Posted on February 6, 2025 by Rural Farmgirl Mary Murray
Our most recent visit from Old Man Winter arrived so swiftly, that in no time at all every surface was snow-covered. As each snowflake fell, it swirled in a twisting motion that made seeing anything nearly impossible…the chicken coop, barns, and milk house soon disappeared. To be honest though, the clusters of ice crystals were so beautiful, it was impossible to wish them away. Soon I was outdoors snapping some photos…each one almost looking as if it had been painted with watercolors.
Awww Joan – that’s the nicest thing to say – thank you for brightening up my Thursday morning! February here has been a roller coaster for sure…last night’s weather was crazy with an ice storm AND thunder – what a combination! You’re always welcome to share ideas you have, too – that’s the great thing- we can all learn together!
Than you for your blog. This morning we woke up to 32 deg after lite snow fluttering yesterday. Your barn photo was so pretty and made me want to paint a water color today with pretty colorful snowflakes. I love your poetic description and inspirational blogs.
You made my day!
Hi Gayle – oh this is the perfect time for painting! I used to watercolor as well but, it’s been ages. Hmmm maybe I need to dust off my brushes! Thank you for the kind words – I spotted the barn on my way home and thought it was just lovely (nothing like rolling down the car window in a blinding snowstorm to take a photo!) Enjoy painting – what a wonderful way to spend a snowy day.
Hi Mary. I enjoy your “visits” very much. I’m in Springfield, near to Dayton, and we had fog and nippy ice crystals all over. The wild birds are eating berries and look so festive against the scenery here. Can’t wait for springtime to come. We have farms around our home area and I enjoy seeing the work change with the seasons. Found a new source of Honey and it is so heavy with a floral taste! My husband made Mead and we are waiting to see how it came out. I love your photos and ideas.
Hi Ellen – oooh I hear Springfield has some of the best antique shops! Your weather has been like ours then, although I’m farther North, we had a Level 2 weather emergency last night, but are down to Level 1 this morning. You’re right – it is so nice to see the change of seasons in the country – and local honey – yay, it always tastes the best! Thanks for taking the time to stop by – keep warm!
Hi Dori – thanks for swinging by…I’ll have to tell the story of Maizy – maybe next post! You would be a ball in the chapter – virtual maybe?! Take care and keep warm!
Such a spirit lifter are the winter blog notes!! Maine has been COLD and WINDY this winter. We are getting ready for the first of 2 skijor competitions. My daughter is the rider and my granddaughter and I are the cheering section. Cold but fun with lots of hot chocolate and cookies!! Keep the cheer coming!!
Welcome Sherri! Wow skijor- that’s a white-knuckle competition! What’s pulling your daughter: horse, dog, snowmobile?? What a heart-thumping, exciting way to spend February. I’m with you, I would definitely be on the sidelines cheering with hot chocolate and cookies, but I would love to see it – let me know how she does!
Hi Mary, I just love reading your blogs. I happened to be reading one in December while with our kids and grandkids in Durham for a cirque soleil show. My 15 year old grandson asked what I was doing and when I told him he was really surprised that I knew what a blog was. I just finished a hooked rug I’ve been working on for awhile called guinea fowl. Is really whimsical unlike any of my other rugs which are primitive. I grew up in the western foothills of Maine and can relate to the winters. I currently live in the western part of North Carolina and so enjoy our mountains. I look forward to next months read.
Maureen, thank you for your kind words. I’m so glad you’re enjoying the blog and I appreciate you taking the time to leave me a note! It seems like so many ladies are rug hooking these days – and the designs are just so beautiful. Too pretty to walk on! Oh Maine would be lovely in winter, but I can see why you enjoy the NC mountains, too. Each part of the country has its own special beauty.
Thank you so much Mary I really enjoyed this month’s blog too. So much wonderful information. And all your hearts are little cuties!
Happy Sweetheart Day.
Slipping into winter has been gradual…there have been days teasing Spring with temperatures nearly 60° F, only to wake up and find mornings of 7° F with a wind that was breathtakingly cold.
Today I’m greeted by a wisp of chilly wind and an icy cold rain, as well as the sound of chain saws in the distance. A few nights ago I heard that unmistakable sound…have you ever heard it? The deep, echoing, “crack” that a limb makes as it breaks free from a tree. The wind gusts were strong enough to send a cascade of limbs to the ground from an old maple tree, reminding me that it’s January, and snow and ice storms will be coming my way.
Beautifully written, and excellent advice. Thank you. My goal simply is to have each year be better in some way than the one before – in spite of my advancing age!
Thank you Dan – what a great idea that each year should simply be better than the one before! And with “advancing age” certainly comes wisdom…your short & to the point goal is one we can all learn from, thanks for sharing!
Last year I made a PACT with myself, hoping to meet each of four goals each day. The four bullet points are easily a part of everyday life, but I found that I was missing important and fulfilling pieces of my life if I did not mindfully hit each point. When I could mark a letter on my calendar (or in a journal) for each bullet point, the day was a success, regardless of any chaos or physical setbacks. I didn’t hit all four each day, but after a year of focusing on the PACT points, I got much better at it. I think 2025 will have 365 days of success! My PACT goals:
P – Productive (could be anything…cleaning, gardening, bill paying, caregiving)
A – Active (could be walking, stretching my achy 70-yr-old body, even vacuuming)
C – Creative (needlework, crafts, repurposing old stuff, creatively organizing something)
T – Touch (touch base…call/write/meet up with friends, family, community groups)
Lori, this is a terrific plan for the new year and I think something we all can do! Thank you so much for jotting it all down for us…and putting a mark on the calendar or in a journal really does help. I’m a list-maker/calendar marker and your idea is one that’s just perfect for me…it let’s me see my progress (or lack of so I can pick up the pace before the day is over!) And I really appreciate that each letter can be “anything” that fits…that’s such a good idea, than’s for inspiring us to make a PACT!
Such a well written post and amazing advice. I will certainly be doing part of your pact goals as well. I need to be more productive, and I need to be more active. I want to finish some scrapbooks, and I want to clean some more of my craft supplies up. Keeping in touch with friends has always been a part of my plans for the new year.
Good morning Carol, thanks for stopping by…it sounds like you’re ready to jump in! I agree with so many of your plans…scrapbooks are falling behind here and keeping up with friends needs to happen more. Thanks for the gentle reminder – it keeps me on the right track!
Mary! I love all your tips and advice! I love to make lists… I’m one of those people that write things down to check them off! HaHa! So I love the thought of breaking things down to manageable (and more boxes to check on my list! ha ha!). AND I love your photos!
Hi Dori – oh yes, list-making can be addictive for me, it absolutely have to do it to keep myself on track! And you’re so right, checking things off makes me smile…but I’m also guilty of moving thing to the next day! Glad you like the photos…it’s a very frosty day here today -1, brrr! Keep warm and take care, Mary
Another lovely post, Mary. Although I don’t often make resolutions, I like the idea of intentions. And I especially like the thought of chasing my dreams. Xx
Awww, thanks Jules, so glad you think so. What a wonderful way of thinking of the new year…Intentions. That’s a great plan and it feels like less pressure and added stress. You’re right on track…and inspiring me, you are the one I was writing about when I said I needed to get out and explore more…thank you!
I have never been one to make new year resolutions but I do like your perspectives – especially the one about giving ourselves grace. Sometimes I feel as though I am in the never-never land of either not giving myself enough grace and giving myself too much grace, if that makes sense. Living by oneself lifts the yolk of expectation and that can be a slippery slope. I love that you plan on learning to spin and play the violin. I took violin lessons for a brief time as a child. It is still something I wish I could have stuck with and I often wonder what happened with my grandfather’s old fiddle that I used. ~Robin~
Hi Robin, hope all is warm & cozy in Nod! And yes, giving ourselves Grace can be difficult, at least for me. I have that endless list in front of me, and you know what, I do move somethings to tomorrow’s list…who needs all that stress? I don’t think you can give yourself too much Grace…you know YOU best…what works for you, how you’re feeling a particular day, what is happening around you. Oh violin lessons…yay, another kindred spirit (so jealous, this learning at an “older” age is not easy.) Maybe you can connect with family and find that old fiddle…wouldn’t that be amazing?! Keep me posted, and keep warm!
Posted on December 24, 2024 by Rural Farmgirl Mary Murray
Christmas Eve…here we are deep in December. The night is comforting with a crackling fire, whispers of secret surprises, and the gentle melodies of familiar Christmas carols. There is laughter while watching favorite movies, ooey-gooey s’mores made in the kitchen fireplace, and yes, even a patient and understanding dog wearing holiday pajamas!
Oh you’re more than welcome, thank you for stopping by on your Christmas Eve…I hope you had a lovely Christmas, and now, on to a new year! Have a happy, happy 2025!
Thanks for this beautiful message to us. Your tree sounds like mine…full of precious memories. When our 8 grandchildren were little, every year I had a tree decorating party when they would all come and put on the ornaments. We listened to Christmas music and had hot cocoa and candy cane cookies after as they sat and admired their work. Again, it was perfectly imperfect. Most of them are all grown up by now, but my 9th and last granddaughter and I keep up the tradition. Merry Christmas!
Hi Deanna! I think our memory-filled trees are the best! I just love looking at each ornament, I’m betting just like you, it takes me back to something or someone that’s dear to me. So glad you keep up the tradition…those are just the absolute best and sweetest ways to spend time, Happy New Year!
Thank you for such an uplifting read. I particularly needed it because this is my first Christmas without my husband. He passed away in April, and it’s been a difficult time since then, especially now!
Hope you and yours have a wonderful Christmas and New Year!
Thanks for taking the time to visit on Christmas Eve, Kathy. Sending my heartfelt wishes to you…I’m sure this season will have it’s share of bittersweet moments. I hope you find time for quiet reflection and also time with family and friends to help ease into a new year. May it be filled with blessings for you. Mary
What a beautiful post. The quote from The Great Gildersleeve is perfect, especially in these times. I plan to share it, with a link back to this post. Many wishes for a peaceful Christmas and New Year!
Oh thank you Laurie for sharing the quote…I really do think, even 80 years later, it’s still perfect for our day. Sending you wishes for a happy and peaceful 2025!
As a long-time lover of old-time radio prorams (our dad was the one who shared so many of these with us) I love your quote from the Great Guildersleeve. I can just hear him now.
Merry Christmas to you and yours from western Oregon.
Love,
Beth
❤️
Yay, another radio fan! I have my favorites, and can definitely get lost in those timeless episodes. I usually put on my headphones when it’s cleaning time…chasing dust bunnies is just so much easier with Fibber McGee or Our Miss Brooks! Hope all is well in Oregon, Happy New Year!
Merry Christmas dear Mary. Thank you so very much for the gift of this beautiful post. The quote from Harold Peary is timelessly wonderful. I will keep a copy of this and hope to revisit it often. Sending wishes across the miles that your Christmas be filled with simple joys, small blessings and a touch of Christmas magic. ~Robin~
Hi Robin, I’m always so glad to see your name pop up! For me, the quote is one that is ageless…he was certainly inspired when writing those words. Thank you for the sweet wishes, and here’s to 2025…may it be filled with a bit of magic as well!
Hi Maureen, you’re more than welcome…so glad you stopped by. Sometimes I need a little nudge to remember all my blessings…it’s easy to get caught up in the harder moments of our days. Hope it’s a wonderful 2025…look forward to hearing from you again!
What a heartfelt post. The quote is marvelous and its sentiment is one I often echo. I continue to pray for peace across the world. I hope you and your family had a wonderful holiday. May God bless us, everyone.
Daisy you’re always so nice with your encouraging comments…I’m very glad you found something in this post to enjoy; the quote, to me, will always be timeless. I hope all is well, Happy New Year in The Piedmont!
Posted on November 21, 2024 by Rural Farmgirl Mary Murray
As the year winds down, each day is a gift. Some mornings we wake to find the days are unseasonably warm with clear, vibrant, deep azure skies; other days are gray with the sound of rustling leaves and the soft tapping of rain on the roof. And while the garden has long been put to bed for winter, now is also the time to plant garlic for the next year. The cycle continues as one season slowly moves toward another; each with its own beauty and rewards. However; no matter the weather, as we move closer to the end of the year, we can sense a change, and find many reasons to pause and give thanks.
This post is comforting and nurturing…and so evocative of our family Thanksgiving “back when.” The photo of the handwritten recipe looks like so many of my mother’s….written in her beautifully flowing script. Unfortunately, they were not saved and that is a source of sadness for me still. Yes, I have many of the family favorites that I copied over the years, but it is not same. I can visualize your kitchen fireplace but sometime you really need to share a photo of it. I have always dreamed of having a fireplace in my kitchen but that will remain a dream only. Wishing you a blessed – and simple – Thanksgiving Mary. ~Robin~
Robin, you always say the nicest things. I know what you mean about recipes – I would love to have my grandmother’s bread/roll recipes- but they were “a pinch of this, dash of that” and never written down. Oh how I wish my kitchen fireplace was a giant one as in so many old homes, but it’s a modest size. Blessed to have 3 in this old house, but a former owner didn’t care for the dining room one, tore down the chimney and tossed it down the flue! While it couldn’t be saved, it was rebuilt but can’t ever be used – sigh.
Thank you Jules – it’s so easy for there to be a frenzied feeling, I just felt the need to slow everything down where I could. I will be following your lead and taking in as much of nature as possible this month!
What a lovely, heartfelt post. Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday for so many of the reasons you mention. It seems it gets even more precious as the years pass. Wishing you and all of your readers a wonderful holiday. Blessings…
Thank you, Daisy for your sweet comments – Somehow, it does seem to get lost in the rush to get to Christmas. You’re absolutely right, I think as the years pass, we realize how important it is to slow down, pause, and give thanks – it doesn’t mean that everything is perfect, but there are things to be grateful for each day.
Hi Dori – ahhh those Dilly Green Tomatoes, a recipe from my grandmother. It would’ve been so easy to leave them there on the vine, but my oh my, our grandmother’s knew how to save and preserve everything, didn’t they? They are just little cherry tomatoes that taste somewhat like dill pickles – small enough to pop each one in your mouth and have that burst of sour. I’ll have to share the recipe in the future post!
I have november-itis all November. It has unseasonably warm and the last of the clean up and putting gardens to bed where finished. As the days got shorter I started my slow and steady work of decorating. The more I pull from the boxes the more I know I need to down size. Simple sounds good while my decorations are old and soft colors with the years there are just to much. Our fireplace is a complete joy this time of year.
Happy Thanksgiving
Hi Cathy – slow and steady is the perfect way to begin decorating. That’s so much better than that rush that sometimes happens, that just takes all the fun out of it. I began pairing down this year too – it’s difficult. I kept things that were sentimental, parted with things I never used knowing someone else might be looking for just that item. And you’re so right, I love sitting next to the fireplace with a book -you’re right, it is a joy!
Hi Mary! So cozy and inviting, everything about this post is just so nice. I especially love the craft! I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Happy Holidays! ~Nicole, Suburban Farmgirl Blogger
Nice to meet you, Maureen! The fireplace has certainly come in handy when the power has been out – it’s often felt like a Little House on the Prairie moment – cooking in it and everyone keeping warm! Thanks so much for stopping by!
Hi Nicole – thank you so much, the Mason jar oil lamp is a snap to make – and a quick and easy gift. I just put the jar goodies together (without adding the lamp oil) and give a bottle of oil separately. Thanksgiving was great: eat, nap, repeat – still enjoying the leftovers!
Oh Jenny – that’s so nice of you to say! I’m grateful to have this chance to “meet” so many kindred spirits. What a wonderful Sisterhood this is where we can share ideas and learn from each other. Thanks for taking the time to stop by!
Oh Mary…. I love the idea of a Pie Potluck!!! I think I’ll invite my favorite gal friends and do that!!!! Pie is my very, very, very favorite dessert ever. I’d rather have pie over birthday cake!
Also; I have a trunk just like yours pictured and I love the idea of storing seasonal decorations in there. Mine if just stuffed with extra blankets etc…
Hi Dori! Let me know how your Pie Potluck goes…what a fun way to get some new recipes before the Thanksgiving Pie Season. And always a little Girl Gab fun before the holidays! Let me know how it goes…and yes, pie over cake for me, too! A blanket trunk is great for these chilly days, just grab one and curl up. I just found I had so many ornaments, I might as well keep them close to where the tree will be, and the trunk is so roomy, it’s ideal. Hope all is well…enjoy these lovely fall days!
Another wonderful post, and a perfectly timed reminder to enjoy this beautiful season and everything it has to offer.
The pumpkins are carved and there are bats flying in the porch, in hope that we’ll receive some spooky visitors later this evening. Xx
Thanks so much Jules, I appreciate you taking the time to stop by. It sounds like you were absolutely set for Halloween…I just love seeing all the littles in costume! Here there’s always a big pot of chili simmering and some silly “mummy dogs” (hot dogs wrapped in strips of dough and then baked) – and I love the roasted pumpkin seeds. It flies by…yes, let’s enjoy all it has to offer.
I couldn’t love this post more Mary… It’s filled with great ideas, wise words and, of course, drop-dead gorgeous photography. I, too, find that time is just swirling by and I can’t keep up or catch my breath. I’m trying to come to terms with the fact that I am in the late autumn season of my life and I just don’t move as quickly as I once did. Our weather has turned…no fall picnics or porch sitting here anymore. And the soup/pie potluck is a great idea. My family did that one year, but with a twist. We’d get together one night each week and one family would bring their favorite soup (and the recipe of course) and the rest of us would bring breads/rolls/dessert, etc. And we’d spend the rest of the evening playing board games. That seems like a lifetime ago. Happy November to you! ~Robin~
Robin you always say the kindest things…thank you so much! I’m right there with you…swirling by is a perfect description, some days I’m floored as to where the day’s hours have gone. Oh I really love the idea of a family soup potluck…it’s perfect for these chilly nights, and one person doesn’t have to do all the prep work. And board games need to be brought back (in my humble opinion) a simple, fun way to pass an evening with family & friends. Always appreciate you visiting, Robin…so glad to have “met” you. Settle in and keep cozy!
Posted on September 20, 2024 by Rural Farmgirl Mary Murray
These last lingering days of September find us busily harvesting the best of summer’s bounty…gathering, sorting, sharing, and “putting by” or “putting up” as our grandmother’s called it. Trying our best to hold onto that flavor. You know what I mean, that flavor…a warm garden tomato or the sweetness of just-picked corn. There’s nothing like farm-to-table, or better yet, backyard-to-table!
This was a great time to read about your canning, freezing, drying, and putting in food. I have done so much of all, I haven’t done any of it. With me in a recent brain injury (2 years ago), I read what you do, and it remembers of the things I can do, and the woman who is showing how to do, it’s an inspiration to go forward. Thank you so much for your everyday life. Mary Murray, God bless you!
Hi Ginny, it’s great to meet you! Thanks for your kind words…I definitely didn’t learn all this overnight, it’s taken a few years and I had some terrific teachers along the way. If you’re thinking you’d like to “put by” a few things, start by keeping it easy: setting aside boxes of pasta and rice is a great way to begin, tossing a few extra items in the freezer, and stocking up when markets have sales are good ways to be ready for power outages or if bad weather keeps trucks from making grocery store deliveries. Keep it simple and make it work for you! Thanks again for your kind words, Ginny, let me know how you’re coming along! Mary
You sure can make hard work look beautiful. 😉 My mother was the queen of the harvest I swear…and after growing up and being enlisted to help, I swore it off LOL. (Well, with school and then career and family, I truly didn’t have a spare moment. I did start canning a bit later (in my world, that’s what we called it – “canning” or “harvesting”) but limited it to canning tomatoes and green beens, freezing things and drying herbs. I still am shy around pressure canners after a bit of a mishap with one when I was young… In any event, I loved seeing your stores – reminds me of home and life as I once knew it. ~Robin~
Hi Robin! Thanks for always stopping by and taking time to drop a note.
One of the best things I’ve ever heard is, “Yes, you can do it all, just not all at the same time.” There are seasons to our lives, and we can’t put in a 60-hour work week and can tomatoes every day. We want to, I know, but it’s just not possible. And that’s okay…canning those tomatoes and green beans, freezing and drying herbs now surely brings back sweet memories of your mom. And I’m cautious with pressure cookers as well…I’m one of those that checks, double-checks, and then checks again! I’m glad you liked the post…just the tales of an old-fashioned soul who’s trying to remember the simple pleasures in this hectic world we live in. Thanks again, Robin!
Hazy, hot & humid…the 3 H’s that have become the norm as August unfolds here in my part of the Midwest. Each day feels as if it’s in slow motion…work is getting done, but at a pace that has kept me behind on my to-do list. Barn cats can be found snoozing in the shade more than usual, and even songbirds at the birdbath seem to linger, simply enjoying the cool water. After a long stretch of rainless days, the garden is in need of daily watering, fields are dusty, and once green grass is beginning to look parched.
What a great summer program for the kids! Growing up on a farm with a huge garden, I never much thought about other kids not having that farm to table experience…I only thought them fortunate to not have to plant, weed, and clean and scrub those prickly cucumbers. 😉 Lovely photos as always. Is that really your pantry of canned goods? If so, wow…and more wow. All the same sized jars, all those gorgeous zinc lids! Nothing prettier than canned goods all in a row – but this is beyond “pretty.” WAY beyond. We had a good rain last night too…and temps are on the downslide. Heard we’re only to be in the 60’s again in a day or two. I’m not done with summer yet either, but the trees are whispering otherwise. ~Robin~
Hi Robin, always love seeing you stop by! I agree…it was great to see the kids love to spend time gardening (even in this summers horrid heat) and my son was having a good time as well – and cooking with what they’d grown was terrific for them all! No, I wish it was! The pantry is in a local living history farmhouse…I LOVE it and could move right in! I’ll show you mine soon…it’s similar (those old wooden shelves in a cellar must be the norm for 19th century houses) but it’s inspired me to fill my shelves up! Yes, those zinc lids-sigh! It was 43 here the other night…I’m hoping for a long fall…always my favorite season! Catch up with you soon, Mary
I enjoyed every word of this post. What a fabulous program for those young folks to learn life-long skills that will serve them well. Very inspirational. Continued blessings…
Hi Daisy – thank you for the kind words, I really appreciate them. The program is amazing, and only in it’s second year, I hope it keeps growing and inspiring young people! And you’re right…those skills will last them throughout their lives…what a blessing. So glad those garden-loving adults are leading the way!
This is a great post reading about the students and their community garden. So glad they were able to reap their rewards. We had severe weather last night and thankfully no damage. The canned goods are so pretty and will be good way to saving money. Janice
Janice – thanks so much…I’m so impressed by the youth, and watching them chat with people at the Farmers’ Market was great too…spreading the word through their excitement. They can be so proud! Canning is in full swing here…and absolutely, money saving, and we know exactly what’s in those jars! Hope the bad weather has passed, we must be headed to cool, beautiful autumn days soon. Take care, Mary
Mid-summer…these early harvest days have a busyness to them that begins early and ends late. There are gardens to tend, beans to snap, and corn to shuck. Weeds need pulling, grass needs mowing, and hay needs stacking. July days are hot and sun-soaked, and by day’s end, often come with rumblings of thunder bringing much-needed rain.
Good morning! You’re so right – fresh is always so nice…and drying them is really easy. The weaving is fun to make with a group of girlfriends…one gal I know used a tall, skinny frame and it was a perfect fit for her old chimney cupboard! Thanks for stopping by to visit, Mary
Hi Lynette – let me know how yours turns out! I’d love to hear what herbs you used – maybe one weaving with Italian herbs and one with Mediterranean herbs! I like using the frame – there’s so many great designs and colors to choose from. Leaving the frame in place is great for beginners, but there‘s also a way to remove the frame if you want to while the herbs are still fresh – just let me know and I can share those how-to instructions if you’d like them. Mary
Your posts are just amazing!! Your captured “summer” perfectly! I love your kitchen herb patch. (It’s beautiful as well as fragrant and useful!). My herb garden isn’t outside my door – it’s in my son’s old sandbox LOL, but I love having it. I usually band my herbs together and have started hanging them from the curtain rods in my kitchen, although I do have a little wooden herb drying rack I use as well. Love the sauce and salt recipes as well…will definitely give them a go. And herb weaving…ok, that’s new to me. I’ve heard of and have done lavender wands but it’s different than this. Great ideas, great post! ~Robin~
Hi Robin, always appreciate it when you pop over here! Having your garden in a sandbox is a great idea…it means everything’s contained and keeps most of the weeds out. And yes, I LOVE seeing herbs hanging in windows…it reminds me of a quieter time and simpler life. Just what we all could use more of these days…thanks for the reminder. Mary
I have a large box of tomatoes that need using up, so I will be making the pasta sauce later. Thank you.
Also, the herb weaving looks amazing. What a great idea! Xx
I hope you like the recipe, Jules…be sure to let me know. It’s simple to make the ingredient amounts however you like so it’s just right for you – add or delete anything you please. I’m thinking I may try and cook it down just a little in a Dutch oven to make it thicker for pizza sauce…something we always need around here! Thanks to visiting, Mary
What a lovely picture of summer you have created. The herb weaving is genius! What a beautiful gift it would make as well.
Thank you for reminding me that beyond the heat and humidity, there is much to celebrate about this season. Mighty blessings…
Daisy, my fellow gardener…thanks for coming by to comment! I’m sure you could whip up an herb weaving in no time at all…let me know if you do. And you’re right…the heat and humidity lately have been a trial, but when I hear the mockingbirds at twilight or see the fireflies, it reminds me to take a step back and be grateful. Mary
Hi Staci, thanks so much! I’m so grateful for the lady who taught me to make an herb weaving ages ago…she sparked an interest in herbs for a 20-something girl that’s stayed with me for decades. I’m hoping I can share her ideas and pass that love along to someone else. Mary
Some country pleasures never seem to change…sunny June brings us plump strawberries, crisp lettuce, and bright Tiger Lilies that pop up almost overnight along country roads. On these perfect June days, one of my favorite sounds can be heard through the screen door…the snap of freshly-washed sheets billowing in the breeze. And as twilight approaches, I’m enchanted by fireflies and their magical dances.
With these warm and dry summer days, and the threat of a late frost now over, the vegetable garden is in. It’s always interesting to hear, even in our modern world, farmers talk about planting by the “phases of the moon.” And while I see fields of some crops flourish and other fields less so, it does make me wonder if that age-old practice just might have some truth to it. Technology allows us to find the answers to all our gardening questions in an instant. However; ignoring the farming advice that’s been passed down through the generations would be a shame. Perhaps next year I’ll take a closer look at sowing by the phases of the moon and just see what happens!
All your found treasures repurposed are so unique and lovely. I too love Yart/Jart and reuse vintage pieces often for the down home country look.
Thank you for giving me a few more ideas.
Enjoy summer Mary.
Debbie, so glad to find a Yart/Jart kindred spirit! It’s fun to try and see how to work those old pieces in. Please share some of your ideas – I’d love to know!
I have just started receiving your magazine and I love your blog. My sister her husband and I bought a 140 year old stone farmhouse near Studley Kansas. The history of this place and the people who built it is very heartwarming. Something of which we all need in the times we live in. The property is beautiful and so is the house. It is a dream come true for us. I look forward to learning all I can from you and your readers. Always Donna Carroll
Welcome Donna, we’re so glad you’ve joined us! The stone farmhouse sounds wonderful…don’t you just love the history and workmanship that come with an old house? And I couldn’t agree more; learning about the past is heartwarming (a terrific word, thank you!) in these fast-paced times. Again, so happy you’re here!
I love the Yart/Jart concept! 🙂 I’ve been using an old stock pot and an old canner to plant flowers in for a few years! I love the rusty, aged look…especially when brimming with beautiful geraniums! 🙂
Hi Karen, what a good idea – both the stockpot and canner are so roomy, they’d look terrific filled with flowers! I love that you “cheated the landfill!” So glad you shared your clever idea…I think I have an old canner that just might work – I’ll be looking for it – thanks for sharing your Yart/Jart!
Hi Jules…the words are silly I know, my daughter and I made them up (at least I’ve never heard them before) just to describe all the “things” that seem to need a new purpose. So glad you like the potato masher – I’ve seen old metal teapots and tin measuring cups used as well…I think anything is a windchime possibility!
One of my most favorite posts yet, I think. Not only are your ideas and creativity in repurposing the old amazing, your photos are absolutely stunning! I have always used landfill-bound items for my gardening and yard decor. For years, my husband joked that he and our son had to hide their workboots at night or they’d wake up and find them planted with something. Eventually, however, he “caught on” and started bringing things home for me to use. Almost all my annuals are planted in old metal ware, etc. but my prized possession is my “cornzebo” – an old corncrib we converted to a gazebo (complete with a chandelier LOL). ~Robin~ (PS – I grew up on dairy farm too – we had pails like the one on your arbor bench. We used it to feed calves milk if, for some reason they couldn’t feed from their mothers – or supplements that were mixed with water, etc. – if needed. A nipple type thing was attached to the spout.)
Oh, thank you so much Robin for the kind compliments…outdoor photography has always been fun for me. And I have a kindred spirit in Jart/Yart – I filled the kids’ polka-dot rain boots with flowers when they outgrew them… I agree – anything is fair game! Now about your Cornzebo – you are a mind reader. I am SO jealous…I’ve wanted one for years! I have it all planned out in my mind…I’d screen it in (awful mosquitoes in summer here) and then put either a round picnic table inside, or some chairs for relaxing. And a chandelier – why, of course!! Okay Robin, you’ve inspired me…I’ve seen a “lonely” one beside a field not far from here – I’ll knock on the nearest farmhouse door and see if it’s for sale. Not sure how it could be moved, but we’ll cross that bridge if we get to it – thanks for giving me a little nudge that direction!
So many great ideas! I made a wind chime out of old, rusting canning rings. I also have an affinity for enamelware. The cabinet turned farmstand is delightful!
Hope your summer is going just the way you like it! Continued blessings…
A canning ring wind chime is a clever idea, Daisy…I love it, and the more rust, the better! Thank you..the cabinet was free and it only took some spray paint and two supports for the ribbon garland to spruce it up – so easy. Since that picture was taken, I made a platform with wheels to help move it around easier – that’s the hardest part, keeping it upright as it bumps along on the gravel! Happy summer wishes to you, too – thanks for stopping here to visit.
You’re ahead of your time, Cathy, and I’m sure some of your yart/jart inspired others to do the same! Some things are just too “valuable” for me to toss. No, not for the money they would bring, but just because I have always loved old things. That rusty horseshoe and leaky laundry tub will never be used for their original purposes again, but that’s okay…they make my heart happy. So glad yart/jart is catching on!
Thanks so much, Staci! It’s amazing what can be found for free…and a little spray paint makes all the difference. I did keep the sink that was with it…someday it will be in my “dream” kitchen. It’s like the clawfoot tub that was tucked in the dark recesses of our basement. I refuse to give up…somehow I will restore it and haul it up two flights of stairs to the bathroom!
May…like a butterfly she flits up and down, undecided just where she will land. She teases with warm Spring showers, then surprises us with frosty nights that feel like late October. Each day May dances somewhere between sun-kissed celebrations and cozy sweater-weather.
I couldn’t love this post more! Each and every one reminds me of the nostalgic sights, tastes, and feel of growing up in a simpler time and a simpler way. Your little milkhouse stand looks amazing. I’d be a way-too-frequent visitor. Wish someone would do that in these parts! ~Robin~
Oh Robin, you say the nicest things…I’d love to have you as a “way-to-frequent” visitor! Hmmm, take a look around next time you’re out and see if there’s not a little produce stand nearby, it might be just off a main road and a little hard to spot. I hope you can find one. And I agree…I’m drawn to those sweet, simple ways as well – kindred spirits!
Your milkhouse baked goods shop looks so inviting! You did a great job of revamping and repurposing. I wish I could stop by, but it would be a bit of a drive (I live in Arizona)! I can at least enjoy the photos.
Thanks Kim for the kind words…the before pictures are a bit scary! I love that we get the chance to visit here, even though it’s across the miles…we can still share ideas and cheer each other on!
Mary, I love your Farm Stand and the Milk house, so Farmgirl and cheerful. I certainly would stop for a visit sit a spell and chat if I lived in your area. And who doesn’t love home grown veggies and apple pie.
Enjoy your summer and have fun with your new Venture.
Hi Debbie – thank you for stopping by! I have a friend who grew up on a dairy farm, so it was terrific to have her nearby to answer questions about items I found in the milkhouse. And I love that saying: “sit a spell” we don’t hear that nearly enough, and it’s something that we could all do more often… a good, old-fashioned stress reliever! Thanks for the reminder.
Awww, thanks Sylvia…see if you can’t find a roadside stand near where you live. I guarantee the gal (or guy!) who runs it would love to tell you all about their veggies or flowers, and maybe there’s a home-baked pie just waiting to go home with you!
Hi Lynette – double-check your local guidelines, some farm stands are set up in suburban areas, too! Think of it like an old-fashioned lemonade stand, only with your extra veggies, Mason jars of flowers, or baked goods. It’s always best to see what the local restrictions are, but I see little tables set up along the sidewalk in town with loaves of bread, tomatoes, and even mini pies for sale. No matter where we live, we can bring some of the country right to our own front yard!
Mary, this blog post is wonderful! I would love to have a farm fresh stand in the future. In the past my only extra item was zucchini lol! This year I am hoping to have a lot more with my expanded garden. Once I can officially figure out what my family needs and what I am able to can, then I can start considering a farm stand. I am so happy it has worked out great for you. Good luck with your cute store again this year.
Krista, thanks for making me smile, I’m so glad you enjoyed my “tons of tomatoes” adventure! Once you have your family’s food storage needs decided, your extra zucchini is a perfect way to start a sweet little stand. You don’t need to have oodles of variety to offer, you will be known as the farmgirl who has the best zucchini in town!
I love roadside stands. There’s something so sweet about them and it seems there is always something good!! Your ideas are wonderful, and your descriptions make them come alive in my mind as I read this post. I’m so happy for you that your “not shop” shop has worked out well. And your redecoration of the milkhouse looks great! Thanks for sharing on your blog that you are writing here. I just love reading any of your posts!
Staci, thank you so much for stopping by…truly, I’m always learning from you! There were days last year the “not shop” was quiet, but I’m hoping I learned what neighbors like best, and to focus on those items this year. Until then, the recipe testing continues…which is not the best thing for my waistline!
I love this post so much. Roadside farmstands are my favorite! The farmstand that my daughter and I have for our flower farm is such a hit for people… probably because it is honor system and just so quick and easy to stop, grab your flowers, and go. I love it.
Hi Dori – Thanks for your kind words! I pinned an adorable photo of your farm fresh flower stand (LOVE the truck bed, it’s so clever!) long before I had the fun of “meeting” you here; what are the chances?! I agree…people like the idea of “grab & go” when they’re short on time. Some days I’ll set a dressed-up retro sink cabinet at the edge of the drive with baskets of veggies, but most often I stay in the milkhouse…it’s just fun to chat with folks!
Oh that’s so cool!!! We were meant to know each other! :-).
I do like chatting with people when they get our flowers too! Usually each morning when we stock the flower stand, there are people waiting and it is always fun to chat a minute!
How wonderful! But lots of hard work with lots of satisfying results. WE do have a farm stand about a mile from us and I am always happy to see him open in the spring. He has gotten locals that want to sell some baked goods share a space in his stand.
a wonderful article and now I want one of my own lol.
Hi Cathy, I just have to keep learning what customers want most…although my kids will always eat any sweet treats left at the end of the day! (well, me too) So glad you have one nearby…it’s not only great for all of his friends & neighbors, it really helps support the seller. YOU can do it…your bread machine has been working overtime and you also have such lovely flowers! See what your local regulations are and give it a try…there’s no commitment, just whenever you want to…keep me posted!
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”
~ Mark Twain
Debbie Bosworth
is a certified farmgirl at heart. She’s happily married to her beach bum Yankee husband of 20 years. She went from career gal to being a creative homeschooling mom for two of her biggest blessings and hasn’t looked back since. Debbie left her lifelong home in the high desert of Northern Nevada 10 years ago and washed up on the shore of America’s hometown, Plymouth, MA, where she and her family are now firmly planted. They spend part of each summer in a tiny, off–grid beach cottage named “The Sea Horse.”
“I found a piece of my farmgirl heart when I discovered MaryJanesFarm. Suddenly, everything I loved just made more sense! I enjoy unwinding at the beach, writing, gardening, and turning yard-sale furniture into ‘Painted Ladies’ I’m passionate about living a creative life and encouraging others to ‘make each day their masterpiece.’”
Being a farmgirl is not
about where you live,
but how you live.
Rebekah Teal
is a “MaryJane Farmgirl” who lives in a large metropolitan area. She is a lawyer who has worked in both criminal defense and prosecution. She has been a judge, a business woman and a stay-at-home mom. In addition to her law degree, she has a Masters of Theological Studies.
“Mustering up the courage to do the things you dream about,” she says, “is the essence of being a MaryJane Farmgirl.” Learning to live more organically and closer to nature is Rebekah’s current pursuit. She finds strength and encouragement through MaryJane’s writings, life, and products. And MaryJane’s Farmgirl Connection provides her a wealth of knowledge from true-blue farmgirls.
“Keep close to Nature’s heart … and break clear away once in awhile to climb a mountain or spend a week in the woods, to wash your spirit clean.”
~ John Muir
Cathi Belcher
an old-fashioned farmgirl with a pioneer spirit, lives in the White Mountains of New Hampshire. As a “lifelong learner” in the “Live-Free-or-Die” state, she fiercely values self-reliance, independence, freedom, and fresh mountain air. Married to her childhood sweetheart of 40+ years (a few of them “uphill climbs”), she’s had plenty of time to reinvent herself. From museum curator, restaurant owner, homeschool mom/conference speaker, to post-and-beam house builder and entrepreneur, she’s also a multi-media artist, with an obsession for off-grid living and alternative housing. Cathi owns and operates a 32-room mountain lodge. Her specialty has evolved to include “hermit hospitality” at her rustic cabin in the mountains, where she offers weekend workshops of special interest to women.
“Mountains speak to my soul, and farming is an important part of my heritage. I want to pass on my love of these things to others through my writing. Living in the mountains has its own particular challenges, but I delight in turning them into opportunities from which we can all learn and grow.”
“Wherever you go, no matter the weather, always bring your own sunshine.”
~ Anthony J. D’Angelo
Dori Troutman
Dori Troutman is the daughter of second generation cattle ranchers in New Mexico. She grew up working and playing on the ranch that her grandparents homesteaded in 1928. That ranch, with the old adobe home, is still in the family today. Dori and her husband always yearned for a ranch of their own. That dream came true when they retired to the beautiful green rolling hills of Tennessee. Truly a cattleman’s paradise!
Dori loves all things farmgirl and actually has known no other life but that. She loves to cook, craft, garden, and help with any and all things on their cattle farm.
Wyoming cattle rancher and outpost writer (rider), shares the “view from her saddle.” Shery is a leather and lace cowgirl-farmgirl who’s been horse-crazy all of her life. Her other interests include “junktiques,” arts and crafts, glamping, collecting antique china, and cultivating mirth.
Mary Murray
describes herself as a goat charmer, chicken whisperer, bee maven, and farmers’ market baker renovating an 1864 farmhouse on an Ohio farm. With a degree in Design, Mary says small-town auctions and country road barn sales "always make my heart skip a beat thinking about what I could create or design out of what I’ve seen.”
Rooted in the countryside, she likes simple things and old ways … gardening, preserving the harvest, cooking, baking, and all things home. While you might find her selling baked goods from the farm’s milkhouse, teaching herself to play the fiddle, or sprucing up a vintage camper named Maizy, you will always find her in an apron!
Mary says, “I’m happiest with the simple country pleasures … an old farmhouse, too many animals, a crackling fire, books to read, and the sound of laughter … these make life just perfect.”
is a budding rural farmgirl living in Palmer, the agricultural seat of Alaska. Alex is a graduate student at Alaska Pacific University pursuing an M.S. in Outdoor and Environmental Education. She lives and works on the university’s 700 acre environmental education center, Spring Creek Farm. When Alex has time outside of school, she loves to rock climb, repurpose found objects, cross-country ski on the hay fields, travel, practice yoga, and cook with new-fangled ingredients.
Alex grew up near the Twin Cities and went to college in Madison, Wisconsin—both places where perfectly painted barns and rolling green farmland are just a short drive away. After college, she taught at a rural middle school in South Korea where she biked past verdant rice paddies and old women selling home-grown produce from sidewalk stoops. She was introduced to MaryJanesFarm after returning, and found in it what she’d been searching for—a group of incredible women living their lives in ways that benefit their families, their communities, and the greater environment. What an amazing group of farmgirls to be a part of!
Libbie’s a small town farmgirl who lives in the high-desert Sevier Valley of Central Utah on a 140-year-old farm with her husband and two darling little farmboys—as well as 30 ewes; 60 new little lambs; a handful of rams; a lovely milk cow, Evelynn; an old horse, Doc; two dogs; a bunch o’ chickens; and two kitties.
René Groom
Previous Rural Farmgirl, April 2009 – May 2010
René lives in Washington state’s wine country. She grew up in the dry-land wheat fields of E. Washington, where learning to drive the family truck and tractors, and “snipe hunting,” were rites of passage. She has dirt under her nails and in her veins. In true farmgirl fashion, there is no place on Earth she would rather be than on the farm.
Farmgirl spirit can take root anywhere—dirt or no dirt.
Nicole Christensen
Suburban Farmgirl Nicole Christensen calls herself a “vintage enthusiast”. Born and raised in Texas, she has lived most of her life in the picturesque New England suburbs of Connecticut, just a stone’s throw from New York State. An Advanced Master Gardener, she has gardened since childhood, in several states and across numerous planting zones. In addition, she teaches knitting classes, loves to preserve, and raises backyard chickens.
Married over thirty years to her Danish-born sweetheart, Nicole has worked in various fields, been a world-traveler, an entrepreneur and a homemaker, but considers being mom to her now-adult daughter her greatest accomplishment. Loving all things creative, Nicole considers her life’s motto to be “Bloom where you are planted”.
Previous Suburban Farmgirl, October 2009 – October 2010
Paula is a mom of four and a journalist who’s partial to writing about common sense and women’s interests. She’s lived in five great farm states (Michigan, Iowa, New York, Tennessee, and now North Carolina), though never on a farm. She’s nevertheless inordinately fond of heirloom tomatoes, fine stitching, early mornings, and making pies. And sock monkeys.
Mary, Love your blogs! Thanks for all the ideas and pictures.
Happy February!
Joan
Awww Joan – that’s the nicest thing to say – thank you for brightening up my Thursday morning! February here has been a roller coaster for sure…last night’s weather was crazy with an ice storm AND thunder – what a combination! You’re always welcome to share ideas you have, too – that’s the great thing- we can all learn together!
Than you for your blog. This morning we woke up to 32 deg after lite snow fluttering yesterday. Your barn photo was so pretty and made me want to paint a water color today with pretty colorful snowflakes. I love your poetic description and inspirational blogs.
You made my day!
Hi Gayle – oh this is the perfect time for painting! I used to watercolor as well but, it’s been ages. Hmmm maybe I need to dust off my brushes! Thank you for the kind words – I spotted the barn on my way home and thought it was just lovely (nothing like rolling down the car window in a blinding snowstorm to take a photo!) Enjoy painting – what a wonderful way to spend a snowy day.
Hi Mary. I enjoy your “visits” very much. I’m in Springfield, near to Dayton, and we had fog and nippy ice crystals all over. The wild birds are eating berries and look so festive against the scenery here. Can’t wait for springtime to come. We have farms around our home area and I enjoy seeing the work change with the seasons. Found a new source of Honey and it is so heavy with a floral taste! My husband made Mead and we are waiting to see how it came out. I love your photos and ideas.
Hi Ellen – oooh I hear Springfield has some of the best antique shops! Your weather has been like ours then, although I’m farther North, we had a Level 2 weather emergency last night, but are down to Level 1 this morning. You’re right – it is so nice to see the change of seasons in the country – and local honey – yay, it always tastes the best! Thanks for taking the time to stop by – keep warm!
Oh Mary! How I love your blog posts!!! I just want to join your Farmgirl Chapter!!! And join you in all the things!
And that camper??? WOW WOW WOW!!!
Biggest hugs,
Dori
Hi Dori – thanks for swinging by…I’ll have to tell the story of Maizy – maybe next post! You would be a ball in the chapter – virtual maybe?! Take care and keep warm!
Such a spirit lifter are the winter blog notes!! Maine has been COLD and WINDY this winter. We are getting ready for the first of 2 skijor competitions. My daughter is the rider and my granddaughter and I are the cheering section. Cold but fun with lots of hot chocolate and cookies!! Keep the cheer coming!!
Welcome Sherri! Wow skijor- that’s a white-knuckle competition! What’s pulling your daughter: horse, dog, snowmobile?? What a heart-thumping, exciting way to spend February. I’m with you, I would definitely be on the sidelines cheering with hot chocolate and cookies, but I would love to see it – let me know how she does!
Hi Mary, I just love reading your blogs. I happened to be reading one in December while with our kids and grandkids in Durham for a cirque soleil show. My 15 year old grandson asked what I was doing and when I told him he was really surprised that I knew what a blog was. I just finished a hooked rug I’ve been working on for awhile called guinea fowl. Is really whimsical unlike any of my other rugs which are primitive. I grew up in the western foothills of Maine and can relate to the winters. I currently live in the western part of North Carolina and so enjoy our mountains. I look forward to next months read.
Maureen, thank you for your kind words. I’m so glad you’re enjoying the blog and I appreciate you taking the time to leave me a note! It seems like so many ladies are rug hooking these days – and the designs are just so beautiful. Too pretty to walk on! Oh Maine would be lovely in winter, but I can see why you enjoy the NC mountains, too. Each part of the country has its own special beauty.
Thank you so much Mary I really enjoyed this month’s blog too. So much wonderful information. And all your hearts are little cuties!
Happy Sweetheart Day.