Going Through the Motions

[Previous Rural Farmgirl, April 2009 – May 2010]
What is it about the nature of being human that allows us to check out mentally? You know what I mean, that way that we can walk through life, just going through the motions, looking alive but not really being alive. When did we buy into the belief system that we aren’t co-creators or writers of our own stories?

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  1. Kathy says:

    Help I want off the wheel. I think that is might happen sooner than I wanted but I am dealing with that and it is okay. Thanks Rene for your insight. I want to be like my cat Tom. "You want me to do what?" He has learned the word "No"
    Thank Rene
    K

  2. Barb Knopp says:

    I read the blog to Ellie and Miss Muppet….they concur.
    Life is certainly on the go since Ellie arrived. Miss Muppet wonders from time to time if Ellie’s purpose was friendship or a weight watcher exercise program.
    Love you
    Mom

  3. Sherrie says:

    Boy have I been there-& tho I get off the wheel,I somehow find myself back on it! I’m doing my best to get off & stay off the darn thing,because I feel as tho I’ve wasted a few years here & there. Sleepwalking thru life is no way to live-and I think it’s a cue that we need to change how we’re living our lives. Take up a hobby,start hanging out with a different bunch,explore where you live for neat things to do.

  4. Gary says:

    Excellent Bloggie Rene’…!
    I LOVE that photo of the Kitten and Bunnie…!
    Animals have a quality we mostly lack: Presence… to give complete attention to the moment at hand. They have memories and wishes just like us, but they do not allow their mind to dwell there.
    Real fear of a clear and present danger is healthy response, however most of our fears are neither clear nor present.
    Corrie Ten Boom once said:
    "Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow;
    it empties today of its strength."
    How very True.
    GodSpeed to Y’all…!
    Gary
    in Tampa

    Gary~ I love that Corrie Ten Boom Quaote.. thanks for reminding me of it…..

  5. Denise says:

    By all means, we should all get off that main highway of life. After all it was engineered by total strangers and if you feel the need for a breath of fresh air get on that back road and take it all in.

  6. Sharon says:

    Corrie Ten Boom was right on!

    Mark Twain, at the end of his life admitted,"I’ve spent most of my life worrying about things that have never happened."

    Boy I hear that.

  7. Peg says:

    I very much enjoyed your insights. Several years ago when I turned 50, if found myself in the midst of a not-uncommon time of reevaluation. "Going through the motions" would no longer be acceptable to me. I’ve gone back to school, am working on my degree at 61 and find that there is quite a marvelous life going on outside the wheel. I’m happy to be part of it and encourage other readers to take the leap and see what awaits them.

    Thanks Peg, Sometime we just need to see that "the waters are fine" before jumping off…

  8. Lisa says:

    I think it is ok to say get off the wheel…to be honest in life and have life be honest with you…but that is not always the way it is.
    Seems often if I look about there are people who are just plain dishonest. One person I worked with told me they (the company we worked for) wanted the patients to stay in need as it is hard to find patients. Another company had me (and the other nurses) working outside our licences. I did as my conscience told me to do. All well and good…I lost both jobs…I have my self-respect..but I have no job!!! And I have bills to pay, chikens, cats, a dog and family to feed.
    I think people learn to go through life with a blind bridle on (rat wheel) because if you do not you face the sort of things I have gone through…if you do not look perhaps you do not see…feel…and can keep a job…and pay the bills. It seems to be 6 of one 1/2 a dozen of the other…things are tough…and getting off the wheel makes them tougher…I keep praying…it seems the only thing to do. Peace be with you, Lisa

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