
Do you remember your first “wheels”? Before my first car (an old beat up thing, that even as a “vintage” car was the ugliest automobile I’ve ever seen), I still remember the excitement of a new bicycle.

Do you remember your first “wheels”? Before my first car (an old beat up thing, that even as a “vintage” car was the ugliest automobile I’ve ever seen), I still remember the excitement of a new bicycle.

Y’all know I love a county fair! Last year, my friend Andrea and I took our kids and headed up to the Big E, New England’s biggest fair, and the fifth largest agricultural fair in the nation. (If you haven’t heard of it before, check out last year’s blog post from my first-ever fun visit at http://www.farmgirlbloggers.com/3708#more-3708). This year, Andrea and I decided to go together again, making plans similar to last year. However, things doesn’t always go as planned…
Looks like you had a lovely time once you finally made it. I lived close to Springfield,MA for a few years and went to the Eastern States Expo every year. That’s where I had my first kraut dog…lol. Great story.
Nicole, I love all the pictures! Especially the midway too, at night. Makes me want to go someday. Too bad for the traffic but maybe not good to go on a school holiday!
Love
Mother
Looks like fun, I loved going to the fair, as a child. We would get out of school the first friday of the fair, and we would always get a new outfit to wear to the fair. We always loved going to the exhibits, and the agricultural bldgs. My daddy used to drop us off on his way to work in the mornings and then join us there in the evening when he got off, walk around a couple times with us then we would head home very tired. I think it was free that day to get in, and daddy would give each one of us $7, (there were 4 of us) to spend, and it would last us all day until he got there in the evening. I wonder why the $7, why not just $5 or $10..haha Be BLessed. Neta
I can’t go to fair grounds so I thank you for sharing your experiences, those pumpkins are beautiful. And the view from where I could never go – way up high – wow!!!! Thanks again. God bless
I think my. Fair days are. Over…as for traffic delays we deal with that every day as I live in a tourist town. Glad you had a nice time. Great photos. THANKS FOR SHARING!
We got caught in the same traffic, but arrive around one. We usually attend the first day and arrive well before noon. Back in the 1990s we went with the children and always went on the school holidays. Never those crowds. I bought a set of those knives back then and still use them.
I was interviewed by Jen of CT Fox News and made it on the local news. My comment about the crowds was editted out but not my comment about the blueberry pie. My mom was so excited to see her daughter on the 10 pm news.

Y’all know I love a county fair! Last year, my friend Andrea and I took our kids and headed up to the Big E, New England’s biggest fair, and the fifth largest agricultural fair in the nation. (If you haven’t heard of it before, check out last year’s blog post from my first-ever fun visit at http://www.farmgirlbloggers.com/3708#more-3708). This year, Andrea and I decided to go together again, making plans similar to last year. However, things doesn’t always go as planned…
Looks like you had a lovely time once you finally made it. I lived close to Springfield,MA for a few years and went to the Eastern States Expo every year. That’s where I had my first kraut dog…lol. Great story.
Nicole, I love all the pictures! Especially the midway too, at night. Makes me want to go someday. Too bad for the traffic but maybe not good to go on a school holiday!
Love
Mother
Looks like fun, I loved going to the fair, as a child. We would get out of school the first friday of the fair, and we would always get a new outfit to wear to the fair. We always loved going to the exhibits, and the agricultural bldgs. My daddy used to drop us off on his way to work in the mornings and then join us there in the evening when he got off, walk around a couple times with us then we would head home very tired. I think it was free that day to get in, and daddy would give each one of us $7, (there were 4 of us) to spend, and it would last us all day until he got there in the evening. I wonder why the $7, why not just $5 or $10..haha Be BLessed. Neta
I can’t go to fair grounds so I thank you for sharing your experiences, those pumpkins are beautiful. And the view from where I could never go – way up high – wow!!!! Thanks again. God bless
I think my. Fair days are. Over…as for traffic delays we deal with that every day as I live in a tourist town. Glad you had a nice time. Great photos. THANKS FOR SHARING!
We got caught in the same traffic, but arrive around one. We usually attend the first day and arrive well before noon. Back in the 1990s we went with the children and always went on the school holidays. Never those crowds. I bought a set of those knives back then and still use them.
I was interviewed by Jen of CT Fox News and made it on the local news. My comment about the crowds was editted out but not my comment about the blueberry pie. My mom was so excited to see her daughter on the 10 pm news.

When I was a child, my parents and teachers first sparked my lifelong interest in history, especially American history. I’ve always hoped my daughter would share that passion. My family and I have visited some amazing historical places all over the world, but the road trip we took recently to visit the home of Franklin D. Roosevelt and to our nation’s first US presidential library in Hyde Park, New York, is one of the most interesting and memorable places we’ve ever been.
Gosh what an Amazing place. I love history too. If I ever make it to the states one day it’s on my bucket list to see. Looking forward to seeing more of your history when you post 🙂
Hugs from Australia
Nicole, I really enjoyed reading your blog about FDR! I remember my father talking a lot about him and admiring him. I was too small so my first memory is of Harry Truman. But Roosevelt was President when I and my twin sister were born. We were five months old when Pearl Harbor was bombed and FDR declared us in World War II. I did like Eleanor Roosevelt and feel she did a lot of good things for our country. Beautiful rose gardens as you showed. Love, Mother
AND I THOUGHT JEFFERSONS PLANTATION Was large.. nice. Blog…..now I know where to. Go for a. Nice. Sightseeing trip. In My state to see in my state I wasn’t aware of. Thanks. Susana
If you loved the Roosevelt estimate, you are going to love Valkill which was Eleanor’s house. My daughter and I went to both and we really loved Valkill. I live about 30 minutes away and we had a great time there too. Also, you may want to know and try out one time, on the Roosevelt estate they have a “Knit In” which Eleanor always tried to make items for the soldiers. This usually happens in May and it is a great group of ladies that get together one afternoon and knit or crochet 7×9 rectangles. Then other women stitch them together to make blankets for local charities. Some of us already bring finished rectangles so that we are ahead of the game. If you would like more information – let me know. Have a great day! Diane
Wow, that looks like a fascinating place to go visit. Thanks for sharing all the details.
Thank you for a tour of sites I have always wanted to visit. So interesting. Glad you got to do this tour and hope Hyde Park and the others will be your next ones. Thanks again. God bless.
I look forward to telling you more about Valkill and the Knit In. If you and your daughter do come, my daughter and I would love to meet you there. We loved it so much that we would love to do it again. Do you love Cross Stitch – I also have a friend who owns a store close by. I think it would be a lot of fun to meet you! Have a great weekend! Diane
What a neat day trip! I had the pleasure of taking my kids and hubby to Springfield, Illinois, to tour the Lincoln Presidential Museum a few years back. We lived in St. Louis at the time. It was well worth what we paid and we learned so much!
If your daughter would like to learn more about the Roosevelts, see if you can get a DVD from the library of PBS’s Roosevelt mini series that ran last fall. I watched it with my mom (she’s 75, I’m 54) and I learned so much! It covers all the Roosevelts, so Teddy as well as FDR. Fascinating stuff!
Having grown up in the Hudson Valley, I have visited both the Roosevelt and Vanderbilt mansions many times. They are so full of interesting things that each time one visits, more and more is discovered. It is akin to re-reading a favorite book or watching a favorite movie again. As one gets older, the points of interest change and each trip gives opportunities for further knowledge. The Newport Mansions have the same effect. One year the interest is in the gardens, the next perhaps is dedicated to the architecture. I am glad you enjoyed your trip and am also very glad you mentioned going to the Vanderbilt Mansion. It is spectacular also, but on a different scale. I now feel the urge to go on a road trip…and after all, the Hudson Valley is beautiful in the fall.

School’s started, summer’s winding down, and New England’s prettiest season, fall, will be here soon. However, there’s still work to be done outside no matter where you live! With so many gadgets out there, sometimes it’s hard to know what works and what doesn’t! We gardeners can easily end up with a shed full of tools we don’t use. I’ve compiled a list of my most favorite garden gear I found this season.
Thanks so much for sharing the picture of the plantain. I have these ALL. OVER. my backyard and it’s like pulling teeth to get rid of them.
Nicole I love you not because you are from Texas (me too but a transplant in Tn and dearly love both states) I love reading your comments and look forward to getting them. My tip is that I always put my gloves and garden shoes in a zip bag. It saves having a surprise the next time I put them on ….like a spider or little animal.
I love this idea, thank you so much for sharing. I’m going to pop my gloves in a plastic zip lock now. I’m not one for spiders or any other critter on me either. 🙂
I’m new to gardening so I’m Lomb all the tips I’m reading.
Have a wonderful week 🙂
Great info!!! I am a bit handicapped so being on my knees in the garden is impossible – I have found Fiskars has several tools that help me – you are right the right tool makes it a whole lot nicer to garden. I have been preserving too, corn, tomatoes, onions, peaches, plums, pears so far. Thanks again for posting. God bless.
Nicole- how do you disinfect and dry your pruners between plants? I understand the reason but need an easy and portable way to do it. Otherwise, it will never get done.
Very informative blog, Nicole. I will have to check to see if we need some of these tools since Richard is “the gardener” and his knees are really bad. I love to hear of all the foods you are canning.
Love,
Mother
Hi Nicole, I’ve screen shot some of your pics and thoughts today so I don’t forget them. I’m new to gardening and am beginning slowly with container gardening as we are renting our home. I’d like to take it all with me when we move on. Thank you so much for sharing what you are and have learned on this topic. It all helps me and inspires me.
Greeting from Australia.
Love that stand up weed puller a and no bending over…whete yo find it. Susana

Summer 2015 has been perfect here in New England. Mother Nature granted us some great weather – perfect for a vacation! Recently, my dear friend Susan (you might recognize her as my “Chicken Guru”), invited us for a Farmgirl road trip, just us girls and the kiddos (our hubbies stayed home to work and pet/chicken sit). Since I’ve never been North past Boston, Massachusetts, I was especially excited to see another part of New England! Continue reading
Hi Nicole,
What a fun trip you had with the girls and kiddos…We’ve been as far north as Eastern Canada and we did take a long weekend in Bar Harbor once also. I’m glad you got out for some time on the water and those pink cowgirl boots are YOU!
Hugs,
Deb
Hi Nicole,
I loved reading about your vacation. How special it must’ve been. I have always wanted to go to Maine. And, I do love seafood so I would be in heaven! 🙂 Your pictures are gorgeous and I agree – my favorite was you and Audrey tubing! The food boat looked kinda cool – what food did they offer? Great memories.. the kids will always remember it!
– Dori –
It sounds like everyone–even the teenagers–had a great time. I hope you have a chance to visit again soon.
Maine is a beautiful state. A lot like Minnesota. I loved it there. And you are right, the blueberries are awesome. Great pictures. I am glad you had a good time.
Nicole, these are beautiful pictures! Makes me want to go there too! Love your boots and I am sending a skirt that will look perfect with them. I am so glad you and Audrey had some time to spend together on a trip like this. She is an age to really enjoy doing mother and daughter things. Do those tiny toads get any bigger?
Love,
Mother
Sounds like you had a great time! Thanks for a great blog with photographs of your vacation. I too like vacations where there is no TV available or constant radio/music playing. Unfortunately, I need wifi to keep in touch with work obligations. Glad you were able to get away to enjoy the nice summer and take a tour of Maine. By the way, I love Lobster Tail and Lobster Bisque. It is my mother’s favorite meal for her birthday and special occasions.
Love the photograph of those tiny frogs!!!
Nicole, how much fun did yall have? I love Maine, my husband and I RV all over the US and Maine is one of my favorites. Love the blueberries, and LOVE the lobster rolls. 🙂 Glad you had a good time, we all need to take a week and play. Be BLessed Neta.
Great pictures! Thanks for sharing!
Hi Nicole! I loved reading about your trip to Maine. What a gorgeous place. I visited as a teenager with my parents but didn’t appreciate it then like I should have- so I think I need to go back someday! Thank you for sharing it with everyone!
Thank you for sharing your trip to Maine. I used to travel a lot but never got to Maine and now I feel that I’ve enjoyed a beautiful part of it. Love the boots too!!! God bless
Nicole, what a great vacation……..loved the scenery and everything seemed so peaceful and a great way to get away from the city……you really have a great friend in Susan. ………… by the way, loved the pink boots. I still have my cowboy boots but haven’t worn them in a long time.
Mary Ammerman

My husband and I dream of owning a camper, someday driving across the USA. Recently, I met a special glamper and “Sisters on the Fly” member who did just that with her husband. Now, she’s traveling alone, on a special mission, carrying on her husband’s legacy of love.
Great keep up the good work
Wonderful, wonderful post! I certainly felt ‘nothin’ but love’ reading this. Thank you, Nicole (and Alison) for sharing this.
I know exactly how you feel…ALL you hAve is the memories. Rest in Peace sweetheart….
i love it..what a beautiful article, alison…you inspire me, as you always have.
love always bobbie
What a heartwarming story! They will be reunited in heaven! God bless her! Best wishes,Cindy
This is beyond beautiful…..Thank you for sharing! Bless you!
Blessings sweet lady on your journey of Love.
I just wanted you to know I really enjoyed reading your love story and how you have decided to continue traveling as you honor Chuck’s memory. I, too, and a recent widow – my husband will have been gone now for a year next month in September. I am older than you, 72, and now riddled with inoperable cancer so made the hard decision to sell our trailer and be content to travel other ways. Just got back from a dream vacation in Mexico, which I did from a wheelchair! Best trip I ever had. I am an artist and this trip served to show me I still have some artwork in me! I send heartfelt wishes for your happiness and the joy you spread wherever you go. I pray the Lord is in your life as well because He opens up so many more doors and possibilities. Hugs from Sister #820 Paige Bridges
I’ve been following Allison for a long time, loving every minute of it but thanks to you Nicole, I feel like I know her better now. Wonderful post.
Love her story, keep on doing what makes you happy!
Enjoy. Your brave young and beautiful
I’ll be watching you on Facebook from my couch
I’m 80 or I would be on a journey with you
You’ve got my prayers and love
Helen
Alison is a remarkable woman and I hope you can fulfill your dream. For five years, I traveled in an 18′ motorhome named Wendy (because Wendy went everywhere with Peter Pan and I was Peter Pan) and for two years in a 27′ motorhome named Lucy (because even though she was a pain at times, everyone loves Lucy). There is nothing like traveling where you want to do what you like and then coming “home” to enjoy your life. I also hope Alison has many happy years on the road.
Thanks for the feelings of LOVE in a tough situation. This is a true story of LOVE and we for sure need all the LOVE we can find. I so hope that Alison does find her way to my neck of the woods because it is beautiful here and because it would be so wonderful to meet her. Best wishes Alison!! and thank you Nicole for your LOVE. God bless.
This story made me cry. Allison is so pretty and I love her pictures and her “glamper” with the car in pink! Very sweet story of true love. I have my own with Richard.
Audrey looked so mature in her picture that I did not recognize her at first. I thought “what a pretty girl” and it was my granddaughter!
Love,
Mother
Thank you for your truly heartfelt, inspiring story. She faces her pain and loss with faith and courage. A lesson for us all to learn. Lessings her way, and safe travels always!
Sincerely, Bobbie Shaw
P.S. I travel lightly with my 1967 Shasta Astroflyte 🙂
Bobbie,
One of the things that is so fascinating to me when I see my story written by someone other than I, is the perceptions by those who read it.
It’s ironic, really…I don’t see any of what I do as being courageous, though, yes, I’m busting out of every comfort zone I ever thought about having. I guess I see all of this as “well, what else was I going to do?”
I do know that Chuck knew that I was/am a strong woman, and he knew I’d do something with this experience. And it helps me to hear other’s perceptions at a time when I don’t really trust my own, so thank you for your words.
Happy trails yourself, with your traveling lightly Shasta Astroflyte~
alison
Oh my goodness, how special is that?!?! thank you for sharing that and thank her for doing that amazing journey she is on! what a story!
Denise,
I apprectiate that you took the time to read the story of my Odyssey. Nicole did a great job with interviewing me (and I loved that her daughter was with her), and a great job writing about it.
If this is all I can do to honor my husband’s legacy, and the love he left behind for me, then I will do it for the rest of my days. He was worth this, and more. And he set me out on this Odyssey with intention, which I’ve come to realize more and more as time goes by~
alison
Hi Nicole,
This was such a special post to read. I bet it was even more special to write.
You know what my favorite part was? The journal they kept together. That is absolutely amazing. Every married couple should do that.
I’m so glad you had the opportunity to meet Alison… and to introduce her to us!
Hugs,
– Dori, the Ranch Farmgirl –
dammit, you made me cry at work….very moving I will be looking for that pink teardrop on my travels.
Sharon,
How do you travel? In a trailer? I’d never even thought about trailers until I got my own, and now I’m fascinated with all the kifferent kinds that I see out on the road and at SOTF campouts.
I hope we get a chance to meet out on the road~
alison
What an awesome story!! Love her car and trailer. You go girl!!! Hope our paths cross sometime. Take Care and a beautiful love story!!
Rowena,
Thank you for your words. It was such a treat to meet Nicole and be interviewed by her; it gives me an opportunity to touch base with so many more people along the way.
I was blessed every step of the way, sharing my life with my husband, and I’m blessed now, with my huge support community~
alison
What a beautiful, loving story. Loved every word and was sorry when it was to the end. I think there is some ‘nomad’ in me also….currently keeping my eye out for an small, older trailer that I can ‘doll’ up. How can I follow Allison to read about her adventures? Thank you for the great post.
Nicole, what a beautifully written story. It proves, without a doubt, that even though a loved one is gone, love never ends.
Alison, on your way to Moscow, Id to visit Mary Jane, please stop by Fairfield, WA. It’s beautiful here and I have lots of farm girlfriends that would love to share stories with you!
Love your story,happy trails sister and if ever in the Ozarks your welcome to my little nest on the river.
All I can muster is “WOW”. What a touching story. Thanks for sharing it with us. Makes me feel hopeful and thankful all at the same time 🙂 .
Blessings to you and Audrey today sweet farm sisters,
Dena
Wow, Nicole, thanks for sharing this post. My husband and I also travel together in the same fashion. I feel a kindred spirit here with Allison. My heart is heavy with mixed emotions, saddened for her loss, but excited to see she is so brave to carry on. I pray that if anything should happen to myself or my sweetie that the other would carry on as well in the same fashion as Allison. She really does give courage to those who have lost their bestfriends in their spouse to keep on keeping on, and know that they are watching them, and traveling with them in spirit. Thanks Allison for giving those hope, and thanks Nicole for sharing Allison’s beautiful story. Be BLessed. Neta
Wow, Nicole, this is so beautiful to read. Alison is certainly courageous. I love her living legacy. Very inspiring. And how wonderful for you and Audrey to meet her.
Greetings from Australia 🙂
Hello Nicole I am an old friend of Alison from NJ having met initially when she joined our church. I have been reading her blog for the past 2 plus years and have seen her twice in the same timeframe. I knew Chuck and he was indeed that wonderful charming man she describes. But the reason I write is to tell you that you drew the perfect picture and description of her story and the incredible person she is. I attended the incredible memorial service Alison planned and executed for Chuch in at outdoor woodsy park. I am positive none will ever impact me the way that one did. It was unique and so full of wonderful love stories and testimonials. I applaud you for your story as it was so right-on and beautifully written
Oh what an amazing story! Thank you for sharing Alison’s story (love her decorating too). Also, best wishes to Paige Bridges (Aug 5 comment).

My husband and I dream of owning a camper, someday driving across the USA. Recently, I met a special glamper and “Sisters on the Fly” member who did just that with her husband. Now, she’s traveling alone, on a special mission, carrying on her husband’s legacy of love.
Great keep up the good work
Wonderful, wonderful post! I certainly felt ‘nothin’ but love’ reading this. Thank you, Nicole (and Alison) for sharing this.
I know exactly how you feel…ALL you hAve is the memories. Rest in Peace sweetheart….
i love it..what a beautiful article, alison…you inspire me, as you always have.
love always bobbie
What a heartwarming story! They will be reunited in heaven! God bless her! Best wishes,Cindy
This is beyond beautiful…..Thank you for sharing! Bless you!
Blessings sweet lady on your journey of Love.
I just wanted you to know I really enjoyed reading your love story and how you have decided to continue traveling as you honor Chuck’s memory. I, too, and a recent widow – my husband will have been gone now for a year next month in September. I am older than you, 72, and now riddled with inoperable cancer so made the hard decision to sell our trailer and be content to travel other ways. Just got back from a dream vacation in Mexico, which I did from a wheelchair! Best trip I ever had. I am an artist and this trip served to show me I still have some artwork in me! I send heartfelt wishes for your happiness and the joy you spread wherever you go. I pray the Lord is in your life as well because He opens up so many more doors and possibilities. Hugs from Sister #820 Paige Bridges
I’ve been following Allison for a long time, loving every minute of it but thanks to you Nicole, I feel like I know her better now. Wonderful post.
Love her story, keep on doing what makes you happy!
Enjoy. Your brave young and beautiful
I’ll be watching you on Facebook from my couch
I’m 80 or I would be on a journey with you
You’ve got my prayers and love
Helen
Alison is a remarkable woman and I hope you can fulfill your dream. For five years, I traveled in an 18′ motorhome named Wendy (because Wendy went everywhere with Peter Pan and I was Peter Pan) and for two years in a 27′ motorhome named Lucy (because even though she was a pain at times, everyone loves Lucy). There is nothing like traveling where you want to do what you like and then coming “home” to enjoy your life. I also hope Alison has many happy years on the road.
Thanks for the feelings of LOVE in a tough situation. This is a true story of LOVE and we for sure need all the LOVE we can find. I so hope that Alison does find her way to my neck of the woods because it is beautiful here and because it would be so wonderful to meet her. Best wishes Alison!! and thank you Nicole for your LOVE. God bless.
This story made me cry. Allison is so pretty and I love her pictures and her “glamper” with the car in pink! Very sweet story of true love. I have my own with Richard.
Audrey looked so mature in her picture that I did not recognize her at first. I thought “what a pretty girl” and it was my granddaughter!
Love,
Mother
Thank you for your truly heartfelt, inspiring story. She faces her pain and loss with faith and courage. A lesson for us all to learn. Lessings her way, and safe travels always!
Sincerely, Bobbie Shaw
P.S. I travel lightly with my 1967 Shasta Astroflyte 🙂
Bobbie,
One of the things that is so fascinating to me when I see my story written by someone other than I, is the perceptions by those who read it.
It’s ironic, really…I don’t see any of what I do as being courageous, though, yes, I’m busting out of every comfort zone I ever thought about having. I guess I see all of this as “well, what else was I going to do?”
I do know that Chuck knew that I was/am a strong woman, and he knew I’d do something with this experience. And it helps me to hear other’s perceptions at a time when I don’t really trust my own, so thank you for your words.
Happy trails yourself, with your traveling lightly Shasta Astroflyte~
alison
Oh my goodness, how special is that?!?! thank you for sharing that and thank her for doing that amazing journey she is on! what a story!
Denise,
I apprectiate that you took the time to read the story of my Odyssey. Nicole did a great job with interviewing me (and I loved that her daughter was with her), and a great job writing about it.
If this is all I can do to honor my husband’s legacy, and the love he left behind for me, then I will do it for the rest of my days. He was worth this, and more. And he set me out on this Odyssey with intention, which I’ve come to realize more and more as time goes by~
alison
Hi Nicole,
This was such a special post to read. I bet it was even more special to write.
You know what my favorite part was? The journal they kept together. That is absolutely amazing. Every married couple should do that.
I’m so glad you had the opportunity to meet Alison… and to introduce her to us!
Hugs,
– Dori, the Ranch Farmgirl –
dammit, you made me cry at work….very moving I will be looking for that pink teardrop on my travels.
Sharon,
How do you travel? In a trailer? I’d never even thought about trailers until I got my own, and now I’m fascinated with all the kifferent kinds that I see out on the road and at SOTF campouts.
I hope we get a chance to meet out on the road~
alison
What an awesome story!! Love her car and trailer. You go girl!!! Hope our paths cross sometime. Take Care and a beautiful love story!!
Rowena,
Thank you for your words. It was such a treat to meet Nicole and be interviewed by her; it gives me an opportunity to touch base with so many more people along the way.
I was blessed every step of the way, sharing my life with my husband, and I’m blessed now, with my huge support community~
alison
What a beautiful, loving story. Loved every word and was sorry when it was to the end. I think there is some ‘nomad’ in me also….currently keeping my eye out for an small, older trailer that I can ‘doll’ up. How can I follow Allison to read about her adventures? Thank you for the great post.
Nicole, what a beautifully written story. It proves, without a doubt, that even though a loved one is gone, love never ends.
Alison, on your way to Moscow, Id to visit Mary Jane, please stop by Fairfield, WA. It’s beautiful here and I have lots of farm girlfriends that would love to share stories with you!
Love your story,happy trails sister and if ever in the Ozarks your welcome to my little nest on the river.
All I can muster is “WOW”. What a touching story. Thanks for sharing it with us. Makes me feel hopeful and thankful all at the same time 🙂 .
Blessings to you and Audrey today sweet farm sisters,
Dena
Wow, Nicole, thanks for sharing this post. My husband and I also travel together in the same fashion. I feel a kindred spirit here with Allison. My heart is heavy with mixed emotions, saddened for her loss, but excited to see she is so brave to carry on. I pray that if anything should happen to myself or my sweetie that the other would carry on as well in the same fashion as Allison. She really does give courage to those who have lost their bestfriends in their spouse to keep on keeping on, and know that they are watching them, and traveling with them in spirit. Thanks Allison for giving those hope, and thanks Nicole for sharing Allison’s beautiful story. Be BLessed. Neta
Wow, Nicole, this is so beautiful to read. Alison is certainly courageous. I love her living legacy. Very inspiring. And how wonderful for you and Audrey to meet her.
Greetings from Australia 🙂
Hello Nicole I am an old friend of Alison from NJ having met initially when she joined our church. I have been reading her blog for the past 2 plus years and have seen her twice in the same timeframe. I knew Chuck and he was indeed that wonderful charming man she describes. But the reason I write is to tell you that you drew the perfect picture and description of her story and the incredible person she is. I attended the incredible memorial service Alison planned and executed for Chuch in at outdoor woodsy park. I am positive none will ever impact me the way that one did. It was unique and so full of wonderful love stories and testimonials. I applaud you for your story as it was so right-on and beautifully written
Oh what an amazing story! Thank you for sharing Alison’s story (love her decorating too). Also, best wishes to Paige Bridges (Aug 5 comment).

Since January, I’ve been training to become a Certified Master Gardener. Currently a “Master Gardener Intern”, I’m amazed how much more I’ve learned, gardening since age seven. Learning about the diagnostic aspect has been my favorite – like “plant CSI”, identifying diseases, bugs and other issues.
Gardening’s long been in my blood – a need to be outside and in earth. As any gardener can attest, sometimes things aren’t always perfect. We’ve had a late season, a wet spring, and a ‘buggy’ summer. I’ve noticed more, ahem, “imperfections” in my garden, appreciated more breathtaking beauty outside than inside any art museum, and also considered that invaders from outer space had landed on some of my plants.
Thank you Nicole for this very informative article, as well as, pictures! I’m a visual person and the close up photos were fantastic showing “the good, bad, and ugly” in the garden settings! Thanks for the tips on staying organic with the pests that need to be treated! Enjoy your beautiful plants and continued good weather!
Nicole,
Great post. My daughter and I had a major infestation of aphids in our flower garden, which is a big deal as it was completely wiping out our zinnias…. rows upon rows of gorgeous zinnias. We tried Neem Oil and had some success. It was so important for us to go the organic and safe route. We were finally able to get it under control, but in the mean time I really worried about the good bugs that were being effected even by the Neem Oil. And we also picked off beetles and put in soapy water… by the thousands! 🙂 I’ve heard the same thing about the beetle bags – you’re just asking for trouble by inviting the whole neighborhood of beetles for supper! 🙂
What an awesome class the Master Gardener class must be. I’ve always dreamed of taking it. Someday! 🙂 And yes, there is a whole lot to gardening that most us of have no clue about. Thanks so much for sharing!
I think being in the garden with the butterflies, bumble bees, and other bugs is just about the happiest place to be!
– Dori –
I thoroughly enjoyed your blog.. Great pictures too! Perhaps now the tables have turned..Now I can call you for advice, lol.
What a coincidence! I have scores of squash beetles this year, though I usually have them in various quantities. Any ideas for a natural deterrent? I also thought that I had dodged the millions of tiny flies that hatch on my grape vines the last several years. I purchased Neem oil to spray on in the spring, but didn’t follow through. Drat…
I know that yellow jackets have their place in the garden, and I usually can coexist with them. Last weekend they became very aggressive and I got stung on the back of the hand. I finally had to remove several nests under my potting shed patio so that they would quit bombing me! I made a natural spray with peppermint oil, with little or no success. Is there something natural to use that will keep the yellow jackets from rebuilding at the same site of the old nest? We have hundreds of nesting sites on our outbuildings!
I am so impressed, Nicole! The pictures are beautiful too. I never heard of “galls” before. We have azalea’s and I will have to tell my husband, Richard, since he is the gardener in our family. I think the red rose is gorgeous, and we had a rose that color on our property in Rockport, Texas. All our roses here have died. You sound like a real “Master Gardner” and I learned a lot I never knew. We learn all our life. I am very proud of you. Love,
Mother
Thanks for all your photos and information. I’m at the very beginnings of learning about gardening, in pots only for now, but I’m excited to always learn more. Thanks for sharing Nicole. I look forward to seeing and reading more about gardening 🙂
Great article Nicole, loved learning more. I too, took a Master Gardener course back home in La., and learned so much, we received a huge notebook and I am always referring back to it for info. Be Blessed. Neta
You are so I intelligent about plants and bugs….wish you could yell me about this……I have this plant that has been showing up in my garden. It has a yellow flower that looks like a Hibiscus but grows like a tree….three flowers on the top…then two, then one big flower.the leaves look like OkrA.I wish I could show you. But can’t send a photo. I know it’s a weed but is so pretty I let it grow.

My mom (left) on her 7th birthday.
My mom recently celebrated a birthday. In her seventies, she is still always stylish, with impeccable hair and makeup, and known for her big, bright, beautiful smile. It’s not easy living so far from family, and I so often wish I could just drive down the road to see my mother, or bring her a bouquet of flowers from my garden. When her birthday rolled around, I couldn’t wait, because I recently found the perfect gift for her…something I have been searching for her for decades.
Nicole,
I had 2 minutes to read this post before heading out the door… and instead I’ve taken 15 minutes to carefully read every word. And cry. And I decided I am not getting up from my desk chair until I’ve written to tell you how precious this is. I’m sure your mother loved this gift beyond measure, but this blog post will be a treasure to her as well.
She was such a darling little girl wasn’t she? (And a beautiful woman today.) Do you have any more twins in your family? I know you didn’t have twins, but did your brother? I know someone who is a triplet and she had a mother that was a twin as well as grandparents too… so it made me wonder how many more are in your family?
I just adore this blog post so much, I can’t even explain it! It makes me want to be a better gift giver.
Thanks Nicole!
– Dori, the Ranch Farmgirl – 🙂
What a perfect gift – and she is beautiful!
Thank you, Nicole, for writing this. I just love the little Coca Cola music box from you and Russell. It has made me so happy and brought back so many memories. I miss you everyday, my beautiful daughter. I love you.
Mother
Yes, my husband thought I had accidenly tossed his bible in the recycling bin several months Go.because he had a habit of putting it in a walmart garbage bag with his newspaper he bought every sunday after church. I was sure I had tossed in the paper bin. In THE meatime. He died not knowing he had brought it in the house. Two days ago, looking for my quilts, uncovered a Wal-Mart bzg….and gurss what was in the bag? His bible! It was like I found…..a treasure! I was so overjoyed. Be cause…I found his tgouhts in the margins and he u derlibed what he read. I never knew he even read souch of the bible. But it helped me find some peace. ..knowing he did read it.I just wish we had found it sooner. Because he suffered so. Much the last two months of his life. Praying my prayers and word’s were so comforting.
What a sweet story and a sweet gift for your mom! Love it!
My mom has been gone for 21 years and I miss her so much!
Enjoy the moments!
CJ
Gosh what an amazing story. I love that you love your mom so much you never gave up looking. I’d say that this new box will be so much more to her than her first with the love that it holds as a gift from her dearly loved children.
I’m on the look out for a record plYer and cuckoo clock from my childhood memories.
Very cool. I bet she was so surprised and the music box made her day!! Nicely done!!
for me it was a cookie jar, my sister accidentally broke the bottom of it when we were still at home and I have always wanted one for my own memories. My Mom kept the lid which was an animals face. Then I found it on ebay and have been thrilled with it ever since! that is so cool that you found that one for your Mom!!
Great column! What a sweet birthday present from you and your brother to your mom! I love the pictures of your mom as a young girl and lady, especially the current photograph! She looks great!
~~~Rose
Nicole! Such a beautiful story and very well written with such heartfelt emotional love! You are very blessed to know the history of your family ! I come from a very loving family too! Although I was adopted and very lucky to have been raised with so much love! It’s strange not knowing where you come from . Well anyway ,I’m sure your beautiful Mom was thrilled! I love what you said that your Mom said” we didn’t have much but we cherished what we had” such a simple life in the past! Happy thoughts,Cindy
Nicole,
When I turned 5, my great uncle who worked as Walt Disney’s first casting director, sent me an adorable Pollyanna doll from California. She and I were about the same size and I treasured her. I don’t remember when or why my mother got rid of her. I did see one in an antique store, but she was very expensive and not in very good shape. Hopefully, one day I will find another Pollyanna doll…maybe in time for my first granddaughter!
~Laura
What beautiful pictures to go with a beautiful story. I have an identical twin sister. Marion and I are the best of friends. Having a twin is a guarantee of a best friend for life!
Marilyn
Loved all my bikes too
…Ilved it . When I first. Saw Murder She WROTE…LOVED THE BASKET ON THE BIKE…. nice blog!
Hi Susana! That’s right! Angela Lanbury’s character rode a retro looking bike with a sweet wire basket! I had forgotten about that. Glad you enjoyed today’s post. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Gosh your post brought back memories of my first proper bike. It was an old brown vintage thing, no gears and like yours I had to pedal backwards to brake. I now have road racing bike me a mountain bike but I’d love an old vintage style bike with a basket and a cute bell too. We actually bought my daughter one last Christmas although hers is a new bike retro in style with gears and although she loves it she hardly ever rides it. I’m hoping she will get out in it more and that we can find some lovely trails to ride like yours. It’d be so relaxing and exciting and invigorating and fun to ride your trails. I’ll have to make an effort to source some out for her nice she finishes her final school exams. Thanks for a lovely post with a nostalgic twist. Happy riding
From Australia
Denise x
Hi Denise! Glad you enjoyed the blog today. Aren’t the new retro style bikes cute? I am so glad manufacturers are bringing them back. You didn’t mention where in Australia you are living, but I bet there’s some wonderful bike trails there, too! Thanks for stopping by! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Hi Nicole,
I’m at port macquarie which is on the mid north coast of the eastern side of Australia. It’s a lovely place, right near the beaches and with a temperate climate.
I’ve just got to research bike trails around here and then make the effort to get out and ride them.
Hi Denise, I just searched your town area on the internet – holy cow it is sooooo beautiful! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Nicole, don’t discount the importance of gears and hand brakes! Maybe you live in a place where there are never hills…but I’d be lost without my gears! I have a Trex Women’s Navigator, a crossover bike that features the relaxed ride of the cruiser, but with gears, so I can get up and down the hills! I can’t imagine trying to get around town on a bike with no gears – it makes all the difference for my aging knees!
Hi Susabelle! Connecticut is anything but flat! In my neighborhood, there are a few places I walk my bike up. My new bike is described as a “hybrid” so I think up hill it is a bit easier to pedal, but I don’t have to switch any gears myself. Your bike sounds great. For me, I just like my back pedal brakes and simple “just pedal” gears. It’s awesome you are biking, keep it up! Happy Riding and Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Thank you for writing this. I got a beautiful, “new to me bike”, about 5 years ago.
It also has a bell, which I love to ring, drives my kids crazy! It has 3 speeds, Perfect!
It is a beautiful blue. I feel sad though because all the chrome on it is rusting.
But it is a wonderful bike.
Happy Riding
Hi Mary, Your bike sounds wonderful. I wonder if there is some way to stop the chrome from rusting? I did a quick online search and found this, maybe it will help. http://www.livestrong.com/article/429080-how-to-stop-your-bike-from-rusting/
Happy riding! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Hello Nicole,
I love your story about your bikes. I too, felt like I was driving a car when I rode my two wheeler. My Dad brought the bike home on a whim. He just showed up with this beautiful bike. I agree with you wholeheartedly about gears and braking and so on. My husband and I went bike hunting, and I made it quite clear that I didn’t want gears nor brakes on the handle bars. When I pedal, I want to be in control. Thank you for your lovely story which took me down memory lane.
Here’ s to old fashion bike riding!
Hi Candace, I am so glad you liked the blog. I will be sad when winter comes full force here and the trail is frozen over with ice. I have really enjoyed riding bikes with my family, and also some solo rides. I am so glad I decided to get a new bike, because I’ve already ridden it more than the other one with all the gears and hand brakes that is over a decade old! Enjoy your bike! Happy riding and Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
I never learned to ride a bike, but your love for these vintage ones brings tears to my eyes.
Oh, Jennifer, thank you! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Nicole, I had forgotten about the picture of you on your tricycle in the ’70’s. You were so cute in your bell bottoms! I did not remember we had taken pictures of you and your pink panther bicycle either, and glad you had them. Seems like yesterday you were riding it. What happened to it, do you remember? I get sad sometimes when I remember you as a little girl. We had some fun times. I really like your new red “cruiser”, always a favorite of my generation in the 1950’s. I love you.
Mother
Hi Mom, Not sure what happened to that bike. Wish I had the 1950s one, though! I know what you mean about getting sad when you think how quick kids grow – I got a little teary eyed when the American Girl Christmas catalog came in the mail yesterday. Remember how excited you and I were to plan our presents for Audrey? That WAS just yesterday. Miss you, Mama. Love, Nicole
Nicole ~ I so enjoy a bike ride around my town or even just the neighborhood. Several years ago when I thought about how little exercise I got in a daily routine, I asked myself what did I enjoy most when I was a child. And, yes, it was my bicycle, so I went out and found one that would work for me. It is lime green, one of my favorite colors and I get so much enjoyment out of it. Now, my grand-girls and I ride together on occasion when our schedules permit. It is such a blessing. Thanks for the memories!!! ellah
Hi Ella, That’s how I felt when I decided to get my bike – it was the thing I enjoyed most as a child. A lime green bicycle sounds so pretty! I love that color, too. Enjoy your grand-girls, and happy biking! Thanks for writing in. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Hey Nicole!
I just loved this post. I can so relate to your stories about riding bikes as an adult with hand breaks, etc. My hubby and I rode mountain bikes together for several years, but I’ve always had in the back of my mind to get a vintage bike ( RED ) just like your new one. I’ve seen them online… Thanks for reminding me!!! Love the photos of you when you were small with your bikes… You had some great rides, girl!
Hugs and happy riding!
Deb ( Beach Farmgirl )
Hi Deb!
Thanks! I am just like you when it comes to the color red -drawn to it like a moth to a flame! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Hi Nicole,
I was on vacation when I read your post and couldn’t manage to post a comment from my phone! Finally had time to get back to it today.
I love your new bike. I also love the pictures of you when you were younger with your old bikes! Wouldn’t you love to have those today??? 🙂
I would just love to have a bike. But living on the farm, on a gravel road hilltop… just not conducive to biking! But, how I love yours. Maybe I need it for my porch! Ha!
Loved this post!
Hugs,
– Dori –
Hi Dori! Missed ya, sweetie! Hope your vacation was grand! I am loving my bike, though the rides are getting fewer between because fall weather is setting in, and as of this weekend, it will get darker sooner (ya DON’T want to be at Fairfield Hills after dark). I love your idea of bikes sitting on porches as decor. I think mine will come inside for the winter if I can figure out a corner to place it in! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Lucky you! It’s beautiful!
I live in an area where gears are pretty much necessary. A mountain bike is best actually, but mine is in sad need of expert bike mechanic work. Of course, since winter is coming, no point in worrying about it now!
Enjoy your lovely bike!
CJ
Thanks, CJ. Mine is actually a hybrid, so hills are easier, but I don’t have to fool with the gears myself. I just wasn’t coordinated enough for them, I guess! Winter is coming here, too, and the trails are usually covered with ice for several months. I will miss riding my bike, but will pull her back out as soon as spring thaw comes! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole