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Hello my friends!
This is one of those times when I feel like I have nothing to say or share. I flew to New Mexico in January and spent a few days helping my Mom pack up to fly back to Tennessee with me for a few months. My sister flew out and got her and they just left yesterday; I feel like the last 3 months are a happy blur! I decided that this is what I had to share today!
I lost my Dad in July of 2023 and he and Mom had been lifelong sweethearts so honestly she has had a really hard time living life without my Dad; they were one of those couples that were inseparable. So everything has been a huge adjustment. But I’m so thankful for her willingness to leave her cozy ranchhouse and come stay with us for a few months.
Anyway, this morning I just felt like sharing some photos of my mother while she was here. I want to treasure these sweet memories.
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Our airport selfie as we began the long day of driving 3 hours to her closest airport and then flying all day to my closest airport…. and the another drive to our farm. Such a long day for my Momma. But she’s a good sport. (And wheelchairs are a lifesaver in the airport!)
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I moved my sewing machine, ironing station, and sewing supplies from my upstairs sewing studio to our dining room downstairs. That way Mom was able to sew to her hearts content without having to climb the stairs.
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My momma is so lucky to have her oldest granddaughter (my daughter) and her two oldest great-grand girls that live just minutes from us next to our farm. They came up often to play a game, play the piano, work on a puzzle, or just hang out.
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My mom in “her” bedroom with the flowers and card I got her on her Anniversary. My dad loved roses. Mom always got the most gorgeous bouquet of roses from him on their anniversary. This was a happy day for her, remembering so many wonderful anniversaries with Dad.
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We met for coffee with Jillian, Mom’s oldest great-grand girl, before she left for her morning college class. We did this a few times!
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Of course we can’t forget Belle. Our Australian Shepherd that never forgets my Momma… she’s so excited every year when she comes. Mom made sure to play frisbee with her on her little walks around the hilltop.
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Mom just might shoot me when she sees I’ve shared this picture! But I couldn’t resist. We were in our tornado shelter THREE times in the middle of the night this early spring and Mom was such a good sport about it! I think since there aren’t tornadoes where she lives in NM, it was kind of an adventure! But I had to send the picture to my siblings and we all thought it was pretty cute!
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Mom chose some fabric from my stash and I cut her some 5 inch squares; she had such a good time putting together a huge pile of nine-patch blocks that she plans to quilt this summer at her house. She was excited to have a project to take home with her. Rosetta had fun helping her lay them out!
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I had a whole bunch of red and white half square triangles cut before she came and I quickly sewed up a quilt top with them and Mom went to work on hand quilting. It took her most of the 3 months she was here to do the hand quilting and then the binding. But it came out SO gorgeous. I loved watching her work on it most every day. Her hands hurt with arthritis but she said she was exercising them!
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Just a few days before she left, she got it finished!
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We celebrated three April birthdays together this weekend. My Mom’s 88th, my husband’s, and Jillian’s 17th. It was so fun to celebrate together.
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Today I feel lonely. I keep expecting Mom to come and tell me something, or to be sitting in my little sitting area off the kitchen where she sat and talked to me while I cooked. It’s too quiet. But I also have a very thankful heart that this is something I get to do each year through the winter. Our memories together will be a treasure.
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Oh and I DID do something fun to talk about this month! I completely forgot to tell you that I made such a fun quilt coat for our very own Suburban Farmgirl, Nicole, here on the Farmgirl blog!! I asked her to send me a vintage quilt and I’d make her a coat. I really needed some projects to work on while Mom was here and this was so perfect! I got Mom’s advice on a few things and I was off and running. You can read Nicole’s blog post all about it and see the pictures – she is an absolute doll in the coat, as I knew she would be!
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Until our gravel roads cross again… So long.
Dori
I’m so glad! She’s so beautiful! What a wonderful family.
Dori,
Thank you for sharing your Mom’s visit. She is beautiful, and you are so very blessed to still have your Mom to share life and have fun conversations. May God bless you with more visits in the future.
Looks like everyone had a great time. Love that red quilt! And the quilt coat is just fabulous.
I need to get back to my own blog. . .it’s been a year.
Dori, I loved hearing about your mother visiting this year! I also think the picture with her hair down is precious. I think you favor her a lot.
Your mother reminds me of my Nannie, my dad’s mother, who raised me until I turned 11 and was sent to live with my mother. I have a beautiful Lone Star quilt she gave me when I got married, which I treasure.
I read Nicole’s post recently, and just have to say that the coat is beautiful! She are so sweet to make it for her. I know she appreciates it.
I love your posts and keeping up with you. Thank you for sharing you and your family with us.
Joan P.
Dori, thank you for sharing your family, it is so nice that you can have these visits with your mom. My mom passed in April 2017, I was going to fly out to see her in May and spoke to her in April she was so happy I was coming. But that visit did not happen and I think of her often and miss her, my dad predeceased her also. Time spent with our loved ones can seem so fleeting. You made me smile and feel good by allowing me to be a part of yours.
Sheila
Beautiful family, you are blessed
All the quilts are so pretty and the jacket is wonderful!! Lucky Nicole!
Loved reading your sweet story, you are indeed, your mother‘s daughter!!
Thank you for sharing about your mom’s visit, and the great memories of her stay with you and your family. You will cherish those memories for a long time.
My mom has been gone for about seven years, but I cherish the memories we made together. Through the years, she made holiday craft projects and gave them to her daughters. It is great to think about her, when I have these items out for the designated season.
So happy for you that you’re able to spend time with your mom. I miss those days. My mom passed in 1986 and I loved spending time with her. I’d travel from Maryland to Maine to spend as much time as I could and I treasure those times.
Dori…what a beautiful post. My favorite picture is of your mom sitting on the vintage red stool in front of the Hoosier cabinet with the apple butter and the biscuits. In this fast paced techie world, the old ways are always the sweetest and the best. (And the quilt is gorgeous!) You are blessed indeed.
Your mother is SO beautiful! How wonderful to be able to have her with you for a nice visit. I can understand now what it is about your posts that inspires me. The love and care of your family (not to mention talent!) shines brightly!
Such a special time, thank you for sharing! Your mama has such a sweet smile. (And I love the picture of her with her hair down)
Nothing to say, nothing to share? Oh Dori, this is priceless. The sweet memories, the darling pictures (oh her lovely curly hair!) What a wonderful time spent together with family…nothing is more important. I love the quilts, the smiles, the generations together playing games, quilting, and celebrating birthdays. Memories that will last…thank you for sharing with us. It’s just a perfect post. Mary
Dori~ thank you for sharing your Mom with us. It was such a joy and it made my day to hear about her visit with your family. So happy you are still making memories with her.
Happy May.
Dear Dori, I am sorry you are missing your mama. You are so blessed to get to spend that special time with her. I miss my mama and hope to visit her soon. I now know where you get your talent! You are all so talented – such beautiful fabrics and quilts. How awesome is it that you got to sew together like that. And that pic of your mama is lovely! She is beautiful. I have worn my jacket so much, and hope you know how much I treasure it. I hope you enjoy your present, too. Farmgirl hugs, Nicole, Suburban Farmgirl