I love your post. Thanks for the positive energy, it seems that many look at the glass as half empty, I like to see it as always half full.

My favorite quote " Attitude is the mind’s paintbrush, it can color any situation" Loring Forcier

Thanks for the other two quotes, I love them. I will now go tell my kids how great they are as sometimes I think I am too hard on them and set my expectations too high.

Good Karma to you, Heidi

Yes…attitude/focus is everything, isn’t it? I’ve been thinking about that for awhile; maybe in a little different way: that life really isn’t all about me, but rather is about Him. Returning evil for evil in relating to people or circumstances only serves to perpetuate the evil. But changing my focus to " how can I respond right now (not react!) in a way that will please the Lord? " has made a huge difference, and seems to me to break at least my small part of a negative chain.
Thanks for your thoughts on the similar subject, and for seeking to make the world better, even if it takes a bit of unrewarded effort. God sees it and takes note, I’m sure.

Isoagreewithyourpost!Sometimesitdoesseemlikethesmallestkindnesseshavegonecompletelyoutofoursocietytoday.Whatanicethingtoremember-Icanstarttoputsomethingback,givesomethingtoothersthatmayhelpthemgetthroughthesedifficulttimes.Ittakessolittle,butmakessuchadifference.Thankyouforthisreminder!

Thank you so much for reminding me that my small troubes can easily be put aside for a few moments to give a stranger a smile or hold a door for someone or slow down enough to radiate gratitude for all the blessings in my life. This message never gets old.

A beautiful post. Thank you for the reminder. I try to ‘shelter’ others… well, most of the time. But you’ve reminded me it’s worth the extra, tiny bit of effort *all* of the time 😉

Libby,
I love to read your posts, and this one especially touched my heart, as it is something that I’ve been thinking about a lot myself recently. My family and I are in the hospitality business, so we are in touch with the public 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. We see human nature in all its possible forms. 99% of our guests are the most delightful folks you’d ever want to meet. The 1% that isn’t, can really have an impact on your (and everyone else’s) day. Conversely, we see people check in who are hot and bothered, may have been driving in traffic and who are bringing all sorts of mental baggage with them. As an innkeeper, I love to watch them unwind and let the cares of the world just melt away over the course of their stay. All it takes, as you say, is a smale, a kind word and a caring, receptive ear. We do not need to travel halfway across the world to make a difference … we can change the world exactly where we are, with just a smile. Keep up the wonderful writing, Libby. It is very inspiring. –Cathi (The Mountain Farmgirl)

Libbie,
This was a fantastic post! No way you could strike out looking for inspiration in Mary Jane’s " Eachother" section either! I agree… it’s fabulous and certainly at the heart of what a " farmgirl" truly is… KIND AND GENEROUS….I read a book right at the first of the year that motivated me much in the same way. It was written by Dr. Dwayne Dyer…( maybe he’s a farmboy at heart? ) Anyway, his book the Power of Intention, LEARNING HOW TO CO- CREATE YOUR LIFE…speaks along these same lines…and inspired me to write about it too!
We can never have too much kindness in the world…

I’ll share it with you all here!

Enjoy! and Thank you " kindly" for this wonderful post today!

http://www.deborahjeansdandelionhouse.com/2009/12/conversation-with-wayne-dyer-dr-wayne.html

Deb

The smallest gesture of kindness becomes great when we release it from ourself. Surprise someone or something with a Random Act of Kindness, but beware, it is contagious!!!! 🙂

I have taken a bright marker and written the word "shelter" on a paper which is taped to the back of the bathroom door. It is a reminder, when I’m sitting still anyway!, to think about your post and adjust my perspective before returning to the stage of life. Thanks for your insights.

Libby, There must have been divine interference in you not having the right milk and your cheese making not working. 🙂 This post on kindness surely resonated with many, me included. Thanks so much for addressing a much needed element in today’s world.

Libby, I am new to the Rural Farmgirl Blog, but I already love it. How true that one act of kindness can change your life or raise your awareness. Many years ago, as I was leaving a department store, a young woman held the door for me as I hurriedly rushed through it (my mind on my next 3 stops). Just out side the door, I heard her say "THANK YOU"! It stopped me in my tracks and I looked back. Her expression was a mixture of humor, humbleness, and just a little indignant. I was so embarrassed and couldn’t find the right words to say to her, so I just lowered my head and scurried on out to my car. But, it changed me forever. To this day, I never fail to say thank you when someone holds a door for me. In turn, I try very hard to not be in such a hurry that I can’t find time to hold the door for others – and when I do, I always see that woman’s face. It is tucked away in my little book of Greatest Gifts and Life Lessons along with the quote from Gomer Pyle on The Andy Griffith Show "My mamma always said, it only takes a moment to courteous". I look forward to more Farmgirl wisdom.

I just got around to reading your blog and I love it. How right you are, Just a little kindness helps the world go round. Today I was driving back from picking up 4 turkey sand 1 silkie chicks in my full size van which sits up higher than a car. Waiting at a stoplight in 2 lanes of traffic, I looked to my left and saw a baby, probably about 2 months old facing the back, crying his eyes out. His little hands were shaking in front of his face, and I felt so sorry for him. Two women were sitting in the front seat, I’m sure just knowing that he would stop eventually. Well, I looked at him for a second or two, wishing there was something I could do, and he looked right at me, through 2 car windows and some space, this little baby, and his eyes met mine, and he stopped crying, he even shook a little like a baby will do who has been crying for awhile, and just looked at me. I continued to smile at him and he looked at me; and then the light turned green, but my day was changed for good. A very precious moment.

Gracious, what wonderful advice, and so simple to carry out!
A wonderful (best) friend taught me to see the beauty in God’s creation and to focus on it. If we focus on kindness, it will grow. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful post! Would you mind if I post the two quotes (from Plato and the Irish proverb) on my blog? I can link them back here if you would like.
Sincerely and God bless.

What a wonderful story!
Thank you for sharing! It has put a giant smile on my face!

Hannah

What a lovely story; I hung on every word. I had an old friend once similar to Margaret. His name was Ariel, and he lived next door to us for the five years we lived in Idaho. I learned alot from him despite his initial crusty manner- how to cut and piece a quilt, how and what to garden in the Bear Lake Valley, and how to “make do” in a remote town.

I hope you’ll share more of your friendship with Margaret … and Kate, too. Good luck on the riding lessons. I’ve never ridden bareback, but do prefer Western to English. Good on you!

Hugs,
Cathy K
Murray, UT

You are truely blessed to have such a wonderful woman by your side. I can imagine everything you will learn from her. But you yourself are wonderful too. Enjoy the ride!

Loved the story. Reminded me of my "Aunt Ruth". She could do anything too and lived to be 94.

You are blessed with the friendship of a woman that can show you a picure of the past but be there to help you now and in the furture. My mother is 80 and sometime when she talks about the past it is like reading a book you don’t want to put down. And of course the love a horse can be a blessing in itself we have eight horses that we love. They are more like pets now than anything but that is okay with us.

I truly enjoy your posts. I totally agree with your thoughts on so many people counting on you! Enjoy.

I also have a blog to share: http://ruralgirlsworld.blogspot.com

do you mind sharing her? i want a margaret.

and i love you for seeing past all the rough edges to such a quality person and friend! you rock!!

Thank you for sharing your enthusiasm about garlic! We have a small garden and have planted garlic for our own family’s consumption. Someday {soon} we hope to own more acres and farm for a living. Hearing your story encourages me and will propel us on in our dream. . .

Enjoy your farmily!

Thank you for sharing. I enjoyed this post so much. I am just beginning to get into gardening. I have been researching so that come next spring I can have my own little space. Loved the photo of the little one helping bake cake.

blessings on your week

My hubby and I tried growing garlic this year! Oh joy! Rapture! It is oh so gratifying to dig up those pungent bulbs! Our dream is to farm it full time, hopefully we can make it true next year, but until then, I shall live vicariously through you! We did start our own tomatoes and peppers from seed–100 maters and 150+ peppers as well as the other usual suspects(corn,beans,pumpkins, squash, taters, onions). Everything is so lush here in northern NY, I am just praying the weather continues as it has been. We’ve had unusually hot temps and occasional soaking rains, so there has been no need to water. I’m keeping my fingers and toes crossed that it will continue, because so far, so good.
I love your posts. Thanks for helping to keep the dream alive!

peace,
the mitten lady

What a great post! I loved every word…. especially, the one you misspelled…
FARMILY~ its’ perfect!

Thanks for sharing your inspiration for growing garlic…I was right there with you in the big red barn!

Have fun on the Farm!
Look forward to your next farmily adventure!
Deb

I know precious little about garlic in the garden. Do you have a cool cellar to store it in? How long does it keep…or do you can it? What a great experience to go to Pay Dirt school. I hope to go to MJF henquarters someday :o)

Love this, lots of work but beautiful outcome. For Cathy K. who’s blog I looked at, the porcelain piece is a spoon holder, it shoud have some spoons inside also made of porcelain. I believe they were used for tea. I have one just like it, only mine has painted roses and its beautiful. Thanks Maria

It sounds like a lot fun to me…hope the toe is ok and would have loved to be at the races I love horses….I am disabled now and on oxygen so I love to read about others who can go to all te places I miss. Thank you so much for sharing

After reading this (and after hearing about all the festivities in "Aunt Jenny’s town!) my family as decided that when I meet with the Chamber of Commerce director this week to talk about some writing I’m todo for them, that we’re going to suggest that NEXT YEAR we MUST have some sort of Fourth of July festivities in our county and town! We have a BIG Veteran’s Day Parade and BIG BIG BIG Chrstmas Parade but we NEED NEED NEED this in the summer, both to show our respect and love of and independence in this land AND to give our folks more of a spirit of community! Thank you for this wonderful blog!!!

Libbie, you are a captivating writer! I was hooked after the vision of the kids flying out of the cars, and I tasted the s’mores, winced over the tale of your finger, and felt the rumble of the horses racing past.
You had lots of events during your celebration of this great country, but the most blessed part is your description of "all of us" honoring our flag.
Thanks for allowing us to be a part of your 4th of July.

Hello Fellow Farmgirls,

Sounds like alot of us had a great "4th" week-end…My family(some of us)met at my yougest son’s new home..we grilled hambergers, hot dogs and chicken…No one was hurt, thank God…he had bought a small atv and all the kids took rides on it around his back field…What a wonderful time making memeories…next time gonna remember those s’more!!!! I forgot until it was too late…gives us something to look forward to share!!!! Take care!!!

Libbie: I loved hearing of your 4th of July weekend. Evellyn is BIG and beautiful. Having a dream cow is a dream come true. I hope you and your hubby are both healing. As for the Mozzarella. Do you have a recipe to share or to suggest. I made a creamy cheese with herbs from Mary Jane’s magazine. It was fun. Have a great summer out there. My dream is to have a small farm someday. Maybe then I too can have a dream cow. Hugs Dianne

Libbie: What a fantastic time you provided for everyone. You must live on a big farm. Your telling makes me wish everyone could have an adventure at least once in their life. Thanks for sharing! Bonnie

Talking about smores……my daughter-in-law made them this 4th with Reeses peanut butter cups instead of Hershey bars…..yummo

Hey Libbie!
What a 4th of July celebration you had on the farm! Sounds as if you had a wonderful time… The kind that you’re ready to be over, but happy you crammed in everything you did! Great memories for the youngters too!

Thanks for taking us along for the ride!
Deb

What a great 4th celebration! Glad your finger is better…kinda scary. And hay no less!

We make smores with a layer of peanut butter on the cracker which is similar to the peanut butter cup. I’m trying the peanut butter cup next time…less to haul to the campfire!

I love to blog also – never did journal much so thinking about what might be interesting to share, taking a picture and then spending some time writing…its easy to see that you like to blog also.

It was so fun to hear about your 4th of July..sounds like so so so much fun!!! Rural Utah is awesome in the summer time isn’t it?? I can’t beleive how close we are and yet we can’t manage to get together more often.
Evelyn is just so grown up and beautiful like her mother!! I am so so happy that you have my "grandcow"..haha.
Take care..you are doing an awesome job with the blog..I LOVE reading it and feeling like I catch up with you each time. Have a great week!!

How true! Just do a small section & all of a sudden you are finished! We have had so much rain it has been hard to even get out a do a small section. We use grass clippings between the rows in the garden to keep down the bulk of the weeds. Then it is just right in the row where you have to weed. It makes it easier for me!

I’ve just finally finished "weeding" my craft/computer/sewing room. You can see from it’s multi-purpose that in a very small actual bedroom area that I might have a problem. With over 10 years of accumulating scrapbook items alone, not to mention anything else I had a big task ahead of me. I even rearranged pictures and other wall art so that I now feel like it’s a new fresh room without spending a cent. It took me about 4 days but will last a good long time and will be much easier to find things and it’s a much more enjoyable room.

Perfect timing for this subject in my life! We just moved into our new home, complete with weeds in front that need to be yanked up. Weeds have been on my mind the past few days, and yes, all I have done is THINK about getting out there, but that’s a start, right?! You inspired me to go pluck some weeds today, thank you 🙂

Libbie,
Your blog couldn’t have come at a better time! I was feeling overwhelmed with all my weeds, 4 acres of market garden with no end in sight. I am still waiting for my husband to "fix" the cultivator for our tractor, however, weeds don’t wait, they just keep on growing. Interestingly enough, I actually do harvest Lambs Quarters and sell them at our local farmers market. Now, on to weeding inside – never thought of cleaning house that way. Love your blog, keep it coming.

This year I have both my two year old and six year old helping with the weeding – they are actually asking to help.
I actually really enjoy it too.
Warm wishes, Tonya

I have been told not to put weeds in your compost for they will grow where you use your compost. I never thought of eating lambs quaters, do sound good, might just try it myself.

Liked this blog – esp. about the "indoor weeding". (This may be a bit off track but wanted to let Juanita Massey know that "ancestor.com" has a lot of Massey & Massay family history/photos – I also come from the Massey/ay group. I love that site because so many people are getting in touch with offspring of their ancestors.) Lambs-quarters are very nutritional. Dandelion leaves are also good, very packed with calcium, but rather bitter. Sheep sorrel is another very good herb, has a surprising taste, like the sharpness of a Sweetart, but not sweet. This herb is one of the main 4 herbs in the compound "Essaic", used to fight cancer.

I just love your blog so much! Great ideas in this one! Keep up the good work – can’t wait for your next entry!

Great post, Libbie!
Bindweed is the most abundant thing growing at our spot in the community garden. The more I pull up, the more sprouts elsewhere. Very frustrating.

I love other weeds, especially those wild edibles. Here is a great website for learning about edible wild plants: http://www.wildmanstevebrill.com/

I’m working on some indoor weeding myself, tackling those spots that are most annoying to me … just like that bindweed!

Blessings,
Catherine 🙂

The best way to work out how to get rid of a weed is to try to grow it. put it in a pot and use all your gardening skill to grow the best weed possible. when you have worked out what it needs to grow well you will know what will hurt it most. The bane of our lives is butter cup and i followed this method and discovered it loves potash and hates sulpher and coppersulphate so i added both to our annual fert programme and bingo lovely grass no buttercup. maybe bind weed has a simple dislike as well. you can also try testing soil samples from the places it grows best and the places it wont grow to find the element you need. you could also research the things that eat it bugs ainimals etc maybe all you need is an mongoos or a herd of green shield beetles ;0 lol

Sorry to say the weed situation is no better in N.E.Best I can do is attack on a daily basis.Our worst weed seems to be false rhubarb not sure about the bindweed.Roots go down about 3-4 feet and they are a @#%# to get rid of.

Welcome, Libbie!

I can’t wait to read more…

Genevieve

Hi Libby thank you for sharing your farmgirl information. I am Farm Girl # 227.
Although not a farmer I live in Rural Virginia.
Looking forward to your blog. Pat

Hi Libbie,
julie jo here 30 years old, living the farm dreams here on the northern tip of California in Fort Dick, where the giant redwoods meet the ocean and so does the Smith River. Anyhow, I’m looking forward to hearing more of your farm into the future, as I bet we share lot’s in common, and love to hear how others "get er done".
Evelynn looks a lot like our last milk cow "CoCo" we got her from friends who said she just didn’t match their herd so we got her out of the big open grazing fields and slowly started to work with her so we were both comfortable milking. However this was our very first milk cow and we were learning a ton while doing, and of course we made mistakes, and in the end we gave her back to the open country as we were given an already "tame" gentle and sweet milk cow by the name Bessie, you can see her on our web site listed above. She recently freshened, gave birth to "Lucy aka. Mi Mi" and I am loving the cream in my morning coffee and home made cheeses, and our pigs are also loving the milk too. I am waiting for the rain to stop and the sun to heat up our temps and then it will be home made ice cream time too.
Anyhow, again look forward for more to come,
in the mean time, be well.

Welcome Libbie! I know you will meet a lot of new friends on your blog — sounds like you are one busy lady! I don’t live on a farm, and didn’t grow up on one, but oh I wish I would have! My parents had one of those clotheslines in their back yard when I was young and I remember her hanging up the wash with the wind whipping around her. I even liked hanging them up and I was a youngster! My brother and I especially liked making up running games centered on these two poles. What good memories! Of course the wonderful smell of the clean air is priceless. Have a great day!

Hello and I just want to say I am in love with your lifestyle so far. It’s a dream I have had and still have. Your blog has lifted my spirit and I look forward to seeing your next post and living the life through you.

HI Libby…I’m very happy to meet you. My name is Heather 🙂 I really enjoyed learning about your family and your home 🙂 I would love to live in an old farmhouse someday.
The laundry line…I live in an apartment complex and we’re not allowed to have them. HOWEVER, I work around that by hanging my cltohes on a portable clothes rack and placing that right in front of my sliding door..that’s okay as long as inside 🙂 🙂 🙂 In the summertime, I love to take advantage of the natural sunlight/heat to dry my clothes 🙂

I’m looking forward to reading more of your posts 🙂 Have a great weekend.

Greetings from Oregon, Heather 🙂

Welcome! You have arrived on my computer in our old stone house which has been in the family since the mid 1700’s- my daughter is generation #8! The history here is amazing- I know you understand! We raise Hereford cattle, have 6 chickens, 7 horses and three donkeys. Life is wonderful as a farmgirl! Cant wait to read more from you- your boys sound fantastic, and Evelynn too! Welcome to the family of MaryJanes Farm! -Meredith

Hello Libbie!
So great to read about your farm and your life. I just read my husband the bit about your boys going out to play "sticks and rocks". He laughed because our kids used to do things like that all the time. You’re right, there isn’t much better than mud, sticks, rocks and water! 🙂 I look forward to reading your posts in the future. Would love to hear more about your life with Evelynn. I would love to have a milk cow like I did when growing up!
Take care!

I’m sending out a big farmgirl welcome Libbie!

Thanks for sharing a little of your Rural life with us! All of your critters are adorable… INCLUDING those two little farmboy’s of yours!

Deb~

I so enjoyed reading your blog, what a wonderful family & life!!

Nice meeting you and look forward to your inviting blog postings in the future…I’m on my way now to check out your farm…Very much enjoyed reading this article, thank you!!

Hi Libby.. welcome to the "Rural Farmgirl Club"… you’ll find, that there are many of us. I enjoyed so much "meeting" your "Crew".. thanks for taking the time to introduce us all to all those you love…I look forward to reading more. Welcome!!!

Welcome, Libbie! So glad to meet you…lookin’ forward to learning more with you!

I enjoyed reading your blog about your family, farm house, animals and even hanging the wash. I grew up on a farm in Iowa, and then we moved to AZ when I was 13. My sisters and I would always find something to do outside like your boys. We would make our own games and would build forts out in the grove of trees. We burned our own garbage and had a special place to put tin cans, etc. When I wanted to be by myself, I could always go out and take walks in the cornfield and find peace and quiet from my 3 sisters. My dad had a herd of cows(don’t remember how many but LOTS) that he milked by himself every morning but my sisters and I were his hired hands in the evenings, either throwing hay down to the cows or washing the cows teats and putting on the milking machines, emptying them into the cans and rolling them to the tank room. Dad would have to dump them since the cans were too heavy. I learned to drive a John Deere tractor at age 12. I would never give up the special memories of growing up on a farm.I could go on but then I’d have my own blog. Till you post again….

Welcome, Libbie! Thanks for introducing us to yourself, your kiddos, and the lovely Evelynn! Looking forward to meeting all the members of your farm 🙂

I feel the same way about my clothesline…just love summertime and hanging out my laundry. Is there anything better than crawling into bed at the end of a long day, onto sheets that smell like spring air?? Ahhhh!

Till later-
Carrie M

i’m so excited to read your blog!! i know what you mean about the toys…..mud is soooo much better!! I love my clothesline also. we don’t live out in the country yet, but are working towards it…..and i can’t wait! can’t wait for your next blog!

hello there from Florida! It is very nice to meet you and I look forward to reading about you and your family. Your boys are adorable and I guess I’m partial to children of that age becuase I have a 7 and a 3 year old; both girls. Your comment about the whites made me laugh because I too LOVE to hang whites on the line and just stand back and look at them. There is something so satisfying to see that bright white set against a backdrop of nature. Very relaxing indeed. You can let your mind relax and wander but still keep your hands busy… add in the background sounds of my girls laughing and playing hide and seek through the clothes and it is Heaven!

What a fun way to meet you Libby! I adore how your farmhouse has been passed down through The WOMEN in your family and that you have the opportunity to live there now!
I adore your clothesline with whites and tons of clothespins.

Your farm your children are growing up on and playing with rocks if fabulous. Let them play outside with boys toys and their imagination FOREVER! I hope we get to meet Maybeline and see your wavey glass door soon.

Smiles, Cyndi

Hi Libbie,I love your Blog.It is so down to earth and fun.We live on a small farm.We love it.Your sons are so cute.I have a 5 yr old grandson and I want to teach him all about animals and outdoors.
Take care Carol

I am so pleased to meet you vicariously through this site. I have recently moved from Southern California to a small town, Powhatan, Virginia. My children are grown ups now, so my new found rural experience is mostly just my husband and myself. We so wanted to get away from the crowds and all. I just love it here…except for the CLAY soil! Too bad I don’t have those beautiful little farm boys to play with my clay.

Hello Libbie,
It is great to meet you and I’m looking forward to learning more about you, your family, and the farm. We have a few things in common because I too have a Jersey cow named Buttercup due to calve in August. I also have 2 boys and a wire clothes line that sees alot of use. Your farmhouse must be out of this world and with it being family it is a treasure.
Fellow farmgirl
Ardell Hofer

So glad to meet you! I’m not a farm girl (yet?), but love knowing there are many of you still living and loving this way of life. I look forward to getting to know you better. Your family is beautiful! Thanks for sharing!

Hey there, Libbie!
I absolutely love Jersey cows- the sweetest of all with those big brown eyes. Welcome, welcome- I look forward to (re)living vicariously through your blog posts. I am stuck in suburban Portland, OR- but dream of one day moving back to farmland.
Looking forward to learning more about you-

Welcome Libbie.
I enjoyed reading your story.

We live on a small farm in Massachusetts with 2 horses, angora rabbits, ducks, chickens, kittens and a bulldog.
Looking forward to reading your posts !

Happy day!

Hi Libbie! It is so nice to meet you, your boys, and hear about your farm life. Isn’t it amazing how sharing the farm stories "cultivate" the desires and dreams of others for living the farm life?? I know it helps to kindle the dreams as well as rekindles the memories in me. My mom was a true farmgirl in heart and I am so thankful that she placed those in me. So I am looking forward to hearing and sharing more of the farm. Welcome!!!!

Oh Rene`, My heart stopped at the end of your lovely article. I came to the blogger team late. Reading your MJF blog served as a shining example for me to follow. It has been a tutorial about good blogging style, the content is always filled with meaning and all things heartfelt. I will sorely miss your unique voice, your gifted sense of perspective and your magical way with words. You weave a fine tapestry girl! Wherever your next adventure takes you…Godspeed my friend. I know it will be joyful because you’ll take that with you.
Shery Jespersen

Hello Rene’…..well, we will miss reading your stories…sorry to hear you are leaving the blogging…always enjoyed hearing from you! Sounds like this gathering was a real special one. I hope that we’ll still hear from you, from time to time, thru MaryJane’s magazine? I too, am going thru some major changes in my life…some good, some difficult. Life is like that, don’t you think? We must get used to life changing, sometimes when we least expect it. I want to wish you much luck in whatever you pursue next!
All the best….nonnameme

Rene,
I’m sorry to see you leave "the post" as I find we often vibrate at the same frequency. Your thoughts have serendipitously been parallel to my own, as if we had been catching the same fragrance on the wind.
Thank you for your Rene fibers now firmly woven into my self-tapestry. God’s blessings on your future.
sharon

Rene,
You truly have a gift for writing and for "bringing" us all along on your journeys. You will be very missed on Farmgirl Connection/Sisterhood and this blog will be missed.
But, as you say, "for everything there is a season. . ." We all have seasons and we all have to know how to let go, move on or whatever it is we need to do. We need to do it with grace! You, my friend, are a lady of grace!!!
THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR GRACE AND YOUR LIFE WITH ME!!!
CJ Armstrong . . from the Farmgirl Sisterhood

Ahh, Rene, it has been a delight to get to know you just a bit through your posts! I have missed something along the way, as you said you are to not continue with your posts…
What is next for you beautiful sister/farmgirl / friend?
Best wishes, and thanks for sharing!
p.s. and I still want to join in the with the fly women!

What a beautiful journey you took me on through that lovely house and the even lovelier people who came to serve and bless others that day 🙂 🙂 I wish I could have been there. That looked like just the kind of fun event I would want to participate in and visit 🙂 🙂 🙂
I’m a little sad this is your last blog post. However, you are moving on to bigger things…and you have to go where you are led 🙂 🙂 🙂 You’ve been a real delight. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed reading your blogs 🙂 🙂 Have a blessed time. Much love, hugs and good wishes from Oregon 🙂 🙂 🙂

I cannot believe that I won’t be reading your blog anymore. I so look forward to hearing about your adventure and most always they touch my heart. This site, to me, just won’t be the same without you. I never have taken the time to tell you how much I do enjoy your writing. If you ever start another blog, please include me. I feel so sad that this is ending.
Shiralyn Yates

I read this with so many mixed emotions. I wish I could have been there to enjoy ‘stepping back in time’ with all of you (Prosser Farm Girls)at this delightful event.

I am so saddened to hear we will not be seeing your posts any longer, I will so miss them. I love your wit and humor, it just carries me through another day, each time I see (read) you!!! But knowing you, this will not stop you! I am glad for that! No dust gathers under your feet!

WILL MISS YOU !!!

So true!
hugz
>^..^<

I have only this past year found your posts. They allow me to share your life vicariously. I can see, smell, feel, and touch all of the things you see, smell, feel, and touch in your life. Your writing style is so alive.
I am so sorry that your time as "The Rural Farm Girl" has come to an end. The very best you you and yours as you move on to something new.
God Bless You Always
Jo

umm wait- i need to know more abt the weekend and HOW can u leave us?

Thank you for your comment, Cheri. Rene accepted a full-time position as Community Relations Coordinator at Prosser Memorial Hospital. It was unexpected for us too, but we wish Rene the best in her new position.

Thank you Rene’ for presenting to me a door which I chose to open and walk through. I shall not close it because on occasion I glance back, recall, and smile. May you also enjoy the same as you walk over your new threshold; glancing back and seeing all of us that you have inspired!! 🙂

What! It can’t be true – you have traveled to the end of your blogging road? I feel I was just getting to know you! And I have loved every tale and empathized with and/or rejoiced in many.
In case you won’t change your mind, I wish you much peace and happiness in whatever is next.
You will be missed!
Bonnie

Rene’, One of the highlights of checking my mail just left. I enjoyed and was inspired by all of your blogs. And just as much by the comments of your readers. I will miss them almost as much as I will miss reading your blog. But, you will still write won’t you? It is in your blood you know. LOL

Rene’, It has been a true delight reading your stories. I feel blessed that our paths crossed for a while on this page. I have come to know your tender heart, good values, and a sense of humor.
God bless you as you continue your journey.

I have enjoyed your stories so much, thank you for sharing them with us! I hope what ever is in your present and future is sweet SWEET SWEET!
I will miss you!
Mary Anne

Hi,I am so sorry, I felt like I was just getting to know you too.I wonder why?I am upset about this.Are they cutting expenses,or have you found greener pastures,e-mail me and let me know I am worried about you believe it or not.

Thank you for your comment, Carol. Rene accepted a full-time position as Community Relations Coordinator at Prosser Memorial Hospital. It was unexpected for us too, but we wish Rene the best in her new position.

Hey Rene, I will miss you so much! It is hard to believe that a year has gone by since I first sent a comment to your blog. Thank you for the kind words that you replied to me. They let me know that you were sincere and really "listening." You truly are my idea of "Farmgirl at Heart." I wish you many blessings as you make your journey down a different country road. Sincerely, Reba

Well, that last paragraph hit me like a ton of bricks. Obviously, you/your blog will be missed very much. I hope we keep in touch, Rene! XOXOXOXO to you,
V

Rene, How I’ll miss you! Your blogs were truly letters from a friend. Each one was savored. Each inspired me. Congratulations on your new position at the hospital. It sounds like the perfect niche for your skills and talents.
Peace and All Joy, Joan

Renee, My heart is so saddened but each article I "treasure" and each one will remain in my heart! You have filled me with much JOY! I sincerely wish you much happiness in your new adventure. You will be sooooo missed. When I think of "MaryJane", I grin and with much comfort of knowing I will be reading "Rene’s" musings. I uplift you with a "Banner of LOVE" and you will remain in my thoughts and prayers! JOY JOY JOY JOY JOY!!!!! Mega Hugs for ya……….YOU are loved…..Always….~roz~

I’m sorry, I just have to say this…

WAY TO GID ER DUN FARMGIRL STYLE RENE’!!!

Looks like a wonderful time chuck full of good old fashioned memory making fun!

Very inspiring indeed!
Deb~

THANK YOU, Prosser Farmgirls for such a wonderful planned weekend!!! I will definately be back for number two!! This time with my vintage trailer all finished. Thanks, Rene for your hospitality (letting me sleep under your stars!).

I LOVE the vintage trailers! Now I just have to find a way to pull one…..I could almost feel your excitement and how much FUN that you had. I am just going to have to find a Farmgirl chapter in my area that I mesh well with!

Oh! What fun! I truly wish I lived closer to get in on all that farmgirl fun! What a great weekend you had!

I just relived your weekend as I sat here with a big old cup of hot coffee and went over similar memories of my own. The whole world needs more of this "family-style-fun" (even though it’s a mix of friends & family). I totally loved the wall decorations of sheets and aprons!…Go Rene!

What a Great Idea Rene’…!
Thank You for taking the time to include all the photos…
Looks like Y’all had a real good time, and made some Memories…
By all means, Y’all should make it an Annual Camparee… t-shirts… souvenier coffee mugs, and… oops… there I go again… nah… Just have FUN…!
GodSpeed Y’all…!
Gary
inn Tampa

Yep, it goes w/o saying, Rene & her band of ‘rene-gades’ did an awesome job hosting us & showing off their wonderful lil town of Prosser…
Thank you sooooo very much…I loved it and had a wonderful time and count me in again for next year!
YeeHaw & Wagons HO!
>^..^<

The Prosser Farmgirls really showed that farmgirls can accomplish great things when they work together, as demonstrated by the recent Prosser Farmgirls’ Camp-In. New alliances were made when the Prosser Farmgirls "cross pollinated" with Sisters on the Fly. It’s our hope that "Farmgirls on the Loose" are just as successful as these two groups of wonderful women doing amazing things for the betterment of women and the communities where they reside, explore and influence in the name of making life better for all those whom they come into contact and network with. Congratulations to the doers! They can really get’er done!!!

You go girl! Sounds like spring has finally sprung! You have some fun things to look forward to! I think we’ve all felt like you do at times. Over commited and over done but in the end, happy! Life is for the living!
Deb~

And thank you so much for organizing this wonderful weekend. I am so looking forward to it.
It’s a vicious cycle, we get a few extra early weeks of Spring and what do we do, fill them to the hilt!! Ha! We sure get a lot accomplished but like you said we are scheduling summer already! lol Keep on truckin!

Rene,Wow,wish I could come,and I thought I was busy!I would love to met you and all of your friends.good luck,blessed be,carol Branum

Sounds like a wonderful week end with you and your friends. Would love to be there.
I will wave as I pass by, I’m going to Walla Walla.
Reading what you write brings back so many memories growing up in the Walla Walla area.
Hope to meet you one of these days.

I was imagining all these fun things you were describing. I like the idea of forming a human snake down the middle of the street. What fun and what special memories you had as a young girl. Now you will help create new memories for so many people 🙂 🙂 That’s wonderful. I love the photos too 🙂

Rene’, I know the feeling! You do it with such grace and forebearance that we would never know how truly busy you are except for the fact that we get to reap the fruits of your labors! As for me it has been busy too, but, I wouldn’t have missed the fun of "doin up the barn" and all the suppers together planning for the world. Can’t hardly wait for the weekend. Yee Haw!

Wow, you keep busy! It’s wonderful to read, as busy as one gets, the enjoyment and laughter along the way even when, "all in a days work". Enjoyed poppin in and reading your blog!!

Rebecca

Love the Coop and want one!!!! Still in the city, but soon to hightail it. I had baerrd rock in my backyard in the suburb here and I board a horse a little ways away. That’s a start. WMAO to be able to afford it someday (soon!)

Ha – I think I hit your blog before my e-mail notice came in – you are becoming a habit : )

I love books and the library as well and am definitely not ready for the Kindle. This topic has come up with several friends recently and the pros of the book outweigh the pros of the Kindle (or whatever new gadget it is these days)for me.

One friend did say it was nice taking his Kindle with on vacation as he did not have books to lug around, but in my case part of the fun of vacation is finding a new bookstore (preferably Indie) to support. I have a nice bookmark collection and like to highlight, etc. as well, Rene.

As for the glasses issue, I suppose the hubster can’t help himself with the Grannie comments (men – how they do love to tease). I couldn’t wear contacts in CO (too dry there for my eyes) and now I wear glasses all of the time and look funny to myself when I don’t. My friend has a collection of vintage glasses – she finds them mostly on e-Bay, then has her OD insert prescription lenses. FUN!

Valynne,

I love the idea of the vintage glasses…. I may have a new hobby… LOL of course I also love the idea that my blog has become a habit….thanks for that!  I am headed to your blog too… How are things?

This letter could have been written by me. I had five sons and our trips to the library were like yours. Plus every birthday and Christmas the boys received new books of their own. I set up shelving units at the end of one hallway, added pillows and the light source was double french doors That became their "reading nook". My sister’s four boys loved it too.
I now have to have cataract surgery next month, it seems like I have worn out my eyes!! I keep four or five books going at all times, have stacks of books every where!! I like the feel of them too. And their smell! I discovered the library early on but my Mom wouldn’t let me get books from there until I entered high school and then I became a regular customer. When I go on vacation I always visit the libraries, it is such fun to see how they organize their stacks! Thanks for this blog, I read it always.

Ya’ got it right Rene’…
Libraries are Great…!
I have always Loved the Library, and it also remains one of the last public places where good manners are required.
I volunteer at the College Library now that I am retired…
not a lot, but whenever I feel like it, and they are always thrilled to have extra help.
Sometimes I shelve books, and always learn something new in the process, and sometimes I work at the Reference Desk answering questions and helping people find things.
I always learn new things, and actually leave feeling better than I did when I arrived.
I worked for 20+ years as a Social Worker, after leaving the Army, and helped people in the worst moments of their life, leaving work feeling mentally exhausted.
The Library is a positive helping experience, and I probably should have been a Librarian all along.
and the glasses on a chain perched on the tip of your nose sounds quite distinguished… we need a photo.
GodSpeed to Y’all "Professor" Rene…!
Gary
in Tampa

Gary,

I always love hearing from you… I love the quote "last public place where manners are required"… How perfect!

Oh Rene!
When it comes to the Kindle vs "The Real Thing", I will forever choose the one
that you hold lovingly in your hands, taking in the scent of either a newly printed page or the slightly musty smell of the aging written word. I LOVE books! When in grade school, I couldn’t wait for the first day of school when the teacher would hand out the text book. I would sit praying that I would get the NEW one, with its crisp, CLEAN pages. Ahhh…HEAVEN!!
And, I LOVE to read! I, too, am at the place in life where reading glasses have become a necessity just to peruse junk mail. I have a beautiful beaded spectacle holder that a dear friend made for me, but am a bit timid to wear it anywhere other then in the privacy of my own bedroom!! So, having a few pair each strategically placed in locations where I know I can grab them in pinch has helped tremendously.

By the way, Rathdrum is beautiful!! My sister and her family live there. 🙂

Blessings!!

What a beautiful article. I really enjoyed reading it. I love to read too. I still remember my first grade teacher saying if you want to grow up and be smart/be a good student, you need to read a lot.
She would read to us everyday. The book I remember her raeding to us was called "Snowbound with Betsy" I don’t remember the author’s name anymore. A cute story about how her family endures during a snowstorm at Christmas. Really cute.
I see those new electronic readers everywhere..the Sony, the Kindle, the Nook. They seem like fun. A lot of my friends like them. However, I also like a good old-fashioned hold-in-you hand kind of book. I like feeling the pages between my fingers 🙂 On that note, I will pull out a new book and start reading it today 🙂

Two months ago I retired from 9 years of working home daycare in my home. My children felt it time for me to be grandma! Although I took care of my 3 grandchildren I didn’t get to spend grandma time with them. Since then I have joined the public library and we enjoy it so much! We go once a week for books and movies and story time. Today Juniper and I are going to a "Fancy Nancy Tea"!!! That is a story line of books we get at the library. Juniper loves Fancy Nancy so we get to dress up today very fancy and go for tea at the library. We have tea parties at home but this will be special. I enjoy your blogs!! Thank you.

Ah, the wisdom of age and the beauty it leaves in our spirits can never go unnoticed.

I, too, have felt the marks beauty has left me in the form of wrinkles around my eyes that will require bifocals on my next visit to my optometrist, the menopausal hot flashes that I’m certain are lending to the global warming crisis, and the few pairs of granny panties that are creeping into my life in more ways than one.

Your blog reminds me that despite our young age, we’ve been blessed with the wisdom and confidence to fully live life, even if it is in Grannyville. So while we may prefer to shun Kindles in favor of old fashioned books, we’re modern day farm girls who share our wisdom and beauty in every medium possible.

Tara,

Perfectly said….

I totally agree with you! My daughter in law recently received a Kindle and was thrilled with it. I looked it over and thought it was nice but I love to look at books, smell them, look at the covers, and use them as decorations in my home. I REALLY love the smell of a Library!It’s hard to beat having a book or magazine in your hand!

Rene,I love the Library!I go almost every day believe it or not,especially in the winter.I can look at all of my favorite magizines,except for Mary Janes,for free,I rent hundreds of vintage movies,free,and I don,t have a printer,so I use the librarys,Some of my best friends work for the library,yesterday I went to a tea party there for the new librarian that is also my friend,I am takeing a computer class on genelogy soon,and they have every resource for that,and that is fun if you have never done that.I am also in the "Daughters of the Americian Revalution",and I do that to honor my momma"Hallie".It is intresting,and I don,t mind being friends with old women,it is not boreing to me.Some of my friends,my age make fun of me,but I am tellin ya,I would be truely insane if it was not for the library and being friends with old ladies,lol,girls,any pleasure that you can get free,take in its blessings,I don,t pay for cable tv.I do without.I can controll what I watch that way,and what my disabled son watches that way,rent a good cowboy movie free at your public library.I have friends that spend a couple hundred a month on cable and cell phone,internet services ect,thats crazy,I went for years useing the internet at the library,I only got it because I finanly had to for work.My friends are throwing a fit because I don,t have a cell phone,but,I hide from all of my friends,I don,t always want to be found.I will give in and get one soon,But,my point is,Enjoy free blessings.Blessed be,Have a great day girl!Carol Branum,Lamar Mo.themofarmersdaughter@blogspot.com

Wow! I understand completely! Just in the last 6 months everything is changed…traded in contacts for glasses, then considering that ‘granny chain’. I also drag my feet with most technology and prefer shelves full of books to a slim, tiny gadget.

nothing makes me happier than carrying home a huge pile of books I have gotten from the library; I look at new books in stores just to write down the title and author so I can order them at the library. My library is free; Kindle downloads are not cheap, and as you say, you can’t write comments or bookmark pages…the other place i get books is
at my local thrift shop. Nothing like a stack of books I can select from when I am out of a library book to read, and then pass on to friends….give me real books anytime!

Hi Rene’!

I love the Library too…. we really utilized our local libraries when our children were younger too… We would take advantage of craft hour,story time and as homeschoolers we often held or attended classes in a community room at the library…So far I can still read without my glasses. I started out just needing them for distance, but lord help me if I run into the grocery store without them like I did yesterday! Things are just plain blury no matter how close I get! As for the glasses on the nose routine, that’s my husband… He sits in his chair, glasses perched upon his nose looking very studious. For the life of me I don’t know why he chooses that time to have a lenghthy discussion with me. It’s so hard to take him seriously! 🙂

I think the chain idea is a good one and they have some really funky ones now too…I say go get yourself one with colorful beeds and just have fun with it! While you’re at it, how about some zebra striped or bright colored frames!

Before your know it it will be time for pink pants and pearls!

Keep smiling!
Deb~

Deb~  LOL  pink pants and pearls…. I hear the "Someday I will wear purple" poem loudly in my head..LOL

Nothing beats a "real" book…I’m with you no Kindle for me.

…I was prescribed tri-focal contact lenses last year and they are the best! No rummaging for my lost readers.

Love reading your articles Rene’ Your sister inlaw

and I love being your sister-in-law!

Give me a book with pages any day. And I have stacks of them and so does my hubs. I will take a book on CD out at the library for road trips and when I am working on a project that I can listen to a book at the same time. Here is another thing about the down loadable books, they are causing more job loses. My daughter works for a publisher and they have taken up the new book craze. It actually is what they are putting all their effort into. They permanently laid off 30 people this week because they just do not have the work for them. And eventually everything will be done on line and all the people that pull the books to ship and make the books to ship will be out of work. And they will not need as many people to do the jobs needed to put out the new books. There that was my rant for the day. I also am an eyeglass wearer. First came the bifocals and now I need a trifocals. I am hoping to get some sort of reading glasses that I can use just for reading and doing craft projects because lately I have been looking over the tops of my glasses to be able to do some sewing. I love all the cute little reading glasses. I want a red pair. Not sure about the chain though, I’m not ready to get teased by my daughters quite yet.

I told my children several years ago, the library is my second favorite place in the world. The first being home. Remember the saying that went around a decade or so ago, "She who dies with the most fabric wins"; my new motto is "she who dies with the most library cards wins." I’m up to 6 now, which is more if you count interlibrary loan. I don’t know what I’d do without the library. Sometimes my husband and I would have a date night which would end up at the library, as he is an avid reader too. Thankfully, 4 of our 10 children have caught the bug and also love the library. Thanks for the reminder.

Hi Again Rene,

Just wanted to say that things are great here on the Bay (can’t figure out how to respond directly below your response above : ) and to thank you for visiting my blog as well! I have Mary Janes Farm as a link – do you want me to add your link? I think we have similar demographics. Just getting into all of this blog stuff and loving in. Would love to interview you one of these days…just getting my feet wet with that as well, but I think it would be lots of fun!

V By the Sea : )

Hi Valynne,

Always here for ya.. you can always email me at Rene@MaryjanesFarm.org , too.

Reading is magic! I remember when my three boys learned to read…I was overwhelmed with joy for them! I told them each that now the whole world was open to them. I have always been a voracious reader. My children and I spent countless hours at the library from their infancy through preschool reading programs then on to summer reading programs. Now that they are teens, they still have books and libraries as integral parts of their lives. Our libraries are treasures! I have to say that although I realize and appreciate the wonders of the modern world such as Kindle…nothing will ever replace the printed word and the rustle of book pages through my fingers!

I also have been a fan of the library… all 4 of my Children were raised loving the trips to pick out books. We didn’t have much money when our children were little, so, we had to make do. That instilled in my children the world of books. The wonders of the world, they learned that they could learn anything, and do anything that’s in a book.
They are all avid readers. (I also home-schooled them). Now my 10 grandchildren take the trip with me. It is our
favorite thing to do…

Hi Rene,
This is my first time to read your blog. I love it and it’s just what I needed to start Monday on the right foot.
When I was young we were too far from a library but the bookmobile came every Friday afternoon. It parked at a church several blocks from my house and I was always waiting to get my next Nancy Drew mystery. I loved Nancy Drew and always imagined that I was named after her (instead of my sister’s teacher!). Nancy Drew had the MaryJane spirit- a woman ahead of her times. Thanks for the memories.

The most beautiful woman is the one who embraces her age. (Eleanor Roosevelt paraphrased?) Wear those reading glasses and be thankful every time you put them on that you can read.

As for the library, we are also blessed with a great public library system. Surely checking out books that are already published is better for the environment than buying a gadget that needs batteries which will one day have to be replaced. But you really hit it on the head when you described the sensory pleasures of reading a book–there is nothing like the feel of paper, the smell of ink, the sound of a page turning. Besides, you cannot get sand (beach reading) or suds (bubble bath reading)in your Kindle and expect Apple to honor the warranty.

Read on!

Hi Rene,
I love reading your blogs! It’s like we’re kindred spirits – :). I love the library, love to hold books and turn the pages and disappear into the stories. I don’t think I will ever adapt to the electronic versions. And I just got my first pair of bifocals too. My age is getting older but my mind doesn’t want to catch up! And I agree with you – embrace the change – but it doesn’t mean that you have to give up the past.
Thanks for sharing!

I enjoyed reading this post as a small town librarian and middle-aged new eyeglasses-wearer. My daughters have warned me that if I get the neck chain I would just look tooooooo old and stereotypically library-ish.

Hey Rene–

I’m a little late on this posting, but it caught my eye because I, too, am a book lover. When I was growing up, my dad worked away all week, so one of the things my mom did (partly to keep from going crazy, and partly because she is a book fanatic as well) she took us to the library on all the nights that they were open. We would find a book, then a quiet nook, and happily read until the library closed.

I have pretty much raised my kids the same way. We are at the library ALL the time! We go to the book sales, we order through the SALS system, I am on the board of trustees, and we’ve even been seen changing light bulbs and shampooing carpets. I love my little, local library!!!

And as far as those kindles go….they ain’t natural!!! I like the feel and smell of books. I like the pictures and covers and different sizes. I like aged paper and crisp new pages. I just love books!

I, too, have readers (old-age induced) and wear a chain that Nicole made for me. I love how handy the chain is, but am all too aware of the granny look so I never wear it out in public. Way too vain!!

Love you–have fun at your campout this weekend!

Carrie

I agree with you on the thought of not getting hooked on electronic books compared to just reading a good book. I had my first son at 15 and we lived in a little apartment 3 blocks from the library. Books were very important to us. I would load my son up into his wagon and off we would go to the library to check out 10 or 20 books to read before nap-time and bed-time. Years later and 4 children more ,I tried to instill the importance of going to the library and reading. They have all adapted that into their homes and children and each have expressed times well spent with me reading to them their favorite books.