I expect it to last about a week, depending on how much more we all want. Happy accidents, you’ve got to love them. Thanks for the blog. I love reading it.
You new friend,
Jennifer
Hi Jennifer, and thank you for reading and commenting! Great story, and love how it turned out. Did you know that it was by accident my (and America’s) favorite cookie was made? In 1930, the owner at the Toll House Inn tried to substitute chocolate chips for baking chocolate in her cookie recipe. They did not melt, thus the invention of the Chocolate Chip Cookie! Happy Cooking and Baking! Hugs, Nicole
I just HAD to have a quesadilla maker. I really did make them frequently too, so it felt justified. Six months later, three out of the four of us were diagnosed with dairy allergies. Oh well! No more cheese for us!
Sarah, Oh No! I had dairy allergies as a child and couldn’t eat any dairy for several years…I feel for you! I love, love, love cheese. Is there a non-dairy version out there you might be able to use, maybe in the Vegan aisle? At least your quesadilla maker got some use.
Funny story…I bought a state-of-the-art, digital pressure cooker. Then I saw "Breakfast at Tiffany’s". When Audrey Hepburn’s pressure cooker exploded, it scared me to use mine! It sat, brand new and unused for a decade! I just pulled it out a few months ago to quickly make rice when I had forgotten it for dinner. Now it’s one of my favorite things! At least it is now getting lots of use.
Thanks for reading and commenting! -Nicole
Rose says: Nicole,
Thanks for another great blog and pizza dough recipe! I have just gotten my KitchenAid mixer and Cuisinart from my storage unit. I am ready to start cooking and eating healthy again.
Yesterday, I was in the grocery store and looking at instant pancake mixes. I thought of you with all your good homemade cooking and put it back on the shelf. You inspired me to buy the ingredients to make them from scratch. I even bought organic butter!
Got a recipe from buttermilk pancakes? My cookbooks are still in storage.
Rose
Hi Rose! I am so proud of you! You will notice such a difference in how you feel when eating organic. I have a great buttermilk pancake recipe!
Stir together dry ingredients; make a well in the middle and set aside. In another bowl, combine wet ingredients. Add to dry ingredients and mix just to moisten (batter will be lumpy). Pour 1/4 cup batter onto hot greased skillet and cook on medium heat until bubbly, flip and cook a few minutes on second side. Enjoy with organic maple syrup!
I am so happy I inspired you, means a lot. Thanks for commenting! Hugs, Nicole
ulla christensen says: Dear Nicole,
You are so good to make food , we always like that.
Nice picture of you and Audrey
Love an hug fra Torben og Ulla Dk
Hej Mor!
Thank YOU for teaching ME how to cook some really great Danish recipes! Hugs, Nicole
Joey says: Hi Nicole,
As always, I love your website. Your pizza looks amazing and thanks for the recipes. I enjoyed seeing the pic of Audrey too. Hugs, Joey
Hi Joey!! Thanks, darlin’! Hope you are doing well! Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
As a kid in Houston, I really didn’t have “winter” clothes. We’d wear flip-flops almost year round, and my “coat” was more of a jacket. The first time I saw snow up North, I was so excited I phoned my family in Texas at the crack of dawn! Now, snow’s part of life in Connecticut, and most of us don’t give it much thought other than checking to see if school’s called off. So when warnings came through about a history-making blizzard, we got prepared (not panicked). “Nemo” was bringing a snowfall our area hadn’t seen at once in several decades. What’s a farmgirl to do with a ton of snow? Have a ton of fun!
Look! A “Snowy Owl”!
diana henretty says: Good Morning,
Lucky, lucky you to get all that snow!!
In Noel Mo. this morning we are waiting for a winter storm to arrive with sleet,
ice and snow tonite, but we are ready for it!
This past year when grocery shopping, I bought a extra case of whatever was on sale to stick in my pantry, it is the best way to stock up without spending a fortune with the budget, and now my little basement pantry has enough for a couple of year’s of ice storms!
Loved all your snowy pictures and your wintry words this morning,
and the Texas Chili looks so tempting, it will be simmering on my old cookstove tonite! Hugs from the Ozarks, Diana
Hi Diana! That’s a great way to stock up! It makes it easier when a big ol’ storm comes through if you only need a few little things at the store before it arrives, instead of a cart full. Enjoy your chili! Hugs, Nicole
Ahhh, Nicole! There’s nothing like fun in the snow! Looks like you guys made the best of a lot of it!
I was able to get my snowshoes out this last round. But it’s all gone and I doubt we’ll get another "big dump" this spring. I could, however, be surprised!
Thanks for sharing your winter fun!
CJ
Hi CJ! You’re right…we probably won’t get too many more big snowstorms, if that. Spring is just around the corner! Enjoy! -Nicole
Joan says: Oh yes I remember those great snows and sledding – this was in Nebraska and now I live in CO. where today we are in snow alert – everything is stocked and fortunately I have a neighbor man with a snow blower that is always there to help because, you see I’m now at the age that snow is not fun to be in – enjoy it from inside. But I am so happy that you got to go sledding – hope you get to do it again. And more than that I am happy to hear that you made it through without problems. God Bless
Thanks, Joan! I agree…when everything is stocked and ready there’s no problems. Snow is such a pretty sight…enjoy your snowfall and stay warm! -Nicole
Adrienne says: Isn’t sledding fun? I loved doing it when I was a kid. My grandparents’ house in New Jersey was on the corner and had a sloping yard down to the street. We had so much snow one winter, I remember my grandfather and uncle climbing on the second story roof to shovel snow so the roof wouldn’t collapse. If it was too cold and windy to play outside, I would go to the basement and play near the wringer washer and pantry. The furnace kept the room toasty.
Later as an adult in Reno, Nevada, my four-wheel drive car took me most places I had to go. Once the snow and ice in the city was so bad, there was a "chains mandatory" warning in Reno. I scooted home on back roads and hibernated for the rest of the day and evening. Fun times!
Oh Adrienne, thank you for sharing! What great stories. My hubby says in Denmark they used chains, too, but we don’t see them here in Connecticut. Not enough snow, I guess.
Another fun thing we enjoy with snow on the ground is marveling at all the pawprints that grace our yard each day. We’ve seen so many different animals that have walked through with different prints.
Thanks for sharing your memories, Adrienne. Hugs, Nicole
Peggy Smith says: Nicole,
Thanks for sharing your snow. I live in Southwest Mo. we rarely get snow, but today it is coming down so beautiful and gentle.
I am 61 and still feel like a kid when it snows, If we get enough I will be outside playing and making snow angels.
Many Blessings
Peggy
Have fun, Peggy! Make a snow angel for me! Hugs, Nicole
Laurie Dimino says: Hi there Nicole!
Yes- we were indeed hit with a snowstorm! Here on Long Island, our town received the most snow of all of Long Island….33.5 inches!
We too, had lots of fun in our winter wonderland. We went sledding at the school,made snow ice cream, and built a fort in the front yard.
I worked like a farmgirl…digging my way all the way back to the chicken coop, and then around the side to the rabbit hutch.
Thankfully, alot of the snow here has melted thanks to some rain and warmer temperatures. I am not particularly fond of looking at the mountains of snow that become all dirty and "yucky" looking. I much prefer the beautiful vista of fresh fallen snow! LOL
I enjoyed the action shot of your flying down the hill, and I know what you mean about "feeling old". Its funny how sometimes when we go to do something we haven’t done in ages, we suddenly feel old, but then once we actually do it, we become young again (well at least young at heart for the moment!)
Well, stay warm and continue to have FUN!!!!! That’s what life is REALLY all about!
Hugs to you my dear friend!
Laurie
Hi Laurie! I wondered how you all did where you are! Sounds like you had lots of fun, too! I can’t wait to try "snow ice cream" our next big snowfall. It’s melting here, too, but we’ve had a few dustings here and there since the big snow. Looking out my window, the ground is still covered and white. We took our dog for a walk a couple of times this weekend. Wish you all could see her…she "hopped" through the snow by the curb as we walked, so happy to play in the big mounds. She looked like a giant rabbit!
Speaking of rabbits, hope your rabbits and chickens are doing okay; sounds like you took good care of them!
Talk to you soon! Hope you are enjoying your month as Farmgirl of the Month! Hugs, Nicole
susan says: What fun….. good for you for enjoying. I live on the westcoast of Canada and no snow for us this year 🙁 sounds like so much fun.Thanks for sharing.
Hi Susan! We’ve had winters like that before, with no snow. As much as everyone here likes to complain about the snow, when we don’t have any we all sure do miss it! Thanks for reading and commenting! -Nicole
Rose says: Nicole,
Looks like you had your hands full with that snowstorm. Glad you made it through OK and had some fun also! I miss the East Coast snow storms, everything looks so pretty covered in fresh snow.
We had a big snow storm in the Chicago area a few years ago, but so far a mild winter.
Rose
Well, Rose, the East Coast misses you, too! Hey, if you move back you can teach me to ski! 🙂 Hugs, Nicole
Jennifer says: This is my first look at your blog. I am in Utah so we do get some great snow. I am not a skier, I am more of a "snuggler". As in snuggle in front of our wood burning stove. We have large windows in the family room and love to watch the snow. Growing up, I lived on a steep hill. Just getting home was a chore, but it was great sledding. The snowy days seemed longer then. I hope your kids enjoy this time. It all ends too soon. Keep writing, I really enjoy it.
Hi Jennifer! Thanks for reading and leaving a comment! Aahh…a wood burning stove. That’s a great, warm place to snuggle. Enjoy the beautiful snow there. I have not been to Utah, but a friend of mine lived there for awhile. From her photos it looks like a picturesque state. Stay warm! -Nicole
Nicole,
First time to comment, but I have been vicariously living as your neighbor. You are a gifted writer and make your stories come alive. I particularly enjoy your positive and joyful approach to life. Keep it up.
Maxine, thank you so very much! Glad to have you visit! -Nicole
Holly says: I now live in Houston but I’m from Independence,Missouri originally.The only thing I miss about mid-west winters is playing in the snow.We have actually had snow a few times since Christmas 2004(my daughters 1st Christmas).But it does not last long.My husband is from the West Indies and lived in Waterbury,Connecticut for a while but he does not like snow and decided to move to a warmer climate.I have many wonderful memories of fun times with my brothers in the snow.
Hi Holly! There are things I miss about Houston, too…but I don’t envy you in the summer with the mosquitoes! 😉 Thanks for commenting! Hugs, Nicole
You all are so lucky. I LOVE SNOW. Here in Washington County Maryland we don’t get much snow anymore. I wear my snowflake earrings and necklaces all winter hoping to bring snow. I just don’t understand people who can’t seen the beauty in a snowfall.
I hear ya! Thanks for the comment! Hugs, Nicole
barbara says: reading this brought back memories of N Y and sledding with my kids. having been transferred to houston , tx. 20 yrs. ago, we are now having warm winters. Enjoy it. We miss it, (just not shoveling the driveway)
Barbara, I moved here FROM Houston twenty years ago. I have pictures growing up of me next to the Christmas tree in shorts and bare feet. What I do miss about a warm weather climate is when we get snow on Easter! Don’t wanna wear a sundress and sandals then, and who wants to hide Easter eggs in slush? But I wouldn’t change the four, distinct seasons for anything. Thanks for the visit! Hugs, Nicole
Karin Weaver says: Thank You for your words and sharing the fun… I have a farm in Missouri but right now I am working in New York. At home they are expecting sleet, but here the snow is coming down in sheets (again)… I am a permit and compliance manager so my job includes a lot of driving… Think I could hire your husband to be my chauffeur??? I love the snow but hate the drive. New York/Pennsylvania is beautiful but driving on them is not my forte….
Hi Karin! I have not had to drive long distances in snow, but have been caught in some really big ones. I’m sure having to drive a long ways often in snowstorms (like my hubby) would make me nervous. The worst ever was when we got ice and snow suddenly one year. We were all caught by surprise. Schools abruptly closed. I had a ten minute drive to get my daughter, who was about four, but could not get to her because they kept shutting down roads. I was so upset. A gentleman got out of his truck, asked me where I was trying to go, and had me follow behind him down a windy, long back road. All I could see were little taillights. Thankfully, he got me to where my daughter was. It took me an hour just to get to her. I was a wreck. But that doesn’t happen often, and as along as I have four wheel or all wheel drive, I have no problem. What I don’t like driving in more is a bad rainstorm in fall. The falling leaves are worse than ice, very slippery! Be careful, and thank you for sharing! Hugs, Nicole
Deb Esposito says: Thanks for the mention of Punxsutawney Phil, my hometown Seer of Seers! While I will enjoy what is left of the winter weather I still look longingly toward an early spring.
(Giggle)…I’m a big fan of Punxsutawney Phil! – Nicole
Joey says: You know Nicole, how much I HATE winter and cold and snow. Even when I was a kid, I hated winter except for the year my grandmother sewed me a red velvet iceskating dress with a skirt that puffed out when I twirled. I loved that dress and only skated to wear it. Once it got too small I was back in the house reading a book again. However, you sure made this sound like fun. I loved the pictures and the one of you flying by was SO wonderful! Sure hope you all enjoy what is left of winter. I’m headed to the beach.
Hugs to you, Joey
Ahhh…Joey, now now fair sayin’ your headed to the beach. 😉 Hugs, Nicole
We’ve turned the corner to February! It’s still Winter, but on the “bright” side, days have begun to get longer, and we’ve been doing some Spring dreamin’! I’ve got hot organic tea made; have a cup and let’s chat about “this and that”!
Jan says: Don’t you just love the liquid aminos? Also, be sure to try making some kale chips if you haven’t already. Just when you need that CRUNCH So addictive! I purchased the organic dried garbanzos to make some of my own hummus, but haven’t tried that yet. I have made quick hummus out of organic canned chick peas. Also, did you know that you can roast the drained chick peas, for another crunchy treat?
Have fun with your spring projects!
Jan, I forgot about that…I have been wanting to try roasting chick peas, and I bet the liquid aminos would be so tasty on them! I have not tried kale chips, would love for you to tell us how you do them. Yum! Thanks so much for the ideas! -Nicole
Hi Nicole,
I sure wish I could sit with you, face to face, have tea and chat! I could sure use that spirit lifter! I thank you for sharing some "brightener" thoughts and ideas here and I’ll just pretend to be having tea with you!
Thank you!
God bless you!
CJ
Oh, CJ, I know…wish we could have that "real" tea together…maybe someday!! Big hugs to you, farmsister! -Nicole
Adrienne says: It’s good to see you using my old method of dryer lint-TP tube-candle wax fire starters. When I was on the road as an RVer and stopped at a laundromat, I would take the dryer lint with me and some of the other women (and a few men) would look at me strangely until I explained. As I did my laundry, I would go to the stove in the RV, heat water and brew some orange spice tea. The aroma would even erase the fabric softener smell and a few people would share a cuppa with me. Great way to make friends!
Hi Adrienne! It is such a great way to use, re-use and recycle. The first time I saw homemade fire starters was at my first farmgirl sisterhood chapter Christmas party. Every year, we trade gifts, but they must be homemade. One farmgirl, Kathy, made homemade fire starters, wrapping them up all pretty…they were the biggest hit. So smart. So many of the "old" ways are still the best ways, don’t ya think? Also, as an "RVer", being able to be somewhat self-sufficient is important, I bet. I also bet you had a great time. It’s been a dream of my husband’s and mine to someday hit the road in an RV. Great fun! Thanks for reading and commenting! Big hugs, Nicole
Laurie Dimino says: Hi Nicole!
As always, I love your blog. I too am itchin’ for spring. In fact, I think this weekend or next I am going to get some lettuce seeds planted in my "cold frame"! Then next month I will get my snow peas going too! My hands are just itchin’ to get digging in the dirt! I’m especially excited to see how my garden does this year, since we now have a rabbit that is providing lots of wonderful compost!
I LOVE your tea room- I think I would have a hard time dragging myself out of there! Ha Ha. Stay warm, and think Spring! I hope that we don’t get hit too hard with the Nor’ Easter that they are saying is headed our way on Friday!
Farmgirl Hugs to you my dear friend!
Laurie
Hey Laurie, darlin! I hear ya…I am just itchin to dig in the dirt too! I almost can’t stand it! It was even worse today seeing the sun shining so brightly…I wanted to head outside even though it was only in the twenties. Praying we don’t get the 30 inches they are teasing us with…but Spring is not too far off now. Sigh…
As for the tea room, maybe one day we will be sitting in there together havin’ tea for real! Would be nice! Hugs to you, Nicole
bonnie ellis says: Nicole: I am so glad the sunshine can be seen again in your spirit and in your town. Your blog had great ideas (like the fire starters). Your tearoom is lovely and I would gladly join you (I’ll make the raspberry scones) because we grow raspberries. I can’t think of anyone better to farmgirl of the month. Happy Valentine’s Day. Love Bonnie
Bonnie, raspberry scones!! OH MY! Delicious! Yes, we are feeling in much better spirits here. Thank you for your sweet comment, and hope you have a wonderful Valentines Day, too! -Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
Holly Kamal says: Hi Nicole:
This year I have grown Hollyhocks from seed and made
window boxes from discarded vinyl gutters.I plan to grow my herbs in my "gutter boxes".
My son taught my about the fire starters when he started scouting.They are wonderful!He loves camping so this last Christmas I made some for him as a surprise and he loved them.
Hi Holly! Thank you for reading and commenting! Love your idea for the window boxes made from re-purposed gutters. Awesome "farmgirl" idea! I was given a few Hollyhocks last summer by a fellow gardener for my cutting bed. Hope to have some more this year…they are so beautiful. Happy gardening! Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
Rose says: Nicole,
Love your idea for a craft dresser! I had a craft room in the big house I previously owned. Now, in my town home, I am limited on space. I will use an old family cedar chest to store my craft items!
Rose
Thanks, Rose!
It’s been over a month since the horrific tragedy in Newtown, CT. All of us here are asked frequently “How are you doing?” I can’t speak for how the families of the victims are; they remain in my daily thoughts and prayers. The rest of us are healing, as a whole, with the help and love of so many from around the world.
Thank you, Nicole, for sharing this update on how things are from someone who is actually living it, every day. Your perspective is helpful to me . . helps me know more about the reality and how to pray!
Our phone chat the other evening was also such a blessing! I’m so glad you called and we were able to "meet" over the phone. I appreciated, so much, what you shared with me then because, again, it helps me have a "reality" understanding.
I’m sooooo grateful to see the acts of kindness and caring!
Thank you, again! Hope to talk with you again, soon!
Hugs!
CJ
CJ, it was great fun "meeting" you on the phone. I still hope that we get to meet in person someday! You are always such an inspiration, and someone who really radiates kindness! Hugs from Connecticut, my Colorado friend! – Nicole
Laurie Dimino says: Hi Nicole,
What a wonderful perspective to point out to Audrey. Yes it was one evil person who changed everything for Newtown, but when we stop and look around us there are MANY beautiful people all around us with arms open wide, just waiting to love and comfort us.
I too, like CJ, was thrilled to get to "meet" you over the phone, and look forward to definitely meeting you in person one day soon! We are not that far away!
As always I really enjoyed this blog post, as it does indeed help those of us on the outside looking in understand how your community is healing, step by step, day by day. It warms my heart to see the goodness our fellow Americans are capable of.
Blessings to you and your community!
Farmgirl Hugs,
Laurie
Laurie, I thought of you and all your kindness, too, when writing this. I can’t wait to meet up soon! Big hugs, Nicole
Meredith says: Dear Nicole, As usual your post was great. I have been uplifted by the incredible outpouring of support for Newtown from all over the world. I wanted to tell you about the 26 candles everyone lit on Christmas Eve. That was begun by the daughter of my cousin, John Dee,of Bethel. Ashley posted the plan on Facebook and it spread like wildfire. The reason I wanted to tell you about her is that I am so proud of her efforts, and to let you know that those candles were burning nationwide that night. Newtown was wrapped in a huge hug from all over the country, and even though the candles are gone, the sentiment remains. Love to Ct. From Va., Meredith
Oh Meredith! How exciting…thank you for telling me this!! Your cousin’s daughter Ashley should be very proud of her efforts; it was a beautiful, wonderful idea and it was so peaceful and moving. Big hugs back to you in VA, and to Ashley. -Nicole
Adrienne says: My mentor once said, "The best revenge is massive success." I believe the best tonic to cure a tragic event is to figuratively and literally reach out to comfort those who suffer so they realize they are never alone. Newtown and its citizens will always be in our hearts and their (your) survival is a message to us all. Bless you.
Beautifully said, Adrienne! Thank you! -Nicole
bonnie ellis says: Nicole: I have your whole town in my heart and pray for you daily. Isn’t it great what LOVE can do. It’s the only thing that can overcome evil. God Bless.
Thank you Bonnie, hugs to you! -Nicole
sharon says: Thank You for sharing what I am sure is such a tough time for all of you in Newtown. Your blog post made me smile and brought tears to my eyes at the same time. I am glad that the bits of kindness are continuing. I will continue to pray for those lost, and those left behind. Keep strong.
Sharon (a farmgirl wannabe)
Thank you Sharon! -Nicole
Cheri B says: Thanks- for taking time to help us all understand. It is kind of you to share. My kids have been members of Sunbury Halter and Saddle 4H club for many years, Nici has been president for the past year and they wanted to make snowflakes to decorate the new school. The advisor heard that they had more than enough, so now they will be sending them to a local nursing home instead. We do community service projects every month of the year to help our kids understand paying it forward. How nice of you to share with us, how very small the world becomes sometimes. Thanks, Cheri
Hi Cheri, I heard that they had so many snowflakes, but that the school in Monroe that they are using looked so beautiful for those kids. I bet the nursing home will appreciate them, too. I used to volunteer at a nursing home in my early twenties, and it was something I will never forget. Thanks for sharing, Cheri. -Nicole
Raynita says: Nicole, I’m wishing right now I had words to express my feelings as I read your words full of wisdom, grace and kindness. The best I can do is say, "Thank you for sharing this today." God bless you, your family, friends and community. Keep looking at those seed catalogs…HOPE calms our souls…..Raynita
Oh, Raynita, thank you for your kind, sweet comment. – Nicole
sue m says: I still pray everyday for you and your community’s continued healing.Hugs to all from someone who wishes she could do so much more for you and your community.I am glad other beautiful people continue to help you on this difficult journey.Blessings to all
Sue
Sue, thank you. Prayers are powerful! -Nicole
Patty says: All of this and you still managed to knit that hat for my niece’s new baby on the way? I’m looking at that hat in a whole new way. Hope, healing and new life to you.
Patty
Oh Patty, you made me laugh! Thank you for being so patient with me during our farmgirl swap…I couldn’t believe halfway through the hat I had made the silliest mistake and had to start over! Not like me, at all! But I have to say, knitting is one of the most therapeutic activities I can think of, and always tell my knitting students that knitting is "my yoga". Knitting that hat definitely gave me something else to focus on. Big hugs to you! -Nicole
Barb Delaney says: Hi Nicole, Wow you have been strong through this all. You are amazing. Thank you once again for your message-Be Kind! Sad that it has taken a tragedy for people to pull together, let us all remember we should be kind to one another. hugs to you and Audrey, hope to see you soon.
P.S. I am convinced Bonnie is a person in a furry dog suit.
Hugs and prayers for all the families affected by this tragedy.
Thank you, Barb! It was so great to see you and your sweet daughter and we hope to see you again soon.
As for Bonnie, I agree. She thinks so, too. 🙂 Big hugs, Nicole
Beverly Battaglia says: Excellent writing,Nicole! Love, Mother
Thanks Mom! Hugs! Nicole
Karin Weaver says: Thank You so much Nicole. Thank you for sharing. It is good to know that there are so many good people out there. Our farm is open to disadvantaged youth and children that have been abused and we try to share that there is good in the world but when young their world seems small. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you, Karin! -Nicole
alex says: Hi, i have read and will definitely bookmark your site, just wanted to say i liked this article.
Ken Mackenzie says: Very nicely written, Nicole. It must represent the sentiments of every Newtowner.
It’s January again…Happy New Year! I hope you had a nice holiday season, a time of warm greetings and sharing with family and friends. The start of the holidays in late November marked my second anniversary sharing with all of you as the Suburban Farmgirl blogger. It seems as though Father Time has new running shoes, because time’s just flying! I’m so very thankful for all my farmgirl blessings! Won’t you join me in wishing Happy New Year, and a big Farmgirl “THANK YOU” to our darlin’ Queen Bee, MaryJane?
Karin Thomas says: Thank you to our Queen Bee Mary Jane for bringing us this wonderful Farmgirl group and all it encompasses. I love it and the girls dearly. And thank you Nicole for your blog, which I love reading. You and all your neighbors are still in my prayers. Wishing you a blessed and peace filled 2013.
Thank you, Karin. Newtowners have found a lot of comfort in all the kindness that has encompassed us from all over. Wishing you a peaceful, blessed 2013, too. Hugs, Nicole
Lisa says: Thank you doesn’t seem strong enough, and yet I’m at a loss for anything better. So, THANK YOU MARYJANE and NICOLE. I love your blog Nicole, as well as the the blogs of the other sisters. You all have such a talent for writing and sharing. It is my sincere wish that 2013 bring much happiness and blessing to you,MaryJane, Meg, and all of our other farmgirl sisters.
Awww, thanks back at you, Lisa! Hugs, Nicole
Jan says: Yes, we are a blessed bunch! I love to read my farmgirl blogs and see how your creative minds bring such positive energy into our lives…
Funny thing, Nicole. My father called me ‘Bug’, too. Jannie Bug, to be exact. I think that that is one of the reasons that I love nature of all kinds, and yes, even BUGS…
Smiling today,
JBug
Jan, cute! We’ve called her our "Bug" since the day she was born, short for "Snugglebug"…my dad always called me "Junebug". Big hugs, Nicole
AMEN and AMEN!
I too, can only say THANK YOU over and over, so many times, to Mary Jane! The Farmgirl Connection and Sisterhood has been one of the best things to EVER happen in my life.
Meeting another farmgirl is such a gift and, like you say, Nicole, it seems you’ve known them forever. Ahhh, that kindred spirit that connects us!
Thank you too, Nicole, for sharing your sweet farmgirl spirit and heart with all of us!
THANK YOU MARY JANE!
Looking forward . . BIG TIME . . to what 2013 has to offer for all of us farmgirls!
Here’s to us!!
CJ
Thank you, too, CJ…you always inspire me! Hugs, Nicole
Ahhh, what a great missive to read this morning. I can’t thank YOU enough Nicole … and ALL my sisters. Each and every sister makes the sisterhood what it is. Working with you Nicole has been an absolute pleasure. I thank my lucky stars. CommUNITY makes the world a much better place indeed. Not to mention all of us working together to bring back good food. Organic, non-GMO food is a necessary positive whose time has come.
MaryJane
So true, MaryJane! Love you! -Nicole
Laurien Dimino says: Hi Nicole!
I couldn’t agree with EVERYTHING that you said more. Especially the part about there being so much negative in the world, yet as a Farmgirl- we have joy in the little things everyday!
Every morning when I put on my farmgirl sisterhood necklace it truly empowers me. It makes me feel like a part of something bigger and more important than so much of the nonsense that goes on in society today. I too am forever grateful for being introduced to Mary Jane’s way of life almost 4 years ago. I am truly Blessed to be a part of such a wonderful sisterhood!
Here’s wishing everyone a year filled with much love, good health and all things POSITIVE!
Hugs,
Laurie
PS. I recognize that Yankee Candle Store that you and Joey are standing in!!! Been there many times myself, and have pictures of my family standing in that very spot! LOL
Laurie, TOO FUNNY! That is where we met and had lunch! We met at noon on a Sunday, and didn’t end up seeing anything there, as we visited for hours! Our husbands even hit it off, too! Good eye, Laurie! – Nicole
I agree about FarmGirls being a very "positive" thing in my life….happy, inspiring, uplifting.
Thank you, MaryJane :)!
Warmly,
Heike
FarmChick #2245
Uplifting…another great way to describe the sisterhood! Thank you, Heike! -Nicole
Debbie says: Dear Nicole, by the time I got to the bottom of your post I was in tears! WE certainly are blessed beyond words and just plain lucky to have come together in farmgirl spirit because of our sweet Mary Jane, Meg and the entire MJF Farm Family…Just when you think miracles might be few and far between here comes Mary Jane to show us that the world is indeed brimming with not only daily, sometimes hourly miracles, but true friendship, genius talent, hearts wide open and friendship with kindred souls all over the world. She is a diamond our MaryJane…shining bright and showing us how to git-r-done farmgirl style… I know this farmgirl will be forever grateful for that fateful day I found Mary Janes Farm in a barns and Noble book store. So, YES! I would be happy to join you in saying THANK YOU Mary Jane for being you… sweet wonderful you!!!
LOVE AND HUGS TO ALL and congratulations to you Nicole on two years of fabulous blogging sister!
xo
Deb MJF Beach Farmgirl Blogger…
So well said, Debbie. And big hugs to you, blogging sis! -Nicole
Adrienne says: Thank you both for all that you have shared with us, both triumphs and tragedies. When I roamed the U.S., Canada and Mexico in my RV for seven years, Mary Jane accompanied me everywhere–at least her tasty food did! Many campfires were started with the empty food pouches and washing dishes was kept to a minimum. I’ll never forget the Iowa farmgirl whom I met at the laundromat when she was in town and who invited me to spend the night at her farmhouse. I took a shower and sank into the most wonderful night’s sleep in a comfy bed with a handmade quilt over me. When I arose at 5:30 am, she had already made breakfast. She sent me on the road with a thermos full of coffee, homemade biscuits, butter, preserves and a tearful hug. This was just one of the many times I was asked to spend the night or park in the driveway or plugged into the shed so I could have electricity. The warm welcome from farmgirls everywhere will always be remembered. You and Mary Jane are especially terrific and I look forward to spending many new years with you both!
Adrienne, Your comment proves we farmgirls are never alone where ever we may roam! Hugs, Nicole
Diane Van Horn says: Nicole,
My sentiments exactly! Love your blog and all things MaryJane’s Farm. I too have met some of my kindred souls from the sisterhood. When we have met it is just like you described, as having already known each other. I stumbled across MaryJanesFarm about 5 years ago by picking up an old MaryJanesFarm magazine in a waiting room somewhere. I was instantly smitten! Since then I have taken part in 3 Farmgirls on the Loose Adventures including one that culminated at MaryJane’s B and B in Idaho and have met numerous other sisters at get-togethers. I have old friends but all my new Farmgirl Friends just "get" me! So in closing I will join you in a heartfelt Thank You to MaryJane and the whole staff including all you wonderful bloggers. I look forward to a "homemade" new year!
Diane, so true, so true…’my Farmgirl Friends just "get me"‘…I couldn’t have said it better! -Nicole
bonnie ellis says: Yes…MORE kudos to Mary Jane. You deserve ’em gal! It’s great to be part of something so special that’s lasted so long. Wish you many more farmgirl years as our queen bee. It’s so special to have met you. 3 times.
ulla christensen says: Dear Nicole.
Congratulations with being the farmgirl of the month, you deserve that.
Nice picture of you all .
Love from farfar and farmor from Danmark
Dear Mor, Well, that’s from my farmsisters, and was such a surprise and honor! Love you all, Nicole
Thank you seems so simple compared to all the advice, encouragement, info, experience and knowledge you share all year long….. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE what you do and looking forward to a wonderful new year! Congrats and wishing you the best year yet in 2013!
Farm hugs from midwest Illinois,
Lynn
Barb Delaney says: Happy New year to all the farmgirls and our Queen Bee MaryJane. Counting my blessings, while counting my blessings and there are many. Most appropriate for this post is a big thank you to our very sweet and talented Nicole. I am lucky to have Nicole as a leader/sister in our farmgirl sisterhood chapter. I moved to CT 2 years ago and felt like I didn’t belong here until I came across Nicole. I felt welcomed in her home and group from day 1. I now have a sense of belonging here in CT, there are women like me. Congrats Nicole on farmgirl of the month. You are a natural in what you do.
Oh my goodness, Barb! What sweet things to say…thank you. I am just so happy that MaryJane and her wonderful ideas brought us together. Can’t wait to do our "sewing day" and let our daughters (who are just alike, too, right?) play for the day. You are a blessing to me, too. Hugs, Nicole
I’ve lived in Sandy Hook/Newtown almost half my life. If you’ve read this blog, you know just how deep an affection I hold for my town. It’s breathtaking; even twenty years later, it’s beauty moves me. We’d originally moved to Connecticut for business, and could’ve lived anywhere. Coming to Newtown, with its picturesque scenery, structures bursting with character, and majestic flagpole anchoring our Main Street, we knew Newtown was where we wanted to settle. My beloved town’s the only home my child’s ever known, where everyone knows everyone else. Businesses call patrons by first names; you can’t go to the store without seeing someone you know. Our community’s very active. It’s the perfect place to raise a family, a storybook setting. Calling Newtown “close-knit” falls short…the community’s more than that; it’s a big family. When evil descended upon us, he swooped right into our town’s very heartbeat…one of our beloved schools.
Debbie jacob says: Thanks for sharing this Nicole, it is still so sad every time I read or hear anything about the tragedy. It is great to hear about the acts of kindness. I am so happy your baby was ok I just couldn’t imagine. I remember when we found out Mia was allergic to fire ants and the traumatic experience I had rushing to the ER to meet her. When I saw her I didn’t recognize she was so swollen. I wept for several days after that just thanking God she was ok and what could of happened. Ugh all you can do is Thank God she is still with you and enjoy every second which I’m sure you already do.
Thank you Debbie. This was a difficult blog to write, but I felt compelled to. I am holding my baby tighter and longer every day since that fateful Friday.
On another note, I am emailing you directly, as Mia and I share something in common. I, too, grew up with a life-threatening allergy to fire ants! Talk to you soon, Hugs, Nicole
Karin Thomas says: Nicole, your town and all it’s people have been on my mind and in my prayers since last Friday. My heart is aching and I keep finding myself in tears. Like you I can’t even begin to fathom the grief and devastation everyone is feeling over the loss of all these precious angels. I’ll continue to pray for healing and peace for all of you.
Karin
Thank you, and much love. -Nicole
Laurie Dimino says: Nicole,
Thank you for the personal insight and heartfelt words. As you know, we continue to hold your entire town close in prayer. Sending you love and support and strength to face each day. The whole world is here for you my dear sister.
Laurie, you have been so wonderful. Your email and card in the mail brought such comfort; it’s truly a blessing to have the network of farmgirls. Thank you again. Farmgirls hugs, Nicole
Nicole, I really think you handled this blog…the best of any thing I have read or seen on this subject. You just get better every week. Dad
Thank you so much, Dad. Love you. -Nicole
Barb Delaney says: Another amazing article, Nicole. My heart and prayers will always go out to those involved in that horrific day. There is a little boy who I never got to meet in person, but got to know through the media speaking with his family. This little boy who i never met touched my heart is such a way that his smile and outlook on life still remains with me. May he RIP. All the little angels taken way to soon.
Lets stop the stigma of mental health!
Nicole Christensen says: Thank you, Barb. It was hard to write, and hard to read again after four years. I have met several of the families and some of their close friends since that day, and I admire them all so much in how they have the strength to go through each day and how they have honored their lost loved ones. No one should have to do what they do. We are all so blessed to have our sweet children! Hug your beautiful children for me, and hope to see you all soon. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Barb Delaney says: Mr LaGroue, what a beautiful daughter and granddaughter you have. Nicole is one of the most wholehearted people i have ever met.
Nicole Christensen says: Oh my goodness, Barb. What a wonderful thing to say. I am honored to have you write that. Thank you so much. Much love, Nicole
Adrienne says: I live on the left coast but you and the children and everyone in Newtown were in our hearts and minds at the synagogue Saturday when we sent healing prayers your way. I hope all of you can have the strength you need to carry on. Bless all of you.
Thank you, Adrienne. It is still hard to believe that something like this happened at all, let alone in our town, in that sweet little school. The good that has come out of this has been the way everyone has come together. There is kindness everywhere. My daughter and several of her close friends expressed how they all felt very scared and very stressed over it all. It was overwhelming, for adults, but also for our kids. There’s been lots of town activities geared towards our children, to help them smile. It’s been therapeutic for us parents, too. And, there was a special toy day where all the toys donated to our town were passed out to all the town children. It was so amazing. My little girl said to her friends, "Look, there’s so many people that care about us!" I told her that for every one "bad" person, there are millions of good ones. Hugs, Nicole
Bonnie says: Dear Nicole, I think your Dad said it best – of everything I have read concerning that horrible event, you gave us such personal insight that no one else has. Thank you for that and I am so glad that your daughter was not in that building. What a blessing for you. I think it might have affected the attitude of many at this Christmas time. Perhaps they were more aware that things are not what make up the holiday. It’s family, friends and the giving of time and self that matters. Again, thank you. I have never responded to your blogs before, although I read and enjoy them. God be with you and your town through this healing process.
Dear Bonnie, Thank you so very much. We just stopped by one of the memorials in town on our way to the post office. We just couldn’t walk in there before now. It was amazing…inside the tent are mounds of stuffed animals, poems and drawings from schoolchildren from all over, and volunteers from other towns "manning" the memorial, offering hugs to others. There were flowers someone all the way from France had donated. We couldn’t go in it until now. There has been so much kindness in so many forms from all over the world towards all residents of our town. Blessings to you –Nicole
bonnie ellis says: Nicole: My tears for you and others near that disaster are wet even now. Love is the only thing that will overcome evil. Let me join you and everyone who mourn for the children, the parents and the teachers and the police and firemen who were there on that awful day. Bless you all. Love Bonnie Ellis
Hugs from me to you, Bonnie.
Marilyn says: Nicole, thank you for sharing your blog with us. I work at a prison in North Carolina and even the inmates are appalled at the actions of the one who committed this atrocity. I have seen mentally ill inmates over the past 31 years and it is indeed a tragedy that when someone who is "mentally ill" with whatever diagnosis, they do not receive treatment. However, I know that even those people that I have observed over the many years would find this an atrocious act. Thank you for letting us know from a citizens standpoint. Your teachers are an example of true love and devotion to their students. Most citizens who do not work in education or the prison systems do not realize the danger that is present for the employees and the children and other prisoners from the mentally ill. I find it hard to justify this type of action as "mental illness" but I believe that God will wrap his arms around your citizens and help to ease the pain of the lost. God Bless Newtown.
Marilyn, thank you. I have a hard time thinking about the teachers… I just want (and do) cry. Pure love and selflessness. I truly believe any of our teachers here would have done the same thing. Also, the firefighters and EMT’s who were first on the scene are so brave. Most do not realize that here they are volunteers, and they put their lives on the line every time they get a call. I’m praying for them everyday. Thank you for sharing with me, Marilyn. Hugs, Nicole
Holly Kamal says: I can not imagine the horror that all residents of Newtown have gone through.Your post honored all victims with respect and dignity.I had a really hard time. Thank you for your compassion and caring nature.My prayers will continue for all the Newtown residents (especially the victims).
Thank you, Holly. -Nicole
Valerie O'Sullivan says: Dear Nicole,
I am truly grateful not to see a Newtown Resident sobbing in any of your photos, as I am sure that I have been ungraciously photographed in my time of grieving. (weakness..by abundance ) WE are Newtown Strong and can get through this, with the assistance of trained therapists, amazing clergy and each other. (national and international community) We made Christmas happen….even though we came up short on presents, burnt cookies, lost sleep and forgot what we where doing most of the time.
Dec. 14th was one of the worst days of my life as I was unsure if my son’s cousin and best friend was going to come home alive. I did 80 miles on the highway and ran 1/4 of a mile to find out that his mother, one of my best friend’s and love of my life, was one of the lucky ones. She was able to bring her son home and I was unable to go to her due to the traffic. I recalled the terror of waiting to find out if my father was going to come home on 9/11. He worked in the trade center. The radio warnings of possible gunmen at large and the sounds of the helicopters, prompted me to leave.
I am so thankful that we did not have to bury another family member this year. I am so thankful that our national and international community helped me realize that our children needed Christmas more than anything and were able to face this horror and uncertainty with an army of teddy bears and stuffed animals.
I realize that I am in a spiritual winter and struggle with anger, but acknowledge and appreciate that we belong to a very spiritual community and will eventually accept this reality.
I am truly grateful to so many that that helped our community withstand this unspeakable evil that has changed us forever. My belief that things will come closer to being healed when our Sandy Hook Children will be educated on Newtown soil. I am grateful that the neighboring town of Monroe offered us a school so that our children will not be separated. I have held my children closer and take less for granted.
Loved your Blog !
I am so looking forward to 2013.
Thank You,
Valerie
Dearest Sweet Nicole, I was hoping you’d find the words. Thank you for being endlessly wise and loving. Love to your hubby and daughter … and your Dad!
Thank you so much, MaryJane! I found so much love and strength in all my farmgirl sisters! Big Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Everyone,
Thank you to everyone for the love and for all that has been done for our community. There have been amazing acts of kindness in Newtown from all over. Many people have asked me where and how help to Newtown can be mailed, and here is what I found:
There are quite a few donation funds set up, some for individual families. There is one set up where all donations will go to where help is needed, for the survivors, the families of the lost, and anyone in the Sandy Hook/Newtown community who needs help. It is through a local bank, and is being aided by the United Way, although United Way is taking no admin costs. Any donations sent to them are tax deductible, and those donating will be receiving a receipt for their taxes. That address is:
For drawings from children, or cards, etc., those can be sent to:
I was so saddened to hear about this happening in what seems like such a quiet, peaceful town. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Many thanks and blessings to you, AJ. -Nicole
Dear Nicole…
I found you through MaryJane and Just wanted to send you some love from California…if you are in need of some fabric, to keep your hands and mind busy…please let me know. I would love to donate fabric to Newtown for quilts for each family. If this is something you would like me to organize, please let me know. I know it might not be the right time yet, but I think each family could probably use a quilt to keep them warm in the coming months.
Merci-
Kaari
Kaari, What a beautiful idea! I will email you directly.
Nicole
Vicki says: Our thoughts and prayers are with you all, in this very difficult time.
Barbara says: Hello Nicole. I have never seen your blog before. I did a google search for Mary Janes Farm and stumbled across this accidentally. I am impressed with your compassion, insight and the way you were able to humanize this tragedy and give us a sense of understanding and love. I will continue to watch your blog. I send you blessings and love. I cannot imagine the horror. How does one shield their child from this? the long-term effects? I cannot imagine. (and especially when you thought it was the perfect American town with innocence and Norman Rockwell charm). Wishing you PEACE at this difficult time.
Hi Barbara,
Thank you for your kind words. I’m not sure anyone, even professionals, could answer the other questions you ask about, such as how to shield a child or the long-term effects. What I am telling my daughter, though, is to look at all the love and kindness that has come out of this horrible act. For one bad person, there are a million good ones. She did get comfort from that, and seems to feel some better. Among my friends here, all moms, we all seem to be having a harder time than our children. We can’t shield them completely, as much as we all want to. Back when my daughter started kindergarten, I was taken aback at the "lock-down drills" our schools do. Now I am thankful that they have that in place.
Thank you for reading and commenting, and I hope you will "visit me again! -Nicole
Brenda says: so sad what happened there are no words to say that can help. yes you were a blessed one. it is good that the other parents have such a loving town to help them. Prayers to you and your town. And prayers no others will have to go through this sad thing is someone will.
Thank you, Brenda. -Nicole
susan says: I have read your column for awhile now and always enjoy your insights into your life and community.My heart bled when I heard of the horror that affected your community.I live across the continent in another country but please know that we all feel your pain and send prayers for healing and to remember that there is kindness and love everywhere and we are sending it your way.Prayers for all your little angels.
Dear Susan, thank you. It has been surreal having our little community seen all over the world, but I know we all have found comfort in all the prayers and wishes. Wishing you the best in the New Year. -Nicole
Debbie says: Dear Nicole,
Just checking in with you today on New Years Eve. Wishing your family and community many continued blessings and healing in 2013.
Much love and huge hugs!
Deb ( your blogging sis Beach Farmgirl Blogger )
Hi Deb!
Thank you! We ushered the New Year in quietly at home with two other families of young children here in town. Today (January 3rd) the Sandy Hook students go back to school, at another location, and I have noticed much of the media have left our town. My heart is with the Sandy Hook parents today as they send their babies back to school.
May everyone have a Happy, peaceful New Year! Much love, Nicole
Cheryl Simon says: Nicole,
Thank you for writing about the tragedy in Newtown. I read many of the blogs on Mary Jane’s farm website and in the magazine. I want you to know that my church community, Christ the King Catholic Church, here in Detroit, Michigan are praying for the children and families in Newtown (and all over the world) who have been affected by violence. Peace and blessings,
Cheryl
Thank you, Cheryl! -Nicole
Marrietta O'Brien says: Nicole, I started crying before I read the first sentence as I knew to what you would be embracing in your blog. Across the country, thousands of miles away, my friends and I were discussing this life-changing tragedy. It was impossible to have it cross my mind without my pausing to say a Hail Mary. I said many Hail Marys for so many people. I think back on the days I was in school, and I actually spent two years going to a parochial school in a town in Connecticut, and never could a tragedy be imagined back then in the 50s. For a few months, my sister and I stayed with my grandparents and finished out the school year while my mother and father went to Chicago where my father was recently transferred by the U.S. Army. I can’t imagine what would have happened to my mother if she had to hear via long distance that anything had happened to her two daughters, ages 6 and 7. No one should have to experience this.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Marietta, Thank you. I grew up in a big city, with lots of crime, but I would never have imagined this kind of thing there, either. It was horrible, and took a toll on all of us. My heart still breaks for the families who lost a loved one, or the students who lost best friends. It’s still unthinkable. It is hard to believe it has been four years! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
is a certified farmgirl at heart. She’s happily married to her beach bum Yankee husband of 20 years. She went from career gal to being a creative homeschooling mom for two of her biggest blessings and hasn’t looked back since. Debbie left her lifelong home in the high desert of Northern Nevada 10 years ago and washed up on the shore of America’s hometown, Plymouth, MA, where she and her family are now firmly planted. They spend part of each summer in a tiny, off–grid beach cottage named “The Sea Horse.”
“I found a piece of my farmgirl heart when I discovered MaryJanesFarm. Suddenly, everything I loved just made more sense! I enjoy unwinding at the beach, writing, gardening, and turning yard-sale furniture into ‘Painted Ladies’ I’m passionate about living a creative life and encouraging others to ‘make each day their masterpiece.’”
is a “MaryJane Farmgirl” who lives in a large metropolitan area. She is a lawyer who has worked in both criminal defense and prosecution. She has been a judge, a business woman and a stay-at-home mom. In addition to her law degree, she has a Masters of Theological Studies.
“Mustering up the courage to do the things you dream about,” she says, “is the essence of being a MaryJane Farmgirl.” Learning to live more organically and closer to nature is Rebekah’s current pursuit. She finds strength and encouragement through MaryJane’s writings, life, and products. And MaryJane’s Farmgirl Connection provides her a wealth of knowledge from true-blue farmgirls.
an old-fashioned farmgirl with a pioneer spirit, lives in the White Mountains of New Hampshire. As a “lifelong learner” in the “Live-Free-or-Die” state, she fiercely values self-reliance, independence, freedom, and fresh mountain air. Married to her childhood sweetheart of 40+ years (a few of them “uphill climbs”), she’s had plenty of time to reinvent herself. From museum curator, restaurant owner, homeschool mom/conference speaker, to post-and-beam house builder and entrepreneur, she’s also a multi-media artist, with an obsession for off-grid living and alternative housing. Cathi owns and operates a 32-room mountain lodge. Her specialty has evolved to include “hermit hospitality” at her rustic cabin in the mountains, where she offers weekend workshops of special interest to women.
“Mountains speak to my soul, and farming is an important part of my heritage. I want to pass on my love of these things to others through my writing. Living in the mountains has its own particular challenges, but I delight in turning them into opportunities from which we can all learn and grow.”
Dori Troutman is the daughter of second generation cattle ranchers in New Mexico. She grew up working and playing on the ranch that her grandparents homesteaded in 1928. That ranch, with the old adobe home, is still in the family today. Dori and her husband always yearned for a ranch of their own. That dream came true when they retired to the beautiful green rolling hills of Tennessee. Truly a cattleman’s paradise!
Dori loves all things farmgirl and actually has known no other life but that. She loves to cook, craft, garden, and help with any and all things on their cattle farm.
describes herself as a goat charmer, chicken whisperer, bee maven, and farmers’ market baker renovating an 1864 farmhouse on an Ohio farm. With a degree in Design, Mary says small-town auctions and country road barn sales "always make my heart skip a beat thinking about what I could create or design out of what I’ve seen.”
Rooted in the countryside, she likes simple things and old ways … gardening, preserving the harvest, cooking, baking, and all things home. While you might find her selling baked goods from the farm’s milkhouse, teaching herself to play the fiddle, or sprucing up a vintage camper named Maizy, you will always find her in an apron!
Mary says, “I’m happiest with the simple country pleasures … an old farmhouse, too many animals, a crackling fire, books to read, and the sound of laughter … these make life just perfect.”
is a budding rural farmgirl living in Palmer, the agricultural seat of Alaska. Alex is a graduate student at Alaska Pacific University pursuing an M.S. in Outdoor and Environmental Education. She lives and works on the university’s 700 acre environmental education center, Spring Creek Farm. When Alex has time outside of school, she loves to rock climb, repurpose found objects, cross-country ski on the hay fields, travel, practice yoga, and cook with new-fangled ingredients.
Alex grew up near the Twin Cities and went to college in Madison, Wisconsin—both places where perfectly painted barns and rolling green farmland are just a short drive away. After college, she taught at a rural middle school in South Korea where she biked past verdant rice paddies and old women selling home-grown produce from sidewalk stoops. She was introduced to MaryJanesFarm after returning, and found in it what she’d been searching for—a group of incredible women living their lives in ways that benefit their families, their communities, and the greater environment. What an amazing group of farmgirls to be a part of!
Suburban Farmgirl Nicole Christensen calls herself a “vintage enthusiast”. Born and raised in Texas, she has lived most of her life in the picturesque New England suburbs of Connecticut, just a stone’s throw from New York State. An Advanced Master Gardener, she has gardened since childhood, in several states and across numerous planting zones. In addition, she teaches knitting classes, loves to preserve, and raises backyard chickens.
Married over thirty years to her Danish-born sweetheart, Nicole has worked in various fields, been a world-traveler, an entrepreneur and a homemaker, but considers being mom to her now-adult daughter her greatest accomplishment. Loving all things creative, Nicole considers her life’s motto to be “Bloom where you are planted”.
What a lovely day you had! For sure chickens come from the T.Rex. What a funny waddle/run they have. To this day, it cracks me up when I see my chickens run. But Henrietta running in an apron? Hilarious.
Hi MaryJane!
Chicken antics "crack" me up too…can’t wait to get my own little backyard flock. Soon…
Much love! -Nicole
ahhh, that was a nice little day trip you all took! you are right, sometimes those are the best days!
I love day trips…it’s like a mini-vacation! Farmgirl hugs, -Nicole
Hi Nicole!
I enjoyed following along on your journey. We took our kids there years ago when they were younger and "into" dinosaurs. Definitely a hidden gem!
I laughed when you brought up the "purple" dinosaur. Every now and then we break out in song singing some of the famous songs from the show. My kids (although they don’t admit it now) were addicted to Barney, Baby Bop, BJ and the rest of the gang! LOL
Would love to visit the seed shop….you must have been in heaven!!!!!
Thank you as always for sharing a glimpse!
Hugs my friend,
Laurie
Hi Laurie! My girl was so enchanted by Barney when she was a tot, back when Selena Gomez was a child star on it. Now she is a "Selena Gomez" fan again. They both have grown up so much.
As for the seed shop, I’ve promised my Farmgirl Chapter an organized trip now that I have had a chance to check it out first. Next early spring. Hopefully you can join us for that one. I’ll keep you posted on our other activities this summer…I’m determined to get ya out here! Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
What a nice day trip you both had! The dinosaur museum sounds interesting!
I will need to explore my home area for small local museums and parks. Sometimes, the most interesting thing can be found in one’s own backyard!
Rose
Isn’t that so true! Have fun…Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
This sounds like it was a wonderful trip. I’m starting to discover how beautiful Hartford county is too. Brian and I took a trip to Fairvue Farm in Woodstock, CT and had lunch at an adorable place called The Vanilla Bean Cafe in Pomfret and stopped at a gift shop called Celebrations Gallery, also in Pomfret. I can’t wait to go back! I always wondered about the area which is called Quiet Corner in Connecticut and I want to explore it further! Even though I don’t have my own garden (yet), it sounds as thought I would have loved that seed shop!
Ali, our sisterhood chapter will go one day. Container gardening! Sounds like you found a neat place to go, too. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Top of the day to you, Nicole! I loved shadowing your day trip. As a child, we rotated types of vacations, camping, swimming, and fishing in a single location one year and doing a road trip the next, with special interest in historical locations and national parks. I would love to visit Wethersfield! Unfortunately, I married a city boy,who is not at all into gardening or site seeing, so I would probably have to go by myself. I still may do it! Thank you for sharing your joy! Becka
Hi Becka! I can still remember fun day trips I took with my parents as a child, too. For awhile, my mom collected thimbles, and she gave them to me for my sewing room. Some of them are purchased from day trips we took together in the 70’s! As for your city boy not wanting to go site seeing, you should join a Sisterhood chapter (or start your own) and go sightseeing with the girls! Thanks for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Sounds like a great day Nicole, thank you for sharing.
Hi Barb! It was a great day, and we found the dinosaur park by "accident" just by noticing a sign for it on I95 once before. Like a hidden gem! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Nicole, this was so interesting. I love the pictures and the old church one. Audrey has such a sweet face and I wish I could have gone there with y’all!
I had a red banny hen that layed tiny eggs when I was Audrey’s age. My grandmother gave her to me one summer while visiting her farm in Fayetteville Arkansas. I had fun holding her in my arms and was so sad when I had to leave on the train to go back to Houston Texas.
A place we visited a few years ago near Ft.Worth TX had dinosaur tracks too.
I love and miss you,
Mother
Mom, you would have loved Wethersfield! I will take you there when you visit next. Love you, Nicole
Greetings, Nicole! Your articles are always a treat! I truly enjoy the simplest things and you always make them sound very special! Always well done! ella
Hi Ella, thank you! It is true, the simplest things in life are the best. Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
Hi Nicole,
Rod and I were in both places 5 years ago when my contract was Hartford, Conn. We so enjoyed both. It was amazing to me to walk where the dinosaurs walked. We also enjoyed ice cream in Wethersfield. What a wonderful town. Sounds like you all had a great day. ALWAYS good to see pics of your darling daughter.
Ideas for another day maybe-we enjoyed the BT Barnham museum and the worlds only 2 sided building in Hartford. I think there is also a Poe house there too.
Hugs to you, Joey
Hi Joey!
Isn’t that dinosaur park amazing? I can’t wait to go back. I’m glad you recommend the PT Barnum museum. We’ve been trying to get there forever, it seems, but it was closed for awhile after damage from Irene, and the hours have not been convenient for us, but we will get there. I also want to take the family to the Yale Peabody museum; we’ve not been there yet. When you were in Hartford, did you go to the Mark Twain house? I’ve been there more times than I can count. Always love it.
Big hugs to you, farmgirl sister! -Nicole