[Previous Rural Farmgirl, April 2009 – May 2010]
“Sayings” almost always distract me. They make me question where they came from and how they originated. Some of them make me laugh. Others make me roll my eyes. And others just annoy me.
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Tana 
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Helena 
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Marylin Rhoads 
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Suzy Lowry Geno 
lauren 
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Michele 
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Charlotte Mordaunt 
Catherine Strickler 
Heather Scholten (Pickles) 
Carol 
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DiAnna 
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Debbie Bosworth
is a certified farmgirl at heart. She’s happily married to her beach bum Yankee husband of 20 years. She went from career gal to being a creative homeschooling mom for two of her biggest blessings and hasn’t looked back since. Debbie left her lifelong home in the high desert of Northern Nevada 10 years ago and washed up on the shore of America’s hometown, Plymouth, MA, where she and her family are now firmly planted. They spend part of each summer in a tiny, off–grid beach cottage named “The Sea Horse.”
“I found a piece of my farmgirl heart when I discovered MaryJanesFarm. Suddenly, everything I loved just made more sense! I enjoy unwinding at the beach, writing, gardening, and turning yard-sale furniture into ‘Painted Ladies’ I’m passionate about living a creative life and encouraging others to ‘make each day their masterpiece.’”
Rebekah Teal
is a “MaryJane Farmgirl” who lives in a large metropolitan area. She is a lawyer who has worked in both criminal defense and prosecution. She has been a judge, a business woman and a stay-at-home mom. In addition to her law degree, she has a Masters of Theological Studies.
“Mustering up the courage to do the things you dream about,” she says, “is the essence of being a MaryJane Farmgirl.” Learning to live more organically and closer to nature is Rebekah’s current pursuit. She finds strength and encouragement through MaryJane’s writings, life, and products. And MaryJane’s Farmgirl Connection provides her a wealth of knowledge from true-blue farmgirls.
Cathi Belcher
an old-fashioned farmgirl with a pioneer spirit, lives in the White Mountains of New Hampshire. As a “lifelong learner” in the “Live-Free-or-Die” state, she fiercely values self-reliance, independence, freedom, and fresh mountain air. Married to her childhood sweetheart of 40+ years (a few of them “uphill climbs”), she’s had plenty of time to reinvent herself. From museum curator, restaurant owner, homeschool mom/conference speaker, to post-and-beam house builder and entrepreneur, she’s also a multi-media artist, with an obsession for off-grid living and alternative housing. Cathi owns and operates a 32-room mountain lodge. Her specialty has evolved to include “hermit hospitality” at her rustic cabin in the mountains, where she offers weekend workshops of special interest to women.
“Mountains speak to my soul, and farming is an important part of my heritage. I want to pass on my love of these things to others through my writing. Living in the mountains has its own particular challenges, but I delight in turning them into opportunities from which we can all learn and grow.”
Dori Troutman
Dori Troutman is the daughter of second generation cattle ranchers in New Mexico. She grew up working and playing on the ranch that her grandparents homesteaded in 1928. That ranch, with the old adobe home, is still in the family today. Dori and her husband always yearned for a ranch of their own. That dream came true when they retired to the beautiful green rolling hills of Tennessee. Truly a cattleman’s paradise!
Dori loves all things farmgirl and actually has known no other life but that. She loves to cook, craft, garden, and help with any and all things on their cattle farm.
Mary Murray
describes herself as a goat charmer, chicken whisperer, bee maven, and farmers’ market baker renovating an 1864 farmhouse on an Ohio farm. With a degree in Design, Mary says small-town auctions and country road barn sales "always make my heart skip a beat thinking about what I could create or design out of what I’ve seen.”
Rooted in the countryside, she likes simple things and old ways … gardening, preserving the harvest, cooking, baking, and all things home. While you might find her selling baked goods from the farm’s milkhouse, teaching herself to play the fiddle, or sprucing up a vintage camper named Maizy, you will always find her in an apron!
Mary says, “I’m happiest with the simple country pleasures … an old farmhouse, too many animals, a crackling fire, books to read, and the sound of laughter … these make life just perfect.”
Alexandra Wilson
is a budding rural farmgirl living in Palmer, the agricultural seat of Alaska. Alex is a graduate student at Alaska Pacific University pursuing an M.S. in Outdoor and Environmental Education. She lives and works on the university’s 700 acre environmental education center, Spring Creek Farm. When Alex has time outside of school, she loves to rock climb, repurpose found objects, cross-country ski on the hay fields, travel, practice yoga, and cook with new-fangled ingredients.
Alex grew up near the Twin Cities and went to college in Madison, Wisconsin—both places where perfectly painted barns and rolling green farmland are just a short drive away. After college, she taught at a rural middle school in South Korea where she biked past verdant rice paddies and old women selling home-grown produce from sidewalk stoops. She was introduced to MaryJanesFarm after returning, and found in it what she’d been searching for—a group of incredible women living their lives in ways that benefit their families, their communities, and the greater environment. What an amazing group of farmgirls to be a part of!
Nicole Christensen
Suburban Farmgirl Nicole Christensen calls herself a “vintage enthusiast”. Born and raised in Texas, she has lived most of her life in the picturesque New England suburbs of Connecticut, just a stone’s throw from New York State. An Advanced Master Gardener, she has gardened since childhood, in several states and across numerous planting zones. In addition, she teaches knitting classes, loves to preserve, and raises backyard chickens.
Married over thirty years to her Danish-born sweetheart, Nicole has worked in various fields, been a world-traveler, an entrepreneur and a homemaker, but considers being mom to her now-adult daughter her greatest accomplishment. Loving all things creative, Nicole considers her life’s motto to be “Bloom where you are planted”.
Ha, that made me laugh. 🙂 I tend to enjoy sayings, even if they are a little off the wall. My mom always used to say, "If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all." A good motto to live by.
"Reap what you sow!" This is one our family uses often, mostly in the content of relationships. It is kind of a warning to nurture all relationships. I have seen first hand what can and will happen if you take your relationships for granted.
I like "Don’t put all your eggs in one basket". You can take this so many ways. Eggs, Money, what you do in you volunteer time. I think that I spread my time to thin and don’t get to do the things I want to do. In that case maybe I should put all of my eggs in one basket
Kathy
Ahhh… more Memories Rene’…
I also like the expression: "Bloom where you’re planted", which is kinda what I’m doin’ while I wait to return to my Smokey Mountain Home.
My Ganny had some expressions that were social in nature, and you needed to know what they meant to function well in her circle of Friends on the neighboring farms. If asked to "stay a while", it had better be a short visit, but if asked to "stay a spell", you were wished to stay a long time. There were also suble distance sayings, like "a piece" meant it was close by, while "a fer-piece" meant it was a long way, as in ""hits up th’ road a piece".
My Uncle Loyd (known as "Sod") was a dairyman in the old tradition, and I loved to go there in the Summer (before airconditioning came along) because he had a "Cold Room" in his barn over a spring to store the milk in, and I could cool off in there. He had some salicious sayings, which always prompted my Mom to snap: "not in front of children Sod!"… like his reference to the Preacher as "having more mouth than a poor hog has rump."… I never did know what a "poor hog" was, and my Mom declined to discuss it.
Thank You for yet another walk down Memory Lane, and…
GodSpeed to Y’all…!
Gary
in Tampa
I had the opportunity growing up to live in many different places from coast to coast. But having moved to South Dakota I have experience new sayings unique to this area. It seems that most of the folks I talk to about going somewhere seem to think South Dakota is in the south? I will ask them about going to a town north of us and they will say they are going down to that town and if I ask about a town south of us it is "up to that town". I don’t know why but it just comes out that way. And the upper Midwest seems to leave out a word or two. If asking about going with someone somewhere, the question is stated "are you going with?" With what? To where? It makes me jiggle everytime I hear it. And just a side note. We really know we are our mothers child when we hear her words come out of our mouths and it suprises us! You just have to love it, don’t you.
I too am a lover of words. That dog won’t hunt is a good one but to give it the proper punch it has to be said, "That "dawg" don’t hunt", making dawg a two syllable word.
Out here in the west you hear "Smile and Cowboy up," which means stop complaining and "Git er done." I also use the saying, "Who told you life would be fair?"
So smile and Cowboy up.
Diana C
I’ve always loved "Bless her/his heart!" complete with the southern drawl that I know only as normal. It can be a saying of sympathy or one of criticism and both ways are charming in their own right. I am a southern girl, born and breed (as we say) and have always found "sayings" to be one of the more favorable attributes of the South.
Thanks for another fun, thought-provoking blog!
I started grinning as I read your blog thinking of some of the funny sayings that you hear in the South where I’m from. Recently I taught a financial class and three of my sisters were in the class. I had a lot of quotes and one in particular that my mom stated to us most of the time when we were cleaning house": "If you’re not going to do it right, don’t do it at all." As I started to speak, my sisters finished the sentence. It was hilarious. The class just looked at us like "we had lost our minds." "Hey if you can’t run with the big dogs, get back on the porch." Have a great day!
Fake it til’ you make it! I think I first heard my mom say that….or I learned it when I went through three months of in/out patient treatment for Anorexia and Bulimia….It works though…..!!!!
I love the saying, "You teach people how to treat you." If you carry and conduct yourself with respect for yourself and others, you will be treated with respect. If you conduct yourself in a lesser fashion, you will be treated accordingly. "Bloom where you are planted" is a great way of saying "Make the best of any situation". I am a big fan of sayings (just ask my 17 year-old daughter who can quote my sayings just as I am about to say them :).
My Dad has a good saying, remembering it well from my youthful teenage(read lazy punk) years when asked why i hadn’t accomplished a little something, "If you have 5 minutes to to a ten minute job, you’d be half done."
My grandmother from OH used to say "she’d split (it) half in two" meaning she wanted to share something with you. We used to tease her that if we needed four servings, we’d be split in "quarters in four."
My friend’s hubbie has a really good saying when someone balks about personal matters, looking for support for their side of the arguement, he replies, "Hard tellin’, Not knowin’"
but my all time favourite (that i can repeat in public domain)is my aunt’s. If see sees someone wearing fancy red shoes, she’ll say something like "where’d they get those shoes? Them’s ‘Going-To-Hell’ shoes." :o)
We have had chickens now for a year and the saying that I now understand is "madder than a wet hen." During last years hurricane, Ike. We experienced what mad hens look and act like! :o)
just experiencing some of the farm life you can understand where some of the sayings came from.
I also like, "Lord willin and the creek don’t rise" If you have ever experienced being flooded in by rising water you can totally understand this one!
Thanks!
When I was a young-adult (and I use the term adult loosely) my dad used to tell me, "I can give you two slops and a flop" meaning I could come home and he would feed me and provide shelter but the rest was up to me. An Okie of the purest kind, he has lots of sayings, in fact, my sisters and I compiled1250 a list of Dadisms a few years ago for his 70th birthday. "Life ain’t fair" he said a lot, and "I hope you never have any less" But one of my favorites I heard from a lady I worked with who was from Louisiana. When we were done working she would always say "Let’s get the heck outta Dodge" I adopted that phrase and say it often.
When my sister & I fought, my mother use to say "You two better learn to like each other. One day it will be the two of you against the world." She was right, as aduts we are best friends. I mentioned that phrase to one of my great-nephews recently and he told him his dad says the same thing to him & his brother. She also loved to say "You made you bed, now sleep in it." Roughly translated? You married him, now make it work. Or, you created the mess, either live with it or clean it up yourself. A number of the sayings I read in your article & in the comments ring bells as well. I still use them today.
One of my all time favorites (which I use quite often here in Texas): "Busier then a three legged cat coverin’ up poop ".Thank goodness my two mousers have all their legs !
I was lucky enough to have my grandparents live with us while I was growing up. My grandparents were from Norway and many of thier customs and sayings go back to the old country. Two of my favorites from my grandmother are "God never gives us a cross to heavy to bear, but sometimes he sorely over estimates my strength." and "God answers all prayers sometimes the answer is no."
My dad used to have a couple of sayings that I’ve only heard him use. When he would bring up an interesting fact or tidbit he would say "Put that in your pipe and smoke it" or he might say "How ’bout them apples?" I think these sayings came from the time he lived in the North Georgia mountains.
Being a Southerner by birth, I grew up with a lot of sayings. Since so many of us move around to different sections of the country, in the South, you hear "If the cat had kittens in the oven, it don’t make ’em biscuits". In other words, you can move some place but it won’t make you a "Native". I used "As handy as a side pocket in a shirt" just this weekend and if you believe in doing it right the first time then you don’t want to "..lick your calf over".
hi rene, i work in a beauty salon,i have a lot of sr citizens,so i hear them all,everyday,one i like a lot is…she thinks she ms astor…ms aster in case you dont know was a new york ritch socialite in the 30s or 40s….if you cant stand the heat,get of the kitchen is from my home town,birthplace of harry truman,and we use that a lot here,i know of several more,that arent so politically correct these days….have you ever heard the dorthy parker quote,you can lead a whore to culture,but you cant make her think?,…blooming were i am planted,the mo farmers daughter,carol branum lamar mo
On fathers day this year I think I heard the perfect saying. You make a Living by what you Get but you make a Life by what you Give.
My Dad used to ask me, "If you don’t have time to do it right, how are you going to find time to do it over?" These words have made me take a few extra minutes to finish something properly.
I also had a boss many years ago that gave me some great advice: Ask yourself "why am I not going to do this task?" If the answer is "because I don’t feel like it," -do it anyway.
Barb
I asked someone one how they were doing one day.
That person said, Oh, I am finer than a frogs hair.
I looked it up and found it said a different way
with a little more added to it.
I am finer than a frogs hair split three ways.
Meaning: Doing well.
How about: Slower than molasses in January.
The way the prices are going up we could be saying
this one: Now that’s higher than a cat’s back.
My grandmother would always say to me "It will never been seen on a galloping horse." People don’t really pay that much attention about the little details, so don’t spend your time and eneregy on fretting over your faults. I was very critical about myself especially my looks. My grandmother would look and me and smile. She saw me as perfect as any grandmother would see her grandchild.
"It won’t last forever" is what my husband has said to my daughter throughout her life. One day when particularly exasperated by an event in her life, my daughter said back, "Dad, I’m going to put "It won’t last forever on your headstone"! She’s right, it won’t.