Appreciating it All

 

Like my sweet Daddy says, “I’ve been missing you!” 

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  1. Pat says:

    It seems like it has been a long time since you’ve written or maybe I just haven’t gotten it. But sooooooooooo nice to hear from you. I don’t always read other’s blogs all the time but when I see it is from you I always do. 🙂

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Pat. I think it has been forever since I have been able to post. I’ve been working all the time.
      Your encouraging words will make me do better!
      I appreciate you.

  2. Ramona Puckett says:

    I have missed reading about your adventures! And I used worn out stock tanks for raised garden beds, just layers of wood on the bottom and then leaves and compost, the vegetables and flowers (zinnias!) loved it! I hope everything is going well for you. ❤️

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Ramona! So, I have a worn out tank. It’s so deep, I hadn’t thought about using it for plants. But padding the bottom would make it feasible $-wise.
      I’m putting it on my list! Thanks for that idea. Take care!

  3. Sheena says:

    Your farm sounds wonderful! I hope you grow some lavender in your raised beds! That would be lovely!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Sheena. I love lavender. Love it.
      So far I haven’t had any luck here in Ga.
      I hadn’t thought about trying it in a raised bed! I will do exactly that and cross my fingers.

  4. Thank you for the blog today. Needed it. Kinda jealous of your “Fake Winter”. We had rain, then thunder sleet and snow today. Looking forward to planting flowers and warmer weather.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Bleh, fake winter. You’d tire of it soon enough, I bet. Esp when our sticky hot summers come around. lol
      I am looking forward to the challenge of trying to stay ahead of everything on a farm. Each year, I lose, but it’s fun to try.
      Thank you for your comment, Michelle! I’m so happy you stopped by.

  5. Tracey says:

    I’ve been a subscriber to Mary Jane for forever. Your column is the reason I renew my subscription year after year (and now Dr Lara K too).
    I live across the creek from a farm that spreads slurry but thanks to Covid, I can’t smell a thing.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Oh no, covid. 🙁 Hope you are better soon and can once again enjoy all the smells of life.
      Tracey, you’re precious. Thank you for telling me this. It put a BIG OLE smile on my face!

  6. Jan Galbreath says:

    So happy to read your update! Your writing always brings calmness and a

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      “and a…” do I get to finish that sentence? Cause I will. lol
      Bring calmness is exactly what I aspire to do.
      Thank you for coming by, Jan. It means the world that you left me this note.

  7. Terry Steinmetz says:

    What a way to wake up! I’m enjoying my tea on this cold winter morning (it’s -5°) in front of the fireplace and reading my email. Your words were so encouraging. We have snow and cold here, but hubby and I still go outdoors–we have a wood boiler in our garage that needs to be fed every now and then. He hauls wood everyday to keep in the garage for days when it snows. That’s better than getting wet wood for the stove! We also do garden planning, puzzles, and read. I have been making LOTS of cards to send to people in my life. Thanks for the pics of your place. We will have green sometime in April. But I agree with you, country life is great!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Oh Terry, your writing is lovely. I pictured it all. I see you and your hubs bundled up in all that snow and cold. Headed to the firewood pile and then the boiler.
      And now you’re i front of your fire planning, doing puzzles, reading and making cards to share.
      You’ve made a good life for yourself.

  8. Maureen says:

    Sure have missed you! May I suggest the book Lasagna Gardening” by Patricia Lanza? I think you might find her system works well, time and effort wise. It certainly made a difference for us, with our lovely Colorado clay!

    Best of luck on your produce ventures and congrats on the new Hugh in your life.

    Maureen

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Thank you for that book recommendation, Maureen. I will check it out for sure.
      It’s good to hear from you.
      Hugh’s a love; but man, I’ve got a lot of cats on this farm and in this little house.
      Talk again soon!

  9. Diane Van Horn says:

    It is so good to hear and see from you! We really missed you in October when we did the YOU Challenge minus you. That new cat, Hugh Grant is stunning. He is one lucky cat to have stumbled on to your little piece of paradise. Your lovely neighbors remind me that there are good people still out there. What a wonderful little community. Raised beds are the way to garden. The best way to minimize the weeds in them is to make your own soil. Google “Square Foot Gardening” I have used the soil mixture the author recommends and it is amazing. Every autumn I just add a top layer of compost then work it in before planting. Here is the mixture:
    The classic square foot garden soil mix is made from 1/3 peat moss, 1/3 vermiculite, and 1/3 finished compost from several different sources. Measure by volume, not weight. We used a 5-gallon bucket to measure out equal amounts of each ingredient.
    So nice to hear from you! Hopefully we hear more for a May YOU Challenge!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Ah, so happy to see your note! I’m glad to hear from you.
      I appreciate you carrying the baton, Diane! I’m hoping to do better in the work/life balance this year. We shall see. So far, I’m failing again. But it’s only mid-Feb.
      Thank you for that recipe. I hadn’t even considered peat or vermiculite. Cool! OXO

  10. Donna says:

    Country living. Can’t beat it

  11. Elizabeth says:

    That was so beautiful to read and inspiring. I live in Western New York and it’s cold snowy and blowy today. So I find reading these blogs makes me feel alive. Thanks for sharing. Beth

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      I’ve been watching your weather, Beth. It’s been rough.
      I’m glad I put some warmth in your day.
      You put some in mine too.

  12. Roberta says:

    Enjoy it all! Just reading about it brings relaxation and beauty. Many thanks :-).

  13. Very enjoyable read. I envy you your warm temps. South Dakota has been very windy and sometimes very, very cold. We don’t have much snow so I’m afraid the perennials and roses might not survive this year – again.
    Sorry, no selfie…I don’t know how to attach one. Enjoy your Spring or is it Summer!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      I’ve always loved your name, Nanette! I’m glad you left a comment so I could tell you so.
      I sure hope your plants make it through.
      Apparently, there is no way to attach photos in a comment—so, I was asking for the impossible.
      Take care!

  14. Cathy burt says:

    Cow and chicken manure days. I remember them well.

  15. Elaine Cardell says:

    This winter has been very warm in the N GA, and I miss the cold and snow we use to have. Chicken manure is not all that pleasant for sure, but does the pasture a world of good. I refer to cow manure as Eau de Moo, and doesn’t bother me..except for the flies. Hope the garden will be a huge success this year. And you do meet some of the most helpful folks in the country. Great selfie!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      I agree with you, Elaine. Cow manure and horse manure don’t bother me in the least. Eau de Moo, lol! But shoe-weee, that chicken litter!
      You all got a few good snows, didn’t you? I thought about jumping in the car and heading up there just to see a flake or two.
      People in the country are truly neighbors.

  16. Patsy Crippen says:

    So enjoy reading your blogs

  17. It’s so good to hear from you! Thanks for posting.

  18. Hello dear lady! Yes, I have missed you, too. I am going to be totally honest here and say that I am so-so jealous that you are already seeing spring pop up around you. As I write this, the snow is flying around on 40 mph winds and the wind chill is 13! Send some warmth up north, please! So glad you are surrounded by kind, caring, and down-to-earth people. Good luck on your raised beds!

  19. Dianne Beach says:

    WOW, It is wonderful to hear from you. I have missed your news. It sounds so nice when the neighbors are friendly and helpful. We had a ginormous gold cat with beautiful eyes and a fluffy tail show up. Also had a bit sore around its ears. Probably from a fight. My neighbor and I put food out however I haven’t seen him (or her) in the last couple of days. Love your selfie! Mine would scare others so I do not post. HA HA Well take good care. Best of luck with your garden. I await your next posting. Huggs

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      It’s funny how many cats show up here, Dianne. Is it the same for you? Some are wild and some are lovers.
      I just tried to upload a funny thing about collecting cats, but the comment section doesn’t allow for photos that I can find. So you couldn’t post a selfie if you wanted to. 🙁
      Yes, I feel lucky to have wonderful neighbors. Wait until I tell y’all about my other neighbor. She’s incredible.
      Thanks for stopping by!

  20. JoEllen says:

    You look so young and pretty Rebekah! Country life sure agrees with you! Was so glad to see that you’re back and sharing your life with all of us. I started using raised beds about 4 yrs ago and get special weed free dirt to put in it. I always get great crop results with NO weeds, ever! Such a bonus for my aging body. Can’t wait until frost season is over and I can plant my favorite vegetables. Still in the low 40’s here! Will be looking forward to your next post.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi JoEllen! It’s so good to hear from you. Yeah, that photo is blurry, one of the reasons I used it! But, thank you.
      I am thinking along the same lines as you–how to set things up today so that they will be easy even as I age.
      I share your spring fever. Just wish we had enjoyed a winter first.
      Talk again soon!

  21. Margaret Hamel says:

    This is my first time to respond. I am retired, living in a forested area of the TN Great Smokey’s foothills. Quite a change from city life where I grew up! But, I have experienced a lot of that.

    My property is far from level & close to a lake. Growing up, my Dad had racing pigeons, odor comparable to chickens, ugh! I got the chore of cleaning the coop occasionally. Dad also had a dump truck load of manure brought to our back yard in spring. He spread it on the grass & his roses, which were beautiful & thriving every spring to summer.

    I, too, am learning about Raised Bed Gardening. My Arthritis will appreciate my following through with it. I have not been doing a lot of outdoor gardening due to my health, including allergies. But, this year I am going to make an effort to get out early in the morning to do what gardening I am able.

    I also belong to a group of quilters that make them for needy children in our community here in Appalachia. Might be joining a second group making quilts for Veterans. Hope to have time to devote to this cause.

    Living in the rural area of TN has been great for me. My Veteran husband blessed every day he lived here.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Sounds beautiful, Margaret. I adore the area where you live. In fact, I left my heart in the Appalachian Mountains.
      I love that you have such a giving heart. So many of us talk a good talk, but don’t make the time to give back. You’re walking the talk. There is a lot of need in Appalachia, as there is everywhere.
      My first farm was outside of Waynesville, NC. I bet that’s not too far from you? Good luck on your raised beds this year! Rebekah

  22. Denise says:

    Hi Rebecca, I have missed you. You are my favorite farm girl blogger and the one that I always make the time to read. I sense a little tiredness in your voice and share in it. It has been a tough year here in New York for my family, but keeping positive and looking forward to a better 2022. Please send my love and well wishes to Merlin. Watching loved ones age is the hardest part of loving something with all of your heart. Stay well, denise

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      You’re a sweetie, Denise. You’re right, I’m tired. But stay energized with all my projects and work.
      Later on, I’m giving Merlin a big ole kiss on his precious muzzle from you. He thanks you for the love.
      Take care!

  23. Sylvia Bengisoy says:

    Good morning City Farm Girl, I love love love your blog and your friendly helpful neighbors. My kind of people. I live in the city but am a farm girl at heart but I don’t think my back, hips, and knees (approaching 69!) would take it!
    I can relate to getting the soil ready for planting as I would take the pickaxe to my mom’s yard in Taos, NM so she could plant her flowers. ️ Today I am diffining up (I don’t think that is a real phrase) vegetable and flower seeds to my moderators of It All Starts with a Seed. It is a great site that recently had a virtual open trunk event where you requested awesome seeds that were offered for free. Any hoo I am itching for spring. We have had some warmer days but it is Fake spring here in Seattle. I am not going to fall for that trick Mother Nature! So I will just preview my catalogs, get my tools ready for digging, and do some baking!

    I spent my day yesterday with my brother at the VA and helped him clean his apartment so today is Me day. I already had my bold coffee w/ oatmeal and my brown sugar syrup so it is a good start of the day. Until later City Farm Girl!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Sylvia, It’s so nice to hear from you. Great way to start your day!
      I didn’t know about that website. Thank you for sharing it. Sounds awesome and I’m going to check it out today.
      Lol, fake spring.
      I always wanted to go to Seattle, I know you must love it there!

  24. Rita Barcus says:

    I loved and so enjoyed your blog!! Thanks for sharing all your stories of “who are these peoples” and why am I so lucky in life. Look forward to pictures of your raised beds. Have a good day…

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Thank you for visiting, Rita! I sure am lucky. I bet you are too. I’m excited about the raised beds. I’ve missed being able to grow my own veggies on this weed-infested farm. Take care!

  25. Mary Frances Rauch says:

    Right away all I can think of to say to you is,”I just LOVE, love, love you and have missed your input on this site!”
    If I knew how to send a pic I would, but …. ???

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      You know I LOVE LOVE LOVE you, Mary! I hope life is treating you well! You and your honey doing okay? I appreciate your cards. OXO 🙂

  26. Sandy says:

    Enjoy your posts! You have warm days and we are freezing in Minnesota. Expecting 40-50mph winds today and 12 inches of snow on Tuesday. I have been sewing and quilting and reading. Cleaning too, not sure if it is spring cleaning or last fall cleaning!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Oh Sandy, I’m so envious of your winter weather! Sounds like you are enjoying your winter. Mine is “last fall” cleaning. I’ll get to that one day. ha

  27. Lynn S says:

    Absolutely love this post!!! I am so envious! The farm sounds like the perfect place to live!!!!

  28. Nancy Hilder says:

    My farm in Canada is under about three feet of snow with lots of ice under the drive and pathways.. pleh… the temperature right now is about 19-20f.
    I couldn’t paste in my selfie.. but it’s cute for an older girl than you. Xox

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Okay, so I probably couldn’t handle your winter. That’s intense!
      I wish I could see your cute face. But, apparently you can’t attach a photo in the comments. 🙁

  29. Cindy Foote says:

    Good Afternoon ,
    Thanks for the post. I understand your journey in trying to learn to grow your own vegetables.
    Good luck. We are having winter here in Indiana. We had ice, snow and then lots of rain yesterday. I think my growing land is more like a rice paddy.

    I definitely love raised beds, I think it’s the only way to do it where I live.

    I really want to try chickens but I don’t know if I can raised an area large enough to keep their feet dry.

    I look forward to hearing more from you.
    Have a wonderful remaining “Fake Winter” waiting for Spring!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Cindy!
      Until I arrived at this farm, I’ve always just used the earth’s dirt to garden. There’s no way to do it here. The weeds are unbelievable; it’s an old goat farm.
      I’m looking forward to a successful run at gardening this year. fingers and toes crossed.
      Think about those chickens. I enjoy mine. They’ll be 9 years old in a month. They’re great to have. But, yeah, they’ll need a dry piece of land.
      Is it wet all year long where you live in Indiana?
      Thanks for coming by and leaving a note!

  30. Regina says:

    Oh YES!! I know all about chicken manure.. I grew up on a chicken farm; gathered eggs every day..like at peak it was 10,000 eggs. I helped “muck out” the manure pits-perhaps 10 inches deep…scraped the concrete aisles when we couldn’t get in the fields and the pits got too full. Dad had a manure pusher that was attached to the small tractor to push the manure to the auger pit at the top end of each row, which moved the manure outside and up to dump into the manure spreaders which were then taken to the fields to spread…ahhhhh memories!!!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Oh. My. Lands.
      Bless you, Child.
      You’re an expert, so why does chicken litter smell so bad?? It’s awful.
      10,000 eggs?
      Are you a city girl now?

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3 Words That will Improve Your Day, Every Day

Noon.

Six-Twenty-Something, Two-Thousand-and Twenty-One

Do you have any idea what these mushrooms are? I found them and THINK I know, but I haven’t found anyone who can positively identify them for me. So, alas, they remain growing in the dark earth rather than being in my mouth. (And, I want them in my mouth if they are what I THINK they are.)

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  1. Bonnie says:

    Your mushroom kind of looks like a chick that got away from “hen of the woods”. It is really hard to tell without know the surrounding location. Oak trees?

  2. Lisa says:

    My what a lovely post
    Rather different from your others Altho I always enjoy them in the maryjanes farm mag
    I think this past difficult year had been enlightening in that I appreciate more and stress less

    I have a little farmette and although no livestock info have critters

    Right now I’m battling a very ungrateful doe
    Among others of her family

    I put a deer netting fence around my main raised bed garden which is resuscitated from a year off due to a huge tree squashing my entire harvest 2 yrs ago

    So far so good trying to be grateful for every little thing

    This morning my decorative straw bee skep was lying on the porch floor
    I though I had heard bees buzzing but little did I know paper wasps or some such bee had built a good sized hive inside

    Some enterprising beast -I’m thinking a coon
    Knocked it down and evidently feasted on the wasps/bees

    I have a seed business and am transplanting my baby maters each day
    Long story -a friend started them in his big greenhouse ahem a bit late . But they will catch up I’m sure
    They are the rarest of my selections
    My entire business will depend on their success!

    So gratitude is the thought for this month

    I think your mushrooms may be “chicken of the woods” but do not eat any until you have positively identified them

    Take care and remember;” each blade of grass has its angel that bends over it and whispers
    Grow grow”
    -the Talmud-

  3. First of all, Earl Grey tea is my favorite. Second, I do a list of 5 things I am grateful for every morning but I love the idea of “I appreciate…” Can’t wait to try it tomorrow morning.

  4. Danna Rodriguez says:

    I don’t have a farm but would probably have loved it. My dear husband (rest his soul) said very clearly to me years ago, “I am not a farmer.” So it wasn’t in my future. We were an Air Force family for over 20 years. I’m now retired and satisfy myself with trying a small garden and a large weed bed. I am happiest playing in dirt and will continue to do so. I have four furbabies and love them dearly. I’m a quilter and only work for clients. That provides me fun money. I AM a maker of lists and will add # 3 words +1 to my lists. I enjoyed your blog. Thanks!

  5. Kris Thompson says:

    Got to be honest. Because I am always “too busy,” I have never taken the time to read this blog. For some reason, today’s post caught my eye and I will mend my ways. Thanks for the insight!

  6. Patti says:

    This was a great and uplifting article you posted. So glad I read it.

  7. Joni says:

    Great article. I appreciate quiet. FUN: Read a chapter in The Tapestry by Edith Schaeffer

  8. Margaret h Mitchell says:

    The to do list is awesome! I actually have a journal that helps me write things down, that I might have a tendency to forget about. It’s a ritual I try to remember to do, there is no dates On a book of memories I also keep. I add them myself so if I skip a day that’s ok. Life is busy but it’s a reminder that we all need tome for ourselves to regroup our thoughts and remember what we are the most thankful for! Have a great day !

  9. Diane Van Horn says:

    Opening my email this morning and yeah! You just made my day. So glad that your farm is doing well and that you are making time to have fun. Very important to have fun every single day.
    My List, July 1st, 2021
    I appreciate MaryJanes Farm
    1. Fun-Take the kayak out on the lake.
    2. Task-Finish painted boat cusion.
    3. Task- Finish custom order lamp.
    4. Task-Make a batch of dog food.

    Have a great summer, Rebekkah! Thanks for the inspiration.

  10. Robin in New Jersey says:

    Hi Rebekah! I so enjoy reading what you write and get excited when it’s your turn to post. When our yard gets really damp, those orange mushrooms grow in the moss. Never thought about eating them.

    I love your idea for the daily to do list. I always have more than I can get done in a day. I keep a gratitude journal, but I like the idea of putting a word at the top of my list to think about all day. So many words to pick from! Mine will frequently be: light! Sunshine!

    Thank you for sharing with us!

  11. Linda Severs says:

    Hi Rebekah,
    I so agree with you to take the time to slow down and have the gratitude to appreciate all the little things all around us and yes to make fun on our daily to do lists. I much rather start with something that gives me joy or a new discovery, there is so much to learn everyday, to try something new or simply enjoy a garden and see the amazing growth from which you planted, to try a new recipe, to do what makes you happy. Thankfulness is abound if we feel and see it. I live so close to the sea and just do not get there as much, well that will be on my to do list. So whatever we choose to do shine with it!

  12. Nancy Wallace says:

    Those shrooms sure do look like chanterelles! I would be excited, too. I live in the Pacific NW, out here they like to grow under pine/ fir trees. HOWEVER, as with all things mushroom, I’d get a local expert’s opinion before eating.
    Love the 3 words, 1 act idea. I put it in my journal right away!

  13. Yes, Rebekah those are chanterelle mushrooms and they come out here in Georgia in July each year. I was just thinking I need to check on my “honey holes” (secret places that I know where the ‘shrooms are) to see how they’re coming along. Thanks for the reminder!

  14. Dianne Beach says:

    Rebekah: I opened my e-mail and there was your message. So welcome. I had a fall (going UP the stairs) and cannot do the (to dos) that I normally do. You made me think about how much angst I cause myself when the housework is not up to my standards. I guess I should just accept that it is what it is and find some FUN things journaling, crafting reading, reflecting. Thank You.

  15. Carol Denton says:

    With one son in Spokane, WA and one living on the south island of New Zealand, I have to say I appreciate instagram. One is trying to stay cool in a blistering heat wave while waiting to have air conditioning installed (it’s in now, thank God) and the other is slipping and sliding in the snow trying to walk to and from work wearing new boots that are obviously too slick to walk uphill. Their posts have been quite entertaining!

    I’m adding FUN tasks to my list. I started bullet journaling last year and it has made all the difference in my ability to keep up with tasks. I’ve tried all kinds of calendars but a bullet journal totally works for me!

  16. Lauri Neumann-Grable says:

    Brilliant!!!!

    Simplicity at it’s best.

    Thank you.
    Lauri

  17. Ramona Puckett says:

    Good morning! Love your posts and really enjoyed this one, I make lists and will definitely include your tips! Happy to read your farm and animals are doing well, take care! ❤️

  18. Liz Olson says:

    I appreciate the warmth of summer!

  19. Judy says:

    Hi there. I always enjoy your enlightening blog. Leave it to you to come up with this ‘Happy Task’ of sorts. I like it. Something else I like…Lapsang Souchong, a black, smokey tea. I love it. You would too if you like smoke in your tea.
    Happy 4th of July to you all! Be safe!

  20. You know, sometimes keeping it simple is absolutely the best. One appreciation, one fun, and then the rest of my mile long list. Thanks!

    Today I appreciate water. With a well anything can happen, and as I watered flowers and animals and the garden this morning, I couldn’t help but be thankful that we have a well that is in good shape…who knows how old it is (the farm is dated 1864) and cold, crisp water is a blessing. Do we have outstanding city-style water pressure? Nope, but that’s just fine…it works for us.

    And the Fun? Agreed, for me, it always falls to the end of the day, just too tired to have Fun, scenario. I’ll strive to move it up to number one, who knows, it may just make the rest of my day better if I start out with something FUN!

    Always appreciate the inspiration!

  21. Teresa Harber says:

    Thank you!! I love reading your Notes!!
    I reread “ here’s the thing “ many times first and then again last.
    You express what my soul is saying many times! ☕️

  22. Teresa says:

    Thank you Rebecca. When my Mary Jane farms magazine arrives, I always 1st open to the last page and read your Message.
    Now while lying in bed after my German Shepherd woke me up at 4 am .. I put her out only to watch her go lie down on the cold ground!! I looked for Your blog
    I hope you are having Good moments this Christmas Season.. mine Christmas season starts the day after Thanksgiving and will continue though February. I will not practice that silliness of December 26 th ITS OVER , then onto blah .
    Blessings!!
    May you continue good moments!!

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I'm Baaaaack just in time for the YOU Challenge and Bee's Knees

The stories are too numerous, the adventures are too complicated. I simply can’t begin to explain where I’ve been or what I’ve been doing since we last visited some months ago.

But, I am here to tell ya that MAY is on its WAY! Together, we celebrate US, ourselves, in May as we enjoy the You Challenge together. It’s a month of YOU, yes- precious YOU. You, the bee’s knees. It’s a time of sharing our daily journeys in a safe and special place. We recognize the beauty around us and share it through photogrpahs of our various spots on earth.

My new favorite mug. For obvious reasons.

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If you are interested in learning more before you join our You Challenge, here is a link to some previous posts about this remarkable YOU time. Hope you’ll join us for the Merry, Merry month of May.

You Challenge Posts

Now, on to the “bees knees” news part of the post!

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  1. Carol D says:

    Glad you’re back. I was about to send the posse out for you!
    Three or four years ago my brother gave his wife a hive set-up for Christmas and it has been quite the learning curve. This past Christmas, my sister in law gave me a tiny jar of honey and called it her $200 jar. I told her I understand because I’ve grown a few $50 tomatoes.
    Looking forward to May!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Carol! Glad to hear from you! Yep, I’ve already figured that out! Same with my eggs. They should be golden eggs!

  2. Ramona Puckett says:

    I’m so happy you’re back to having more adventures! I’ve missed reading your posts and now you’re a beekeeper! Congratulations!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Ramona!
      Like my Daddy says when I tell him I’ve been missing him, “It’s good to be missed.”
      Thanks for hanging in with me! Can’t wait to learn more about these little bees. 🙂

  3. Cheryl Bryson says:

    Thanks for this “bee-utiful post…Hope
    You give frequent updates on your new “kids”
    So that those of us who can’t have bees (HOA)
    Can live vicariously thru you…I do work hard to
    Maintain a “bird, bee and butterfly” sanctuary in my back yard—and I get to enjoy the “buzz” of activities
    That results…Could not help but think back
    To my very first MJ Farms issue—all about bees—
    Got me started thinking about helping the cause…
    Take care and enjoy every bit of Spring

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      That’s a “bee-utiful” comment, Cheryl. It’s such a joy and inspiration to hear that MJF’s magazines helped fertilize your idea of a bird, bee, and butterfly garden. I know it’s fantastic.
      And, you know I will give frequent updates. Y’all are in this with me!
      Thanks for stopping by! Rebekah

  4. Diane Van Horn says:

    Nice to hear from you! Some have been worried but I knew you were just “busy as a bee”! Real bummer that the frost took all the blossoms. Looking forward to the You Challenge this year. I will be in the Hudson Valley of NY visiting my daughter for part of the month of May so my You Challenge will be from two locals. Until then, bee good!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Diane, My Kindred Spirit! I’ve missed you.
      I look forward to catching up in May. Can I count on you again this year to co-lead??
      A visit with your daughter and Hudson Valley sound awesome.
      BTW, I don’t now much about BEEing good, but I’ll try harder.
      Love, Rebekah

  5. Linda Hulbert says:

    So glad to hear from you!!! Been missing your posts!! I’m always so motivated by everything you are doing on your farm !!!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      You’re so sweet, Linda. Thank you for your kind words. I miss you all when life gets too full to post too.
      I motivate you? Music to my ears.
      But truth is that you all motivate me more than I ever could YOU.
      I appreciate you BEEing here and stopping by to say hi. 🙂
      Rebekah

  6. Marge Turner says:

    Hi!
    I’m new to this so bear with me. We were beekeepers for 10 years and have given it up as it is so hard to keep them through the winter in our climate. We have many beekeepers in our neighborhood (they send their bees away in the winter) so I’m hoping that there will be plenty of pollinators around our place this summer. We plant lots of pollinator goodies so the ‘Welcome’ sign will be out!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      You did great, Marge!
      I hear a lot of bad BEE news during winters. I’m in GA, so if things don’t go well I will be problem–rather than the weather.

      10 years?! That’s a LONG time.
      Do you have any advice for a new beekeeper?

      I need to work on planting some pollinator goodies on my farm this year. 🙂

      Take care,
      Rebekah

      • Marge Turner says:

        Hi Rebekah-I can’t give much advice I think it was Winnie the Pooh who said something like ‘you just never know about bees’. Some years they just thrived and other years I wondered what we were doing this for. I loved them and carried many back to the hive on my fingers when they came in the house with me. The only bees I wouldn’t recommend getting the Minnesota hygienic bees were very aggressive I had most of my stings the year I had them. By the way-I just love your closing words every time in Mary Janes Farm-your Here’s The Thing. I can almost always identify with it!

        • Rebekah Teal says:

          I’ve decided raising bees is a little like raising children. Every one has an opinion on how to do it, but none of them agree! LOL.
          I appreciate your kind words. Thank you, Marge!

  7. Judy says:

    What a wonderful journey! So excited for more bee stories. They are amazing creatures and I applaud you for becoming a bee mom!! Thanks for the enjoyable post and fantastic photos! Bee well!❤

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Thanks for your visit, Judy.
      I have never studied bee behavior and culture before. Already I’m blown away with what I have learned already about them.
      I’m in awe–
      We’ll see how it goes…..but you know that I’ll share the BEE adventures.
      BEE well,
      Rebekah

  8. Denise says:

    I’ve missed you too! I love your posts & everything new you have tried over the years has been so much fun to read along with you! Enjoy your bees. I can’t wait to see your first jar of honey!

  9. Laura says:

    BEEKEEPING! What a great experience! You will only get more attached as time goes by.

    MAY the force BEE with YOU!!

    Former beekeeper and forever bee fan,
    laura

  10. Rebecca says:

    Glad you’re back! The bee pictures are incredible. Your bee hive experience sounds a little like mine. All sorts of mishaps to begin with. But it’s totally worth it! I love having bees and they”re so relaxing to watch.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      That makes me feel better with all my missteps so far, Rebecca. It’s quite a learning curve. I’m going to another bee class this weekend! Thanks for the visit. Rebekah

  11. Kathy Marx says:

    How wonderful!! I love the BEE news!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Kathy!
      Oh yeah, more BEE news will be coming soon. I’m very excited.
      Thanks for you visit! Take care, Rebekah

  12. Elaine Cardell says:

    Happy to see the post! Was thinking about you and wondering. Lots of work to get started, but the payoff is yummy. They really need to develop a taste for all this tree pollen we are having. Look forward to your bee adventure.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Elaine! I’m learning that it is a lot of work at first and a lot of expense. 🙂
      My black cat is yellow right now from the pollen. lol

  13. Brenda says:

    Rebekah
    So glad to hear from you and what an adventure with the bees. So cool.
    Looking forward to the YOU Challenge and connecting with the group.
    Enjoy the bees. My favorite is the good ol wax full of honey. Memories from childhood.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Brenda! How are you? It’s been an adventure so far. That was always my favorite honey–the jars with the comb in it! Been quite awhile since I’ve been able to get my hands on some of that! See you soon at the You Challenge! Love, Rebekah

  14. Bonnie says:

    Hello, Rebekah,
    So happy to see your story and glad you are so happy with your Bees. We surely missed you but see you have been busy and staying up late to get
    It all done. Looking forward to the challenge.
    Happy May!!!!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      HI Bonnie! I missed being here with all of you. This MJF corner of the world is one of the few plesant, nice, lovely spots left online. I am def a night owl. I have always been; but lately, oh lawsie…
      I’m glad you’ll be a part of the Challenge. See you then!
      Rebekah

  15. Lauri Neumann-Grable says:

    welcome to the wonderful world of bees. We have 2 hives that are about 4 years old. My son is the actual bee-keeper. I had the garden for bees so it is a joint affair. I just love ‘the girls”. Even if you don’t get honey right away it is still delightful to care for these little creatures. My neighbors love having them as many of them are vegetable gardeners. They share their produce with me as a thank you for housing ‘The Pollinators”.
    Enjoy!
    xxoo Lauri

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Lauri, I’m excited to read your comment. Thank you for taking time to share. It’s easy to get intimidated by the whole BEE thing.
      I love hearing that your two hives are alive and well at 4 years old. With all the reading I’ve done about all the possible issues with bees, that’s quite a success! Yay, your son; he’s doing great!

  16. I couldn’t BE happier that you’re back. You’ve been missed. Knowing how creative you are and what a gutsy lady you are as well, I have no doubt that you will BE very successful with your BEautiful Bees! Good Luck.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Barbara, I’m so happy to hear from you! I hope you are doing well. You put the biggest smile on my face–“gutsy”–can I tell you how much I love that! I wanna be that. Take care, Rebekah

  17. Mary says:

    You sound almost serene when telling about sitting nearby and watching and listening to them just like a “Mama Bee” would do if these were her newborn babies. You GO girl, and love us some bees!…
    From Mary Rauch in Ohio

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hello, My Friend, Mary, Mary, Never Contrary. I’m going to need to learn how to not get so attached to the bees…but currently, I am. They swirl all around me when I’m out there. They land on me and it tickles. Once they discover I’m not food, they fly on. Never a dull moment on the farm! Love, Rebekah

  18. Becca Wetzel says:

    Congrats on the new bees!

  19. Bernadine Graham says:

    Oh, so glad you’re back – have missed you! OK, in addition to bee keeping, are you working in law again? And how is your sweet daughter? Inquiring minds….

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Bernadine, I missed being here with all my precious friends. Life is full! My sweet daughter turned 20 the other day. Don’t ask me how that happened. She’s off at university. (Thanks for asking!) I’m as busy as ever with work/work – it’s my M.O. (Thanks for asking!) It’s after midnight, so have to hit the hay soon. I hope you and yours are well! Rebekah

  20. Betsy says:

    This makes me smile. We live in Ohio and my husband has been a beekeeper most of his life(his dad, uncle and grandpa were also beekeepers) we keep between 60 and 80 hives these days but it’s still his favorite thing to do, working bees. If you have a local bee club they can be a great source of support and information hope it goes well for you, they’re worth it!

  21. Brenda Towsley says:

    Oh my, so glad to see you! Been looking for you on Facebook, ect. Just asked if anyone had messaged you on the You Challenge group and then decided to look here again and here you are! Bees! You just keep changing it up. Hope all goes well, don’t forget you can ask Cindy Rush the Bee lady questions, she is a Bee Keeper. I think She is planning on walking this next month and so do I. I have started slow, back issues, but it feels good to move after all the snow has left. Happy spring! It could not have come quick enough.

  22. Barbara Jean Nelson says:

    Oh I was very impressed by your article. I truly enjoyed reading about the bee’s.
    My son Tom would like to try and get some bee’s and try to have them in our yard to watch. We live in the country and I absolutely love it . It is really peaceful and you get to see such beautiful sun sets and different things of beauty. In fact we can watch the farmers till there ground and then plant and also harvest in the fall. It’s really beautiful. Thank you for your story

  23. Teresa says:

    It’s normal for me to Read a Magazine from the Back .. but I always read your Article “ here’s the Thing” at least a couple times.
    Thank you soo much for sharing your heart and life Walks

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I’m Baaaaack just in time for the YOU Challenge and Bee’s Knees

The stories are too numerous, the adventures are too complicated. I simply can’t begin to explain where I’ve been or what I’ve been doing since we last visited some months ago.

But, I am here to tell ya that MAY is on its WAY! Together, we celebrate US, ourselves, in May as we enjoy the You Challenge together. It’s a month of YOU, yes- precious YOU. You, the bee’s knees. It’s a time of sharing our daily journeys in a safe and special place. We recognize the beauty around us and share it through photogrpahs of our various spots on earth.

My new favorite mug. For obvious reasons.

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If you are interested in learning more before you join our You Challenge, here is a link to some previous posts about this remarkable YOU time. Hope you’ll join us for the Merry, Merry month of May.

You Challenge Posts

Now, on to the “bees knees” news part of the post!

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  1. Carol D says:

    Glad you’re back. I was about to send the posse out for you!
    Three or four years ago my brother gave his wife a hive set-up for Christmas and it has been quite the learning curve. This past Christmas, my sister in law gave me a tiny jar of honey and called it her $200 jar. I told her I understand because I’ve grown a few $50 tomatoes.
    Looking forward to May!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Carol! Glad to hear from you! Yep, I’ve already figured that out! Same with my eggs. They should be golden eggs!

  2. Ramona Puckett says:

    I’m so happy you’re back to having more adventures! I’ve missed reading your posts and now you’re a beekeeper! Congratulations!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Ramona!
      Like my Daddy says when I tell him I’ve been missing him, “It’s good to be missed.”
      Thanks for hanging in with me! Can’t wait to learn more about these little bees. 🙂

  3. Cheryl Bryson says:

    Thanks for this “bee-utiful post…Hope
    You give frequent updates on your new “kids”
    So that those of us who can’t have bees (HOA)
    Can live vicariously thru you…I do work hard to
    Maintain a “bird, bee and butterfly” sanctuary in my back yard—and I get to enjoy the “buzz” of activities
    That results…Could not help but think back
    To my very first MJ Farms issue—all about bees—
    Got me started thinking about helping the cause…
    Take care and enjoy every bit of Spring

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      That’s a “bee-utiful” comment, Cheryl. It’s such a joy and inspiration to hear that MJF’s magazines helped fertilize your idea of a bird, bee, and butterfly garden. I know it’s fantastic.
      And, you know I will give frequent updates. Y’all are in this with me!
      Thanks for stopping by! Rebekah

  4. Diane Van Horn says:

    Nice to hear from you! Some have been worried but I knew you were just “busy as a bee”! Real bummer that the frost took all the blossoms. Looking forward to the You Challenge this year. I will be in the Hudson Valley of NY visiting my daughter for part of the month of May so my You Challenge will be from two locals. Until then, bee good!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Diane, My Kindred Spirit! I’ve missed you.
      I look forward to catching up in May. Can I count on you again this year to co-lead??
      A visit with your daughter and Hudson Valley sound awesome.
      BTW, I don’t now much about BEEing good, but I’ll try harder.
      Love, Rebekah

  5. Linda Hulbert says:

    So glad to hear from you!!! Been missing your posts!! I’m always so motivated by everything you are doing on your farm !!!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      You’re so sweet, Linda. Thank you for your kind words. I miss you all when life gets too full to post too.
      I motivate you? Music to my ears.
      But truth is that you all motivate me more than I ever could YOU.
      I appreciate you BEEing here and stopping by to say hi. 🙂
      Rebekah

  6. Marge Turner says:

    Hi!
    I’m new to this so bear with me. We were beekeepers for 10 years and have given it up as it is so hard to keep them through the winter in our climate. We have many beekeepers in our neighborhood (they send their bees away in the winter) so I’m hoping that there will be plenty of pollinators around our place this summer. We plant lots of pollinator goodies so the ‘Welcome’ sign will be out!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      You did great, Marge!
      I hear a lot of bad BEE news during winters. I’m in GA, so if things don’t go well I will be problem–rather than the weather.

      10 years?! That’s a LONG time.
      Do you have any advice for a new beekeeper?

      I need to work on planting some pollinator goodies on my farm this year. 🙂

      Take care,
      Rebekah

      • Marge Turner says:

        Hi Rebekah-I can’t give much advice I think it was Winnie the Pooh who said something like ‘you just never know about bees’. Some years they just thrived and other years I wondered what we were doing this for. I loved them and carried many back to the hive on my fingers when they came in the house with me. The only bees I wouldn’t recommend getting the Minnesota hygienic bees were very aggressive I had most of my stings the year I had them. By the way-I just love your closing words every time in Mary Janes Farm-your Here’s The Thing. I can almost always identify with it!

        • Rebekah Teal says:

          I’ve decided raising bees is a little like raising children. Every one has an opinion on how to do it, but none of them agree! LOL.
          I appreciate your kind words. Thank you, Marge!

  7. Judy says:

    What a wonderful journey! So excited for more bee stories. They are amazing creatures and I applaud you for becoming a bee mom!! Thanks for the enjoyable post and fantastic photos! Bee well!❤

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Thanks for your visit, Judy.
      I have never studied bee behavior and culture before. Already I’m blown away with what I have learned already about them.
      I’m in awe–
      We’ll see how it goes…..but you know that I’ll share the BEE adventures.
      BEE well,
      Rebekah

  8. Denise says:

    I’ve missed you too! I love your posts & everything new you have tried over the years has been so much fun to read along with you! Enjoy your bees. I can’t wait to see your first jar of honey!

  9. Laura says:

    BEEKEEPING! What a great experience! You will only get more attached as time goes by.

    MAY the force BEE with YOU!!

    Former beekeeper and forever bee fan,
    laura

  10. Rebecca says:

    Glad you’re back! The bee pictures are incredible. Your bee hive experience sounds a little like mine. All sorts of mishaps to begin with. But it’s totally worth it! I love having bees and they”re so relaxing to watch.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      That makes me feel better with all my missteps so far, Rebecca. It’s quite a learning curve. I’m going to another bee class this weekend! Thanks for the visit. Rebekah

  11. Kathy Marx says:

    How wonderful!! I love the BEE news!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Kathy!
      Oh yeah, more BEE news will be coming soon. I’m very excited.
      Thanks for you visit! Take care, Rebekah

  12. Elaine Cardell says:

    Happy to see the post! Was thinking about you and wondering. Lots of work to get started, but the payoff is yummy. They really need to develop a taste for all this tree pollen we are having. Look forward to your bee adventure.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Elaine! I’m learning that it is a lot of work at first and a lot of expense. 🙂
      My black cat is yellow right now from the pollen. lol

  13. Brenda says:

    Rebekah
    So glad to hear from you and what an adventure with the bees. So cool.
    Looking forward to the YOU Challenge and connecting with the group.
    Enjoy the bees. My favorite is the good ol wax full of honey. Memories from childhood.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Brenda! How are you? It’s been an adventure so far. That was always my favorite honey–the jars with the comb in it! Been quite awhile since I’ve been able to get my hands on some of that! See you soon at the You Challenge! Love, Rebekah

  14. Bonnie says:

    Hello, Rebekah,
    So happy to see your story and glad you are so happy with your Bees. We surely missed you but see you have been busy and staying up late to get
    It all done. Looking forward to the challenge.
    Happy May!!!!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      HI Bonnie! I missed being here with all of you. This MJF corner of the world is one of the few plesant, nice, lovely spots left online. I am def a night owl. I have always been; but lately, oh lawsie…
      I’m glad you’ll be a part of the Challenge. See you then!
      Rebekah

  15. Lauri Neumann-Grable says:

    welcome to the wonderful world of bees. We have 2 hives that are about 4 years old. My son is the actual bee-keeper. I had the garden for bees so it is a joint affair. I just love ‘the girls”. Even if you don’t get honey right away it is still delightful to care for these little creatures. My neighbors love having them as many of them are vegetable gardeners. They share their produce with me as a thank you for housing ‘The Pollinators”.
    Enjoy!
    xxoo Lauri

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Lauri, I’m excited to read your comment. Thank you for taking time to share. It’s easy to get intimidated by the whole BEE thing.
      I love hearing that your two hives are alive and well at 4 years old. With all the reading I’ve done about all the possible issues with bees, that’s quite a success! Yay, your son; he’s doing great!

  16. I couldn’t BE happier that you’re back. You’ve been missed. Knowing how creative you are and what a gutsy lady you are as well, I have no doubt that you will BE very successful with your BEautiful Bees! Good Luck.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Barbara, I’m so happy to hear from you! I hope you are doing well. You put the biggest smile on my face–“gutsy”–can I tell you how much I love that! I wanna be that. Take care, Rebekah

  17. Mary says:

    You sound almost serene when telling about sitting nearby and watching and listening to them just like a “Mama Bee” would do if these were her newborn babies. You GO girl, and love us some bees!…
    From Mary Rauch in Ohio

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hello, My Friend, Mary, Mary, Never Contrary. I’m going to need to learn how to not get so attached to the bees…but currently, I am. They swirl all around me when I’m out there. They land on me and it tickles. Once they discover I’m not food, they fly on. Never a dull moment on the farm! Love, Rebekah

  18. Becca Wetzel says:

    Congrats on the new bees!

  19. Bernadine Graham says:

    Oh, so glad you’re back – have missed you! OK, in addition to bee keeping, are you working in law again? And how is your sweet daughter? Inquiring minds….

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Bernadine, I missed being here with all my precious friends. Life is full! My sweet daughter turned 20 the other day. Don’t ask me how that happened. She’s off at university. (Thanks for asking!) I’m as busy as ever with work/work – it’s my M.O. (Thanks for asking!) It’s after midnight, so have to hit the hay soon. I hope you and yours are well! Rebekah

  20. Betsy says:

    This makes me smile. We live in Ohio and my husband has been a beekeeper most of his life(his dad, uncle and grandpa were also beekeepers) we keep between 60 and 80 hives these days but it’s still his favorite thing to do, working bees. If you have a local bee club they can be a great source of support and information hope it goes well for you, they’re worth it!

  21. Brenda Towsley says:

    Oh my, so glad to see you! Been looking for you on Facebook, ect. Just asked if anyone had messaged you on the You Challenge group and then decided to look here again and here you are! Bees! You just keep changing it up. Hope all goes well, don’t forget you can ask Cindy Rush the Bee lady questions, she is a Bee Keeper. I think She is planning on walking this next month and so do I. I have started slow, back issues, but it feels good to move after all the snow has left. Happy spring! It could not have come quick enough.

  22. Barbara Jean Nelson says:

    Oh I was very impressed by your article. I truly enjoyed reading about the bee’s.
    My son Tom would like to try and get some bee’s and try to have them in our yard to watch. We live in the country and I absolutely love it . It is really peaceful and you get to see such beautiful sun sets and different things of beauty. In fact we can watch the farmers till there ground and then plant and also harvest in the fall. It’s really beautiful. Thank you for your story

  23. Teresa says:

    It’s normal for me to Read a Magazine from the Back .. but I always read your Article “ here’s the Thing” at least a couple times.
    Thank you soo much for sharing your heart and life Walks

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Bring on the Hope and Joy and Peace and Love

The events of 2020 have impacted how we experience the holidays, AND LIFE.

Won’t you take a moment to share something with us? How are you doing this holiday season of 2020? How do you feel? What are you doing differently? Are you hanging in?

Me? I say:

Bring on the HOPE.

Bring on the JOY.

Bring on the PEACE.

Bring on the LOVE.

We need it.

By the way, I don’t really have any relevant photos, so I’ll just share some random ones from the year.

After an odd Thanksgiving, I’ve thought a lot about our holidays this year.

I am definitely experiencing the holidays differently both externally and internally.

What I’ve learned so far during these last 9 months is that if we look hard enough, we can find goodness in our current situation.

IMG_9209                                  I picked the last of the season a week or so ago

 

You might remember, if you’ve visited with me here for a while, that my quest has long been for a simple life. I’ve begged you all to tell me your secrets. I’ve read all the books. I say it every Christmas.

I’ve struggled with society’s demands for expensive complications for the season. My heart’s desire was to capture the “old days.” I’d long for the nothing other than the hope, joy, peace, love. I’d vow to leave behind all the trappings and commercialism.

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 This was in my local FaceBook feed. One of the joys of living in the country. 

 

I remember the first Christmas at my Christmas tree farm in the Appalachian Mountains. It was 2012. My daughter and I joined the local church for caroling. A local farmer took a crowd of us in a tractor-pulled hayride throughout the community. We’d stop at houses and carol. We sang all the traditional carols as loudly and as best we could. Sometimes we’d struggle for correct lyrics, but it didn’t matter.

I remember an elderly woman who insisted that we come into her warm house. We squeezed into her den like sardines to sing while some carolers crowded into the open front door and others sang from the front porch. I recall two things about that stop. One was the woman’s face. She had the sweetest smile and blue eyes that sparkled. The other memory is how hot it was in her home. We were in major winter wrappings and her house at 85 degrees inside. It was perfect.

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  Do you see the sweet red church with a steeple on a hill behind my horse shed?                            That’s the community church where I used to live.

I had lived long enough by then to realize that I was making a special memory. I drank in every moment, gluing it to the corner of my brain where lovely memories are stored. It was a cold, clear, magical night. I remember looking up to the moon-lit heaven as we bumped along a country road and felt that special thing in my heart. You know the thing? It’s warm and open and fluttering and peaceful and gentle. It penetrates you.

That was a simple Christmas event that meant the world to me. If only I could capture that every single year.

But I fail and fall into the rush, rush, rush.

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And then along comes 2020, and suddenly I’m well on my way. It’s shown us what is what. We see better the value in what is truly valuable and the frivolousness in much of what we thought was important.

For real: this year does anybody care about the trappings and commercialism? The stuff and the gifts? The over-decorating? The waste of food? The rush, rush, rush?

This Christmas my energy is focused more on the foundation of the holiday rather than the glitzy decorations, fun parties, and fabulous presents.

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             The quiet munching of Merlin. Pure peace.

              Excuse his witch’s knots on his mane and his fur stained with Georgia red clay.

THE TREE.

In about a week, we’ll go find a live tree to cut down, or we’ll bring home an already cut tree. It won’t be the largest and most perfect tree. It will be a medium-sized tree, probably flat and missing branches on one side. We’ll put the bad side towards the wall and put a few strings of brightly colored lights on it. Then we’ll add the ornaments that we have. (When we packed up our belongings to move to the new farm, no Christmas decorations jumped into our moving boxes. We’ve started from scratch.)

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  Last Christmas when we brought the tree inside.

                                                    That’s Jimmy.

                                     He loved the tree-in-the-house concept.

THE GIFTS.

These days, I don’t go shopping unless it’s necessary, so there will be no rushing around looking for perfect Christmas presents. Any shopping I do will be at the sleepy, local shops that really need the business. My town has a coffee roaster, a candlemaker, a liquor store, and a bookshop. Who wouldn’t want fresh coffee or a candle or a bottle of brandy or a book?

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  I just opened a Dove Peppermint Bark piece of candy.

                                                  This is what it said. 

THE FOOD.

Oh yes, they’ll be cookies. Yes, they’ll be lasagna on Christmas Eve and a turkey on Christmas Day. They’ll be buttered rum and eggnog. Oh yeah, they’ll be Dutch Babies for breakfast. But this year, we won’t make more than we can eat or share. This year we vow that NO FOOD will go to waste. That’s a challenge.

After my late summer dance with figs this year, I’m determined to find a recipe and make “Figgy Pudding.” Let’s hope it’s good since we will have to eat every bite.

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December 2020 has begun as a month of deep gratitude and simple merrymaking. This year our holiday will be more simple, sweet, green, modest, and holy.

Let’s do what our grandparents did: make the most and best out of what we have.

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                        I paused to admire the sunset the other evening.

Bring on the JOY.

Bring on the HOPE.

Bring on the PEACE.

Bring on the LOVE.

Bring on the MERRYMAKING.

Welcome.

Until next time, Friends,

Savor the Flavor of Life

Rebekah, The City Farmgirl in the Country

  1. Lori Fresina says:

    I let go of commercialized Christmas a number of years ago. I make 1 or 2 people a lap quilt and that’s my “shopping”. The food part has no appeal either. I still enjoy the decorating (with things I’ve made) and the cookies (my daughter is a baker) but having a big feast is not needed. Simple and sweet is all I need and a good Christmas Mass. I organized caroling when the kids were small and it was a blast so I know that feeling. Have a blessed holiday!

  2. Patty Maiolo says:

    I love your article. This is how I feel inside. Reading it was like you knew me. I love the simplicity of life. This year has been so hard on everyone. Keeping what’s truly important and simple is so more meaningful today than ever. As Americans we have always reached deep down inside and grown stronger. The hardships of 2020 will pass and we will all be stronger for it as well as taking a huge step back and appreciating the little things in our lives. Merry Christmas. Patty

  3. Sharon Elaine says:

    My 2020 mission statement: You only have to do today, Yay! Did we appreciate carefree and normal? I just finished chemo so I’m double quarantined but I love home and simple living. I dug out my fabric stash and I’m making cloth napkins for Christmas gifts. The sound of my sewing machine is so soothing. Tramping through the woods with my Nikon is another way of focusing on the present. It’s all about the present – our present – each new day – a gift from God. Open it – enjoy it – share it.

  4. Marlene Capelle says:

    Thank you and happy holidays.

  5. Terri says:

    In an odd way I’m relishing the fact we have to stay home over the holidays. Thanksgiving was quiet, just the two of us and our sweet little puppy, and Christmas will be the same. We put up our tree the day after Thanksgiving so we could have lots of cheer and colorful lights after so much doom and gloom; we spent time reminiscing over the ornaments as we decorated, laughed at so many happy memories. As dire as things have been, and still seem to be, there is such comfort in living simply, mindfully…and thankfully. Merry Christmas!! And much hope for better times in the New Year!!

  6. Marilyn Hauth says:

    Thank you for the stories. What a nice break in the day.

  7. Elaine Cardell says:

    Memories of Christmases years ago bring back so many fond memories…they were simple for sure…and I miss those times. Wishing you and your family a Very Merry Christmas.

  8. Diane Van Horn says:

    The simple Christmas memory you shared is one of those that you can’t plan. They just happen. I hope that this past year has taught us all how to slow down, enjoy staying home, make things and be grateful. I know you have had a major adjustment in your life. I hope your Christmas is simple and a memory maker. Merry Christmas and a Hopeful and Grateful New Year, my Farmgirl Friend.

  9. Suzanne Lane says:

    This is so lovely, and just what I needed for this year’s Christmas season. Family won’t be coming over—we’re all in our own homes because of the coronavirus—and I am trying to keep things simple, too, in decorations, gifts, and food. Thank you for reminding me that love, hope, peace, these are the important things.

  10. Reba says:

    We are in the midst of Chanukah. On the first night there is a special blessing for bringing us once again to this time of year, with a grateful heart. Oh how much deeper the feelings go this year!! And how much richer the cherished moments with those close to us!! I hope this season finds you and all close to you, having more peace, joy, and health! Blessings, Reba

  11. You’ve said everything that has been in my heart this Christmas. The gifts have been small and thoughtful, the decorations simple and earthy, but the love had been beyond anything money can buy. Merry Christmas!

  12. Virginia Scott says:

    Thank you for the reminders.
    Relish each day.
    Blessings to you.

  13. Kathy says:

    Interesting…not for me…love it all – that does not mean I’m not cognizant of love, peace, joy, giving and faith or that I can’t take great pleasure in the quiet snowfall, crisp cold air and my horse’s thick coat and warm breath as I feed him. It just means for me there are many places in my soul for lots of stuff!

  14. Denise Ross says:

    May your Christmas be full of soul sweet gifts and precious loved ones connections, face to face or FaceTime. Treasuring our people, the full meaning of Christmas and living gratefully and joyfully, and delighting in the soul gifts with a few presents, time with my loved ones, that’s what I’m doing this year.

  15. Bonnie N. says:

    Thank you Rebekah, for thoughts of a simple Christmas , filled with the really important sights, sounds and gifts from the heart.
    We all need more love and need to give more love , to everyone we know. You gave me the warmth and a smile , reading your words.

  16. Teresa says:

    One of the first things I do when I pick up my MJ Farms Magazine is Read your page. You words always touch my soul , many of my feelings are put into words. Thank you .
    I feel a kindred Spirit though the fields .

  17. Lori Troilo says:

    So Love your blog!!! I’m a Farmgirl-Granny from Augusta, Ks. My grandboys call me Née-Naw. Yup. Sounds like Hee-Haw‍♀️

    Anywho….thank you for sharing

    Lori

  18. Deni says:

    Yes, Christmas used to be about rushing around, trying to make sure everyone was happy. Then I realized that you can’t make everybody happy–all you can do is to be happy yourself and appreciate those little things we all should be appreciating every day. Still, the Christmas season is so very special, and I love the artwork of the greeting cards and the good Christmas music–every year I think that all the artists do their best work for Christmas, and that’s so fitting. I love bringing out all the little Christmas lights and candles, which we keep up (a few inside) all winter to brighten our spirits through the long evenings–in fact, we are sitting here with the recorded Yule Log fire on the TV and the little lights in the windows, and a pretend fire in the woodstove, since we are feeling too lazy tonight to build a real one. Your picture of the Appalachians looks like where we live–used to live in the flatlands ‘way down south, now in Virginia. I feel so grateful every day to just BE HERE–it is a lovely paradise-like setting. I have tried and tried, and cannot find anyone who does caroling anymore, such a shame—I remember doing that in my church when growing up and it was such fun. Your pig story reminded me of when we used to live right on this same country road we are off of now, and our neighbor’s pigs marched right in front of our house in a line–they had been missing, and he had gone and gotten them and was leading them with a pail of corn. There was a big sow, then a medium-sized one, then about two tiny ones, then another medium one, then some more little ones, so cute…. Ah, the country! It is the only place for me. I’m reading this in January–so Happy New Year, ya’ll!

  19. Lisa Simmons says:

    I appreciate the warmth of memories from a holiday spent with family and friends. We are rather isolated in our little piece of heaven. The winds are howling right now but, the sky is blue. The farm is simple as is most of life in our small town on the outside some inner turmoil creeps in d/t our world happenings but, peace, love and hope tend to make things better. I love that you have so many interest and communicate those so well in your blog. l am a nurse, farmer, exploring with art and nature, kind of woman who enjoys family first. I’m always looking for new interest, right now volunteer work in ethics/law as a nurse. I love advocating for people who struggle in life as we all do at some point. It’s in our actions that we can help others to experience feelings of peace and love that help to transform our world. Signed Me, a gradual work in progress.

  20. Donna Rowe says:

    I’ve been making oodles of Luna bunnies and lots of lap quilts. It makes me happy to be productive and makes others happy to be thought if and tangibly blessed. A win win!

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Big Fig Pig Does A Fig Jig (Because She’s Content)

I wondering if you are a Fig Fan?

“The proper way to eat a fig, in society,
Is to split it in four, holding it by the stump,
And open it, so that it is a glittering, rosy,
Moist, honied, heavy-petalled four-petalled flower.”

San Gervasio DH Lawrence (1885-1930)

I originally named this post “Fig Jig.” You see, it’s fig season in Georgia, and I love figs.

But somehow, in the midst of spell-check, autocorrect, and clumsy fingers “jig” became “pig.” Ah! I knew instantly that the new name fit perfectly, much better. My Dears, I confess that I am a fig pig, a big fig pig. And yes, I’m known to do a jig.

And to demonstrate that love, I’m doing the fig jig in my red shoes and goofy socks.

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  1. Mary Rauch says:

    Rebekah, you are one of a kind! No other person I know could have written an article about figs and made me “stick” (sticky?) through the whole story without wavering. I actually found it quite interesting. I loved your reaction to Fig Newtons in the cookie section at the store. I used to believe my mother bought them just to torment me. Sorry Mom, sometimes I took some when you insisted and went outdoors and got rid of them so they would be gone quicker from the cookie jar. The jam looks heavenly.
    Great to hear from you!

  2. Sabrena Orr says:

    I am today years old that I’ve decided I must try a fig! I don’t think they grow here in Washington State (but I am figless about figs). Maybe they do. I don’t think so. My goal today is to try to find a delectable fig! My favorite time of year is jam making & canning time! We’ve “put up” 6 different kinds of jam, zucchini pickles, dill pickles, green beans, dilly beans, carrots, beets and I can’t remember what else. I’ve not tried fig jam…now I will. And I will definitely order the fancy fig when we’re able to eat in a fancy restaurant. Cheers to Figs!

  3. Marlene Capelle says:

    I wish we had fig trees here I’ve never had a fresh fig. But I’m up to my ears in cucumber jelly made from garden fresh cucumbers and it is fabulous. And cucumber cookies and dried cucumbers and cucumber face mask. It’s a good year for cucumbers.

  4. Virginia says:

    Love your big fig jig tale!!

  5. Sharon Elaine says:

    You gave me laughter today – a place I needed to visit. I love the sound of lids popping (spell-check changed to kids popping). Fresh figs (fresh digs) are not something I’ve had but sound wonderful.
    In all this craziness – dancing or not dancing the jig, picking or not picking fruit, buying or not buying eggs and canning for sure, are what we need to focus on and laughter, lots and lots of laughter. Thank you, I so needed all that.

  6. Donna Kozak says:

    Hi, Rebekah – I, too, love fresh figs and planted a fig tree a few years ago and for the past three years the tree (although quite beautiful)produces lots of figs but they never ripen in time to eat them, but last year and this year I found one ripe one (?) and they were delicious…doesn’t get enough sun BUT I have a friend who has a large beautiful tree that produces lots of fruit and she doesn’t eat them – she throws them to her lucky chickens! Every year we trade her figs for my garden tomatoes – works out just fine…and I also made fig jam this year…so delicious – also delicious with heavy cream, nothing else – Yum.

  7. Deb says:

    I cried when I read this. My father was a fig fan too. He passed away 8 years ago, but I still miss him. I remember many nights working on math homework with Dad, Fig Newtons, and glasses of milk. I guess that means I’m a fig pig too!

  8. Bonnie says:

    My gramma had fig trees. Other trees with fruit also, however as a four or five year old only figs,in a bowl (blue) With cream. This I recall still, eighty years later. Toast and butter. Fragrant warm, home. Then two years ago at Costco ( I know, big open commercial cold store),I saw FIGS, large, brown, soft, fragrant too! I bought a case. Yes a case, took it home. Alone, consumed each, all, within the week. Sweet, warm, sticky, loved gramma’s.love.Still wrapped in the cozy comfort of eighty years before.

  9. Diane Van Horn says:

    I just did a great big, fig pig, jig reading your post! Never had one fresh from the tree but I do like fig jam with brie on a cracker. I agree with you on the ritual of canning and the pop of the jar seal. It gets me every time. I hope your summer has been a good one despite the craziness in the world right now. Take care, I always look forward to your posts.

  10. Carla says:

    Now, I want to try a fig, which I have not in my 67 years. Somehow I missed your move to a new farm and that you were in a car accident. Did you write a blog about them? I look forward to all of your writings. Be well.

  11. Beth says:

    I haven’t had figs in ages! I’ll have to see if I can find any around here (Willamette Valley OR — very ag oriented). When I lived in SoCal I had a fig tree and experimented with making fig jam. So delicious! But then Fig Newtons have always been one of my favorite cookies. Weird kid, I know…. Here’s to long lives for your new fig bushes!

  12. Jan says:

    Cute article on the figs.
    Mever had one but now i want one
    ( Michigan ) farm girl

  13. Judith says:

    A fig tree started growing in our yard. DH asked where it came from. At that moment a half-eaten fig dropped at our feet. I pointed up at the crow in the big ash tree above us. The birds may take but they also give.

  14. Charlene Gravely says:

    Love Figs!! We know have 2 fig trees! Your article is fantastic!!

  15. Denise says:

    yes, you took me back too when you mentioned the sound of a canning jar pop! I’ve never tried a fig and now I may have to do that sometime soon.

  16. Sandi King says:

    Wow, Rebekah. I never knew so much about figs. I have eaten store bought figs and yes they are not all that good. I am happy for you that you have your own bush of figs in your yard. And I wonder why there were no birds around the fig tree you went to harvest? Your jams looked really good though and I applaud your tenacity in getting them done. I do like Fig Newtons, the original brand, not the off brand kind though. And it is not wise to eat too many of them either at one sitting. Enjoyed reading your post and happy sticky fig jig pig or whatever to you. Until the next post, have a great life.

  17. Sandi King says:

    Wow, Rebekah. I never knew so much about figs. I have eaten store bought figs and yes they are not all that good. I am happy for you that you have your own bush of figs in your yard. And I wonder why there were no birds around the fig tree you went to harvest? Your jams looked really good though and I applaud your tenacity in getting them done. I do like Fig Newtons, the original brand, not the off brand kind though. And it is not wise to eat too many of them either at one sitting. Enjoyed reading your post and happy sticky fig jig pig or whatever to you. Until the next post, have a great life.

  18. Judy says:

    By golly Rebekah…I never knew anybody could write such an interesting article or get so excited about the ‘Humble Fig.’ But if anyone can… you can! hahaha
    I’ve not had a fresh one either. I don’t think they grow in N.E. Ohio 🙁
    Oh well, thanks girly, for the GREAT read!
    God Bless!

  19. Mary W Jacobs says:

    wow. as usual your words are fulfilling

  20. Tony says:

    I just found your page and went back and read every post. You had me laughing out loud sometimes, thinking deeply about some of they things you are saying, your wisdom, your naïve approach at times. I thoroughly enjoyed reading them all. Awesome. Thank You. I can relate to your trial and tribulations because I’m a city farmboy, learning the hard way myself.

    Miss Rebekah, figs trees grow like weeds around here. People offer them to me and I turn them down. You should plant a few around and in a few years you’ll be cursing that they got to big. and all they do is attract the deer.

    Looking forward to your next post!!

  21. Marilyn says:

    What a quite enjoyable post. We put our live tree up and the lights are on it. We will decorate the tree this week. We did not cut our tree down,but purchased from a local store. It is 7 feet. We are wrapping our presents to try to avoid the Christmas Eve rush. We do all of our shopping on line. We only go out to the bank and the mailbox. Wishing you and your family a Blessed and Merry Christmas and a Happy, Healthy 2021.
    Joan,Marion and Marilyn

  22. Janice Fielder says:

    Your fig story made me think of my mom’s fig trees. She made fig jam also. I loved that stuff! (After I grew up!) I tried to grow fig trees with no success. She lived in Texas her whole life but I moved away to other states after I married. Sure missed all that!!!

    Thanks for reminding me of the sweet memories.

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Big Fig Pig Does A Fig Jig (Because She's Content)

I wondering if you are a Fig Fan?

“The proper way to eat a fig, in society,
Is to split it in four, holding it by the stump,
And open it, so that it is a glittering, rosy,
Moist, honied, heavy-petalled four-petalled flower.”

San Gervasio DH Lawrence (1885-1930)

I originally named this post “Fig Jig.” You see, it’s fig season in Georgia, and I love figs.

But somehow, in the midst of spell-check, autocorrect, and clumsy fingers “jig” became “pig.” Ah! I knew instantly that the new name fit perfectly, much better. My Dears, I confess that I am a fig pig, a big fig pig. And yes, I’m known to do a jig.

And to demonstrate that love, I’m doing the fig jig in my red shoes and goofy socks.

Continue reading

  1. Mary Rauch says:

    Rebekah, you are one of a kind! No other person I know could have written an article about figs and made me “stick” (sticky?) through the whole story without wavering. I actually found it quite interesting. I loved your reaction to Fig Newtons in the cookie section at the store. I used to believe my mother bought them just to torment me. Sorry Mom, sometimes I took some when you insisted and went outdoors and got rid of them so they would be gone quicker from the cookie jar. The jam looks heavenly.
    Great to hear from you!

  2. Sabrena Orr says:

    I am today years old that I’ve decided I must try a fig! I don’t think they grow here in Washington State (but I am figless about figs). Maybe they do. I don’t think so. My goal today is to try to find a delectable fig! My favorite time of year is jam making & canning time! We’ve “put up” 6 different kinds of jam, zucchini pickles, dill pickles, green beans, dilly beans, carrots, beets and I can’t remember what else. I’ve not tried fig jam…now I will. And I will definitely order the fancy fig when we’re able to eat in a fancy restaurant. Cheers to Figs!

  3. Marlene Capelle says:

    I wish we had fig trees here I’ve never had a fresh fig. But I’m up to my ears in cucumber jelly made from garden fresh cucumbers and it is fabulous. And cucumber cookies and dried cucumbers and cucumber face mask. It’s a good year for cucumbers.

  4. Virginia says:

    Love your big fig jig tale!!

  5. Sharon Elaine says:

    You gave me laughter today – a place I needed to visit. I love the sound of lids popping (spell-check changed to kids popping). Fresh figs (fresh digs) are not something I’ve had but sound wonderful.
    In all this craziness – dancing or not dancing the jig, picking or not picking fruit, buying or not buying eggs and canning for sure, are what we need to focus on and laughter, lots and lots of laughter. Thank you, I so needed all that.

  6. Donna Kozak says:

    Hi, Rebekah – I, too, love fresh figs and planted a fig tree a few years ago and for the past three years the tree (although quite beautiful)produces lots of figs but they never ripen in time to eat them, but last year and this year I found one ripe one (?) and they were delicious…doesn’t get enough sun BUT I have a friend who has a large beautiful tree that produces lots of fruit and she doesn’t eat them – she throws them to her lucky chickens! Every year we trade her figs for my garden tomatoes – works out just fine…and I also made fig jam this year…so delicious – also delicious with heavy cream, nothing else – Yum.

  7. Deb says:

    I cried when I read this. My father was a fig fan too. He passed away 8 years ago, but I still miss him. I remember many nights working on math homework with Dad, Fig Newtons, and glasses of milk. I guess that means I’m a fig pig too!

  8. Bonnie says:

    My gramma had fig trees. Other trees with fruit also, however as a four or five year old only figs,in a bowl (blue) With cream. This I recall still, eighty years later. Toast and butter. Fragrant warm, home. Then two years ago at Costco ( I know, big open commercial cold store),I saw FIGS, large, brown, soft, fragrant too! I bought a case. Yes a case, took it home. Alone, consumed each, all, within the week. Sweet, warm, sticky, loved gramma’s.love.Still wrapped in the cozy comfort of eighty years before.

  9. Diane Van Horn says:

    I just did a great big, fig pig, jig reading your post! Never had one fresh from the tree but I do like fig jam with brie on a cracker. I agree with you on the ritual of canning and the pop of the jar seal. It gets me every time. I hope your summer has been a good one despite the craziness in the world right now. Take care, I always look forward to your posts.

  10. Carla says:

    Now, I want to try a fig, which I have not in my 67 years. Somehow I missed your move to a new farm and that you were in a car accident. Did you write a blog about them? I look forward to all of your writings. Be well.

  11. Beth says:

    I haven’t had figs in ages! I’ll have to see if I can find any around here (Willamette Valley OR — very ag oriented). When I lived in SoCal I had a fig tree and experimented with making fig jam. So delicious! But then Fig Newtons have always been one of my favorite cookies. Weird kid, I know…. Here’s to long lives for your new fig bushes!

  12. Jan says:

    Cute article on the figs.
    Mever had one but now i want one
    ( Michigan ) farm girl

  13. Judith says:

    A fig tree started growing in our yard. DH asked where it came from. At that moment a half-eaten fig dropped at our feet. I pointed up at the crow in the big ash tree above us. The birds may take but they also give.

  14. Charlene Gravely says:

    Love Figs!! We know have 2 fig trees! Your article is fantastic!!

  15. Denise says:

    yes, you took me back too when you mentioned the sound of a canning jar pop! I’ve never tried a fig and now I may have to do that sometime soon.

  16. Sandi King says:

    Wow, Rebekah. I never knew so much about figs. I have eaten store bought figs and yes they are not all that good. I am happy for you that you have your own bush of figs in your yard. And I wonder why there were no birds around the fig tree you went to harvest? Your jams looked really good though and I applaud your tenacity in getting them done. I do like Fig Newtons, the original brand, not the off brand kind though. And it is not wise to eat too many of them either at one sitting. Enjoyed reading your post and happy sticky fig jig pig or whatever to you. Until the next post, have a great life.

  17. Sandi King says:

    Wow, Rebekah. I never knew so much about figs. I have eaten store bought figs and yes they are not all that good. I am happy for you that you have your own bush of figs in your yard. And I wonder why there were no birds around the fig tree you went to harvest? Your jams looked really good though and I applaud your tenacity in getting them done. I do like Fig Newtons, the original brand, not the off brand kind though. And it is not wise to eat too many of them either at one sitting. Enjoyed reading your post and happy sticky fig jig pig or whatever to you. Until the next post, have a great life.

  18. Judy says:

    By golly Rebekah…I never knew anybody could write such an interesting article or get so excited about the ‘Humble Fig.’ But if anyone can… you can! hahaha
    I’ve not had a fresh one either. I don’t think they grow in N.E. Ohio 🙁
    Oh well, thanks girly, for the GREAT read!
    God Bless!

  19. Mary W Jacobs says:

    wow. as usual your words are fulfilling

  20. Tony says:

    I just found your page and went back and read every post. You had me laughing out loud sometimes, thinking deeply about some of they things you are saying, your wisdom, your naïve approach at times. I thoroughly enjoyed reading them all. Awesome. Thank You. I can relate to your trial and tribulations because I’m a city farmboy, learning the hard way myself.

    Miss Rebekah, figs trees grow like weeds around here. People offer them to me and I turn them down. You should plant a few around and in a few years you’ll be cursing that they got to big. and all they do is attract the deer.

    Looking forward to your next post!!

  21. Marilyn says:

    What a quite enjoyable post. We put our live tree up and the lights are on it. We will decorate the tree this week. We did not cut our tree down,but purchased from a local store. It is 7 feet. We are wrapping our presents to try to avoid the Christmas Eve rush. We do all of our shopping on line. We only go out to the bank and the mailbox. Wishing you and your family a Blessed and Merry Christmas and a Happy, Healthy 2021.
    Joan,Marion and Marilyn

  22. Janice Fielder says:

    Your fig story made me think of my mom’s fig trees. She made fig jam also. I loved that stuff! (After I grew up!) I tried to grow fig trees with no success. She lived in Texas her whole life but I moved away to other states after I married. Sure missed all that!!!

    Thanks for reminding me of the sweet memories.

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You Know Why Mary is so Contrary? I Do.

“Mary, Mary, Quite Contrary,

How does your garden grow?”

Tell us. How is YOUR garden growing this summer?

Won’t you share with us? Hit up the comment section with Your name, Your name, Quite your mood, How does your garden grow?” And then tell us about your garden, or lack thereof.

Ok, I’ll start.

“Rebekah, Rebekah, quite frustrated yet for some reason rather perky, how does your garden grow?”

Well, why don’t I just show you my harvest so far?

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  1. Tim Bryant says:

    How can I meet a nice farmgirl in north central Illinois?

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      I couldn’t decide if this was spam or not, Tim. Looks like it’s not. So, if there’s any farmgals in north central Illinois a-lookin’ … get in touch with me.

  2. Jena says:

    Our garden has had our undivided attention this year.
    We built a pond, increased the bee yard to 4 hives, doubled the home veg garden, and started to transform a pasture into a small truck patch for next year. We added a bunch of vertical gardens as well.

    It has been fun, but with all these thirsty plants., our well is strained. I pray for a deep soaking rain every week. Sometimes we dance.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Oh Jena, Jena, quite impressive, WAY TO BE! I’m so happy for you. I do wish you guys could add photos! I’d love to see the creations from all your hard work!

  3. Diane Van Horn says:

    Diane, Diane quite mostly buying, how does your garden grow? It doesn’t. I removed my previous raised garden beds to make room for my camper. Built new smaller raised beds and filled them with soil. I bought the soil from a local greenhouse. It said it was organic garden soil. I feel like I have been duped. All of my plants are suffering. I have been fertilizing but they still seem a little off. I know it has to be the soil. Soil is the most important ingredient for robust plants. I will have to build the soil up with some composted manure this fall. I do have two tomato plants in a container garden that are doing better than the raised beds due to the fact I used different soil. Maybe next year I will have a better harvest. Thank goodness for farmer’s markets!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Diane, Diane, I feel your pain. What a disappointment! I guess you do feel “duped.” I’ve purchased organic soil before that spouted weeds galore. It was a step backwards for that garden (so many properties ago). Otherwise, you like your smaller raised beds?? I may need to head in that direction!

  4. Barbara Collins says:

    Loved your post! I am a horticulturist by profession for the last 38 years. I have built gardens in many places and have battled insane weeds along the way. It came to me, like a bolt of lightning, that all I have done my whole life is try to beat back nature.You think you are winning for a while but take a few days off from the fight and you are right back where you started.I turned my big vegetable garden into a perennial garden and now have a few vegetables in pots. I don’t have to weed them! Read the book “The $64 Tomato”. Happy Gardening!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Barbara, Barbara, I haven’t read that book, but feel like I have lived it! I will read it. You’re so right about the weeds. I’m trying to identify the weeds on my farm to see if there’s a way to destroy them without chemicals. In the meantime, I lose the battle.

  5. Edith Tilley says:

    Edith, Edith how does your garden grow? Not! Ive always had at least minimal good luck with seed starting, chance tomato plants, greens, pumpkins, herbs, flowers for 44 years here, in a country oasis in the midst of city encroachment…now Im into raised beds …but even those are not doing well this year.. a migration of wild rabbits and squirrels has moved into our area, plus Ive been battling stinging nettle that had to have arrived from hay that I feed my 3 goats..the critters love the raised beds and whatever I plant! I stay optimistic tho as it seems my yard has turned into a nature preserve, so it is my delight to come home after work and observe nature in action here in Norco, CA…maybe Ill figure out how to get things back under control…or maybe its best to watch nature at work in my piece of Paradise!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Edith, Edith, some gardening years are better than others for sure! I admire your optimism and attitude. I’m the same way with creatures: they are all invited here and probably need the food more than I do. The encounters with nature are worth it. Maybe I’ll figure it out as well, or maybe not. We’re lucky to have found places that feel like Paradise!

  6. Kathy says:

    Kathy, Kathy, quite persistent, how does your garden grow? Thin to very very slim…beautiful dainty princess tomato plants, elegant sparse stalks of corn blown over in the latest wind “event”, vines of many colors – flowers no fruit. What’s an organic farm girl to do? … dream of next year’s garden filled with robust, deep green plants kissing the sun :)!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Kathy, Kathy. You have found the answer that has eluded me. YES! Dream and prepare for next year. I see it in my mind now! Thank you, Persistent Gardener, You.

  7. Reba says:

    “Reba, Reba, quite determined, How does your garden grow?” This year has been one of determination to grow something, anything, somewhere!! I recently moved from MT (4/1/20 during a pandemic) back to the Appalachian area! I kept my seeds out so I could use this time to get organized by seeing how many seeds I have saved, order some new, and get ready to plant a garden next Spring, when I have my own place. I joined in gardening summits for pointers and tips. And not to be without anything growing I ordered a couple of fig trees, mixed my own soil, and put those in containers. Then I planted Stella de Or seeds (daylily) and even tried to start redbud tree seeds after stratifying those. I love those redbud trees in the mountains; those seem to be one of the first signs of Spring. I imagined finding a small farm and lining my driveway with those. But I’m not sure what went wrong with that, so far nothing green is coming up! 🙁 So off to one of my favorite farmers markets! I have canned some things that were grown in South GA and started refilling my cabinets. It has helped “some” in the feeling satisfied department…but the determination has been valuable to get things going! I am still looking for the “perfect” place while being “picky” checking first for a garden spot and a place to have chickens. Then once I find it I will be ordering wood chips and getting compost going into the garden spot to get prepared for Spring next year! When I lived in GA (prior to moving to the very fertile soil of the mountains) I had hard red clay in my small yard in my neighborhood. I took a look at the “Back to Eden” dvd and was convinced I could do something with the soil! And you wouldn’t believe how well it worked!! I had a huge amount of tomatoes being produced on such a small spot. So soon…I can see it coming…determination and imagination…soon I will be growing again!!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Reba, Reba, Thank you for your note. Your hope and joy is contagious! I felt the same way when I moved to a fertile valley in the Appalachian Mountains. I turned over the ground and screamed with joy. What luscious, loose, rich, dark earth. That was what I always tried to create in Ga. You’ll find your place! I just know it! I don’t know “Back to Eden,” but will check it out! oh, I have a Redbud right outside my bedroom window. It is a lovely tree that spreads love with all its heart-shaped leaves!

      • Reba says:

        Hi Rebekah,

        I am placing the website about the Back to Eden gardening video. It is so amazing and causes me to feel like a true master gardener (even though I KNOW that I’m not)! My Mom was truly the real deal “farmgirl” and my #1 mentor. I absolutely hated doing all that work only to have weeds take the garden over. But yet I wanted to grow my own food as much as possible. This was revolutionary for me in my garden. Here’s a site that you can check out: http://www.backtoedenfilm.com/#:~:text=Founder%20of%20Back%20to%20Eden%20Gardening%

        This may give you the headstart you need for next year! Happy Gardening! Reba

  8. Diane says:

    My garden is doing good. My cucumbers and tomatoes are growing wonderfully We had early spring lettuces and kale on the porch. Blackberry a d blueberry trees a small bowl! Of each.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Diane, Diane. What that must feel like! I’m so happy for you. I do enjoy the spring lettuces and kale. I usually plant kale in the fall as well. Though–I don’t know about this year. Enjoy the fruit of your labor! It sounds delicious.

  9. Shauna says:

    I feel your pain. I went big this year and planted more than i have in years past. But I also went cheap and didnt get good soil for my containers. Lesson learned. My berry bishes and brambles did great. The cucumbers that i planted in April (I’m in zone 7b) are just now taking off. Im usually neck deep in cukes by now. I lost all my yellow squash amd zucchini (8 plants) to vine borers. My some miracle my queensland blue winter squash (4 plants) is huge and prolific. I cant wait to harvest in a month or so. Tomatoes – lost them all. Okra i have 3 plants, ive gotten 2 so far. Eggplant, 2 plants gotten 1 so far. Melons got trampled by the dogs. Now I am plotting more fencing and planning for fall.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Shauna, Shauna, Perhaps I have vine borers too. IDK. I’m interested to know more about Queensland Blue Winter Squash. I love winter squash BIG TIME! And yes, I feel your pain too. I’m glad you are enjoying success with a few things! Fencing and fall, I hear ya.

  10. Marlene Capelle says:

    Wow. I thought our garden was a bust but it is grand compared to yours. But I know how disappointing it is to try so hard and get nothing. If I could I would send you some tomatoes. We have two sweet 100’s that are messy upon messy but I love going out and picking a tomato and popping it in my mouth whenever I walk by. Flowers are, however, so sad.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Marlene, Marlene. That’s what I do with my little tomatoes, walk by and pop one in my mouth–IF there is one ready to eat. “Sad” is the perfect word to describe my garden. We’re been so dry too lately. Things that did grow are droopy, even some of the weeds!

  11. Cynthia S. says:

    Good Morning Rebekah
    How I love your posts! I wish there were more but I realize how busy a farm girl can be.
    I have gardened for about 40 yrs and I still have struggling moments.BUT, this year I had my darling husband build me a raised bed to which I applied lasagne planting. Oh my goodness!!! My tomato plants are 5 feet tall already and as thick as the forest. I loose myself in them as I continue to tie them to stakes. The plants are so incredibly healthy that vertical string growing was not enough support.My book of reference for this type of gardening is by Patricia Lanza “Lasagna Gardening”.A wealth of information for any type of Gardner. Give it a look,I’m sure you won’t be disappointed.
    Good luck and remember there is always next year!!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Cynthia, Cynthia, You just put a big smile on my face! Thank you for your sweet words! You know, many moons ago I toyed with the idea of Lasagna Gardening. I bet I still have the book in a box somewhere. I’ll try to find it! I’m very tempted to move to raised beds at this farm. I’m excited about your tomatoes! Nothing like a just picked tomato. ENJOY!

  12. LIN HAGEN says:

    I have enjoyed your inspiring and nurturing posts for many years! However, I need an update….somehow I’ve missed some posts or I had a brain freeze:( When did you move to Georgia??? Another farm? Oh my….! Thank you for the time and adventures you have shared over the years! This is truly a time to enjoy “the little things” and always hold onto the simplicity of life.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Lin, Lin, let me update you! I moved back home to Georgia (sadly, divorce). I found a smaller farm with everything that I need and so much more. This farm delights me. Small red cottage house, lovely horse barn, chicken barn, forest, pastures, rushing creek. You talk about providence. I am finally living the “simple” life. Thank you for sticking with me for so long! I am honored that you have shared my adventures with me. Many more ahead!

      • LIN HAGEN says:

        Thank you for the update, Rebekah. Divorces are tough, but it sounds like you have found your little piece of paradise and I’m very happy for you! I’m sure your garden will get better every year! So much depends on Mother Nature! I finally resorted to container gardening. Until next time….thank you again for sharing!! Always love your pictures!!

  13. Rebecca says:

    My garden is not a total loss. I’ve had one “mess” of beans and one tomato out of my garden. Oh and zuchinni. But on the plus side, the blueberries have been wonderful. I have 4 bushes and we have picked and picked AND picked. I’ve made 24 pints of jam and frozen 8 gallans to use this winter. We’ve eaten them every day, given them to friends and neighbors and we did our last picking yesterday. I love blueberries so I’m happy that they’re so plentiful. The rest of my garden is a pretty pitiful mess though.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Rebecca, Rebecca, Blueberry Jam! That makes everything else ok, big crop or not! One tomato and one mess of beans? Sounds like a success to me!

  14. Mary Rauch says:

    This is Mary, Mary quite contrary. How do I post pics of MY garden (so to speak)?

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Mary, Mary, you are the opposite of contrary.
      Mary, Mary, quite cheery (said like cherry to rhyme with Mary).
      Mary, Mary, quite merry!
      Mary, Mary, quite NOT ordinary!
      Mary, Mary, quite necessary!
      Mary, Mary, quite LEGENDARY!
      and I’m out. That’s all I’ve got.
      Mary, Mary, quite like a fairy (ha, thought of one more), there’s no way to post photos here. But you can email me at rebekah@maryjanesfarm.com so I can see your garden!

  15. Lisa Holderman says:

    Lisa, Lisa how does my garden grow? Well…somewhat well. Rebekah, I feel ya! Especially the feeling of confidence too soon. I live in the suburbs and have way too many critters and not enough sun to grow a successful vegetable garden. I did however, plant a tomato plant in a large pot and put it on my new deck. This plant grew like something out of Jurassic Park. It grew to be nearly 6am tall and I had 30+ tomatoes. I enjoyed four big juicy red tomatoes and then one morning I noticed my plant not looking so good. I noticed nibbling in some of the tomatoes. Convinced it was chipmunks I read up on how to deter the buggers without killing them. Baby powder I read was a great deterrent. I didn’t notice any more squirrels or chipmunks. I was thinking I had success until I noticed my plant was being eaten up! The culprits finally showed themselves…tomato worms. Oh my goodness but they gross me out! I hope I have gotten them all but seeing how I have no idea how they found it to begin with I’m not getting too cocky this time. Ha! I love the birds, bees, and butterflies so I spend more time and effort growing food for them than for me. Amazingly, I am pretty successful at that.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Lisa, Lisa, your tomato plant must have set a record! over 30 tomatoes! Those tomato worms are the worst. The only way I’ve known how to manage them is by hand. I guess that’s what you did? I hope your miracle plant recovers and you enjoy even more fresh tomatoes! Birds, bees, and butterflies are so enjoyable to watch. It’s worth growing food for them in exchange for them coming close enough for us to appreciate them! PS Interesting tip on the baby powder! I’ll remember that.

  16. Amanda says:

    Amanda, Amanda, in a pickle (literally!) how does your garden grow? Oh my word! I’ve been in your shoes until this year! My old garden, no matter how I tried to make the soil better, just fought with me and I struggled to grow what we needed. Now this year, we moved to my husbands grandparents farm and worked up grandma’s old garden that was in grass for over 6 years. This plot is legendary! The whole farming community has been talking about it and driving by to see it. It’s big but not too big for one person to handle, but in less than a weeks time I’ve picked over 90 lbs of pickling cucumbers!!! I am canning pickles nonstop! I have even begun leaving slicing cucumbers and zucchini on peoples porches and running away! Kinda dreading what is to come regarding tomatoes… I wish you many blessings and hope you will have the garden of your dreams!

  17. Jo Gill says:

    I think a couple goats would definitely work. I have had Pygmy goats before, and they were very sweet. You’ll just need good fences.
    Enjoy the farmers market too. I barter some of my eggs for things I don’t have. I just traded 3 dozen for some Alaskan Halibut.

  18. My daughters have rallied this year to hoe,row,
    plant, and weed!! We are reaping a harvest of
    early veggies for Wyoming. Beautiful radishes, sweet green onions, and beets greens. The corn is
    high with the promise of goodness come the end of August or so!
    Happy weeding

  19. Sandi King says:

    Sandi, Sandi, being hopeful, how does your garden grow? well, I have 4 tomato plants in two containers; I also planted basil in one of the
    containers next to my Beefsteak tomato plant which has not produced any tomatoes yet, but is loaded with blossoms; next to the beef steak is a big boy which is producing lots of tomatoes, green and then red as they ripen and so sweet and delicious, but not real big either like they should be. In the ground garden we have one zucchini plant, and 2 cantaloupe plants; I have gotten 4 zucchini so far and made zucchini muffins, zucchini bread and we fried zucchini and fried green tomatoes for supper one night; the cantaloupes are producing at least 4 cantaloupes on one plant; also in the garden are onions, and sunflowers and corn stalks with silks, so I guess we will have corn on the cob later on and the birds will have sunflower seeds to eat this winter. Next year we will enlarge the garden area and plant differently as the zucchini and cantaloupe are competing for ground now. Our land is mostly clay or partial clay so have a lot of soil amending to do for next year. I also have one green pepper plant in a pot, and two or three yellow and three red pepper plants each in the garden; yellows are producing, a few green ones, but so far no red ones. We are letting the onions grow. One strawberry plant died. Love my tomatoes though. Not as many bees are around as last year yet. My tomato plants are huge inside these above ground containers but may be too crowded to produce the large tomatoes or too much rain and sunshine making them ripen before they grow big. But still hopeful for the great big beefsteaks where one slice fits over the whole slice of bread. Yummy. Until next time have a great month of growing.

  20. Sabrena Orr says:

    My garden poem would have to reference my hubby’s name somehow! ;0)
    He has spent an incredible amount of time, effort (and $$) during the COVID lockdown enhancing our garden. New fence; new beds; richest, healthiest soil ever!; and so many yummy veges growing! It’s been our favorite “go-to” place during our time at home!

  21. Carol Denton says:

    Carol, Carol, quite content! My garden is growing way better than last year! I finally broke down and bought some fabric weed barrier and burned holes every twelve inches (to match the emitters in the drip tape) with the flame weeder. It’s not the weeds that I battle so much, but the bermuda grass. It’s straight from you know where and next to impossible to get rid of except to rip it out by hand. I totally understand the round-up temptation!
    I didn’t put the fabric in the walk-paths between the rows, but instead laid down cardboard then put down a thick layer of old hay for mulch. What a difference! The few weeds are easy to control and it really does keep the moisture in. Look up Ruth Stout method and Back to Eden. Each are mulch methods sort of like lasagna gardening. Cover your weeds now and by next year you’ll have a nice spot.
    Also, insect pressure has seemed a little better. I planted a lot of plants for beneficial insects, let nature take its course and the bad bugs seemed to level out. Except for the squash borers. Grrr.
    I planted three blueberry bushes this spring and got almost as many blueberries as you did. Almost! The peppers are doing well though. I literally just sat down from making jalapeno cowboy candy. I’m kinda sorta addicted to it and the house smells divine.
    My three cattle panel arched trellises are dripping with green beans, cucumbers and little French melons. Just like the ones on youtube, lol. I guess I’m surprised it worked.
    And, I got some stinging nettle seeds from Baker Creek that I didn’t get planted this spring so I’ll plant them this fall. Yep, you read that right. I don’t have any here so I’m starting my own little patch. There was/is? a coffee shop in downtown AVL that had the best tea blends. I always got the stinging nettle one, I don’t remember what else was in it, but it was delicious! She wild harvested it somewhere along the French Broad, her secret little hidden stash. You could harvest your stinging nettle and chalk it up to a banner garden year! You may discover a great tea blend!

  22. hi Rebekah
    My biggest garden success this season are the tomato and pepper plants in the 5 “grow boxes ” that were gifted to me. 12 tomato plants and 6 sweet peppers . Also gifts as my grower friend had grown the heirlooms to be sold at the big garden fair at ” Landis Valley Farm Museum” last May that was cancelled.
    I also have the amazingly healthy volunteer tomatoes that came up from the plants that were pulverized last September by a 5 story tree that fell on the entire garden !
    I never expected anything to have survived but the fruits from those poor squashed plants produced abundantly ! I have done zip for those volunteers except finally putting cages around them ! Of course the labels are missing but I hope to recognize the varieties when they produce fruit.
    As for my herb and rose garden, that has been a great place for weeds! My secret for small spaces with weeds: keep laying down garden stepping stones on them! I get cheap ones a the dollar store.
    The roses are riddled with disease and all the usual ” fixes” aren’t really working. Ah such is life in the hinterlands !
    The deer have been pretty good this year despite the tree having taken out the fencing! They ,for some reason ,have been entranced by the morning glories! Just the leaves .
    So that is my growing season so far here in Amish country in Lancaster County Pennslyvania.

  23. hi again Rebekah,

    3 words : GOATS GOATS GOATS!! Like Jo Gill said, they do the trick on weeds !!

    the US forestry service and many national parks are using them especially for eating up poison ivy! If you have a way to keep them contained for awhile, even thethering them for a few hours, they will definitely eat those (insert bad word here ) weeds!!

    You said you had a fence so there is your solution. The bigger the goats the better the weed control. Pygmy goats are ok though.

    Borrow some if you don’t already have these fun entertaining livestock.

    Hope this helps! Good Luck!

  24. Marti Wynne says:

    MARTI, Marti, quite content. How is my garden growing???? Well thank goodness for last years plants of blackberries that are harvesting beautifully this year and my jalapeños from last year have sprung forth batches ❤️ No time for planting. Veggies, that is…. this year I planted my dream of opening a beauty salon this spring/summer. I am 61 years young and am eager to get back in the dirt this fall
    But I was blessed with fresh corn, tomatoes, okra, and squash From local gardeners that I put some up ❤️. To everything there is a season and a purpose under heaven

  25. Denise says:

    I have problems with birds and squirrels more than weeds. BUT I have had to resort to chemicals this year when the poison ivy started popping up and it did take care of it. I don’t even put out anything any more because of the birds and squirrels BUT because my neighbor had cherry tomatoes last year, the birds brought over some seeds and I have two nice tomato plants right in the middle of my flowers. and being in the middle of the flowers it has kept the birds from getting them. knock wood, the squirrels haven’t gotten to them yet. I have picked a grand total of 6 cherry tomatoes! 🙂 I have a little peach tree and just as the peaches start to ripen, the squirrels beat me to them each and every time. But here’s to next year and better luck with your garden.

  26. Marilyn says:

    Your garden is such a success. The flowers are beautiful. Enjoy your bounty.
    Marilyn

  27. Mary, Mary quite contrary, there is no garden to show…

    I thought it was only me…huge, full, beautiful plants, but bare…no tomatoes, no zucchini, no beans, a few peppers. Even our fruit trees, last year loaded with apples, this year I see 3. We lost our beehives a couple of winters ago…maybe that’s the reason. And this year, of all years, when I wanted to can and freeze oodles of homegrown food. Sigh…what’s a girl to do? Well, I’ll be visiting the little farm market off the town square…their luck was better than mine!

  28. Joan P. says:

    Joan, Joan, very frustrated, has does your garden grow? NOT. We plant a small garden almost every year and harvest practically nothing. We have moles and deer.My husband has tried all kinds of ways to get rid of the moles, but they are still here. We have even tried raised beds, which didn’t do any better. So, next year I am going to try container gardening. I think we might have a better chance at a harvest…lol. As far as the deer go, we are figuring out what they won’t eat, and planting more of those things. I love flowers and am figuring out ways to cover them so the deer can’t get to them. Gardening is an ongoing struggle, but still fun. Love your blog, Rebekah! jmp

  29. Jacqueline says:

    That was LOL funny. When I saw those 2 blueberries and then read about the Okra, I was hooked and was laughing my way thru. I have 3 blueberry bushes and did not get a single berry,. A few grew but birds must have gotten them. My raspberry’s thrived but I made the mistake of putting the bird netting over the top of the plant so the berries are now very hard to access as the plant has grown. I planted some amazing corn in diff. pockets of the yard. Not enough to eat but vibrant varieites of atomic orange, Montana purple,gorgeous gem colors all from Bakers Creek catalog. Cherry tomatoes took off but I over planted and so they are all mingled together and hard to access. I also over planted pumpkins/goards to close in yard, compost pile and raised beds as they literally took over everything and affected the other plants as they did not have access to the sun. I have been ripping those plants out now or cutting the large leaves for several weeks and do have some beauties. I trellised a few plants up a piece of cattle panel so it is awesome to watch them grow mid air.
    Cuc’s and beans did not do great b/c of lack of sunlight but I have enjoyed gardening this year. I love gardening in good years as well as bad!

  30. Mary Frances Rauch says:

    Oh what a breath of fresh air to hear from you!
    Life is good and calm here in the middle of Ohio. This year I planted lots of herbs and a few tomatoes, yellow, red slicing, and cherry or plum shapes.l am still masking and distancing although the mandate has been partially lifted. The cover variant is rearing its ugly head.
    I’ve been trying all sorts of new recipes (which totally annoys my hubby. He does not enjoy change. Just give him some potatoes and a thick steak plus a salad and he’s good to go.
    I’ve been working with old photos for months. That is quite a joy. Gave away hundreds to pals and most really enjoyed the memories.
    Can you tell us more about the teaching you mentioned?

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What kind of tea woud you like? Or would you prefer coffee? Water? Wine?

IMG_8443I looked out my kitchen window one recent morning and saw a male Red Cardinal in my yard in full “come hither” mode. I didn’t know what I was witnessing at the time, but I did know it was spectacular. I watched him stay in this unusal position on the ground, displaying the plume of his generous red tail feathers.

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  1. Carol Denton says:

    I had to look up zephyr and wouldn’t have guessed the meaning in a million years. I thought it was going to say, ‘a centaur’s best friend’ but instead I was delighted with the real meanings.
    1. literary: a soft gentle breeze
    2. historical: a fine cotton gingham
    a very light article of clothing
    I now view my summer clothes in a whole new light as I swelter in this southern heat!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Carol, I thought the same thing. I’ve needed that word, but never knew it. Now we can use it! How are your summers? I know you enjoyed the NC summers as much as I did!
      Thanks for swinging with me.

      • Carol Denton says:

        Summers here are about like yours. Hot and humid. Yes, I miss the NC weather for sure, but what I miss most are all the mountain wild flowers. It looks like you still have some of that! Lucky you! If we have turks-cap lilies, solomon seal, trilliums, etc, they are hiding. We do have tons of elderberries though. They’re everywhere! They’re in full bloom right now and smell divine!

  2. Meredith Williams says:

    I can’t function in the humidity of our Virginia summers! We live at the foot of the Blue Ridge so fall and winter are my favorite and most productive seasons!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Meredith! Yes, Virginia gets slammed during summer as well. I bet you head to the mountains as often as you can. I’m so glad you stopped by for a visit! Good talking with you.

  3. Diane Van Horn says:

    Dear Rebekah,
    Spring has been lovely this year! The weather here is Wisconsin has two seasons, Winter and Road Construction!
    I love having four seasons. I don’t do heat and humidity very well though and my mood is definitely affected by the weather.
    It’s good to see you have time to enjoy the spring because she is often fleeting and the dog days of summer are on her heels.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      LOL! The dog days are coming for me on Sunday. Fitting, I guess, since summer begins on Saturday. You know how I adore your winters. I haven’t endured your road construction season, tho. I imagine I could compete with that in the ATL area! I savored every minute of our spring. It was miraculous. Your summer is mild? I’m glad you came to visit me, Diane. One day we’ll visit in person!

  4. Judy Colyer says:

    Your comments of “ For me, I am most productive outside on pleasant, breezy days. Sweltering heat negatively affects my productivity inside or out. I don’t like to sweat. I find excessive heat and humidity to be oppressive“ describes me to the tee!! I live in Indiana and we do have changing seasons with cold winters and hot humid summers. I live through summer so I can get to October when the temperatures fall back into “breathable” air. I’ll be WEATHERING the weather with you this summer.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Oh yeah, Sister, I understand exactly! I’m glad you get good temps in Oct. We might or might not. But the humidity is so hard to deal with. My horses do not enjoy summers here, but they sure LOVE the mild winters. Thanks for coming for a swing, Judy!

  5. Jacqueline says:

    I am so glad that I read this article as i love the changes in seasons as i am a PA girl. I would have never guessed the Mountains of Al were so diverse with temperatures and it opens up my perspective that you can’t judge an entire states temp. without taking into account the peaks and valleys.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Jacqueline! Thanks for coming over! You do get great seasons in PA. I see why you stay planted. The mountains where I lived previously were in the high country of NC. There’s a little sliver of NC where the 6A planting zone comes down. We were in that sliver. Lots of mountains and valleys.

  6. Laura Burke says:

    As I get older, I am trying to be less whine-y about the weather. There really is something noteworthy in every day, sometimes it takes a little more effort to appreciate it.
    With that being said, I LOVE summer!
    When the heat from the sky meets the heat coming up from the ground?
    That’s my comfort zone!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Oh my goodness, Laura, it’s an oven outside when the heats from below and above unite. I’m wondering where you live. I know folks adore the heat as much as I adore the cold. I’m glad you stopped by for a swing! I need to reminded to quit whining as summer has not yet officially arrived yet. More ahead!

  7. Pamela Frey says:

    Loved your post & pictures. Originally from New England, I can still “weather” the cold much better than the heat in rural Kansas. It always cracks me up when so many people
    here complain about the cold months even the “nice-not too cold for me” ones. I finally understand ad appreciate the wind in Kansas. It makes a hot day so much more agree-able, even pleasant!! Thanks for your weather report!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      So glad you’re here, Pamela! Thanks for coming. New England is the dreamy spot for me. It has it all! Same thing here, “brrrrrr, it’s so cold!.” Not to me, it isn’t. Wind is good, yes.

  8. I live in upstate New York and I wouldn’t live anywhere else (well, maybe Maine but that’s about it). For all the harshness and never-ending feeling of winters that last well into spring, I wouldn’t trade the summers and autumns up here for anything!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      I’m with you on that, Barbara! I’ve never visited upstate, but have seen all the beautiful farms and land there. And your winters are divine, if you ask me. Four seasons of delight! Thank you for swinging with me! I enjoyed your company.

  9. Terri Goggin says:

    What a beautiful tribute to Georgia. I didn’t know cactus grew there.
    It makes me want to come visit!! Thank you. You are a wonderful writer.
    Love the cardinal story.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Terri, I’m so glad we visited virtually. Yes, we have cactus, but they are not indigenous here. Someone planted them, and the cactus thrived. Mine have gotten into my pasture, so I need to eradicate it somehow without chemicals.

  10. SG says:

    The sweltering summer heat here in coastal Texas just wipes me out. Exhausting. So all my gardening happens in the mild days of “winter,” which is beautiful here, if not very wintery. Oh, and that mystery organ the cats don’t eat, that’s the gall bladder. It’s full of bile, inedible even for a cat

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      SG, I’m glad you visited! I had no idea that was a gall bladder. Now I know! I feel the same way about the heat. It really does wipe everyone out. I always find myself appreciative of an inside job during summer. (summer only tho)

  11. Mary Rauch says:

    I visited Georgia for a week in May many years ago. I don’t have plans to return. I grew up in West Virginia, with weather extremes galore. I moved to Ohio (right in the center) and mostly love it. Fall is my absolute favorite time of year. The smell, the colors, the “feel” of the air and its promise of cool nights and balmy, breezy days…aaaahhhhh. Some, especially in other parts of our State, hate the winters with its ice and snow and dampness and persistent unreliability. We have a saying here, “If you don’t like Ohio weather, wait 5 minutes”.
    Thanks for the tea and lovely place to sit and chat.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      I’m so glad you joined me, Mary. Now I know more about you! We say the same thing in GA, but it’s not true. Your autumn sounds perfect.

  12. Sandy says:

    I think you would love it here in Minnesota!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Sandy. Yes, I bet I would! I’ve been there in August for work, but never experienced any winter there. Dreamy, huh? You love it?

  13. Patti Dmytras says:

    I can’t believe you left your Tree Farm property. I loved the stories you wrote from there with all the lovely pictures, your house was so beautiful. I loved to read about your white horse, all your cat stories and walks, the baptismal pond, the truck stories, and all about your friendly neighbors. When did you move to Georgia? Somehow I missed all of that part, and I read all of you stories that you send me. Don’t you miss your chicken coop and chickens? Your weather at the tree farm property matched the weather in Wisconsin where I live, so I always felt that I was experiencing the same weather events that you did. Please post a picture story of your Georgia home, and keep up with the wonderful story telling. It is the high point of my day to read about your experiences. Thank you.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Thank you for your sweet and encouraging words, Patti. Yes, yes, yes. I loved that place! The weather was fantastic there.
      My leaving wasn’t by choice; it was via life events. I’m lucky that I have a lovely farm in (hot) Georgia now. All chickens and horses and dogs and cats moved with me!
      So good to visit with you!

  14. Marilyn says:

    I never have much energy when it is hot. I prefer the cold weather. Anything above the 60s is too warm for me. I love the crisp, cool air of Autumn.
    Marilyn

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      I agree. 60 and under is quite perfect for me. That is my Dad’s, and now my, cut-off for a fireplace fire. If the high is 60 for the day, we build one! These days I’ve been enjoying fires outside by the creek in my firebowl (with the mosquitoes, lol.) I’m with you: I LOVE cold weather! I enjoyed your visit, Marilyn!

  15. Deborah Foster says:

    Thanks for sharing, I read your story as I’m drinking my iced coffee and trying to get motivated for work. I’m in NW Connecticut on a knoll at the top of a beautiful open farm meadow. The yard is open and filled with wild roses bordering the woods. My peonies have just bloomed and have never looked better. My 3 rescue dogs have been happy patrolling the property for turkeys, bunnies and the occasional bear. I’ve been here three years moving from a suburbia of houses too close and too many city noises. Its a work in progress but wonderful to see it transform to what it was. The last few weeks have been filled with crisp evenings and warm breezy days. Every day was like a clean start and the air made me feel wonderful and confident Last night the humidity set in and my garden started showing stress and my mood became suddenly distracted. I’m sitting here inside staring out at the pastures wishing the humidity away. My pups are lazy this morning and staying cool near the hum of the ac. The summer will be hot and humid and we will look forward now to the autumn air, orange and red leaves lighting up the hills and the renewal of our senses. Weather does certainly affect the mood doesn’t it ?
    Thanks for your story and the lovely comments from others as well

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Deborah, That is beautiful. I hung onto every word. I “saw” in my mind’s eye your place and the happenings there. Such beauty! I think I will do the same, look forward to autumn. Thank you for your words and visit!!

  16. Maureen says:

    Here in the high desert of Colorado, I am ok until someone tells me it is 100 degrees. Our lack of humidity is the big difference. I don’t do muggy well at all! It is definitely time to take advantage of air conditioning and hide from the heat. I find some indoor activities, knitting or quilting to keep me busy. We have to work for every plant, but it is so worth it. Thanks for the reminder of what easy beautiful looks like.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Maureen, That is what I have always heard, that dry heat is easier to bear the high temperatures. It’s true, yes? Today it is quite hot. I have closed my windows and they will stay that way 24/7 for the next few months. My respite from heat is over. Your summer activities sound terrific! Thanks for joining us, Maureen!

  17. Jan says:

    A favorite tongue twister comes to mind.
    Whether the weather be fine or whether the weather be not,
    Whether the weather be cold or whether the weather be hot,
    We’ll weather the weather whatever the weather,
    Whether we like it or not!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      I wish I had known that twister before I wrote the post! I would have put it in there! Perfect! Thanks, Jan!

  18. Donna Kozak says:

    Whew…it’s a hot day today in Beautiful British Columbia – I love it and my tomatoes and flowers love it, but by the middle of summer will be cursing the heat and hoping for rain… However, remember the old saying – ‘that’s life…just get on with it’ !

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      BC has hot summers? I didn’t know that. I thought the warmer seasons were mild. I need to visit your neck of the woods again, Donna! I’ve only been in winter. Beautiful place on earth! So glad you stopped by to swing with me!

  19. Reba says:

    I was in GA this week, as I still have family there. And you are right, the weather was amazing…for GA!! I moved to the Appalachian Mountains in TN in 2015, and loved all four seasons! At least they had 4 seasons! Then I moved for one year to MT. The 2 seasons that they have are beautiful, Winter and August! 🙂 But with a job change for my daughter, I have moved back. So-o-o-o glad to be back! All seasons here are my favorite, and the smell is a great bonus! When I start heading back to GA (for a visit) I really miss the fact that you can “breathe” here! So glad to be HOME! Now I have to find another farm…

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      You are so right! The breatheing is easy in NC Mountains. I remembered that truth as soon as I read your words. Good luck on the farm search! Thanks for the visit, Reba!

  20. Judy says:

    Rebekah, I REALLY enjoyed your pictures and your blog! I too, like Patti, missed your move. WOW!! Did you blog it? How did I miss it? I also enjoyed all your stories of that farm, even the slithery ones! *giggle*
    Thanks for the entertainment that you provide!
    Hugs&Squeezles

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Judy! The slithery stories will be ongoing. It seems that I am a snake magnete! Thanks for coming by. And for your sweet words!

  21. Lisa says:

    I’ve lived all over the world sonwhen people complain about the weather I just tell a few tales
    Hot? Try 119 yep I’m not lying it was In Dubai too hot for the plane to liftoff till nightfall
    Or 110? That would be Delhi India like for weeks!
    Or way below zero for 2 months that would be Kashmir in the Himalayas when I was teaching there but the rest of the year just like new England very pleasant !
    Seychelles perfect tropical weather
    Lived there for a year way before it was discovered
    105 with 99.9 percent humidity in west Africa steamy doesn’t even begin to describe it!
    I definitely know weather for sure!!

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Going ‘Round that Ole Mulberry Bush

One thing’s for sure. I’m not going to use the CV-19 word in this post. No way, no how.

Or how’s this: C for Colorful. V for very. And guess what? My Baby turned 19 yesterday. So, Colorful Very 19.

So what are we to do about Colorful Very 19? I think the answer is, “enjoy life even more.” Leave our worries behind. Focus on today. And just go ’round and ’round that ole mulberry bush with a smile on your face.

Because, My Friends, spring is here. And that is happy news for us all. If spring hasn’t reached you yet, just wait. It’s headed your way…

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  1. Ramona Puckett says:

    Thank you for the lovely flowers! ❤️

  2. Mary Rauch says:

    This post is exactly what I need, and I suppose it will be a blessing to lots of your other pals. We are trying hard to “Stay Home”, and I’m finding it a bit difficult. However, on the bright side, there is so much housework that I have been able to avoid over a period of time that I am sorting and pitching like a fiend. This is a very good thing. I have been doing some mending and button sewing that has been calling out to me. I have taken care of some correspondence that is behind….so this time is a good thing for some items. It’s VERY good to hear from you! The trillium is a thrill to this West Virginia girl now transplanted to Ohio where I seldom see one.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      So good to hear from you, Mary! Sounds like you are making your time productive. Yay, for you.
      You can’t imagine how excited I was to find the Trillium this year in the woods. I fell in love with it at my Christmas Tree farm, and I wasn’t sure there was any “in these parts.” I appreciated them enough for both you and me. Take special care, My Friend.

  3. Rhonda says:

    Thank you, Thank you, Thank you. I so enjoyed your post. No mention of world events. Let me breathe if only for a few moments. Love the pictures.

  4. Pat Gstalder says:

    This post transported me to your spring time which we here in Ohio are just now getting a glimpse of and are seriously looking forward to! Right now we have thunder grumbling across the sky and the lightening lighting its path! Nice to curl up and read a book and your post by. We had a mulberry tree and in the spring we’d put a sheet of plastic under the branches and catch those wonderful berries for our breakfast! YUM………… Thanks so much for the uplifting post………..

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      how brilliant, Pat! that’s what I’ll do this year!

      • Pat Gstalder says:

        Oh, good. Enjoy!! Even though it’s been a few years since I’ve been able to do that I can almost taste that wonderful flavor. Of course they go well with ice cream, too…….
        I really enjoy your posts and I’m happy you can live your dream…….

  5. Melva Vick says:

    THANKS for all the beautiful flower pictures!! We should never be too busy to stop and enjoy the flowers around us! They are a gift from heaven.

  6. Marlene C says:

    Thank you. The flowers made me smile.

  7. Samantha Roberts says:

    Thank you for the beautiful pictures, woodland flowers are so magical. I always enjoy reading your posts.

    P.s. your comments about the weeds gave me a chuckle!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Have you ever won the war against weeds? I lose early because I won’t use chemicals. I’ve had several folks stop by to tell me about the sprays I can use for my fence line at the road. Lol. They don’t know that nature girl bought the farm. LOL. “Woodland flowers are so magical.” I wish I had said that!

  8. Thank you so much for sharing your pictures. It is still so grey and colorless here in the northeast, and would you believe a prediction of snow showers? I know spring will get here but this year it’s worse for obvious reasons. It’s good to know spring is actually somewhere and headed our way.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      I hadn’t thought about that, Barbara. It would make things seem worse indeed. I’ve been envying you who have snow right now, but color and growth and outside is perky for sure.
      So, hope your spring arrives soon!

  9. Rosie Brock says:

    Thank you for the wonderful spring flowers! Spring is indeed something to celebrate, more this year than ever!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Rosie, you are right. More this year than ever! That’s a tall order tho. I’m doing my best! My farm is my savior during this time. Happy place.

  10. Bonnie N. says:

    Thank you so much , Rebekah, for all the beauty in your story. Just what we needed at this time.
    ❤️You are blessed with so many spring flowers!!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      You know, I never used to pay attention to wild flowers. Now I’m obsessed. I walk a path through the woods every day, and every day I am surprised with new flowers and greenery. Does indeed make me happy.

  11. Sandy says:

    Thanks for the flower pictures! Sure could use some flowers and greenery here in Minnesota where it is snowing. Ugh. The crocus have been in bloom this week, so that is a little color to our brown world. We have trillium in the summer and they are one of my favorites too. Come on summer!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Snow in April? Sounds magical. I guess our spring comes a month or two earlier? Summer will be here soon in Ga. Too soon. I’m enjoying every moment of spring before the heatwave sets in.

  12. Charlene Gravely says:

    Love this❤️❤️Especially the part about the weeds , so true!

  13. Lorrie MacKenzie says:

    A perfect post for this time. Thank you.

  14. Bernadine Graham says:

    Rebekah: Have been following you for a long time and have so enjoyed everything you have posted. I am a retired Court Administrator and liked the “legal” link! But did I miss something? You left the Christmas Tree Farm? It was such a special place!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      A kindred spirit! Criminal law is my career passion. I’m teaching it this semester. FUN! I did leave, Bernadine, but not by choice. It was one of those sad things that life throws you. But. I can’t believe that I found a farm I like as much (as the tree farm and its dreamy 1892 farmhouse.) But, Sister, I have! Life is good. I am back in the city I grew up in, close to family and old friends. It’s a blessing to be here during this virus.

      • Bernadine Graham says:

        I certainly understand your passion for the law. I never worked in any other field – 50 years! Thank you so much for your response. Hope you find every happiness in your new venture. A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour!

  15. Elaine C says:

    Thank you for the beautiful post Rebekah. You are right the pollen here in the GA is so awful. The flowers are gorgeous and I love seeing the sweet shrub. My mom had it at our home when I was growing us…brought from her childhood home in Tiger. I loved that bush and wish I could find one. We need to enjoy the beauty of spring before summer arrives. Have a wonderful day.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Elaine, If I can find a way to get one to you, I will! I bet there are some little babies growing around the Sweet Shrubs I have. Email me at rebekah@maryjanesfarm.com. I’ll try to do that when this virus passes, and I can get to the PO again. 🙂

  16. Judy says:

    Thank you for that! Like everybody else said, “I NEEDed That!!”
    I can’t believe all the gorgeous flowers that are just growing wild,
    and you get to see for FREE! Lucky Gal! Here in N.W. Ohio, we
    plant and struggle alongside those beauties and whine if they don’t
    make it. We had mid 60’s yesterday and high 40’s today.
    And guess what I saw today? SNOW!! YES I DID! aaaccckkk!!!
    Make it a Great day girlie and Be Safe!
    Love ya!
    Hugs&Squeezles

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      You saw SNOW? I think that’s fabulous. I’d hold off on spring if I could trade it for snow. Summer comes to quickly here, with its humdity and hot hot hot days. You’re still in fire weather then. “Hugs&Squeezles” back at you! “Squeezles” sounds like a word Snoop Dogg would use! lol.

  17. Donna Kozak says:

    Thank you for the beautiful spring pick-me-up ! I’m now on my way out back to visit my chickens and check out the new growth. It’s always amazing to see the new shoots of something planted years ago, ready to grow again. – life goes on !!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Donna, you’re right! What a great point. New things are popping up everyday. Here, on my new farm, I didn’t plant them, but I enjoy them! Going to plant two fig bushes this year for sure. Life does go on…

  18. Debra Hoek says:

    I love the woods in Spring. I always looked forward to Trillums. That Moral mushroom would be picked and eaten in short order. Where there is one there is more. Thanks for sharing your Woodland spring.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      So that is a Morel? It was larger than any I’d ever seen. I only saw one, so I left it to hopefully propagate!

  19. Diane Van Horn says:

    Thank you for a little spring! It is snowing in Wisconsin but my rhubarb is coming up so I have hope!

  20. Mary Rauch says:

    I cannot wait for my pal Sallie to read your post and find the part where you commented about the lavender fields of Provence France. That should put her into “memory mode” and probably I will get a call saying, “Did you see what Rebekah said?”…and then we will go down memory lane about our years childhood in West Virginia…and we will laugh and include in our sisterhood of memories!…thank you again.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Hi Mary! I’m glad you have a Sallie. I have a few long time friends whom I treasure more than I have words for!

  21. Marilyn says:

    Your flowers are beautiful. Staying home and reading and doing things needing attention in the house. Have a happy Easter.
    Marilyn

  22. Sherry King, RN says:

    Spring is here is indeed happy news! Even though I have wild violets and strawberries growing in my yard, it is always good to see pics of them! Thank you for the happy and grateful post!

  23. Nicole says:

    LOVELY! Thank you for sharing the joys of spring in your little spot on Earth. Here in suburban Salt Lake valley we have daffodils in profusion and the trees are starting to bud, I’m hoping the chilly nights don’t ruin our peach tree. It’s a resilient tree. After we moved here 8 years ago we nursed it along and though it gave *the best peaches* the rotten core and earwig infestation were too much. The branches broke off under the weight of the hold-with-two-hands, juicy fruit. We had to cut it down. Only the person cutting it left quite a bit of stump. We moved away for 3 years and my son & his wife (who were staying in our home) reported they got the best peaches last summer. This week we moved back in and I examined the peach tree, looking more like a bush with branches sprouting from all over that stub of a trunk. Deep pink blossoms are getting ready to pop. Fortunately it’s still small. Maybe I can cover it and protect it from the predicted frosty nights. After all, it has the hope, gumption, and strength to grow and bloom in very adverse conditions the least I can do is provide it a little shelter and help it weather one more winter storm.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Beautiful story, Nicole. I’ve never grown a fruit tree besides apple and now, this mulberry. I’d like to plant more. Peach sounds good, esp since I do live in the “Peach State” now.

  24. Deborah Young says:

    Lovely pics! Thanks for showing us what spring looks like in GA. Here in the PNW, Forthisia (sp?) is beautifully vibrant in yellow, purple iris are soon to follow! The tulip fields up north (Sgagit county) are doing their thing. But this year it’s only online .

  25. Deb Bosworth says:

    Howdy Rebekah!
    Wow…. Just loved your woodsy tour and all the different flowers in bloom right now. What a blessing to have that right out your back door. Thank you for the tour!
    Stay well my friend.
    Deb

  26. Brenda Caster says:

    I don’t know where else to comment about your magazine column and I wanted to tell you that for me, you hit the nail on the head. I have never had much passion over hybrid tea roses. As a gift in a bouquet from my hubby, it’s one thing. But I don’t bother taking up garden space for one. My favorite rose is a pink cup shaped David Austin that has been transplanted far too many times for anyone and it still bounces back every time. I have also bought a few from the Antique Rose Emporium in Texas, close to where one of my daughters lives; but I need to find a local nursery. Thanks for sharing your loves each month. Yours is the first column I read every time; and I’ve never been a city girl!

  27. I love seeing all the “wild” flowers and a strawberry plant too…wonderful! And oh, morel mushrooms…we always went “mushroom hunting” when I was young…they’re quite tasty! Thanks for the dose of springtime cheer…much appreciated and we all need it!

  28. Audene says:

    So happy to find you! Pictures are
    Beautiful. I would love to catch up with you…

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